It's The Man School

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Welcome to It's The Man School — Dating Mastery for the Modern ManHosted by 3 expert women, from 3 generations, with 3 different perspectives and 1 shared passionate vision: coaching men to master modern dating and to become the kind of partner women are excited to choose.  Featuring renowned sexologist Dr. Patti Britton, certified sexologist Azure Grayot, and certified sexologist and relationship coach Sarah Weis.Here, We Explore:✔️ Women’s perspectives on attraction and relationships✔️ Dating tools, tips and strategies for successful results ✔️ The NEW masculinity✔️ Emotional awareness & intelligence✔️ Skills for effective communication  ✔️ Building confidence & attraction✔️ Showing up as your authentic self✔️ Self-care techniques to stand out among the competition✔️ How to get to the 2nd date and beyond✔️ The art of creating and sustaining true connection✔️ And much more ...If you’re done with surface-level advice and ready for real evolution… you’re in the right place.We got you!  - Dr. Patti, Azure & Sarah Links It's The Man Schoolitsthemanschool.com

Episodes

  1. Oct 27

    Your Dating Profile Is Turning Women Off - Here is Why!

    It's The Man School | Modern Dating Advice for Men Your dating profile could be costing you a chance at a great relationship before you even say hello. From bathroom selfies to vague bios and forced “alpha” energy, the impression you think you’re making may be very different from what women actually see. In this episode of It’s The Man School, Dr. Patti, Azure, and Sarah break down first impressions, common online dating mistakes, and how to show up with more confidence, authenticity, and intention. You don’t need a perfect profile. You need one that gives her a genuine glimpse of who you are, and a reason to want to know more. 💡 IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: • Why first impressions start before the conversation • How outdated or overly edited photos can undermine trust • Why bathroom selfies, confusing group shots, and blurry photos work against you • What “just ask” and overly dominant bios communicate • Why clarity, self-awareness, and effort matter • How to choose photos and write a bio that reflect the real you ____________________________ ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 – Welcome to It’s The Man School 00:25 – Why first impressions matter in online dating 01:15 – Does your profile match the real you? 03:00 – How outdated photos and fake personas break trust 04:40 – Common dating profile photo mistakes 06:00 – Why “just ask” isn’t a strong bio 07:00 – When trying to sound alpha backfires 08:15 – What women actually want to see 10:00 – Simple ways to improve your photos and bio 11:10 – Give her a reason to choose you 🎯 READY TO MAKE DATING FEEL MORE NATURAL? Explore our dating program and coaching at: https://itsthemanschool.com 💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION Which part of your dating profile needs the most attention—your photos or your bio? Let us know in the comments. ____________________________ Learn More: 🌐 Website: https://www.itsthemanschool.com 📘 Dating Program: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/servi... ❤️ 1:1 Coaching: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/coaching 💪 Build Your Confidence: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/emoti... 📚 ITMS Journal: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/itms-... 🔔 Subscribe for More Dating Advice for Men ____________________________ 👍 Like this video and subscribe to It’s The Man School for practical dating advice, confidence-building skills, and honest conversations about connecting with women. #DatingAdviceForMen #OnlineDatingTips #DatingProfileTips #FirstImpressions #DatingConfidence #AuthenticDating #ItsTheManSchool

