In this video, you will learn how to make a man worry about losing you. So, if you’re in a relationship and feeling taken for granted, or unappreciated, and you want to remind him of your value and importance in his life, then this is the video for you. Don’t go anywhere because we are starting right now. If you want a man to be deeply in love with you, he must be a little bit fearful of losing you. I explain why fear is so critical to love in this completely new and revised video and I’ll give you 4 powerful steps you can use to ensure he loves, values, and appreciates you more than ever.. You see, “If a man never worries that you would leave him or that he could lose you, he will never love, value, and appreciate you the way he should”. But let me show you why this is true. Think back to a time when you were really excited about dating a new man.. someone you liked very much and really wanted a relationship with. Maybe it’s someone that you are involved with now, or maybe it is someone from your past, but I want you to think about that person and recall the butterflies of anticipation you felt when you knew you would see him. Remember how magical it was to flirt with him and the euphoric feelings you experienced as you found yourself more and more attracted to him. And, remember the moment when you learned that he also liked you back. There’s a word for that feeling.. Now, When you’re were in that situation, everything you did while trying to get closer to him was primarily motivated by two equally powerful but different drives.The first was the attraction and excitement you felt. IT was your desire to be near him and spend time with him. You loved the way you felt when you are with him and you wanted more and more of that feeling. So, your desire for him motivated your interactions and behavior. But what happens when you aren’t so sure of how he feels? Well, that uncertainty becomes incredibly powerful… sometimes even more powerful than your desire for him. Uncertainty is why playing hard to get works so well. It’s fear based motivation. the same holds true for men when they really want a woman. He wants you to like him so he’s going be thoughtful and sweet, he’s going try to make you laugh and try to impress you, and woo you, and win your affection. Again.. Just like you, ½ of his motivation comes from his desire to have you and the other half of his motivation comes from his desire for you to want him as well. Now, what happens when a man has no fear of a woman ever leaving him? What happens when he knows you’re head over heals and obsessed with him? What happens when he knows you that you need him and are terrified of losing him? Well, then ½ of his motivation, ½ of his drive, and ½ of his attraction is gone and he no longer has to try so hard.. he no longer has to work on securing your love and attention, If he has no fear of ever losing you he can take you for granted, he can under appreciate you, and give you minimal effort. And that’s when you start to feel like he really doesn’t care about you like he did before. If you’re feeling any of those things, then chances are high that your man is not worried that he you could leave him. He’s completely secure and overconfident.. And usually that is a result of you over investing and giving too much. But when you complete the 4 powerful steps I’m about to show you, he will become a worried about losing you and that will reignite his love and desire for you and completely awaken your relationship. I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
