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Mother Daughter podcast AWA Voices — a show where we explore the beautiful, messy, and ever-evolving relationship between mothers and daughters. From generational wounds to unconditional love, we dive into the stories that shape us.

  1. 13h ago

    Abuse of Power in the Church, Pastors, Tithes & Manipulation |AWA Voices | EP36

    Is there a difference between having power and abusing it? 👀 In this episode of AWA Voices, Yewanda and Abimbola get into an honest, unfiltered mother-daughter conversation about abuse of power in the church, religious leadership, relationships, money, and everyday life. The conversation gets especially interesting as they debate whether some pastors take advantage of their position and the trust people place in them. They also discuss church tithes, religious donations, financial transparency, and whether people should question where their money is going. But the conversation doesn't stop there! They explore how financial dependence can create an imbalance of power in relationships, why women should maintain their independence, and how wealth, authority, and ego can influence the way people treat others. 💬 IN THIS EPISODE: •Abuse of power in churches and religious communities •Pastors, manipulation, and trust •Can religious leaders take advantage of vulnerable people? •Church tithes, offerings, and where the money goes •Should Christians question how church donations are used? •Religion, faith, and negative experiences with religious leaders •Financial independence and power in relationships •Why money and authority can change people's behaviour •A lively mother-daughter debate with honest opinions and plenty of laughs! This episode is about asking difficult questions, sharing personal perspectives, and encouraging people to think critically while respecting that everyone’s experiences with faith and religion are different. TIMESTAMPS ⏱️ 00:15 What Is Abuse of Power? 02:19 Are Pastors Abusing Their Power? 05:29 Is the Church Manipulating People? 08:41 Do People See Pastors as God? 11:30 Faith vs Religious Leaders 16:11 Abuse of Power in Relationships 17:02 Should Women Be Financially Independent? 22:12 The Truth About Church Tithes 26:44 Where Does the Church Money Go? 29:14 Pastors, Money & Lifestyle 👇 JOIN THE CONVERSATION Do you think some religious leaders abuse their power, or do people sometimes place too much trust in them? And should churches be more transparent about how tithes and offerings are spent? Let us know your thoughts in the comments! We want to hear your perspective. 👍 Like this video if you enjoyed the discussion, subscribe to Our Voices for more honest conversations, and turn on notifications so you don't miss our next episode. 📢 Share this episode with someone who would have something to say about this debate! #AbuseOfPower #ChurchTithes #ReligiousAbuse #AWAVoices #ChurchTransparency #Relationships

    Abuse of Power in the Church, Pastors, Tithes & Manipulation |AWA Voices | EP36
  2. 13h ago

    Why are parents taking their children’s SFE| AWA Voices|EP35

    Are African parents wrong for asking their children for their Student Finance England (SFE) money? 👀🇬🇧 In this episode of AWA Voices, we’re having an honest, unfiltered mother-daughter conversation about African parenting, student loans, family responsibilities, generational differences, and why communication between African parents and their children can sometimes feel impossible! Student Finance England is meant to help university students cover the costs of higher education and living expenses. But what happens when parents expect their children to hand over that money as soon as it arrives? Should children contribute towards the household, or should their student finance be theirs to manage? We debate whether African parents should ask their children for their SFE money, especially when those students will eventually have to repay their loans. We also discuss the pressure young adults face, the importance of financial planning, and whether parents should teach their children about money instead of relying on them financially. But the conversation doesn't stop there! 😂 We get into why some African parents struggle with patience, why adult children feel misunderstood, how different generations approach life, and whether African parents really listen when their children try to explain themselves. Expect honest opinions, funny disagreements, a hilarious gym-card story, and plenty of moments that might remind you of conversations in your own family! 💬 WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! Do you think African parents should ever ask their university-age children for their Student Finance England money? Should children help their parents financially while studying, or should parents allow them to focus on building their future? And who needs to do better when it comes to communication: African parents or their children? 👇 Drop your opinions in the comments. Let's have a respectful conversation! ❤️ If you enjoy honest conversations about African families, culture, parenting, relationships, and everyday life, LIKE this video, SUBSCRIBE to Our Voices, and turn on notifications so you don't miss our next episode. Timestamps 00:15 African Parents & Student Finance 02:17 Is Student Finance Enough? 03:19 Should Parents Ask for Money? 04:03 Teaching Financial Responsibility 05:25 Do Parents Have Patience? 09:46 Who Should Keep the SFE? 11:47 Family Financial Struggles 13:48 Should Students Help Parents? 15:09 Student Debt & Mental Health 17:43 Teaching Children Life Lessons 22:37 Why Parents Don't Listen 25:47 Do Parents Mirror Their Children? 27:24 Are Modern Parents Too Tolerant? 28:40 African Parents & Communication 29:57 Growing Up in the UK 31:40 Are African Parents Right or Wrong? IN THIS EPISODE: We discuss Student Finance England (SFE), African parents and money, student debt, financial responsibility, parenting styles, generational trauma, family expectations, boundaries, communication, and the differences between African parents and their children growing up in the UK.