  2. Oct 26

    Ep 7 - Dating Mindset Mastery Pt. 3

    It's The Man School | Modern Dating Advice for Men Want to feel more confident on dates and build a real connection? Learn how being present, communicating openly, and working through past relationship hurts can help you approach dating with greater ease. In Part 3 of "Dating Mindset Mastery"  (paste topic here) Whether you’re dating after divorce, getting back out there after a long break, or finding yourself caught up in what to say next, this episode explores how to show up with curiosity, self-awareness, and confidence. 👉 Watch Part 1: Dating Mindset Mastery – The Inner Game of Dating    •    • The Mindset You Need to Succeed With Women...  👉 Watch Part 2: Dating Mindset Mastery – The Inner Game of Dating   •     • Trying to Impress Her? Here’s Why It’s Bac...  ____________________________ ✅ IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: • How to share your relationship history without letting it take over the date. • Why a new partner shouldn’t carry the responsibility for healing your past. • How emotional intelligence and self-awareness support dating confidence. • Why a date should feel like a shared experience instead of an interview. • How listening, asking thoughtful questions, and allowing pauses create room for connection. • What staying grounded can look like when dating makes you nervous. • Why rigid texting rules and rehearsed lines can get in the way of being yourself. • How to plan a simple first date that shows you’ve been paying attention. You don’t have to fill every silence, deliver the perfect line, or plan an elaborate evening. Giving someone your attention, and noticing how you feel around them, can help you discover whether there’s a connection worth exploring. At It’s The Man School, we bring together three female relationship experts from three different generations to help men better understand women, build confidence, and develop the skills for meaningful relationships. 💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION What’s your biggest first-date challenge: knowing what to say, staying relaxed, or deciding what to plan? Tell us in the comments. 👍 Like this video and subscribe for more dating advice for men, honest conversations, and practical relationship insights. ____________________________ 📲 CONNECT WITH US: 🌐 Website: https://www.itsthemanschool.com 📘 Dating Program: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/datin... 💪 1:1 Coaching: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/coaching ❤️ Emotional Availability: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/emoti... 📚 ITMS Journal: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/itms-... 🔔 Subscribe for More Dating Advice for Men ____________________________ #MindsetCreatesAttraction #DatingMindset #DatingAdviceForMen #InnerGame #ItsTheManSchool Ask #DatingAdviceForMen #OnlineDatingTips #DatingProfileTips #FirstImpressions #DatingConfidence #AuthenticDating #ItsTheManSchool

  3. Oct 2

    Ep 6 - Dating Mindset Mastery Pt. 2

    Want to feel more confident on dates and build a real connection? Learn how being present, communicating openly, and working through past relationship hurts can help you approach dating with greater ease. In Part 2 of "Dating Mindset Mastery" - Dr. Patti Britton, Azure Grayot, and Sarah Weis return for an honest conversation about becoming emotionally available and creating a dating experience that feels natural. Whether you’re dating after divorce, getting back out there after a long break, or finding yourself caught up in what to say next, this episode explores how to show up with curiosity, self-awareness, and confidence. 👉 Watch Part 1: Dating Mindset Mastery – The Inner Game of Dating https://youtu.be/0zj_z8QhaIM?si=pNU6GfTGRlqdBTIq ____________________________ ✅ IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: • How to share your relationship history without letting it take over the date. • Why a new partner shouldn’t carry the responsibility for healing your past. • How emotional intelligence and self-awareness support dating confidence. • Why a date should feel like a shared experience instead of an interview. • How listening, asking thoughtful questions, and allowing pauses create room for connection. • What staying grounded can look like when dating makes you nervous. • Why rigid texting rules and rehearsed lines can get in the way of being yourself. • How to plan a simple first date that shows you’ve been paying attention. You don’t have to fill every silence, deliver the perfect line, or plan an elaborate evening. Giving someone your attention—and noticing how you feel around them—can help you discover whether there’s a connection worth exploring. At It’s The Man School, we bring together three female relationship experts from three different generations to help men better understand women, build confidence, and develop the skills for meaningful relationships. 💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION What’s your biggest first-date challenge: knowing what to say, staying relaxed, or deciding what to plan? Tell us in the comments. 👍 Like this video and subscribe for more dating advice for men, honest conversations, and practical relationship insights. ____________________________ 📲 CONNECT WITH US: 🌐 Website: https://www.itsthemanschool.com 📘 Dating Program: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/services-store ❤️ 1:1 Coaching: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/coaching 💪 Build Your Confidence: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/emotional-availability 📚 ITMS Journal: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/itms-journal 🔔 Subscribe for More Dating Advice for Men  ____________________________ ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 Dating mindset and leaving the past in the past 02:00 Being present and emotionally available 04:00 Healing without putting pressure on a new partner 06:00 Emotional intelligence and dating resilience 07:00 Communication, attraction, and trust 08:00 A date is an experience, not an interview 09:00 Keeping first dates simple 11:00 Moving beyond performance and dating formulas 12:00 Staying grounded when dating feels stressful 13:00 Bringing confident curiosity to your dates 14:00 Listening, allowing pauses, and planning thoughtfully 15:00 Taking the pressure off and moving forward ____________________________ #DatingAdviceForMen #DatingConfidence #ItsTheManSchool #impressHer #DatingAdviceForMen #OnlineDatingTips #DatingProfileTips #FirstImpressions #DatingConfidence #AuthenticDating #ItsTheManSchool

