Stop the Self Sabotage and Create the Life You Desire

Dawn Landrum
  • 4.4 (17)
  • Self-Improvement
  • Updated Semiweekly

Bad beliefs, fearful emotions and hurtful habits; Stop the Self Sabotage and Create the Life You Desire. You see, every habit and pattern you participate in, is in place to meet a need that you have, even though you are getting that need met in a unhealthy way. The challenge comes in when you try to give up that pain and your powerful mind fights you because it wants to protect you. Time to give your pain a Purpose for Progress and Experience Rapid Results! Dawn Landrum, Certified Hypnotist and Certified Instructor, offers you proven, step by step success systems so you can Stop the Self Sabotage and Create the Life You Desire!

  1. 18h ago

    Hostile Relationship Squatter or Simple Disagreement

    Is it healthy relationship friction, or is someone taking over your life with their bad behavior at your expense? What's the boundary line between normal human conflict and toxic encroachment. Using the metaphor of a home security system, we explore how your nervous system acts as the ultimate indicator of safety. When a relational "squatter" slips past your perimeter, they try to force you to pay the fine for a crime they keep committing  We break down the three personality profiles most vulnerable to this invasion: the exhausted Over-Functioner, the anxious Over-Performer, and the starving Over-Compensator. Pulling from powerful boundary insights by Dawn, we unpack the dangerous trap of treating silence as patience. When you absorb dysfunction without changing the cost of the behavior, you give implicit permission for it to continue. Learn why waiting to address dysfunction leads to a systemic blowout—allowing the squatter to blame you for the explosion they engineered. Tune in for an actionable five-part diagnostic checklist to test your perimeter and reclaim your home. Claim Your Gifted Hypnosis Experience Renewal Reset HERE  FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com

    26 min

  2. 3d ago

    Why Bother Trying (again); When Effort Does Not Equal Outcome

    FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com Have you ever reached the point where you're disgusted with trying? Not because you're lazy. Not because you've given up. But because you've invested so much time, energy, hope, and effort into something that continues to disappoint you. In this episode, I explore a question most personal development conversations avoid: What if the answer isn't to try harder? What if there are some things you should quit? We'll look at the difference between giving up on life and letting go of investments that are producing a negative return on who you're becoming. Together, we'll examine what happens when disappointment turns into exhaustion, how to recognize when a dream, expectation, or pursuit is costing more than it's giving back, and why quitting the wrong things may be the very thing that allows you to continue moving forward. Claim Your Gifted Hypnosis Experience Renewal Reset HERE  FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com

    16 min

  3. 5d ago

    Trying to Get the Bad to be Good to You

    What if the hope, wish, dream, desire isn't the real goal? What if you're trying to reverse a decision made years (or decades) ago that you weren't lovable, worthy, acceptable, good enough? In this episode, I explore why we often keep returning to people, situations, and experiences that have repeatedly wounded us. Together, we'll examine how painful experiences can leave us with unanswered questions about our worth, significance, lovability, and value—and how we sometimes spend years trying to get a different answer from the very source that created the question. You'll learn three powerful questions to help identify where you may be stuck and three practical steps to begin redirecting your energy toward healthier sources of connection and growth. Claim Your Gifted Hypnosis Experience Renewal Reset HERE  FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com

    24 min

  4. 6d ago

    When Self-Improvement Becomes Self-Punishment

    If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right and still questioning whether you're enough, this episode is for you.  It's easy it is to fall into the belief that one more book, one more course, one more strategy, or one more breakthrough will finally eliminate disappointment and pain from our lives.  I share why highly conscientious people often become trapped in overperforming and overfunctioning, taking responsibility for outcomes that were never fully theirs to control. I'll walk you through the difference between growth and control, why self-improvement can quietly turn into self-harassment, and how the pursuit of certainty often creates exhaustion instead of peace. You'll also learn three questions I use to recognize when growth has become self-punishment, along with three practical steps for shifting from self-criticism toward stewardship. Be sure to download my free Reset hypnosis experience at dawnlandrum.com to begin interrupting old patterns and creating a healthier relationship with personal growth. Claim Your Gifted Hypnosis Experience Renewal Reset HERE  FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com

