ajitesh gogoi

ajitesh gogoi
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Contemplating human nature... You can reach me on: Instagram DMs: https://www.instagram.com/ajiteshgogoi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ajiteshgogoi Substack: https://substack.com/@gogoi Email: ajiteshgogoi@gmail.com

Episodes

  1. Oct 18

    0006 - Dating apps are turning you into a cheap disposable product

    Listening to my friend's dating experience made me think of how replaceable we've made each other. Increasingly, we are starting to see other humans and also ourselves, as easily disposable products, existing only to serve a utility. Chapters: 1:47 - The illusion of endless options 3:08 - Hyper-curated profiles 4:21 - Becoming products in a supermarket 5:48 - Flattening complex humans into specifications 7:01 - Commodification 8:53 - Conditioning by apps to objectify others and the self 10:39 - Why modern dating experiences feel empty 11:35 - A parallel experience outside of dating 15:20 - This is a systemic design You can reach me on: Instagram DMs: https://www.instagram.com/ajiteshgogoi/ Email: ajiteshgogoi@gmail.com

  2. Oct 1

    0005 - Are you really an empath...or do you have a schadenfreude kink?

    Schadenfreude is the experience of pleasure, joy or satisfaction that comes from learning of the troubles, failures, pain or misfortune of another person. This is a commentary on schadenfreude masked as empathy, and at other times as gratitude. Chapters: 00:00 – My experience seeking support during a dark phase 00:56 – Two types of friends 01:56 – "I'm so grateful it's not me" 03:00 – Why true empathy is so difficult 04:05 – Performative empathy and gratitude-porn on social media 05:55 – Schadenfreude 07:00 – Unsolicited comparisons 08:08 – A coping mechanism 09:20 – The schadenfreude scale You can reach me on: Instagram DMs: https://www.instagram.com/ajiteshgogoi/ Email: ajiteshgogoi@gmail.com

  3. Sep 29

    0004 - Don't drink and spill your guts...(a case for sober vulnerability)

    Drinking and driving is reckless. But drinking and spilling is recklesssser. Why do you need a drink in hand to be your raw authentic self? Why do you feel shame around your broken parts? Why don't you just let it all spill? Chapters: 00:00 – What's the deal with alcohol? 01:20 – Alcohol and vulnerability 01:58 – Male friendships 03:42 – Problem with compartmentalising 05:24 – The psychological human need to spill 06:07 – Sober vulnerability 08:02 – This weekend spill your guts 08:46 – Integration 09:28 – Wrap up You can reach me on: Instagram DMs: https://www.instagram.com/ajiteshgogoi/ Email: ajiteshgogoi@gmail.com

  4. Sep 28

    0003 - Two ingredients for intellectual intimacy

    It's a special kind of loneliness to not have people in your life to experience intellectual intimacy with. Chapters: 00:00 - What is intellectual intimacy? 01:22 - The intelligence and ego trap 02:34 - The pitfalls of a hyper-logical mindset 03:21 - Ingredient 1: Humility 03:41 - Ingredient 2: Curiosity 04:24 - Final thoughts You can reach me on: Instagram DMs: https://www.instagram.com/ajiteshgogoi/ Email: ajiteshgogoi@gmail.com

  5. Sep 22

    0002 - If you like spicy peanuts, you'd love your robo-girlfriend.

    A commentary on the commodification of human connection and the loneliness epidemic. Chapters: 00:00 - Late-night cravings and a lack of control 01:41 - Individual willpower vs. systemic environment 05:06 - Parasocial connections and AI companions in Japan 07:28 - Commodification of human connection in men and women 09:50 - Social obesity 13:24 - Dating apps to robo-companions 14:43 - Protecting your social muscle and final thoughts You can reach me on: Instagram DMs: https://www.instagram.com/ajiteshgogoi/ Email: ajiteshgogoi@gmail.com

  6. Sep 20

    0001 - I want a mother...(yearning for maternal love)

    I want a mother. But not my mother. Not a mother that has existed. Or ever will. An ideal maternal archetype. A true impossibility. Maybe you yearn for the same. Or not. I hope this video helps. Chapters: 00:00 - A late night search on Reddit 03:09 - Finding inspiration in my grandmother's writings 05:04 - Losing my mother and navigating grief 07:12 - Growing up with a tiger mom 10:09 - Learning self-sufficiency and emotional defences 13:03 - Complex childhood memories and lingering wounds 17:40 - Building impenetrable walls as an adult 19:56 - Craving for the maternal archetype 22:10 - Struggles of being understood 26:47 - Closing thoughts You can reach me on: Instagram DMs: https://www.instagram.com/ajiteshgogoi/ Email: ajiteshgogoi@gmail.com

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Contemplating human nature... You can reach me on: Instagram DMs: https://www.instagram.com/ajiteshgogoi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ajiteshgogoi Substack: https://substack.com/@gogoi Email: ajiteshgogoi@gmail.com

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  • Creator
    ajitesh gogoi
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    6
  • Rating
    Clean
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