Sisterhood and Self

Sisterhood and Self Podcast

Welcome back to Sisterhood & Self where we talk about all things health, wellness, mindset, spirituality and everything in between. We’re your hosts Elena and Kira. Together, we combine the science of health and wellness with intuition and alignment. We help you simplify the information you hear online so you can feel empowered to apply these practices to your own life and feel your best from the inside out. We’re so excited for you to be tuning in with us and we hope you enjoy

  1. 1d ago

    How to Live to 100: What the Research Says About Longevity

    Episode Summary What does it actually take to live to 100? And, more importantly, to live well along the way? In this episode, we explore the lifestyle habits associated with longevity, from eating mostly whole plant foods and moving naturally throughout the day to prioritizing community, purpose, and fulfillment. We also get into the gray area of healthy eating, why being overly restrictive can backfire, and how to build a sustainable relationship with food that supports both your health and your quality of life. Specifically, We Discuss: 02:33 Perspectives on Aging 05:14 The Role of Diet in Longevity 08:00 Exploring Blue Zones and Healthy Eating Patterns 10:22 Personal Experiences with Diet and Health 15:42 Finding Balance in Nutrition and Enjoyment 20:34 Mindful Eating and Stress Management 22:30 Dopamine and Food: The Emotional Connection 32:30 Natural Movement vs. Gym Culture 36:41 Community and Life Purpose: Keys to Longevity Key Takeaways ✨Focus on your healthspan, not just lifespan. Living longer is great, but the goal is to stay active, independent, connected, and able to enjoy your life as you age ✨Build your diet around whole plant foods! Fruits, vegetables, beans, whole grains, rice, potatoes, and other minimally processed foods provide a strong foundation for long-term health. You don't need to eat perfectly or completely eliminate foods you enjoy ✨Find the least restrictive approach that supports your health. Being overly strict with food can create unnecessary guilt, shame, and preoccupation with eating. A strong nutritional foundation leaves room for flexibility, satisfaction, and enjoying meals with the people you love ✨Move your body throughout the day. Walking, gardening, doing household tasks, and staying active in everyday life all count. You don't have to rely solely on structured workouts to build movement into your lifestyle ✨Prioritize community and purpose. Longevity isn't just about nutrition and exercise. Meaningful relationships, hobbies, a sense of purpose, and having things to look forward to are important parts of living a fulfilling life Resources We Mentioned Blue Zones: Research and observations headed by Dan Buettner on communities around the world known for longevity and healthy aging Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  2. Oct 22

    Why Feeling Jealous is a Good Thing

    Episode Summary We’re told “jealousy is an ugly trait,” but what if it isn’t? What if it’s just a clue pointing you toward what you actually want? In this episode, we reframe jealousy as a form of inspiration and explore how it can reveal our desires, the qualities we admire in others, and the beliefs that might be holding us back. We also talk about comparison, social media, embracing your authentic self, and how journaling can help you turn jealousy into clarity and action. Specifically, We Discuss: 02:38 - Reframing Jealousy as a Helpful Emotion 06:00 - Using Jealousy as Inspiration 09:12 - There’s Enough for Everyone: Letting Go of Scarcity 10:24 - Why We’re Jealous of Other People’s Qualities 14:19 - Comparison, Social Media, and Remembering We’re All Human 16:35 - Being Kind to Yourself While You Grow 20:38 - Embracing Your Authentic Self and Owning Your Voice 28:09 - Do You Actually Want It, or Does It Just Look Good on Social Media? 31:34 - Journaling Helps You Understand Your Emotions Key Takeaways ✨ Jealousy can be a clue to what you truly want. Instead of judging the feeling, get curious about what it's revealing about your desires ✨ Someone else's success doesn't take away from what's possible for you. Reframe jealousy as inspiration and remember that what's possible for one person can be possible for others, too ✨ Get curious about the deeper meaning behind what you're jealous of. Journaling can help you uncover the beliefs, feelings, and desires underneath the surface and identify what you actually want to work toward Resources We Mentioned Move With Heart Episode 115: Mental Health Real Talk with Cameron Oaks Rogers Reflection question: "If social media didn't exist, would I still want this?" Mentioned Episodes Episode #19: The Fall Reset: Moving with the Seasons Episode #20: Dating in your 30s Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  3. Oct 20