    Why are parents taking their children’s SFE| AWA Voices|EP35
  3. 13h ago

    Why does Black love feel performative Dating, Expectations Modern Relationships AWA Voices |EP34

    On the episode of AWA Voices the question is "Is Black love really harder and performative, or have modern dating expectations made relationships more complicated than they need to be?" In this episode of Our Voices, Yewande and Abibola have a candid, funny and sometimes heated conversation about Black love, dating, relationships, expectations and what it really means to fight for love. The conversation starts with the idea that Black love can feel “performative” and quickly expands into a much bigger discussion: Why do some people believe love has to be difficult? Are we carrying generational trauma into our relationships? Have social media, material expectations and comparison changed the way we date? And do we really need to fight for a relationship—or should love feel mutual and organic? They also discuss: • Why Black love can feel more complicated or performative • Whether people are raised to struggle in relationships • Generational trauma and the importance of unlearning unhealthy patterns • Male-centred and female-centred dating expectations • Whether you should fight for your relationship or walk away • Why love alone may not be enough to sustain a relationship • Unrealistic expectations in modern dating • Social media, luxury gifts and comparing your relationship to others • The pressure surrounding money, lifestyle and material things • Why “Chanel” becomes a symbol for unrealistic expectations • Black men and Black women’s expectations of each other • Therapy, healing and taking personal responsibility • How friendship circles can influence the way we think about relationships • Why people may be increasingly reluctant to date • Whether people have simply become “lazy” when it comes to love This isn't a conversation with one simple answer. It's a debate about love, culture, expectations, healing and modern relationships and the panel doesn't always agree. 💬 What do you think? Is Black love genuinely more complicated, or are we putting too many expectations on relationships? Should you fight for a relationship when things get difficult, or should love be allowed to happen naturally? And why do you think so many people are struggling with dating today? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. Subscribe to AWA Voices for more honest conversations about relationships, culture, identity, dating and life. Timestamps:  00:00 Intro & The Black Love Debate 00:54 Is Black Love Too Complicated? 05:14 Trauma, Healing & Unlearning 08:04 Modern Dating & Relationship Expectations 09:06 Do You Have to Fight for Love? 18:59 Is Dating Within the Black Community More Difficult? 21:01 Social Media, Money & Unrealistic Expectations 28:47 Why Black Love Feels So Complicated 30:11 Trauma, Therapy & Taking Responsibility 32:31 Black Love in Movies vs Real Life 35:09 Why Are People Struggling With Dating? 37:20 Why Does Black Dating Feel So Difficult? 38:39 Final Thoughts #BlackLove #Dating #Relationships #ModernDating #BlackDating #Love #DatingAdvice #RelationshipsAdvice

    Why does Black love feel performative Dating, Expectations Modern Relationships AWA Voices |EP34
  4. 14h ago

