Mums Who Question

Valentina Okur and Jasmin Templin

Jasmin & Valentina 🌷 The podcast for mums who ask 'why?' 🎙️ Honest chats on health, low-tox, parenting & everything in between

Episodes

  1. Sep 1

    #009 C-Section Recovery: What Every Mum Should Know About Scar Healing & Postpartum Care

    C-sections are major surgery, yet many mums are sent home with very little information about what recovery can actually look and feel like. In this episode, we’re joined by Ash Christie, a myotherapist, Pilates instructor and mum of two behind Flourish Myotherapy and Pilates. Ash specialises in supporting women through pregnancy and postpartum, with a particular passion for C-section scar care and rehabilitation. We chat all about what happens to your body after a C-section and why so many mums experience numbness, pulling, tightness and disconnection long after their birth. Ash explains the different layers involved in a C-section, how scar tissue can affect the body, and why recovery isn’t always as simple as being told to “keep it clean and dry” and then being cleared to return to normal life at six weeks. We also talk about scar massage, scar desensitisation, breathwork, rebuilding your core connection, returning to exercise, the popular “C-section shelf”, cupping, and what you can do even months or years after your C-section. Most importantly, this conversation is a reminder to listen to your body, take your recovery at your own pace and know that support is available. In this episode, we cover: What is actually happening in your body after a C-sectionWhy numbness, tingling and unusual sensations around the scar are commonThe emotional side of C-section scars and feeling disconnected from your bodyWhat can contribute to the “C-section shelf”How scar tissue may affect movement throughout the bodyWhen to start scar desensitisation and scar massageHow to use breathwork to reconnect with your body and support recoveryA simple scar breathing exercise you can try at homeRebuilding your core after a C-sectionReturning to exercise and why six weeks isn’t necessarily an “all clear”C-section scar massage and cuppingWhether it’s too late to work on a C-section scar years laterWhen to consider seeing a practitioner for supportWhether you’ve recently had a C-section, you’re planning for one, or your C-section was years ago, we hope this episode helps you better understand your recovery and feel more supported in your postpartum journey. About Ash: Ash Christie is a myotherapist, Pilates instructor and mum of two behind Flourish Myotherapy and Pilates. She supports women through pregnancy and postpartum with a particular passion for C-section scar care and rehabilitation. Ash helps mums understand their changing bodies and feel more comfortable and confident in their recovery, with practical advice that fits into the reality of motherhood. You can find Ash at Flourish Myotherapy and Pilates and on Instagram at @flourishmyoandpilates. As always, the information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for personalised medical advice. Please speak with a qualified health professional about your individual circumstances. If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with another mum who might need to hear it, and don’t forget to follow Mums Who Question for more honest and curious conversations around motherhood, children’s health and family wellbeing. Looking for a qualified C-section scar release practitioner? Ash mentioned The C-Section Release Method during this episode. You can find a directory of qualified practitioners who have completed The C-Section Release Method training here: View the directory of trained practitioners

  2. Aug 25

    #008 Low-Tox Bathroom Swaps - The Products We Actually Use & What We Avoid

    Low-Tox Bathroom Swaps | What We Actually UseThis week, we’re opening up our bathrooms and sharing the low-tox swaps we actually use in real life - from shampoo, skincare and makeup to toothpaste, period products, kids’ bath products and even what we clean the bathroom with. We chat about why we personally choose to reduce things like synthetic fragrance, PFAS, talc and unnecessary ingredients where we can, without pretending you need to throw your entire bathroom in the bin overnight. This is all about becoming a little more aware of what you’re using every day and making swaps gradually as products run out. Products mentioned in the episode: Hair Shampoo: Cooki Shampoo BarConditioner: Cooki Conditioner BarHair styling: No Nasties Hair GelDry shampoo: By Blanca Dry ShampooRazor: Ever Eco Reusable Razor Body + shower Lavender & clay soap bar from Source Bulk FoodsOrganic cotton or sisal soap bagDr Bronner’s Pure-Castile SoapEndota 100% natural hemp exfoliating mittDeodorant: MooGoo Fragrance FreeBiologika deodorant Oral care Kids toothpaste: Grants StrawberryAdult toothpaste: Grants Whitening with hydroxyapatiteFloss: Young Living Thieves Dental FlossToothbrush: Gaia Guy boar-bristle toothbrushMouthwash: MooGoo Skincare Cleanser: Cetaphil Gentle Skin CleanserMoisturiser: Beef TallowLiminal Elixirs Original Face BalmSerum: MooGoo Anti-Ageing Peptide SerumCastorGuard by Biome as an alternative to petroleum jellySunscreen: WotnotMakeup + lips INIKA talc-free powderWotnot BB CreamINIKA concealerINIKA blushEre PerezEco by Sonya Glory LipsLittle UrchinHurraw! lip balmLanolin Fragrance Recreation Bondi Beach natural fragrance / essential-oil-based perfume Hands Source Bulk Foods coconut hand washPAUME hand sanitiser Periods TOM Organic padsModibodi period underwear Baby + kids MooGoo Natural 2-in-1 Bubbly WashHoneysticks bath crayonsHoneysticks bath products made with ingredients such as beeswax/soy wax and food-grade pigments Bathroom cleaning SABA Organics multipurpose lemon sprayecostore Bathroom & Shower CleanerSABA Organics toilet cleanerecostore Toilet Cleaner The biggest takeaway? Low-tox living doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Start with the things you use most often, replace products when they run out, and make choices that work for your family, budget and lifestyle. Find us on Instagram: @mumswhoquestion.podcast Tiktok: @mumswhoquestionpodcast

  3. Aug 11

    #006 Tantrums, Boundaries & Getting Your Kids to Listen with Izzy from Calmer Parenting

    What do you actually do when your child is melting down, ignoring everything you say, hitting their sibling or pushing every boundary you set? In this episode, we sit down with Izzy from Calmer Parenting to talk about the moments that can make parenting feel really hard and how understanding what’s happening underneath our children's behaviour can completely change the way we respond. With a background in early childhood education and over 12 years spent working with children and families, Izzy shares practical tools for navigating big emotions while still holding boundaries (because calm parenting definitely doesn't mean letting your kids do whatever they want!). We talk about: Why toddlers seem to suddenly stop listeningWhat to do during a big tantrum or meltdownHow to get your child to cooperate without repeating yourself 20 timesUsing play and choice instead of constant instructionsConsequences that actually make sense — and why empty threats don't workWhat to do when your child hits you or their siblingWhether children should always be expected to shareHow to repair and reconnect after you've lost your coolThe difference between gentle parenting and calm parentingWhy poor sleep can show up as bigger behavioursSimple regulation tools you can try at homeHolding firm boundaries around safetyTime-outs vs "time-ins"How to support a shy child without forcing them to interact We also ask whether parenting has swung too far from the strict approach many of us grew up with and how we can find the middle ground between giving our children autonomy and still being the parent who holds the boundary. This episode is full of practical ideas you can actually try with your kids - but also a reminder that you don't have to be the perfectly calm mum 24/7. Sometimes the most important part is what you do after the hard moment. Find Izzy: Instagram: @calmer.parenting Website: calmerparenting.com Find us: Instagram: @mumswhoquestion.podcast Tiktok: @mumswhoquestionpodcast

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Jasmin & Valentina 🌷 The podcast for mums who ask 'why?' 🎙️ Honest chats on health, low-tox, parenting & everything in between