Emotions for Humans

Jon Hunter
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Actors train emotions on purpose. Everyone else gets them by accident. Acting coach Jon Hunter spends his days teaching professional actors how emotion actually works - in the body, on demand, under pressure. Emotions for Humans takes that training out of the studio and hands it over. Each episode is an honest conversation about the emotional work nobody teaches you. The anger you swallow at work. The tears that ambush you at weddings. The confidence that shows up ten minutes after you needed it. No therapy-speak. No "good vibes only". No pretending there's a right way to feel. Science-informed, studio-tested, human-first. Whether your room is a studio, a meeting, or a kitchen table at midnight: you have emotions, you're a human, and this show is for you. Now. Go be a human.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    10 Minutes Too Late

    The perfect thing to say arrives in the car park, 10 minutes after the meeting ends. Confidence that clocks in late. It’s a specific kind of misery – and it happens most to the people who care most. This episode is about why – and the answer isn’t that you’re slow. It’s about what your body and brain actually do with time and pressure: Your state has a switch. Ramping up is just how everyone starts. A century of arousal research (Yerkes and Dodson) shows performance lives on a curve – and untrained nervous systems get there slowly. Actors train the ramping up shorter and shorter until it behaves like a switch: physical processes that produce specific emotional energy, on demand, in seconds.Pressure makes thinking expensive. Beilock’s choking research shows pressure steals attention and turns it inward – which is why the perfect thing to say arrives in the car park, not the meeting. It was never missing. It was queued.Confidence is evidence, not a feeling you wait for. Bandura’s work on self-efficacy shows confidence is built from mastery experiences – the memory of having done the thing. Which means waiting to feel confident is doing it backwards.Routines make ramping up automatic. Pre-performance routines are one of the most-studied tools in sport psychology – a fixed sequence that settles arousal, aims attention, and buys you the first 30 seconds. The breath, the anchor, the word, the first move: these are entry-level physical processes that let the body lead, so the feeling follows.Breath is the fastest lever you have on the whole system. One slow exhale at a time. Actors train the ramping up. Everyone else improvises it – so whether your room is a boardroom, a first date, or a difficult phone call you’ve been putting off for a week, the 90 seconds before the door belong to you too. Your tool for this episode is just below – the Pre-Room Routine. Four moves, 90 seconds, every room, no exceptions. There’s no 10 minutes before the room – 90 seconds is all the before there is. Episode 1’s reflection tool, also below, is the 10 minutes after. THIS EPISODE'S TOOL The Pre-Room Routine – 90 seconds before you open the door 1. Breathe (~40 seconds). A double inhale through the nose, then a long, slow exhale through the mouth. Two or three rounds. 2. Anchor (~10 seconds). One physical action that isn't thinking – feeling your feet on the floor, rolling the shoulders, tapping thumb to finger. 3. Word (~10 seconds). One word to walk in with. Not a speech to yourself. A single word – something like steady, open, serve. Or your own. 4. Move (~30 seconds). Take your word with you, and decide your first move – something like a steady stride, an easy smile, or the way you say your first line. Then run it the same way every time. 90 seconds, every room, no exceptions – the routine only becomes automatic when it stops being a decision. Online version: https://emotionsforhumans.com/practice/pre-room-routine/ Printable version: https://link.hunterstud.io/preroom Episode 1 Keep It Tool: https://emotionsforhumans.com/practice/keep-it-tool/ Now. Go be a human. REFERENCES The arousal-performance curve – Yerkes, R. M., & Dodson, J. D. (1908). The relation of strength of stimulus to rapidity of habit-formation. Journal of Comparative Neurology and Psychology, 18(5), 459-482. doi.org/10.1002/cne.920180503Choking under pressure – Beilock, S. L., & Carr, T. H. (2001). On the fragility of skilled performance: What governs choking under pressure? Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 130(4), 701-725. doi.org/10.1037/0096-3445.130.4.701Self-efficacy – Bandura, A. (1997). Self-Efficacy: The Exercise of Control. W. H. Freeman. (book – no link)Pre-performance routines – Cotterill, S. (2010). Pre-performance routines in sport: Current understanding and future directions. International Review of Sport and Exercise Psychology, 3(2), 132-153. doi.org/10.1080/1750984X.2010.488269Meta-analytic support – Rupprecht, A., Tran, U., & Gröpel, P. (2024). The effectiveness of pre-performance routines in sports: a meta-analysis. International Review of Sport and Exercise Psychology, 17(1), 39-64 (first published online 2021). doi.org/10.1080/1750984X.2021.1944271Routines and emotional regulation – Orbach, I., & Blumenstein, B. (2022). Preparatory routines for emotional regulation in performance enhancement. Frontiers in Psychology, 13, Article 948512. doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.948512The physiological sigh – Balban, M. Y., Neri, E., et al. (2023). Brief structured respiration practices enhance mood and reduce physiological arousal. Cell Reports Medicine, 4(1), 100895. doi.org/10.1016/j.xcrm.2022.100895If-then plans – Gollwitzer, P. M. (1999). Implementation intentions: Strong effects of simple plans. American Psychologist, 54(7), 493-503. doi.org/10.1037/0003-066X.54.7.493

  2. Sep 28

    You Lived It. Now Keep It.