  4. Sep 15

    Mindset Creates Attraction - The Inner Game of Dating

    Most men think dating success begins with the perfect profile, the right opening line, or knowing exactly what to say on a first date. But before any dating strategy can work, you need the right mindset. In Part 1 of our Dating Mindset Mastery conversation, Dr. Patti Britton, Azure Grayot, and Sarah Wise explore the “inner game” of dating—and why confidence, emotional readiness, and rejection resilience are essential for men who want to build genuine connections with women. If you’ve been struggling to get dates, keep a woman’s interest, or recover after rejection, this episode will help you stop treating every interaction like a test of your worth. You’ll learn how to approach dating with greater confidence, curiosity, emotional maturity, and authenticity. In this episode, we discuss: Why your dating mindset affects attraction and relationship success How tying your confidence to a woman’s response creates unnecessary pressure Why rejection is a signal—not proof that you’ve failed How to become more emotionally resilient when dating The difference between authentic confidence and performing confidence Why overthinking and trying to impress can prevent real connection How avoidance, indifference, and overcompensation can hide fear of rejection Why unresolved emotional baggage follows you into new relationships How women recognize victimhood, resentment, hostility, and emotional unavailability Why self-awareness, accountability, and emotional availability are attractive How to stop performing on dates and start being genuinely present Why women want a partner—not another project How your attitude toward former partners can become a major first-date red flag Rejection may still sting, but it does not have to define you. Real confidence comes from knowing you can show up fully, take a healthy risk, and remain grounded regardless of the outcome. Dating is not about convincing every woman to choose you. It’s about becoming secure enough to recognize the right connection—and allowing the right woman to recognize you, too. It’s the Man School teaches practical dating advice for men who want to develop confidence, emotional intelligence, stronger communication skills, and healthier relationships—without the games, manipulation, or “alpha male” performance. Ready to improve your dating life and become the kind of man women want to choose? Visit us at: https://www.itsthemanschool.com Subscribe for more conversations about modern masculinity, dating confidence, first-date skills, understanding women, emotional availability, relationship communication, rejection resilience, and building lasting connections. CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome to It’s the Man School 00:25 The inner game of dating 00:47 Mindset and emotional readiness 01:27 Building rejection resilience 02:27 Rejection is a signal—not a failure 03:18 Letting go of emotional baggage 04:00 Why men fear rejection 05:46 Stop tying your confidence to the outcome 06:47 Why dates should not feel like performances 07:36 Stop performing and start connecting 08:04 Authenticity, attraction, and handling rejection 09:15 How unresolved relationships affect new connections 10:31 Why women don’t want another project 11:15 Emotional availability is more attractive than perfection 12:04 The importance of presence and genuine interest 12:46 Can women tell when a man hasn’t healed? 13:17 Victimhood, blame, and first-date red flags 14:09 How to discuss your relationship history appropriately ____________________________ Learn More: 🌐 Website: https://www.itsthemanschool.com 📘 Dating Program: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/servi... ❤️ 1:1 Coaching: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/coaching 💪 Build Your Confidence: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/emoti... 📚 ITMS Journal: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/itms-... 🔔 Subscribe for More Dating Advice for Men ____________________________ Connect With Us: 📺 YouTube:    / @itsthemanschool  📸 Instagram:   / itsthemanschool  📘 Facebook:   / itsthemanschool  🎵 TikTok:   / itsthemanschool  💼 LinkedIn:   / itsthemanschool    If you’re ready for dating advice without the games, toxic tactics, or fake alpha-male persona, subscribe to It’s The Man School for practical dating and relationship advice from three women from three generations who want men to succeed. #DatingAdviceForMen #WhatWomenWant #MensDatingAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #Mode #DatingAdviceForMen #OnlineDatingTips #DatingProfileTips #FirstImpressions #DatingConfidence #AuthenticDating #ItsTheManSchool

