The Christian Working Woman

Mary Lowman

The Christian Working Woman with Mary Lowman exists to encourage, equip and empower workplace Christians in the marketplace.

  1. 59m ago

    Your Legacy – 5

    What kind of legacy are you leaving for the people closest to you? There’s another thing we need to be generous to give others—prayer. That takes time and so it’s being generous with your time. How often does someone ask you to pray for them? It’s pretty common in our Christian circles, isn’t it? We nod and assure them we’ll be praying, and then it’s lost in our crowded minds. We forget. I try not to promise to pray for someone unless I genuinely intend to pray for them, and that means I better write it down somewhere because my short-term memory is fading. Or if appropriate, sometimes I just take time right there and pray with them about their situation. Sitting still for long periods of time to pray just doesn’t come easily for me, maybe you, too. I’ve gotten better at praying with my eyes wide open, and as God brings people and situations to my mind, I just send up prayers all through the day. I rather think that’s what the Apostle Paul meant when he said we are to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17). It’s just a matter of being in a prayer-ready state all day long, so when you talk with someone about their problem, when you hear some bad news about people you know, when you read the headlines of people who are suffering all around the world, generously and immediately pray for them. You can stop what you’re doing and verbally pray; you can multi-task and pray while you’re sitting in a meeting, driving your car, washing dishes, whatever. Learning to pray with eyes wide open so you can pray without ceasing is one of the most generous gifts you can give someone. So, generously offer to pray for people and then be sure you do. Leaving a legacy of generosity will make a difference for those who come behind you. Generous with your money, your time, your encouragement, and your prayers. My mother’s eight grandchildren remember to this day, 20 years after her death, how Mamaw always prayed for each of them on a certain day every week, as she left them a legacy of a praying grandmother who was very generous with her prayers. What legacy do you want to leave for the people in your life?

  2. 1d ago

    Your Legacy – 4

    How do we create a legacy that will make a difference? In today’s terminology, we might talk about your life’s gootprint—what kind of impact are you making in your world? All of us leave a legacy, whether we think about it or not. We create it by the way we live, the priorities of our lives, how we treat people, and how we love Jesus. One way you can improve your life’s legacy is by being the best encourager you can possibly be. Go into each day with the intent of finding someone to encourage. To encourage someone is to help them be courageous; to help them confidently face whatever they’re dealing with, to assure them that God is going to see them through. If you are very generous with your encouragement, you probably have no idea how many lives you touch with simple words of encouragement. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 and 14 remind us of this: Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing (11). And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all (14). Recently I was talking with a friend who is in a new tough job of selling her services to large clients, and she was feeling very inadequate and a little frightened. But I just reminded her of all the experience and expertise she has accumulated through her very impressive career, and I gave her some courage to believe she can do this job. I reminded her how richly God has blessed her with unique abilities and expertise. At the end of our conversation, she was joyful and hopeful, and I realized again how often people just need some courage. They need someone to give them encouragement. It was a joy. Who do you know needs encouragement? Could you set up a time to talk with them and generously give them some courage? And then any time in your day as you deal with people, including your children, mate, or coworkers, look for opportunities to give them some courage—to generously give them your encouragement.

  3. 2d ago

    Your Legacy – 3

    What will people say about you when you’re gone? What footprint will you leave behind? What impact are you having on your world? I mentioned leaving a legacy of generosity with your money. That’s super important because we all like our money, don’t we? And parting with it isn’t so easy. But that’s why giving it away to those who need it gives you that special blessing Jesus talked about. That you receive a bigger blessing by giving money away than you do by receiving it. And for sure, there is more than money we should give away. What about your time? Are you stingy with your time? Honestly, I must watch it because I seem to be very clock-oriented. I’ve often said that I can give away money quicker and easier than I give away time. But forming relationships, mentoring and discipling others takes time. You can’t be stingy about your time if you want to be effective. What I’m discovering is that when I agree to give time to someone else, when I know they need a listening ear and a loving heart, I end up being far more blessed than they are. You are more blessed when you give time to someone than the person you’re giving the time to. And for those of us who have lived more years than most of our friends—and I’m certainly in that category whether you realize it or not—you have wisdom and expertise to offer others who are younger. So, giving away some of your time to share your wisdom is such a blessing, and we need so many more people who intentionally do this—who are intentionally very generous with their time. It’s a wonderful gift you can give; you’ll be blessed when you do.

