We Were Just Talking

With Erin and Kiera
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REAL CHATS ON MOTHERHOOD | MARRIAGE + EVERYDAY CHAOS. Hosted by Erin Prestegar and Kiera Hopkins.

  1. Oct 13

    The News Is Happy… So Why Does It Feel So Hard?

    BREAKING NEWS..... The news is exciting but what is the reality of it This week we have some news to share and the reality behind the announcement. We talk about: The news and its impact The impact of relentless sickness. The mental and emotional struggles The pressure to feel happy when you feel awful. How excitement and gratitude can exist alongside overwhelm. and a reminder that two feelings can coexist. Content note: This episode discusses difficult pregnancy experiences, hyperemesis and mental health struggles.

  2. Oct 6

    Same Team Different Roles

    Same Team, Different Roles: The Mental Load Dads Carry This week on We Were Just Talking, Kiera’s husband Mitch joins us for an honest chat about fatherhood, marriage and the mental load dads carry. We often talk about the invisible work of motherhood, but what does that look like from a dad’s perspective? We explore the pressures, responsibilities and worries dads hold, and how to understand each other when your roles look different. In this episode, we cover: The mental load of fatherhood and the pressures that can go unspoken. Balancing work, family life and being a present partner and dad. Feeling responsible for providing and keeping everything together. How mums and dads can experience the same household differently. Communicating what you need without turning it into a competition. Appreciating each other’s contributions while sharing the load. An honest conversation about remembering you’re on the same team—even when you’re carrying different things.

  3. Sep 29

    We Said What We Said.... Don't Come For Us

    This week on We Were Just Talking, Erin and Kiera are sharing their unpopular opinions and the hills they would absolutely die on. Some are serious, some are petty, and some might make us question how we’re still friends. We get into motherhood, relationships, everyday habits and the little things that annoy us more than they probably should. Do we agree with each other? Not always. Will we defend our opinions anyway? Obviously. Have a hill you’d die on? Share it with us and don't forget to follow us on the socials.

  4. Sep 22

    The Things We Think But Don't Say Out Loud

    Trigger warning: This episode includes discussions about intrusive thoughts, anxiety, OCD and distressing thoughts involving harm. Please listen with care and skip this episode if these topics may be upsetting for you. Have you ever had a thought that made you question yourself or wonder why your brain would even go there? In this episode, we’re having an open and honest conversation about intrusive thoughts: the unwanted, upsetting and sometimes frightening thoughts many people experience but are often too afraid or ashamed to talk about. We share our personal experiences, discuss the connection between intrusive thoughts, anxiety and OCD, and unpack why having a thought does not mean you want it to happen or that it reflects who you are. What we cover: What intrusive thoughts can look and feel like Our own experiences with unwanted thoughts The shame and fear that can come with them Intrusive thoughts during motherhood and the postpartum period The connection between intrusive thoughts, anxiety and OCD Coping strategies and seeking professional support Why we need to normalise these conversations You are not your thoughts, and you are certainly not alone. If this episode raises anything for you, please reach out to a trusted person or qualified mental health professional for support.

  5. Sep 15

    How Well Do We Actually Know Each Other?

    How well do we actually know each other? In this episode, we put our friendship to the test with a mix of funny, personal and slightly exposing questions. From guessing each other’s favourite colour and biggest icks to remembering important moments and discovering things we somehow never knew—we find out who’s really been paying attention. What we cover: How well we know each other’s habits, favourites and quirks Our biggest icks and guilty pleasures Questions we thought would be easy—but definitely weren’t A few unexpected confessions and plenty of laughs Who officially knows the other person best Play along while you listen and see how well you know your best friend!

  6. Sep 8

    Dear younger you

    In this episode, we’re having a conversation with our younger selves and sharing the advice we wish we could’ve heard growing up. We talk about navigating boys and relationships, friendships that change or fall apart, dealing with rejection, and the insecurities that once felt all-consuming. We reflect on the experiences that shaped us, the things we took far too personally, and what we now realise really wasn’t that deep. What we cover: The advice we’d give our younger selves Handling boys, crushes and heartbreak Navigating friendship changes and fallouts Learning that rejection is often redirection Growing through insecurities and comparison Building confidence and knowing your worth The things we wish we hadn’t worried so much about An honest, nostalgic and relatable conversation about growing up, finding yourself and giving your younger self the kindness she always deserved

  7. Sep 1

    Veronica: Birth Trauma, HBAC & Redefining a “Successful” Birth

    **TRIGGET WARNING** This episode discusses birth trauma, induction and caesarean birth.In this episode, we’re joined by Veronica as she shares her two very different birth stories—from an induction that ended in a caesarean and the birth trauma that followed, to planning a home birth after caesarean (HBAC). Veronica opens up about labouring at home, making the decision to transfer to hospital and redefining what a “successful” birth really looks like. A raw and honest conversation about birth trauma, informed choices, trusting yourself and understanding that a change of plans does not mean failure Share this episode with someone who may share similar experiences or resonate with Veronica

  8. Aug 25

    Bali, Buying a House & Erin’s BIG News

    We’re back with a good old-fashioned catch-up, and there’s plenty to unpack! From Bali adventures and buying a house to renovation chaos, we’re filling you in on everything happening behind the scenes. Plus, Erin has some BIG news you won’t want to miss In this episode, we cover: All the stories from Kieras Bali trip.The excitement and stress of buying a house.Renovation plans and everything in between.Erin’s big announcement.Life lately and plenty of laughs along the way. Grab a cuppa or a wine and settle in for another episode of We Were Just Talking

    Bali, Buying a House & Erin’s BIG News
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REAL CHATS ON MOTHERHOOD | MARRIAGE + EVERYDAY CHAOS. Hosted by Erin Prestegar and Kiera Hopkins.

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    With Erin and Kiera
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    26
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © With Erin and Kiera
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