    [Bonus] Current Fall Favorites

    Episode Summary In this episode we're sharing five things we're loving this fall, from creating a space you actually enjoy being in to getting outside, dressing in a way that makes you feel confident, and making more intentional time for rest and fun. Whether you're looking for a little inspiration for your fall routine or a reminder to slow down and enjoy the season you're in, this episode is all about finding ways to make everyday life feel a little more intentional and enjoyable. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:38 Catch-up and Exploring Relationship with Alcohol 06:36 Current Fall Favorites 07:18 #1 Buy It Nice or Buy It Twice 17:31 #2 Intentionality in Appearance 22:58 #3 Outdoor Walks 24:33 #4 Balancing Rest and Responsibilities 28:20 #5 Embracing Fall Themed Activities Key Takeaways ✨Your environment shapes how you feel in your everyday life. Creating a space you enjoy and investing in things you use regularly can make a bigger difference than you think ✨Rest and productivity can coexist. Be intentional about structuring your time so you can get things done and be present for rest, relationships, and the things you enjoy ✨ Don't wait for the perfect time to enjoy your life! Light the candle, plan the fall activity, and make the most of the season you're in Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  4. Oct 15

    The Mind-Body Connection of Skin

    Episode Summary Ever wonder why your skin seems to flare up at certain times, even when you're doing everything “right”? In this episode, we explore skin from both the physical and energetic perspectives, discussing how nutrition, hormones, gut health, inflammation, environmental exposures, and stress can influence your skin. We also dive into the connection between your nervous system, self-love, boundaries, and the way you see yourself. Whether you're struggling with acne, eczema, or simply want healthier, glowing skin, this conversation is a reminder to look beyond the surface, get curious about your body's unique needs, and practice a little more compassion toward yourself along the way. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:58 Weekend Recap and Personal Updates 04:05 Exploring Skin Health: A Holistic Approach 09:07 Factors Affecting Skin Health 13:37 Hormonal Influences on Skin 14:36 Energetic Perspectives on Skin Issues 18:21 Understanding Individual Toxic Loads 23:51 The Energetics of Skin Care 28:05 The Impact of Environment on Skin Health 31:16 Exploring Emotional Roots of Skin Issues 34:09 Listener Questions and Holistic Approaches Key Takeaways ✨ Your skin is influenced by more than your skincare routine. Nutrition, hormones, gut health, inflammation, environmental exposures, and stress can all play a role. ✨ Your overall stress matters too. Your emotional well-being, nervous system, and daily environment may also influence how you feel in your body and how you care for yourself. ✨ You are more than your skin. It's okay to feel frustrated when your skin flares up, but you don't have to wait for it to clear before showing up confidently. Practice self-compassion, nourish your body, and remember that a blemish doesn't define you. Resources We Mentioned You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay Naturopath Hannah Moore @h0listichannah Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  5. Oct 8

    Figuring It Out in Your 20s: Career, Gap Years & Taking the Leap with Summer Eisenstadt

    Episode Summary In this episode, we welcome Summer Eisenstadt to talk about her unconventional path from college to moving across the country to become a ski instructor in Colorado and eventually realizing that nursing is the career she wants to pursue. We talk about gap years, career pressure, comparison, taking risks, learning about yourself through experience, and giving yourself permission to change your mind. Because you don't need to have your entire life figured out in your 20s...or in your 30s, 40s and beyond. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:50 Navigating Twenties: Career and Life Choices 02:20 Summer's Journey: From College to Colorado 05:27 The Ski Instructor Experience 10:19 Financial Realities and Life Lessons 13:08 Self-Discovery Through Adventure 15:40 The Value of Life Experience 19:32 Navigating Expectations 23:47 The Importance of Trying New Things 28:35 Advice for the Uncertain Key Takeaways ✨ You don't have to know exactly what you want to do in your life. There is always time to change your mind ✨ Sometimes the only way to know whether you want something is to actually go experience it. Even if you end up realizing it's not for you, you've learned something valuable ✨ A gap year or unconventional path isn't wasted time. It can give you the experiences and clarity you need to make a more intentional decision about your future ✨ Stop comparing your timeline to everyone else's. There is no one "right" way to build a career or a life ✨ Life is too long to spend decades doing something you don't love. Give yourself permission to pivot Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Connect With Our Guest Follow: Summer Eisenstadt 📸Instagram: @summerstat_  Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  6. Oct 1