    Here’s a sentence to sit with: the class is not the learning. You can have the experience that cracks something open, the note that finally makes sense, the moment where you surprise yourself – and if you walk out of the room and never think about it again, most of that learning is gone. Not weakened. Gone. This episode is about why – and it’s not a lecture about homework. It’s about what your body and brain actually do with an experience: Experience alone doesn’t teach. Kolb’s learning cycle shows reflection is the bridge between something that happened to you and something you can use.Experts are built on feedback loops, not hours. Ericsson’s research on deliberate practice shows the self-evaluation step is where the gains are consolidated.Seeing your own work clearly is trainable. John Hattie’s synthesis of more than 800 meta-analyses found that accurately judging your own performance is among the most powerful influences on achievement.Your brain keeps working after practice ends. Motor learning research calls it offline learning – the hours after class are when skill gets filed away.Naming feelings regulates them. Lieberman’s affect labelling studies and Pennebaker’s expressive writing research show that putting emotion into words changes what it does in your body. Actors do on purpose what everyone else does by accident – so whether your room is a studio, a meeting, or a kitchen table at midnight, the ten minutes after the experience belong to you too. Actors do on purpose what everyone else does by accident. So whether your room is a studio, a meeting, or a kitchen table at midnight, the 10 minutes after the experience belong to you. Your tool for this episode is just below – the Keep It Tool. Three questions, originally built for actors, useful for anyone. One of them works on the episode itself: think back – what surprised you? THIS EPISODE'S TOOL The Keep It Tool Three questions. One takeaway. Then close the book. 1. Name what you felt (about 1 minute) One word is enough. Not the story – just the word. Naming a feeling is how you change what it’s doing in your body. One word for what I felt is… 2. What surprised you? (about 2 minutes) Surprise is the freshest data you will ever have. Within a day or two, memory flattens everything into “brilliant” or “terrible”. Capture the nuance while it still has resolution. What surprised me was… 3. Same / Different (about 5 minutes) What would you keep? What would you change next time? This is the expert’s question. One honest evaluation, in your own words. What I’m keeping is… / What I’d change next time is… Also: if you were given feedback or direction – at an audition, in rehearsal, on set, after a performance – write it down verbatim. It’s the note you’d otherwise pay a coach to give you again. One takeaway (about 2 minutes) Then close the book. You’re done – the 10 minutes after the experience belong to you. Next time, I will… Online version: https://emotionsforhumans.com/practice/keep-it-tool/ Printable version: https://link.hunterstud.io/keepit Now. Go be a human. REFERENCES Experiential learning and the learning cycle – Kolb, D. A. (1984). Experiential Learning: Experience as the Source of Learning and Development. Prentice-Hall. Worked example in medical education: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9112303/Deliberate practice and feedback loops – Ericsson, K. A., Krampe, R. T., & Tesch-Römer, C. (1993). The Role of Deliberate Practice in the Acquisition of Expert Performance. Psychological Review, 100(3). https://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/blogs/freakonomics/pdf/DeliberatePractice%28PsychologicalReview%29.pdfMotor memory consolidation and offline learning – Bönstrup, M., et al. (2019). A Rapid Form of Offline Consolidation in Skill Learning. Current Biology, 29(8). https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cub.2019.02.049Self-regulated learning – Zimmerman, B. J. (2000). Attaining self-regulation: A social cognitive perspective. See also Panadero (2017), A Review of Self-regulated Learning: Six Models and Four Directions for Research, Frontiers in Psychology (reviews Zimmerman’s model): https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5408091/Self-assessment and achievement – Hattie, J. (2009). Visible Learning. Effect size rankings: https://visible-learning.org/hattie-ranking-influences-effect-sizes-learning-achievement/Affect labelling: putting feelings into words – Lieberman, M. D., et al. (2007). Putting Feelings Into Words. Psychological Science, 18(5). https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17576282/ and https://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/Putting-Feelings-Into-Words-Produces-8047Expressive writing – Pennebaker, J. W. (1997). Writing about emotional experiences as a therapeutic process. Psychological Science, 8(3). https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3830620/

  3. Sep 21

    Welcome to Emotions for Humans

    Quick question: when was the last time you felt something and had no idea what to do with it? This short episode is the front door to the show. In a couple of minutes, I’ll tell you what Emotions for Humans is, who it’s for, and the one idea everything here is built on: emotion isn’t something that happens to you. It’s something you can train. I’m Jon Hunter, and I’m an acting coach – which really just means I teach people how emotion actually works. Not in theory. In the body. On demand. For years I’ve taught this to actors, and here’s the secret: actors aren’t special. They’re just the people who signed up to practise. This show is for everyone else with a nervous system – the anger you swallow at work, the tears that ambush you at weddings, the confidence that shows up ten minutes after you needed it. No therapy-speak. No “good vibes only”. No pretending there’s a right way to feel. Now. Go be a human.

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Actors train emotions on purpose. Everyone else gets them by accident. Acting coach Jon Hunter spends his days teaching professional actors how emotion actually works - in the body, on demand, under pressure. Emotions for Humans takes that training out of the studio and hands it over. Each episode is an honest conversation about the emotional work nobody teaches you. The anger you swallow at work. The tears that ambush you at weddings. The confidence that shows up ten minutes after you needed it. No therapy-speak. No "good vibes only". No pretending there's a right way to feel. Science-informed, studio-tested, human-first. Whether your room is a studio, a meeting, or a kitchen table at midnight: you have emotions, you're a human, and this show is for you. Now. Go be a human.

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  • Creator
    Jon Hunter
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    3
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    © 2026 Jon Hunter
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