  5. Sep 1

    What do Women REALLY Want in Dating? - Part 2 - It's NOT a Bad Boy

    Think women want the “bad boy”? The qualities women actually find attractive may be very different from what modern dating advice for men has been telling you. In Part 2 of What Do Women Really Want in Dating?, Dr. Patti Britton, Azure Grayot, and Sarah Weis break down the qualities women actually look for in men — and why kindness, emotional intelligence, confidence, vulnerability, presence, and authenticity matter far more than trying to play the “alpha male.” 👉 Watch Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2630366/episodes/19662726 Women aren’t necessarily looking for perfection. They’re looking for a man who knows himself, respects himself, communicates, listens, shows up consistently, and knows how to create a genuine emotional connection. 🔥 In Part 2, We Explore: ✔️  What women really want from men ✔️ Why kindness and respect are attractive ✔️  Why “nice guys finish last” is outdated dating advice ✔️  Emotional intelligence and why it matters in dating ✔️  Why vulnerability in men can be a strength ✔️  The difference between vulnerability and emotional dumping ✔️  How listening and presence create attraction ✔️  Why authenticity beats the “alpha male” performance ✔️  How the way you talk about other women affects attraction ✔️  Why consistency and reliability build trust ✔️  The role chemistry plays in dating and relationships ✔️  How men can redefine masculinity without losing themselves ✔️  Why personal growth can make you more attractive ✔️  How to become the kind of man women want to choose Dating success isn't about becoming someone you're not. It's about becoming a stronger, more confident, emotionally aware version of the man you already are At It’s The Man School, we help men develop the confidence, emotional intelligence, communication skills, and dating strategies needed to build real connections with women. ____________________________ CHAPTERS: 00:00 What Do Women Really Want in Dating? – Part 2 00:34 Kindness: The #1 Thing Women Want 06:22 Emotional Intelligence & Vulnerability 08:58 Why Vulnerability Is Sexy 15:49 Presence, Communication & Authenticity ____________________________ Learn More: 🌐 Website: https://www.itsthemanschool.com 📘 Dating Program: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/services-store ❤️ 1:1 Coaching: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/coaching 💪 Build Your Confidence: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/emotional-intelligence-for-men 📚 ITMS Journal: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/itms-journal ____________________________ Connect With Us: 📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ItsTheManSchool 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsthemanschool 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itsthemanschool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsthemanschool 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/itsthemanschool  ____________________________ If you’re ready for dating advice without the games, toxic tactics, or fake alpha-male persona, subscribe to It’s The Man School for practical dating and relationship advice from three women from three generations who want men to succeed. #DatingAdviceForMen #WhatWomenWant #MensDatingAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #ModernDating #DatingTipsForMen #Relationships #MensConfidence #ItsTheManSchool #DatingAdviceForMen #OnlineDatingTips #DatingProfileTips #FirstImpressions #DatingConfidence #AuthenticDating #ItsTheManSchool

