Still Standing Still Speaking

Sabrina Treffiletti
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Still Standing. Still Speaking. Hosted by Sabrina Treffiletti Some stories are too important to stay silent. This is the podcast for real people with real stories who refused to be defined by what they’ve been through. Raw, honest, unfiltered truth — from parental alienation and family court, to grief, loss, trauma, and reinvention. These are the stories that usually stay hidden. Not here. Hosted by Sabrina Treffiletti — advocate, mother, and someone who knows firsthand what it means to fight. Real people. Real stories. Still standing. Still speaking. Subscribe now.

Episodes

  1. Aug 3

    “The One That Broke Us: A Step-Mother’s Story of Parental Alienation”

    She was 12 years old. She said her dad's family "didn't matter." No one asked her why. In Episode 05 of Still Standing. Still Speaking., I sit down with Helen. A step-mother who watched her husband fight for his place in his own children's lives — and became a target for loving him. I'll be honest — this was one of the hardest conversations I've had on this podcast. There were tears on both sides of the mic. Helen's story sits so close to my own that at times I forgot I was supposed to be asking the questions, not just feeling every word of the answers. Helen's stepdaughters were coached to believe their father's new family was something to be ashamed of. What started as a custody arrangement became a campaign — accusations, silence, a video of a child being coached that even a lawyer had never seen before. And through it all, Helen kept showing up. We talk about: — Being accused of "replacing" the girls the moment she fell pregnant — The accusation that turned an entire family silent overnight — A video of a child being coached — and what the lawyer said when she saw it — Why a 12 year old "deciding" isn't a decision at all — Grief with no funeral — grieving someone who is still alive — Why their trauma isn't yours to carry, but you carry it anyway — How social media poisons children against a parent 24/7 — And why some people are just built to keep fighting "You have to realize that this is all part of a bigger play. Their trauma isn't yours to carry." This is why I speak. Not just for me. But for every step-parent, every parent, every child living this in silence. You are not forgotten. You are not alone. The truth always comes out. Always. 📌 SUBSCRIBE so you never miss a story. 🤍 SHARE this with someone who needs to hear it today. 💬 COMMENT below — have you ever had to stand beside someone fighting a system that wasn't built to believe them? Still Standing. Still Speaking. Real people. Real stories. No filter. 🎙️ HOSTED BY Sabrina Treffiletti — Content creator, public advocate and podcast host based in Sydney, Australia. After ten years of silence, Sabrina chose to speak. This podcast exists because one video proved that speaking up changes lives. 📲 FOLLOW SABRINA Instagram: @[sabrina_treffiletti] IG: (stillstandingstillspeaking) TikTok: @[sabrina_treffiletti] TT: @(stillstandingstillspeaking) --- ⏱️ **TIMESTAMPS** 0:00 — Welcome to Still Standing. Still Speaking. 0:54 — Meet Helen 1:46 — When she first realized what her husband was going through 2:22 — Telling the stepdaughters about the pregnancy 3:09 — The shift after the eldest stepdaughter went home 3:35 — "You are replacing the girls with another baby" 4:23 — The relocation 4:48 — The first court hearing 5:07 — Coached behavior — and what it teaches a child 6:08 — "That is parental alienation on its own" 7:28 — Watching someone you love fight a broken system 12:39 — Naming it: emotional abuse 13:34 — "Half of their DNA is rubbish" 14:08 — The video shown to a lawyer 17:37 — Grief with no funeral 19:23 — Losing faith in the system 19:51 — Why can a 12 year old "decide"? 21:16 — Social media's role in poisoning families 22:55 — "I could never do that to my child" 26:26 — Six months in — the small heartbreaks 28:15 — "This is all part of a bigger play" 28:35 — Their trauma isn't yours to carry 32:13 — Still standing for the people who deserve it 32:58 — Still Standing. Still Speaking. sign off --- #parentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #familycourt #familycourtaustralia #coercivecontrol #stillstandingstillspeaking #podcast #australianpodcast #realpeoplerealstories #familyseparation #stepparents #blendedfamily #childrensrights #familycourtreform #narcissisticabuse #postseparationabuse #speakyourtruth #breakingthesilence #traumarecovery #womensupportingwomen #australiapodcast

  2. Jul 26

    “What Nobody Tells You About Being An Autism Carer.”

