Nobody Gives You a Handbook

Stacy Tassin Ministries

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Nobody gives you a handbook for navigating disability, caregiving, healthcare, accessibility, or becoming an advocate for someone you love—or yourself. Join me as I share what life with Mighty D, my own hearing loss, and years of advocacy have taught me, along with practical resources and what I’m still learning along the way. stacytassin.substack.com

Oct 18

When You're Holding It All Together, But Barely

Just because you’re holding everything together doesn’t mean you’re not exhausted. In this episode of Nobody Gives You a Handbook, I’m sharing something personal from my recent therapy homework and what I’m learning about chronic stress, emotional reactions, and high-functioning burnout. From caring for a child with complex medical needs to supporting aging parents or working as a professional caregiver, the weight of responsibility can affect us in ways we don’t always recognize. I’m also sharing a little of my own journey as I learn to step back from certain caregiving responsibilities, accept help, and simply enjoy being a mom. Because being a good caregiver shouldn’t mean losing yourself along the way. I’d love to hear from you: Have you ever realized your reaction to something was really about everything else you were carrying? References & Resources * MedlinePlus — Caregiver Health * Arnsten, Joyce & Roberts — Stress and Emotional Regulation (2023) * CDC — Caring for Yourself When Caring for Another Get full access to Stacy Tassin Ministries at stacytassin.substack.com/subscribe
Oct 3

Life in the 15

Have you ever looked around and realized the life you’re living looks nothing like the one you once pictured? For years, I think I was chasing “normal” without even realizing it. But life—parenting, caregiving, marriage, family, all of it—doesn’t stay still long enough for us to master it. Around our house, we call it life in the 15. Because whatever is happening right now? Give it 15 minutes. It’ll probably change. This episode is about letting go of the life we thought we wanted, being honest about the parts that are hard, and realizing that maybe the beautiful, messy, unpredictable life happening right now is the dream. If Nobody Gives You a Handbook is a conversation you want to keep being part of, subscribe so you don’t miss the next episode. Free and paid subscriptions are available, and both help support the work while we keep figuring out life together. Get full access to Stacy Tassin Ministries at stacytassin.substack.com/subscribe
Sep 22

Silence the Noise

The internet, social media, and even the dang TV are full of the latest thing promising to fix our health, balance our hormones, give us more energy, help us lose weight, or finally make us feel better. I know this one all too well because I’m walking it out in my own life. Honestly, I’m tired of Googling, asking AI, or messaging my doctor or nutritionist about every new thing someone sends my way. In this episode, we’re talking about silencing some of that noise and learning to advocate for our own health—mind, body, and soul. How do we narrow down what actually needs our attention, listen to our bodies without trying to diagnose ourselves, ask better questions, and find a care team that actually listens? Questions to Take With You * What are my top three concerns right now? * How are they affecting my everyday life? * What do I need help understanding or changing? You don’t have to diagnose yourself to advocate for yourself. Pay attention, ask questions, seek wise help, and keep speaking until you understand the care you’re receiving. Get full access to Stacy Tassin Ministries at stacytassin.substack.com/subscribe
Sep 14

The Caregiver Needs Care Too

When you’re the one taking care of everyone else, it’s incredibly easy to disappear from your own list. In this episode, we’re talking about one of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn in more than two decades of caregiving: the person doing the caregiving needs care too. Whether you’re caring for a child, spouse, aging parent, friend, patient, or someone else who depends on you, your needs don’t stop mattering because someone else needs you. We’ll talk about recognizing your own warning signs, what self-care can actually look like, letting other people help, and giving yourself permission to rest without guilt. Because taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—and sometimes the most loving thing you can do for the people who need you is make sure there’s still a healthy you there to love and care for them. Nobody gives you a handbook. But we can share our notes. This Substack is reader-supported. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Stacy Tassin Ministries at stacytassin.substack.com/subscribe
Sep 13

When the Wheels Start Falling Off

Navigating a hospital or care facility can feel overwhelming—especially when something isn’t going the way it should. After two decades of advocating for my son through hospitals, medical facilities, and complex care, one of the most important things I’ve learned is this: it is okay to ask for help, and it is okay to say, “This is not okay.” In this episode, we’re talking about who may already be on your team, who to ask for when you need additional support, and how knowing the right person to call can make a huge difference when it feels like the wheels are starting to fall off. Nobody gives you a handbook for this stuff. So let’s keep sharing our notes. Get full access to Stacy Tassin Ministries at stacytassin.substack.com/subscribe
Sep 13

Welcome to the Conversation

Nobody gives you a handbook for the unexpected things life puts in front of you. In this first episode, I’m sharing why this podcast exists, what more than two decades of advocacy have taught me, and why I believe sharing what we learn along the way can help someone else navigate what comes next. Get full access to Stacy Tassin Ministries at stacytassin.substack.com/subscribe

6 Episodes

Nobody gives you a handbook for navigating disability, caregiving, healthcare, accessibility, or becoming an advocate for someone you love—or yourself. Join me as I share what life with Mighty D, my own hearing loss, and years of advocacy have taught me, along with practical resources and what I’m still learning along the way. stacytassin.substack.com

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Stacy Tassin Ministries
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Nobody Gives You a Handbook

Nobody Gives You a Handbook

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When You're Holding It All Together, But Barely

Life in the 15

Silence the Noise

The Caregiver Needs Care Too

When the Wheels Start Falling Off

Welcome to the Conversation

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