  6. Aug 18

    What do Women REALLY Want in Dating? - Part 1

    What do women really want in a man? If you’ve been told that dating success comes down to money, height, looks, status, or being an “alpha male,” you may be focusing on the wrong things. In Part 1 of What Do Women Really Want in Dating?, three relationship experts from three different generations — Dr. Patti Britton, Azure Grayot, and Sarah Weis — come together for a candid roundtable discussion about how dating has evolved as women have become more independent, what women are really looking for in a man today, and what these changes mean for men navigating modern dating and relationships. For generations, men were often taught that being a good provider was enough. But women today are increasingly looking for something beyond a paycheck: **a companion, an equal partner, and a man who knows how to genuinely show up.** So What Actually Makes a Man Attractive to Women? 🔥 **In Part 1, We Explore:** ✔️ What women really want from men in modern dating ✔️ Why being a provider is no longer enough by itself ✔️ How women’s independence has changed dating and relationships ✔️ Why presence and attention matter more than you may think ✔️ What it means to actually “show up” on a date ✔️ Why women want a partner — not a project ✔️ Why responsibility and follow-through are attractive ✔️ How putting down your phone can improve real connection ✔️ Why growth beats trying to be perfect ✔️ The truth behind the “6-6-6” dating myth ✔️ Why money, height and physical attributes aren't the whole story ✔️ What women say actually creates attraction and connection The Good News for Men? **You don't need to be perfect. And you don't need a six-figure income to be attractive.** Women are looking for men who are present, attentive, responsible and engaged — men who listen, follow through, bring some humor, make an effort and genuinely participate in the relationship. Sometimes an intentional date, a great conversation, or simply making a woman feel important can make a bigger impression than an expensive night out. 💬 **Guys, what have YOU been told women want most from men?** Money? Looks? Height? Confidence? Something else? Tell us in the comments. And stay tuned for **Part 2**, where we continue the conversation about what women really want from men and what creates deeper attraction and connection. ______________________________________ 🎓 **It’s The Man School — Dating Mastery for the Modern Man** Dating has changed. We help men develop the confidence, communication skills, emotional intelligence and self-awareness to change with it. 👍 Like the video 💬 Leave a comment with your thoughts or questions 🔔 Subscribe so you never miss a new episode ___________________________________ Learn More: 🌐 Website: https://www.itsthemanschool.com 📘 Dating Program: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/services-store ❤️ 1:1 Coaching: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/coaching 💪 Build Your Confidence: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/confident-men 📚 ITMS Journal: https://www.itsthemanschool.com/itms-journal ___________________________________ Connect With Us: 📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ItsTheManSchool 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsthemanschool 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itsthemanschool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsthemanschool 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/itsthemanschool ___________________________________ **We Got You!** #DatingAdviceForMen #WhatWomenWant #ModernDating #DatingTipsForMen #MensDatingAdvice #WhatWomenFindAttractive #DatingOver40 #ItsTheManSchool #DatingAdviceForMen #OnlineDatingTips #DatingProfileTips #FirstImpressions #DatingConfidence #AuthenticDating #ItsTheManSchool

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Welcome to It's The Man School — Dating Mastery for the Modern ManHosted by 3 expert women, from 3 generations, with 3 different perspectives and 1 shared passionate vision: coaching men to master modern dating and to become the kind of partner women are excited to choose.  Featuring renowned sexologist Dr. Patti Britton, certified sexologist Azure Grayot, and certified sexologist and relationship coach Sarah Weis.Here, We Explore:✔️ Women’s perspectives on attraction and relationships✔️ Dating tools, tips and strategies for successful results ✔️ The NEW masculinity✔️ Emotional awareness & intelligence✔️ Skills for effective communication  ✔️ Building confidence & attraction✔️ Showing up as your authentic self✔️ Self-care techniques to stand out among the competition✔️ How to get to the 2nd date and beyond✔️ The art of creating and sustaining true connection✔️ And much more ...If you’re done with surface-level advice and ready for real evolution… you’re in the right place.We got you!  - Dr. Patti, Azure & Sarah Links It's The Man Schoolitsthemanschool.com

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