  4. 3d ago

    Your Legacy – 2

    Often you hear politicians and others talk about their legacy. They want to have a place in the history books. But the legacy we should be concerned about as Christ-followers is not trying to make a name for ourselves. Rather, we should want to live a life that will inspire, encourage, and motivate others to live godly lives. We should genuinely long to hear Jesus say to us, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” In Acts 20:35 Paul reminded the Christians in Macedonia of what Jesus said about the importance of being generous. Paul wrote to them: In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Do you really believe what Jesus said—that you will be more blessed by giving than you will be by getting stuff you want? I hope you have experienced this blessing Jesus talks about—the blessing of giving some of your money to others in need. Test and see if it’s not true, that when you give some of your money to someone who needs it, to your church or other people in ministries that have blessed you, you’ll have a real honest “joy jolt,” a burst of happiness when you give. I think you’ll find it is exhilarating. It’s just pure fun. 2 Corinthians 9:7: Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And the Greek word for cheerful is the word from which we get “hilarious.” God loves a hilarious giver! Know anybody who legitimately needs some money right now? Wanna have some fun? Give them some money. You may not have lots to give, and it may even be sacrificial—like you decide not to buy those shoes you were looking at. But if you are a cheerful giver, you will receive back more than you give. Your “joy jolt” will be amazing.

  5. 4d ago

    Your Legacy

    How do you want to be remembered? Another way to ask that question is: What epitaph would you want on your tombstone? That may sound like a depressing topic but actually thinking about how you want to be remembered could make a huge difference in the way you live. A friend of mine said recently that she wanted the epitaph that Jesus said about the woman who anointed him for his burial in Mark 14:1-11. In this scene, some were complaining that she had wasted expensive ointment, and Jesus said she had done a beautiful thing. He said, She did what she could, and that’s what my friend wants on her tombstone. Most of us shy away from talking about our death; it feels morbid. But one thing is for sure—unless Jesus comes again soon to rapture his church—all of us will face death and all of us will leave behind a legacy. It should not be morbid to think about how you want to be remembered. It’s smart, and it could be life changing. So, that’s why I’m talking about your legacy. I love my friend’s idea of the legacy she wants to leave behind: She did what she could. That speaks to me of a life lived with the purpose, of using all her gifts, walking through all the doors God opens for her, but refusing to compare herself to others and accepting the way God made her and gifted her is good. It reminds me of this verse from Ecclesiastes 9:10: Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the realm of the dead, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom. Wise Solomon put it to us straight, didn’t he? He says after you die, there will be no opportunity for you to do what God put you here to do, so it’s important that you do what is in front of you well. What is in front of you? Maybe you have a job you’re not real crazy about. I understand; I’ve been there. But as a Christ-follower the quality of your work is one way you reflect Jesus—like working with all your might at that job you don’t like so much. I challenge you to think about your legacy—how you want to be remembered. Even what’s on your tombstone.