    Why Does Everyone Have A Problem With The UK Black Girl Aesthetic?| EP33

    Is the “UK Black Girl Aesthetic” really a problem or are we simply putting labels on Black women who love to look good? In this episode of AWA Voices, Yawanda and Abinbola get into a heated conversation about the viral “UK Black Girl Aesthetic,” from bust-down wigs, makeup and fashion to social-media beauty standards, comparison, validation and the pressure to fit into a particular image. They question why this particular aesthetic receives so much criticism and whether calling it out is actually putting Black women down. They also discuss the idea that “we all look the same underneath the makeup,” why facial features and complexions are different, and how hair, fashion and beauty trends can sometimes make people appear similar   without making them the same. The conversation also explores: • What exactly is the UK Black Girl Aesthetic? • Why do Black women get labelled by the way they dress? • Are wigs, makeup and fashion really what define the aesthetic? • Why do people compare themselves to women on Instagram? • Is social-media validation influencing beauty standards? • Why do so many women shop at the same places and follow similar beauty trends? • Does the aesthetic come from culture, family and upbringing? • Why is looking good sometimes treated negatively? • The relationship between confidence, comparison and self-esteem Yawanda and Abinbola also talk about the wider issue of labels and why women should be able to express themselves without being placed into a box. Watch until the end and let us know: What do YOU think about the UK Black Girl Aesthetic? Is it simply a style, or has social media turned it into something much bigger? ❤️ If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE and SHARE. #AWAVoices #UKBlackGirlAesthetic #BlackWomen #BlackGirlAesthetic #UKBlackGirls #BlackBeauty #BeautyStandards #BlackCulture #SocialMedia #BlackWomenInTheUK

    Why Does Everyone Have A Problem With The UK Black Girl Aesthetic?| EP33
  5. 15h ago

    WHEN IS ENOUGH ENOUG? | Knowing When to Leave a Relationship | AWA Voices|EP32

    When is enough REALLY enough? 🚩 Knowing when to leave a relationship isn't always easy. Sometimes we stay because we're comfortable, hopeful, attached or simply afraid of what comes next. But what happens when the red flags become impossible to ignore? In this episode of AWA Voices, Yewande and Abimbola get REAL about relationships, dating standards, knowing when to walk away, and why so many people stay in situations that no longer serve them. From spotting changes in a partner's behaviour and recognising when your values no longer align, to the importance of physical attraction and dating standards, this conversation goes EVERYWHERE. 😂 And then things take a hilarious turn… 💋 Can a bad first kiss be a dealbreaker? 🦷 Why do so many men apparently struggle with oral hygiene? 🚩 When should you stop giving someone the benefit of the doubt? ❤️ Can you have a long-term relationship with someone you're not physically attracted to? 🍳 Why are some grown men unable to cook or clean for themselves? ❄️ Are people really going back to their exes because winter is coming? 📱 Is the September “lock-in” actually necessary? 🌱 When is it time to leave a job, friendship, relationship or even family? The girls also discuss the importance of being observant when dating, paying attention to patterns rather than isolated incidents, and refusing to gaslight yourself when something clearly doesn't feel right. As the final quarter of the year begins, the conversation turns to self-improvement, discipline, personal growth and knowing when it's time to move on. And yes… there is also a LOT of talk about “turkey teeth,” terrible kissing and men who expect women to cook and clean for them. 😭😂 🎙️ Welcome back to AWA Voices, your favourite mother-daughter podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE and let us know: What's the biggest red flag that would make YOU walk away from a relationship?  Timestamp: 04:04 — “How do you know when it's time to leave that man?” 08:02 — The terrible first kiss conversation 09:34 — Men and oral hygiene 17:20 — Can you date someone you're not physically attracted to? 19:34 — September lock-in + don't go back to your ex 27:00 — The man who has never cooked or cleaned 34:30 — “Men will stop overpromising when women stop settling” 36:49 — Discipline, growth and knowing when to leave #OurVoices #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipRedFlags #DatingStandards #WomenAndRelationships #M

    WHEN IS ENOUGH ENOUG? | Knowing When to Leave a Relationship | AWA Voices|EP32
  6. 1d ago

