Liz Yaps

Liz

What happens when you enter a faith, experience its internal dynamics firsthand, and find the clarity and courage to deconstruct and walk away? Well, you go through absolute hell, but you reclaim your voice and come out even stronger. Hosted by an ex-revert Liz who started by yapping on Tik Tok, LIZ YAPS brings a sharp, insider-turned-outsider perspective to Islamic deconstruction, religious control, and female autonomy. This space provides an unfiltered, analytical look at theological misogyny, scriptural mechanics, and the journey toward radical feminine sovereignty. Whether you are navigating your own deconstruction, questioning dogma, or simply done taking permission from religious gatekeepers—this is your sanctuary for raw clarity, unapologetic truth, and complete self-ownership.

Episodes

  1. 1d ago

    Is Divorce in Islam the Divine Right We Think it is?

    *Requested episode* Note: This video features a lot of lag I didn't notice until editing. Please disregard! Support my efforts by buying me a coffee, please! buymeacoffee.com/lizyapping In this episode, I’m tackling one of the biggest talking points thrown around in dawah spaces: the claim that "Islam gave women the right to divorce 1,400 years ago." But is conditional permission really a "right" when a man can end a marriage with three words, while a woman has to buy her freedom or prove extreme suffering to a male judge? I’m breaking down the actual legal mechanics and societal stigmas surrounding divorce—from unilateral talaq and the financial ransom of khul' to court-ordered faskh and post-divorce custody traps. We’re cutting through the apologetic spin to look at the massive power imbalance built into these contracts, why you shouldn't need a catastrophic reason to leave a relationship, and why true autonomy is an inherent human right—not a privilege granted by an institution. Takeaways Divorce is stigmatized in Muslim communitiesMen hold more power in divorce proceedings Divorce processes differ significantly between the gendersWomen's rights in divorce are limited Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Feminism in Islam02:43 Divorce in Islamic Context06:26 Stigmatization of Divorce11:51 Secular vs. Religious Divorce13:35 Men's Control Over Divorce22:21 Patriarchal Collusion in Counseling29:18 Hadith and Women's Rights35:31 The Replaceability of Women in Marriage39:15 Divorce in Islam: A Closer Look46:47 The Process of Divorce: Men vs. Women01:03:24 Understanding Khula and Tafwid al Talaq

  2. 1d ago

    Smear Campaigns, Inayah Beldeen, Fatima Begum, Veterans, and a Brief Journey Through Islam

    Wow this was a huge yap session! Today I discuss smear campaigns, the lies spread by Inayah Beldeen's slander, Fatima Begum/Besobeti. We also talk about my brief journey through islam, reclaiming my blackness, and take a peek into the Quran to remind everyone of how to properly find and disseminate information about others. This one is a wild one so buckle up! Some Key Highlights 00:00 Introduction to Cultural Exposures02:19 The Smear Campaign Incident04:31 Understanding Hadith Rejection08:15 The Role of Women in Religious Discourse12:01 Emotional Responses and Racial Dynamics18:08 Discourse vs. Echo Chambers24:00 The Impact of Social Media on Influence25:31 Debating the Hijab's Significance27:12 Community Projection and Emotional Responses28:53 Navigating Identity and Acceptance30:42 Performative Islam vs. Genuine Belief32:32 Critique of Hadith and Scholarly Discourse35:26 Personal Journey and Spiritual Disillusionment39:49 The Role of Discourse in Islam40:11 The Impact of Social Media on Perception42:45 Addressing Personal Attacks and Integrity46:40 Cultural Expectations and Ageism49:57 Body Image and Self-Acceptance53:23 Functional Fitness and Health Goals55:21 Unmasking Online Personas59:05 The Dangers of Doxxing and Stalking01:02:01 The Impact of Honor-Based Violence01:05:41 The Role of Healthcare Professionals in Community Safety01:12:58 Community Responsibility and Women's Safety01:15:10 The Illusion of Feminism in Religious Contexts01:22:02 Empowering Women Against Misogyny01:31:14 Slut Shaming and Its Consequences01:32:14 The Role of Theatrics in Islam01:34:18 The Quran's Warnings Against Misleading Others01:36:30 Gratitude and Its Importance01:39:30 The Dangers of Comparison and Envy01:42:40 Reclaiming Identity and Culture01:48:43 The Journey of Leaving Islam01:51:44 The Impact of Reputation and Slander01:56:25 Taking Action Against Online Harassment

About

What happens when you enter a faith, experience its internal dynamics firsthand, and find the clarity and courage to deconstruct and walk away? Well, you go through absolute hell, but you reclaim your voice and come out even stronger. Hosted by an ex-revert Liz who started by yapping on Tik Tok, LIZ YAPS brings a sharp, insider-turned-outsider perspective to Islamic deconstruction, religious control, and female autonomy. This space provides an unfiltered, analytical look at theological misogyny, scriptural mechanics, and the journey toward radical feminine sovereignty. Whether you are navigating your own deconstruction, questioning dogma, or simply done taking permission from religious gatekeepers—this is your sanctuary for raw clarity, unapologetic truth, and complete self-ownership.