  6. 6d ago

    Overcoming the Fear of Sharing Your Faith

    Presented by Lauren Stibgen Are you anxious about sharing your faith in Jesus at work? Or are you generally anxious about sharing your faith in Jesus? In general, this anxiety often comes from a place of fear. Fear of rejection, fear of offending someone, fear of being seen as overly religious. Other than fear, perhaps you just don’t quite know what to say when the opportunity comes, or you may have been taught that the only way for someone to hear more about Jesus is to invite them to church. After all, pastors are the only ones qualified to tell them the gospel, right?    As Christians at work, we have a perception problem, and I don’t mean people’s perception of us! We have a perception about sharing our faith that is adversely impacting the Kingdom. One study showed that 42% of Christians were afraid about sharing their faith, stating that they had not shared it with someone in the past 6 months.1 But interestingly 56% of Americans report that they are interested in hearing more about the Bible and Jesus!2 So, with almost half of believing Christians not open to sharing faith with the 56% of Americans open to hearing, the Word of the Lord proves true:    The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few (Matthew 9:37).   What is even more concerning is that a recent Barna study cites that 56% of Christian adults keep their spiritual life entirely private.3 They don’t share at all! We are not meant to do faith in isolation.    The overall terrain we are in for sharing our faith is difficult. Consider Jesus’ words:  If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember what I told you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also (John 15:18-20).  Jesus promised us many good things, but he also cautioned of the sacrifice we would face as his followers and more importantly in our work as his ambassadors. The word ambassador comes from the Latin root of ambactus, meaning servant. The servant or ambassador in these verses from John is not greater than his master.   As we consider how we represent Jesus as ambassadors in the workplace we really need to consider what Jesus says about the reality of this role but not let this overwhelm us with anxiety!    Knowing about this persecution and understanding our adversary can help us prepare for the reality of the role we have in sharing our faith. Let’s think about why we are persecuted in this world—at work or even in general. We are in a foreign country, ruled by the prince of the power of the air, not in the heavenly realms. More specifically, we can count on the devil to try to thwart our good efforts to serve our kingdom!     1 Peter 5:8 states, Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.   We must be watchful and aware that this can happen at any time, and when we are discouraged in our serving, we need to consider this verse.  Considering this worldly terrain, I can understand fear from a biblical perspective, but the fear and anxiety we have about sharing our faith at work is rarely about our real adversary. Our fear is based in worrying about being rejected when we try to share about Jesus. The statistics I shared with you should be your first level of encouragement to share your faith! You have a 50/50 chance of the person being willing to hear what you have to say!    Fear and doubt. We have all faced this, especially when we are sharing our faith with someone at work. The enemy wants to sow seeds of self-doubt to thwart our efforts!    You have been there. People notice you are different. Maybe you are positive when it seems like you shouldn’t be. Perhaps it is how you lead and provide feedback to your team. Are you more uplifting than anyone in your office? Always looking to be a mighty encourager and coach? Are you offering help? Maybe you have even bought a coffee for someone who seemed like they were having a bad day.     As ambassadors, we show our faith by saying no to certain things that others engage in at work. Whether it is gossip or not attending a happy hour that seems to happen often, you may feel like you don’t fit in with your colleagues. Rest assured that your absence from both gossip and even a wild happy hour honors the Lord, and you are being his servant at work by not engaging.     Are you showing up and reporting something that needs to be brought to light? Maybe it is a simple compliance issue, or it could be something more egregious like theft. This is being Christ’s ambassador.    All these actions are sharing your faith at work. They are ways to be an ambassador without even telling people about your faith.    But what if someone calls you out for sitting out? How will you answer? It is easy to walk away from gossip and to reply no to an outing, but what if someone asks why? What happens if someone gets upset when you report the wrongdoing?  Or what about when someone inserts a small comment, “You are so different than everyone else here! Why are you so positive all the time?” They simply want to know about your joy!     1 Peter 3:13-17 outlines the expectation of our reply:   Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. “Do not fear their threats; do not be frightened.” But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander. For it is better, if it is God’s will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil.   First, there is no harm in doing the good and being passionate about it! But, again the reminder is we may suffer for it. And then more encouragement—have no fear and always be ready to share your faith! Better good with God than bad with the world that we truly don’t belong to.   But what if your greatest fear comes true, and your sharing is met with offense?    Jesus was not alone in his ministry. We know he called the twelve disciples. We also learn that he sent them out two by two and gave them authority to cast out unclean spirits. But he also had some very practical advice about their service—accept nothing in exchange for their services and this:   And if any place will not welcome you or listen to you, leave that place and shake the dust off your feet as a testimony against them (Mark 6:11).  Shaking dust from one’s feet had much more cultural significance back in Jesus time. It was a reference to cleansing oneself from being among Gentiles. So, Jesus was suggesting that the people who did not listen had no place with God.    This is different from the gentleness and respect we learned from 1 Peter. Jesus basically instructs, if they don’t like your serving, move on!     I think sometimes this is what Jesus would advise us today—not to give up, but that sometimes we need to walk away to discover the next best opportunity to share our faith.    Remember, the disciples were boldly proclaiming the kingdom of Jesus and healing people. It was very radical! Perhaps some of the serving you do for work is radical. Maybe your primary vocation is as a missionary. Taking Jesus’ advice in this instance may be the safest and best way to continue your mission. However, I would gather that most of us are serving our roles as ambassadors in traditional work environments, and you cannot easily just move on and shake the proverbial dust from your feet.    If sharing your faith with a colleague doesn’t go over well, take care to respect their boundaries. You never know when an opportunity will come up again in the future.    What about being anxious about what to say about your faith?    Jesus has equipped us for every good work of service we will do as his ambassadors! In John 14:26 Jesus tells his disciples: But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.  We have the Holy Spirit as our guide to help us through these very scenarios of anxiety when we don’t know what to say.    Maybe people know you go to church and pray for things. Maybe you have even prayed for someone at work. Awesome! Remember, some people will never know about Jesus if they don’t hear about him at work! Let’s think about this in action.  You prayed before work to talk to a colleague about coming to church with you. They know about your faith, and you have prayed with them. You arrive at the office and suddenly you worry: what do I say? What if they won’t talk with you anymore? In that moment of anxiety and doubt, turn to the words of Jesus in Matthew 10:19-20:    …do not worry about what to say or how to say it. At that time you will be given what to say, for it will not be you speaking, but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.   Stop and pray: Holy Spirit, guide my words!     One of the pieces of advice I continually tell my children is that the answer will always be no unless you ask the question! Be bold for Jesus knowing that he sent you a helper, the Holy Spirit.    Perhaps you are anxious because you don’t feel qualified and this makes you hesitate to share your faith! 1 Peter 2:9 tells us that we are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession. 1 Corinthians 3:8 states that we are God’s fellow workers. And Mat