    In Episode 4 of Still Standing. Still Speaking., I sit down with Joline — a mother, carer, and the founder of Help You Cope. For a year, she told no one about her son’s autism diagnosis. Not because she was ashamed of him, but because she was terrified of how he’d be judged. That silence eventually became something bigger — a charity built for every family living the isolation she once knew. 🎙️ This conversation is one of the most honest we’ve had. We talk about: — What “coping” actually looks like on the hardest days — Why carers live in fight-or-flight, constantly — The guilt no parent prepares you for — Why she kept her son’s diagnosis private for a year — and what changed — How Help You Cope was born from her own isolation — Why she’s still standing, for her son and for every parent like her “Carers are in fight or flight mode. Pretty much all the time.” This is why I speak. Not just for me, but for every parent quietly carrying something heavier than anyone around them realises. Out loud, in front of everyone. You are not forgotten. You are not alone. Still standing. Still speaking. 📌 SUBSCRIBE so you never miss a story. 🤍 SHARE this with someone who needs to hear it today. 💬 COMMENT below — what’s one thing you wish people understood about being a carer? Still Standing. Still Speaking. Real people. Real stories. No filter. 🎙️ HOSTED BY Sabrina Treffiletti — Content creator, public advocate and podcast host based in Sydney, Australia. After ten years of silence, Sabrina chose to speak. This podcast exists because one video proved that speaking up changes lives. 📲 FOLLOW SABRINA Instagram: @sabrina_treffiletti IG: @stillstandingstillspeaking TikTok: @sabrina_treffiletti TT: @stillstandingstillspeaking #autismawareness #carersupport #stillstandingstillspeaking #podcast #australianpodcast #realpeoplerealstories #autismmum #helpyoucope #speakyourtruth #breakingthesilence #australiapodcast #autismparenting

    “What Nobody Tells You About Being An Autism Carer.”

  3. Jul 13

    “What Every Parent Needs to Know Before Family Court | Ep. 3 with Sandy”

    In Episode 03 of Still Standing. Still Speaking., I sit down with Sandy — a family lawyer who didn’t reach out to me as a professional. She reached out as a human who has seen what parental alienation does to families from the inside. For years, she’s sat across from parents living my story — fighting to stay in their children’s lives against a system that doesn’t always make that easy. 🎙️This conversation is the one I wish existed when I needed it most. We talk about: — What parental alienation actually looks like, from a legal perspective — Where the family court system gets it wrong — and where it gets it right — What parents fighting for their kids need to know before they walk into a courtroom — The emotional toll no one prepares you for — Advice for anyone currently in the fight — Why she chose to speak on this, and why it matters “The truth about parental alienation.” This is why I speak. Not just for me. But for every parent who has been shut out of their child’s life and doesn’t know where to turn — out loud, in front of everyone. You are not forgotten. You are not alone. Still standing. Still speaking. 📌 SUBSCRIBE so you never miss a story. 🤍 SHARE this with someone who needs to hear it today. 💬 COMMENT below — what do you wish you’d known before going through this? Still Standing. Still Speaking. Real people. Real stories. No filter. 🎙️ HOSTED BY Sabrina Treffiletti — Content creator, public advocate and podcast host based in Sydney, Australia. After ten years of silence, Sabrina chose to speak. This podcast exists because one video proved that speaking up changes lives. 📲 FOLLOW SABRINA Instagram: @[sabrina_treffiletti] IG: @stillstandingstillspeaking TikTok: @[sabrina_treffiletti] TT: @stillstandingstillspeaking ⚠️ A NOTE ON AUDIO You may notice some audio inconsistencies in a few sections of this episode. We’re always working to improve our setup and appreciate your patience — the story matters more than the sound quality, and we didn’t want to hold this one back.

    “What Every Parent Needs to Know Before Family Court | Ep. 3 with Sandy”

  4. Jul 8

    “She was widowed at 44. Left with two boys, a broken heart, and a choice.”