    So My Mum Thinks I’m Too Outside|AWA VOICES|EP31

    What does your perfect weekend look like?  Are you outside every weekend, enjoying brunches, concerts, shopping and summer events or would you rather stay home, relax and protect your peace? 😂 In this episode of AWA Voices, Abi and Yewande get into a hilarious mother-daughter debate about what it really means to be “outside” and whether there’s such a thing as being TOO outside! From London summer and bank holiday weekends to concerts, Carnival, Afrobeats, old-school Bashment, food, family holidays and their very different ideas of having fun, this episode is full of funny stories, honest opinions and plenty of mother-daughter banter. We also hear about a chaotic family holiday, late-night doorbells, Carnival memories, and the generational differences that make this duo so entertaining. 😂 💬 QUESTION FOR YOU: What does your perfect weekend look like? Are you an “outside” person or are you happiest at home? Tell us in the comments! 👍 If you enjoyed the episode, don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE to Our Voices and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome Back to Our Voices 00:46 What Is the Perfect Weekend? 01:24 The Perfect Weekend Debate 02:01 The Family Holiday Story 03:06 The 1AM Doorbell Drama 04:28 Why “Being Outside” Gets a Bad Rep 05:25 The Reality of Being Outside Every Weekend 06:20 Why She LOVES Being Outside 06:34 Bank Holiday Weekend Plans 06:49 The Ultimate Hotel Weekend 07:32 The “Outside” Debate Gets Hilarious 😂 08:25 Why Going Outside Makes You Happy 08:57 “I’m 24!” — Living Life to the Fullest 09:19 Carnival: Would You Still Go? 09:52 Carnival Memories & Nigerian Food 10:13 Afrobeats vs Old-School Bashment 11:02 Planning the Perfect Bank Holiday 11:43 Concerts, Shopping & Having Fun 12:03 The BuzzBall Confusion 😂 12:33 The Family Holiday Story Gets Worrying 14:41 Would Joshua Be Allowed to Go Carnival? 15:02 Carnival Food, Costumes & Memories 15:51 Why Everyone Should Enjoy Themselves 16:16 “Everybody’s Outside!” 16:54 What Is YOUR Perfect Weekend? 17:07 See You Next Episode! #OurVoices #MotherDaughter #PerfectWeekend #LondonSummer #BankHoliday #LondonLife #Carnival #Afrobeats #Bashment #FamilyPodcast #MotherDaughterDuo #UKPodcast #NigerianFamily #AfricanPodcast #GenZ #Millennia

    So My Mum Thinks I’m Too Outside|AWA VOICES|EP31
  7. 5d ago

    He FLEW Her Out for Their FIRST DATE?! | Money, Gender Roles & Being “Flown Out” | AWA Voices| EP29