  7. Oct 30

    Are You Creating Peace? – 5

    Presented by Lauren Stibgen How confident are you in Jesus? More specifically, in your most anxious times, how much are you trusting in him as your greatest peace. Let’s return to John 14, Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. There are so many reasons we can come up with to say this is easier said than done. One of my favorite prayers in this moment echoes the desperate father in Mark 9:24: Lord, I believe, help my unbelief. In my most anxious moments when I don’t know what to do, this is the short prayer I utter— often out loud. Sometimes on a walk. And, yes, on repeat. I desperately want the confidence that my fellow followers of Jesus had when he was performing miracles in their presence. When I am sick, I think about the bleeding woman in Mark 5:25-34 and Luke 8:43-48. She bled for 12 years. She sought every treatment possible and exhausted her resources. She was socially isolated due to her condition. Was she anxious when she set out to see Jesus? Maybe. But she had so much confidence in his ability to heal her, that she went anyway. When a loved one is sick, I think about the father wanting Jesus to heal his demon possessed son. I think of Mary and Martha who called for Jesus when their brother Lazarus was sick only to have him die. Martha ran to meet Jesus and, in her grief, she said: Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died (John 11:32b). In John 11:40, Jesus tells Martha: Did I not tell you that if you believe, you will see the glory of God? Jesus wanted her to have full confidence in him even when she was anxious about unsealing Lazarus’ tomb. I want the confidence of the people who were in that crowd of 5,000. They trusted Jesus for teaching and probably never expected that they would be fed. But he provided for their every need. When I am lacking, I want to trust in Jesus that he will provide for me, even when I am anxious about my physical needs. I want the confidence of the disciples. Wow! Think about them seeing Jesus perform so many miracles and then Jesus basically says, your turn! Found in three of the four Gospels, we are told that Jesus instructs them to heal and drive out evil spirits just like he did! Were they anxious? I bet they were! But they had confidence in the one who was sending them—Jesus (Matthew 10, Mark 6, Luke 9 and 10). Jesus, our peace calls us to release our anxiety and have confidence in him alone. Pray with me today: “Lord, I believe, help my unbelief!”

  8. Oct 29

    Are You Creating Peace? – 4

    Presented by Lauren Stibgen Busyness. We all succumb to it. Just how busy are you? If you are too busy to know if your patterns are creating anxiety in the people at work, then I would ask you to consider how available you are to the people around you. If you are running from meeting to meeting and task to task like the proverbial chicken with its head cut off, take a moment to pause and consider what you aren’t seeing. Jesus had the very best eyes to see what was happening around him. Now, one might argue that he had a God-sized advantage in all of this, but the way he saw people and taught his disciples to see people is a model for us today. Are you seeing the person who doesn’t seem to quite fit in with others. Maybe they have a reputation that precedes them. Perhaps they have something outside of work causing them anxiety, which in turn has caused them to retreat. Like Jesus, do you extend time to get to know them? Think about how Jesus treats Zacchaeus. He was a tax collector and not very well liked. And he was described as small in stature. As crowds of people followed Jesus, he stopped to call out to this small, unliked man to have dinner (Luke 19). With a spring in his step and a who-me attitude, he wholeheartedly turns from his sin. Take time to see someone. Perhaps offer to have lunch or a cup of coffee. You never know how your presence may be the peace they need in the moment. You can’t be available if you are too busy to be present to others. Jesus also modeled something to his disciples that many of us need help with—delegation. Jesus’ ministry grew rapidly. Think about the 5,000 people who had gathered to hear Jesus. They needed to be fed. Aside from the miracle of the bread and fish, Jesus instructed his disciples on how to organize the crowds and distribute the food (John 6). Later in the book of Acts, as the church continued to grow, the disciples were hearing grumbling that some of the gentile widows were not being served. They selected 7 deacons or leaders to help ensure that these widows were being served (Acts 6). Your presence in reflecting kindness and care like Jesus and the disciples may depend on reducing your own anxiety by delegating! You simply can’t be peace if you are anxious yourself.

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