Parental Discretion

Hosted by Lauren Foster and Georgia Nicholas

The is podcast for Christian parents and guardians who want to talk about sex, relationships, and identity with their kids. Every home has a table, a place where stories, values, and faith are passed on. This podcast explores how this everyday space can become a model for discipleship and a foundation for healthy, hope-filled conversations about growing up. Created by Big Kids Table in partnership with Positive Media, the first season invites adults to not only discuss and learn how best to sexually disciple their children, but also reflect on the tables they were raised at their own experiences in this realm. The podcast aims to equip adults to work towards redeeming their own stories, build confidence, and offer age-appropriate, ongoing dialogue about bodies, relationships, and faith. You do not need perfect answers. You need open hearts, curious minds, and a place where the whole truth can be explored.  Pull up a chair and join us as we raise a generation of resilient disciples with healthy sexuality.

Episodes

  1. Oct 4

    Cultural Shifts and Influences of Church Culture | Part 2

    Lauren and Georgia explore two influential messages many Christians have encountered growing up: the silence surrounding conversations about sexuality, and the belief that sexual desire itself is something bad or shameful. Drawing on personal experiences, stories from schools and churches, and biblical reflection, they unpack how these messages can shape our understanding of ourselves, our relationships, and our faith.  The conversation highlights why healthy, age-appropriate discussions about bodies, puberty, attraction, relationships and sexuality are so important, particularly for young people seeking answers in an increasingly complex world. Lauren and Georgia also challenge the common confusion between desire and lust, exploring how God-designed attraction differs from self-focused behaviours that objectify others.  Key points they cover: The impact of silence and taboo around sexuality in Christian communities.  How young people interpret the messages adults communicate, even when nothing is explicitly said.  Why unanswered questions can lead to confusion, shame, and misinformation.  A powerful story from a puberty education session that highlights the importance of normalising conversations about growing up.  The difference between desire, attraction and lust, and why they should not be treated as the same thing. How church messages about sexuality can affect both men and women in different ways.  Why sexual desire is not inherently bad, but a powerful part of being human that requires wisdom and healthy understanding.  The importance of creating safe spaces where curiosity can be met with truth, empathy and grace Connect with Big Kids' Table: Website: https://bkt.org.au/  Email: parentaldiscretion@positivemedia.com.au Instagram: @bigkidstable.au Facebook: Big Kids' Table  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. Sep 20

    Cultural Shifts and Influences of the Modern Society | Part 2

    In Part 2 of this conversation, Lauren and Georgia move beyond the big cultural shifts discussed in the previous episode and take a deeper look at two powerful influences shaping today's young people: the growing pornification of culture and the belief that sex is a basic human need. Together, they unpack how pornography, sexualised media, AI-generated content, and cultural assumptions about intimacy are impacting children's understanding of relationships, consent, connection, and identity. Most importantly, they offer practical encouragement for Christian parents seeking to navigate these conversations with wisdom, confidence, and hope. In This Episode: Why this conversation is a continuation of our discussion on postmodernism and expressive individualism.  How pornography has become one of the most influential sex educators in modern culture.  The difference between exposure to pornography and regular consumption.  Research on the age of first exposure to pornography among Australian young people.  How sexualised media shapes expectations around sex, relationships, consent, and gender roles.  The impact of AI, deepfakes, and emerging technology on young people.  Why sex is not a basic human need, and what our culture gets wrong about intimacy.  The Christian vision for intimacy, connection, relationships, and human flourishing.  Practical ways parents can remain calm, approachable, and engaged in conversations about pornography and online safety.  Reflection questions to help parents consider the messages their children are absorbing and the examples they're modelling at home. Connect with Big Kids' Table: Website: https://bkt.org.au/  Email: parentaldiscretion@positivemedia.com.au Instagram: @bigkidstable.au Facebook: Big Kids' Table    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  3. Aug 30

    Where do we begin?

    Where do you even begin when talking to your kids about sex, relationships, identity, and faith? In the very first episode of Parental Discretion, Georgia and Lauren share their own experiences of growing up with silence, shame, confusion, and fear surrounding conversations about sexuality. They explore why so many Christian parents feel unequipped to start these discussions and offer a reassuring message: it's not too late, and you don't need all the answers before you begin. Together, they introduce the powerful concept of the "law of first exposure", exploring how a child's first experiences and conversations about sex, relationships, and identity can shape their understanding for years to come. Most importantly, they encourage parents and carers to become the first safe, trusted voice their children hear on these topics. This episode is an invitation to move past fear, start the conversation, and build a foundation of trust, connection, and discipleship in your home. In this episode: Why many Christian parents struggle with conversations about sex and relationships The impact of silence, shame, and fear Why "silence does not protect innocence" The importance of being your child's first trusted voice Understanding the "law of first exposure" Practical encouragement for taking the first step Connect with Big Kids' Table: Website: https://bkt.org.au/  Email: parentaldiscretion@positivemedia.com.au Instagram: @bigkidstable.au Facebook: Big Kids' Table  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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The is podcast for Christian parents and guardians who want to talk about sex, relationships, and identity with their kids. Every home has a table, a place where stories, values, and faith are passed on. This podcast explores how this everyday space can become a model for discipleship and a foundation for healthy, hope-filled conversations about growing up. Created by Big Kids Table in partnership with Positive Media, the first season invites adults to not only discuss and learn how best to sexually disciple their children, but also reflect on the tables they were raised at their own experiences in this realm. The podcast aims to equip adults to work towards redeeming their own stories, build confidence, and offer age-appropriate, ongoing dialogue about bodies, relationships, and faith. You do not need perfect answers. You need open hearts, curious minds, and a place where the whole truth can be explored.  Pull up a chair and join us as we raise a generation of resilient disciples with healthy sexuality.