We Need To Talk About Rape

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TW: This podcast discusses rape, sexual violence and abuse. We Need To Talk About Rape: Honest Conversations to Deepen Empathy and Inspire Positive Change. Luna draws on her lived experience of rape and abuse to have the conversations society often avoids. Exploring victim blaming, gaslighting, gender, power, and harmful cultural beliefs, this podcast challenges assumptions, deepens empathy and asks what needs to change. Honest, compassionate and open to all genders, it is a space for understanding, not judgement. Not medical or professional advice.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    Did She Love Her Abuser?

    TW: Rape & Abuse. After leaving an abusive relationship, Luna was asked aquestion that stopped her in her tracks: "Do you love him?" In this episode of We Need to Talk About Rape, she unpacks one of the most misunderstood and judged aspects of abusive relationships - the complicated feelings a survivor can have toward the person who hurt them. With honesty and vulnerability, Luna explores love bombing,trauma bonding, and intermittent reinforcement, drawing on her own experience of craving relief from a relationship she knew was destroying her. She challenges the assumption that survivors should "just leave," and asks listeners to sit with a difficult truth: you can love someone, recognise the abuse, and know you need to get out, all at the same time. If you've ever wondered why someone stayed, went back, ordefended the person who hurt them, or if you're carrying those questions about yourself, this episode is for you. I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation. Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not apsychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. Thank you for being here and being part of the positivechange. Luna x

    Did She Love Her Abuser?

  2. Oct 29

    The Perfect Perpetrator?

    TW: Rape & Abuse. What do we imagine a perpetrator of rape or abuse looks like? I think most of us probably have some kind of picture in ourheads. Someone frightening, obviously dangerous. Someone we'd look at and think, there's something notright about that man. But what happens when the person who causes harm doesn'tlook anything like that? In this episode, I want us to think about the idea of the “perfect perpetrator” - the person we imagine we'd be able to recognise. Because perpetrators can be people we know, like, and trust. The colleague everyone gets on with. The helpful friend. Thecharming partner. The respected professional. And if we're looking for the monster, we might miss theordinary behaviours that actually matter. So rather than asking, “Can I tell whether this person is arapist?”, I want us to think about different questions. What do they believe about consent? How do they respond when someone says no? What happens when they don't get what they want? And what do they do when they're told they've caused harm? I also talk about why understanding perpetrators can be partof preventing abuse because understanding someone isn't the same as excusing them. And I invite you to try a little exercise of your own. Because perhaps the question isn't: “Who is the perpetrator?” Perhaps it's: “What kind of culture makes perpetration possible?” I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation.Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not apsychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. Thank you for being here and being part of the positivechange. Luna x

    The Perfect Perpetrator?

  3. Oct 22

    The Perfect Victim?

    What do we imagine a victim of rape or abuse looks like? In this episode, I want us to think about the idea of the “perfect victim” - the person who behaves exactly as we expect a victim to behave. I share part of my own story from a time when, from theoutside, I probably didn't look much like a victim at all. I was partying, exploring my sexuality, making mistakes and trying to find some control after years of abuse. People are complicated. We can make good decisions andbad decisions. We can look as though we're coping when we're falling apart underneath. None of those things determines whether someone was raped or abused. So what happens when the people we see, hear, or know don't fit the picture we've been taught to expect? And what if there never was a “perfect victim” in the firstplace? I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation.Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not a psychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. Thank you for being here and being part of the positivechange. Luna x

    The Perfect Victim?

  4. Oct 15

    Why Didn't She Call The Police?

    TW: Rape & abuse. “Why didn’t she call the police?” It can sound like a straightforward question. But what if reporting rape or abuse doesn’t feel like a straightforward route to safety? In this episode, Luna shares her own experiences of reporting rape, abuse, and stalking, and explores some of the reasons a survivor may not report, or may report and still find the process incredibly difficult. A conversation about fear, coercion, justice, responsibilityand the barriers survivors can face when trying to seek help. I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation.Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not a psychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. Thank you for being here and being part of the positivechange. Luna x

    Why Didn't She Call The Police?