    In Episode 02 of Still Standing. Still Speaking., I sit down with Luisa Onorato. A woman I share an unexpected connection with — one that makes this conversation hit different. Luisa's husband catered my daughter's Holy Communion. He catered my third daughter's baby shower. He was there, feeding my family, celebrating with us — before either of us knew what was coming for her. Then he got sick. Then he was gone. We talk about: — Who Luisa was before the world changed — 2015, the first diagnosis — May 10, 2021 — the day life changed forever, the second diagnosis: terminal — The fear of the reality he wasn't coming home, after a trip to the hospital — Becoming both parents to her two boys — how she keeps it together and stays strong for them — Why she chose to share her grief story and heal loudly online — Her advice to anyone going through something similar — it's ok to not be ok, you carry it, you never forget — Why she is still standing "Grief doesn't define you. It reveals you." This is why I speak. Not just for me. But for every woman who has lost someone and doesn't know how to keep going — out loud, in front of everyone. You are not forgotten. You are not alone. Heal loudly. You're allowed to. 📌 SUBSCRIBE so you never miss a story. 🤍 SHARE this with someone who needs to hear it today. 💬 COMMENT below — what does "healing loudly" mean to you? Still Standing. Still Speaking. Real people. Real stories. No filter. 🎙️ HOSTED BY Sabrina Treffiletti — Content creator, public advocate and podcast host based in Sydney, Australia. After ten years of silence, Sabrina chose to speak. This podcast exists because one video proved that speaking up changes lives. 📲 FOLLOW SABRINA Instagram: @[sabrina_treffiletti] IG: @stillstandingstillspeaking TikTok: @[sabrina_treffiletti] TT: @stillstandingstillspeaking

    “She was widowed at 44. Left with two boys, a broken heart, and a choice.”

  5. Jul 1

    My Video Reunited A Mother With Her Daughter. She Hadn’t Spoken To Her In 12 Months. | Ep. 01

    I posted a video about my story. A stranger shared it. And it reunited a mother with her daughter. In Episode 01 of Still Standing. Still Speaking., I sit down with Hannah. A mother who spent 12 months in silence from her own daughter — not by choice, but by force. Hannah’s daughter found the video I posted about my own experience with parental alienation. What she saw in that video challenged everything she had been told about her mother. And she picked up the phone. We talk about: — What 12 months of silence from your own child actually feels like — The phone call Hannah almost didn’t answer — Her daughter’s first words after a year of silence — A 12 year old apologising for things she was manipulated into saying — An electric bike and a dog used to keep a child from her mother — Being served court papers on Mother’s Day — Receiving threats from a bikie member for fighting for her child — Why one video posted about my own story changed another family’s life — And why silence never heals people — but courage does “If that video hadn’t been shared, my daughter may never have seen a perspective that challenged what she’d been told.” This is why I speak. Not just for me. But for every parent, every child, every family living this in silence. You are not forgotten. You are not alone. The truth always comes out. Always. 📌 SUBSCRIBE so you never miss a story. 🤍 SHARE this with someone who needs to hear it today. 💬 COMMENT below — has someone else’s story ever changed yours? Still Standing. Still Speaking. Real people. Real stories. No filter. 🎙️ HOSTED BY Sabrina Treffiletti— Content creator, public advocate and podcast host based in Sydney, Australia. After ten years of silence, Sabrina chose to speak. This podcast exists because one video proved that speaking up changes lives. 📲 FOLLOW SABRINA Instagram: @[sabrina_treffiletti] TikTok: @[sabrina_treffiletti]

    My Video Reunited A Mother With Her Daughter. She Hadn’t Spoken To Her In 12 Months. | Ep. 01
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Still Standing. Still Speaking. Hosted by Sabrina Treffiletti Some stories are too important to stay silent. This is the podcast for real people with real stories who refused to be defined by what they’ve been through. Raw, honest, unfiltered truth — from parental alienation and family court, to grief, loss, trauma, and reinvention. These are the stories that usually stay hidden. Not here. Hosted by Sabrina Treffiletti — advocate, mother, and someone who knows firsthand what it means to fight. Real people. Real stories. Still standing. Still speaking. Subscribe now.

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