    Dating in Your 20s + 30s

    Episode Summary Dating in your twenties and thirties can bring up a mix of excitement, uncertainty, comparison, and self-doubt. In this episode, we talk about staying open to love, putting yourself out there without making dating feel so serious, and trusting that you are on your own timeline. We also dive into the pressure that can come with watching friends get into relationships, getting more intentional about what you want as you get older, and creating more space for a relationship in your life. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:30 Navigating Dating in Your Twenties and Thirties 04:39 The Energetics of Dating and Openness 09:00 Reframing Dating: Keeping It Light and Fun 12:53 Dealing with Doubt and Comparison in Relationships 16:56 Navigating Relationships in Your 30s 23:29 The Balance of Independence and Partnership 30:34 Self-Worth and Readiness for Love 32:29 Creating Space for a Partner 36:03 Building Connections Without Pressure Key Takeaways ✨ It's easy to compare your life to other people's relationships, but you never know what is actually happening behind the scenes. Your timeline is your timeline! ✨You don't have to sit around waiting for something to happen in your dating life. Take small, inspired actions to create more opportunities to meet people. Plus, not every interaction with someone has to lead to a date...sometimes it's just about practicing being open, having conversations, and meeting new people ✨You don't have to be your “perfect self” before you can meet your person. Personal growth is ongoing, and the right relationship can grow alongside you Resources We Mentioned Margot Lee's No Particular Order acquaintance cards Mentioned Episodes Episode #11: Manifesting a Partner Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  7. Sep 24

    The Fall Reset: Moving with the Seasons

    Episode Summary In this episode, we’re talking about the idea of a “fall reset” - from honoring the natural seasons and cycles of life to creating more structure, decluttering your physical space, and making room for what’s next. We reflect on the pressure to constantly be improving, moving the goalposts, and measuring our progress by external standards. We dig a little deeper and discuss why sometimes the most supportive thing you can do for yourself is push a little harder, while other times, it’s giving yourself permission to slow down. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:30 Embracing the Fall Reset 05:03 Fall is a Time for Harvesting and Reflection 07:38 Creating Space for New Beginnings 10:18 Establishing Structure and Routine 14:03 Embracing Natural Seasons 15:08 Reflections on Time and Goals 18:58 Measuring Success Beyond Society's Standards 20:36 The Importance of Letting Go 22:33 Decluttering for Clarity 24:26 Balancing Comfort and Growth 25:41 Finding Your Own Path to Success Key Takeaways ✨ You don't need to completely reset your life every time a new season begins. Sometimes you've already made more progress than you realize, and the work is simply to keep going ✨ Letting go creates space! Whether that's decluttering your closet, creating more structure in your routine, or releasing things that are no longer serving you ✨There isn't one right way to support yourself. Sometimes you need more rest and gentleness, and sometimes you need a little tough love. The goal is to get clear on what will actually support you in the long run Resources We Mentioned The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo Five Element Acupuncture Feng Shui Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  8. Sep 17

    Intuition: Learning to Trust Your Inner Knowing

    Episode Summary In this episode, we’re talking all about intuition - what it actually is, why so many of us feel disconnected from it, and how to start strengthening that “inner knowing.” We explore intuition through both a spiritual and scientific lens, including the connection between intuition, creativity, the subconscious mind, and the nervous system. We also talk about how to tell the difference between intuition and ego, why quiet and presence matter, and how learning to trust yourself can change the way you make decisions. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:30 Exploring Intuition and Spirituality 03:46 The Collective Consciousness and Intuition 07:15 Understanding the Witch Wound 09:14 Neuroscience and Intuition 11:17 Differentiating Intuition from Anxiety 13:58 Practicing Intuition in Daily Life 17:46 Trusting Your Intuition 25:03 Collective Consciousness and Creativity 27:16 Nervous System and Intuition 28:53 The Power of Self-Trust 31:51 The Witch Wound and Intuition 33:07 Cultivating Intuition in Daily Life 36:34 Strengthening Intuition Over Time Key Takeaways ✨ Intuition doesn’t have to mean psychic abilities - it can simply be an inner knowing, subconscious processing, creativity, or a feeling in your body ✨ Intuition is something you can practice! Start with low-stakes decisions like what you want to eat for dinner or what you want to wear. Then work your way up to bigger decisions. ✨ There’s a difference between that frantic, fear-based voice of anxiety and the calm, steady feeling that comes with intuition. Learning to recognize that difference takes time and self-awareness ✨ We often have so much external noise: our phones, jobs, stress, and constant stimulation, which makes it difficult to hear our own inner voice ✨ A regulated nervous system, quiet time, meditation, journaling, walking without your phone, and simply being present can create more space to be in tune with your intuition Resources We Mentioned People: Joe Dispenza, Louise Hay, Caroline Feda Tools: Tarot cards, meditation, journaling / free writing, tapping / EFT Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

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Welcome back to Sisterhood & Self where we talk about all things health, wellness, mindset, spirituality and everything in between. We’re your hosts Elena and Kira. Together, we combine the science of health and wellness with intuition and alignment. We help you simplify the information you hear online so you can feel empowered to apply these practices to your own life and feel your best from the inside out. We’re so excited for you to be tuning in with us and we hope you enjoy