  5. Oct 8

    Is She Lying?

    TW: Rape & abuse. What makes a survivor believable? In this episode, Luna explores why survivors are so often scrutinised for their memory, behaviour, emotions, delayed disclosure, or continued contact with the person who harmed them, and why we can mistake a perpetrator's mask for who they really are. A conversation about credibility, victim-blaming, trauma, and the uncomfortable assumptions we make when a survivor doesn't behave the way we expect. Not medical or professional advice. I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation. Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not a psychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. Thank you for being here and being part of the positivechange. Luna x

    Is She Lying?

  6. Oct 1

    Why Didn't She Leave? My Story (Part C)

    TW: Rape & abuse. Part C. Sometimes understanding why people stay means hearing what leaving can actually involve. In Part C, I share more of my own experience of leaving an abusive relationship and the reality of rebuilding afterwards. Not as a blueprint for anyone else, but as one story that may help us understandjust how complicated leaving can be. Not medical or professional advice. I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation.Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not apsychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. Thank you for being here and being part of the positivechange. Luna x

    Why Didn't She Leave? My Story (Part C)

  7. Sep 24

    Why Didn't She Leave? When Leaving Has A Cost (Part B)

    TW: Rape & abuse. Part B. Leaving an abusive relationship is rarely as simple aswalking away. Fear, control, isolation, finances, children, disability, health, culture, and many other circumstances can change what leaving actually means. Part B looks beyond the assumptions and explores some of the barriers that can make leaving extraordinarily difficult. Not medical or professional advice. I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation.Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not apsychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. Thank you for being here and being part of the positivechange. Luna x

    Why Didn't She Leave? When Leaving Has A Cost (Part B)

  8. Sep 17

    Why Didn't She Leave? When Leaving Isn't Possible (Part A)

    TW: Rape & abuse. Part A. “Why didn’t she leave?” can sound like there was always a simple choice available, but what happens when someone is trapped, terrified, or unable to fight back? In Part A, we explore rape, trauma responses, and the realities that can make leaving impossible, including what happens when the body itself takes over.  Not medical or professional advice. I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation. Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not a psychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. New episodes every Thursday. Thank you for being here and being part of the positive change. Luna x

    Why Didn't She Leave? When Leaving Isn't Possible (Part A)

  9. Sep 10

    Why Didn't She Choose Better?

    TW: Rape & abuse “Why didn’t she choose better?” It sounds like a question about choice, but what are we really asking when we say it? This episode explores the assumptions behind victim blaming and asks us to look more closely at where responsibility for rape actually belongs. Not medical or professional advice. I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation. Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not a psychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. New episodes every Thursday. Thank you for being here and being part of the positive change. Luna x

    Why Didn't She Choose Better?

  10. Season 1, Episode 1 Trailer

    Why We Need to Talk About Rape

    S1 E1 Why We Need To Talk About Rape TW: Rape & abuse What happens when we stop avoiding the difficult conversations about rape? In this introduction to We Need To Talk About Rape, we explore why these conversations matter, how victim blaming takes root, and what could change if we approached rape with more empathy, honesty and understanding. Not medical or professional advice. I'd love you to follow along and join in the conversation. Please write any relevant and respectful questions on my social media comments section (under the podcast post). Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheManyMosaic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna_louise_anna/ Please note that I do not answer any DM's. I'm not a psychologist or trauma therapist. If you need help with any of the themes from the podcast, please visit findahelpline.com and search for help in your country. New episodes every Thursday. Thank you for being here and being part of the positive change. Luna x

    Why We Need to Talk About Rape
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TW: This podcast discusses rape, sexual violence and abuse. We Need To Talk About Rape: Honest Conversations to Deepen Empathy and Inspire Positive Change. Luna draws on her lived experience of rape and abuse to have the conversations society often avoids. Exploring victim blaming, gaslighting, gender, power, and harmful cultural beliefs, this podcast challenges assumptions, deepens empathy and asks what needs to change. Honest, compassionate and open to all genders, it is a space for understanding, not judgement. Not medical or professional advice.

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