    In modern dating broken? 👀 In this episode of AWA Voices, we get into the realities of dating in today’s world from unrealistic expectations and social media influence to patience, communication, gender roles and the question of whether people are asking for too much too soon. We also hear the story of a first date abroad that involved flights, a luxury hotel, a five-day itinerary and plenty of planning  but is an amazing dating experience really about how much someone spends, or is it about intentionality, compatibility and mindset? The conversation gets even more interesting as we debate: 🔥 Why modern dating feels so difficult ✈️ What happens when someone flies you out for a first date ❤️ Why patience matters when dating 🧠 Why mindset and compatibility can make or break a date 📱 How social media is changing our expectations of relationships 💰 Are women becoming too materialistic — or are men failing to provide? 👫 Gender roles and expectations when dating 🎁 Should you ask someone you're dating to buy you things? ⏳ How long should you date before deciding where the relationship is going? 🐟 Is “there are plenty of fish in the sea” actually good dating advice? This is an honest, funny and sometimes VERY heated mother-daughter conversation about love, relationships, dating standards and what men and women really expect from each other. What do YOU think? Are people too impatient when dating today? And should a man provide while you're still getting to know each other? 👇 Let us know your thoughts in the comments! Watch, subscribe and join the conversation. Timestamps 00:00 — Welcome Back to Our Voices 01:00 — Dating, Pick-Up Lines & Trusting Men 02:07 — What Makes the Perfect First Date? 02:40 — She Got FLOWN OUT for a First Date ✈️ 05:06 — Why She Wanted Separate Hotel Rooms 07:00 — Planning the Ultimate Five-Day Date 09:10 — Dating in Your 40s & Knowing What You Want 10:38 — Is Intentional Dating Missing Today? 12:47 — What Actually Makes a Great Date? 13:08 — Mindset & Compatibility Are Everything 14:01 — Stop Listening to Social Media Dating Advice 14:48 — Why Nobody Has Patience Anymore 17:21 — “There Are Plenty of Fish in the Sea” 🐟 20:21 — Why Men Are Struggling With Dating Too 22:15 — “Nobody Chases Around Here!” 23:14 — Are People Still Courting Properly? 25:05 — Are Women Too Materialistic? 26:42 — Should Men Provide While Dating? 28:43 — When Does Dating Become Transactional? 31:30 — Should You Ask Someone You're Dating to Buy You Things? 32:19 — When Sexual Attention Changes the Rules 33:10 — The “Flown Out” Date & Having Your Own Money 35:16 — Gender Roles in Modern Dating 36:46 — Is Dating Becoming Too Transactional? 39:48 — How Long Should You Date Before Defining It? 41:53 — Gender Roles Come Back Into the Conversation 45:07 — Why Dating Is So Tough 45:09 — Tell Us YOUR Dating Stories! 46:18 — Outro #OurVoices #Dating #ModernDating #DatingAdvice #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #DatingIn2026 #MenAndWomen #LoveAndRelationships #DatingStandards #SingleLife

    He FLEW Her Out for Their FIRST DATE?! | Money, Gender Roles & Being “Flown Out” | AWA Voices| EP29
  8. 6d ago

    DO YOU REALLY NEED TO HAVE YOUR LIFE FIGURED OUT BY 30? | AWA Voices| EP 28

    Are you supposed to have your whole life figured out by 30? In this episode of AWA Voices, Abimbola and Yewande have a very honest mother-daughter conversation about age, societal pressure, social media, marriage, money, success and the different stages of life. From the pressure to be married with children, own a home and have your career figured out, to comparing yourself with people online who seem to have everything this conversation asks an important question: Are we actually behind in life, or are we just running a race that doesn't exist? Abimbola shares her perspective on living life stage by stage rather than allowing society to dictate what you should have achieved by a certain age. Yewande challenges that view, arguing that while you shouldn't allow society to dictate your exact milestones, there should still be some level of accountability and personal growth as you get older. The conversation also gets into: • Why social media can make you feel like you're falling behind • The pressure to get married and have children • Whether you should have your career and finances figured out by 30 • Why everyone's life timeline is different • The difference between pressure and accountability • Comparing your success to your friends • Millennials vs Gen Z and societal expectations • The meaning of being a “baddie” • Why you shouldn't measure your life against someone else's achievements • Learning from different stages of life • Living life on your own terms And, as always with AWA Voices, expect plenty of laughs, disagreements and honest conversations along the way. The biggest takeaway? Your life is not a race against someone else's clock. You can have goals, ambition and accountability without allowing society to convince you that you've failed because you haven't reached a particular milestone by a particular age. If you're in your 20s, 30s, 40s or beyond and you've ever wondered “Am I where I'm supposed to be?”, this episode is for you. 👇 What do you think? Do you believe there are certain things you SHOULD have achieved by a certain age, or should everyone live according to their own timeline? Let us know in the comments. Subscribe to AWA Voices for more honest conversations about life, relationships, family, culture, money and everything in between. #AWAVoices #LifeAfter30 #SocialMediaPressure #SocietalPressure #LifeAdvice #YourOwnTimeline #MotherDaughter #Adulting #Marriage #Success

    DO YOU REALLY NEED TO HAVE YOUR LIFE FIGURED OUT BY 30? | AWA Voices| EP 28

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Mother Daughter podcast AWA Voices — a show where we explore the beautiful, messy, and ever-evolving relationship between mothers and daughters. From generational wounds to unconditional love, we dive into the stories that shape us.