    28 min

  5. Jun 5

    Pushing for Progress OR Creating More Pain

    FREE Hypnosis Experience here https://www.dawnlandrum.com Most high-achieving women don't struggle because they're unwilling to move forward. They struggle because they're so committed to progress that they don't always recognize when progress has quietly turned into self-abandonment. In this episode, we're exploring the difference between productive discomfort and pushing yourself beyond a healthy threshold. When progress slows, the instinct is often to work harder, stay up later, carry more responsibility, and push through. Sometimes that's exactly what's needed. Sometimes it isn't. We'll explore how reactions are often driven by past painful patterns, while responses are guided by future impact. You'll learn how to recognize the warning signs that you're approaching overwhelm, why more effort isn't always the answer, and how to create sustainable progress without creating unnecessary pain. This episode completes a three-part series exploring: Is your life organized around something that is no longer true?What do you do when you want something to be true, but it isn't?Are you making progress, or are you creating pain?Together, these episodes invite you to examine the beliefs, hopes, and strategies that may once have served you but no longer fit the reality of your life today. Claim Your Gifted Hypnosis Experience Renewal Reset HERE  FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com

    21 min

  6. Jun 3

    What Do You Do When You Want Something To Be True But It Isn't?

    There are moments in life when the deepest pain isn't what happened. The deepest pain comes from wanting something different. We wanted the diagnosis to be wrong. We wanted the relationship to work. We wanted the person to change. We wanted one more chance, one more year, one more opportunity. And yet reality often has a way of refusing to cooperate with our wishes. In this episode, we're exploring what happens when we find ourselves standing face-to-face with a truth we never wanted to be true. We'll discuss: Why arguing with reality keeps us stuckThe difference between grief and resistanceWhy acceptance is not the same as approvalHow to stop negotiating with what is and begin moving forwardThe powerful question that helps us rebuild after disappointment, loss, and changeIf today's episode resonated with you, I'm creating a gifted hypnosis experience to help you move from insight into experience. Details to claim your gift will be in Friday’s episode   Connect With Dawn If you're navigating a significant life transition and would like personalized support, information about working together is available at DawnLandrum.com  Claim Your Gifted Hypnosis Experience Renewal Reset HERE  FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com

    18 min

  7. Jun 1

    Is Your Life Organized Around What Isn't True (anymore)

    If your life were organized around what is true today instead of what happened in your yesterday's, what would upgrade first?  Need More Than a Recording? Many women reach a point where insight isn't enough. They know something needs to change, but they aren't sure how to move from understanding to implementation. Let's Talk Go Here https://www.dawnlandrum.com/ Claim Your Gifted Hypnosis Experience Renewal Reset HERE  FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com

    22 min

  8. 10/03/2025

    Allow Me to Disappoint You (again...)

    How do overperformers, overfunctioners, and overcompensators get stuck in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn—trying to avoid letting others down. You’ll discover why every conflict is really a conflict in values, why your worth is never the challenge, and how the freedom to disappoint others is the first step to stop betraying yourself. https://www.dawnlandrum.com/ Claim Your Gifted Hypnosis Experience Renewal Reset HERE  FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com

    18 min
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Bad beliefs, fearful emotions and hurtful habits; Stop the Self Sabotage and Create the Life You Desire. You see, every habit and pattern you participate in, is in place to meet a need that you have, even though you are getting that need met in a unhealthy way. The challenge comes in when you try to give up that pain and your powerful mind fights you because it wants to protect you. Time to give your pain a Purpose for Progress and Experience Rapid Results! Dawn Landrum, Certified Hypnotist and Certified Instructor, offers you proven, step by step success systems so you can Stop the Self Sabotage and Create the Life You Desire!

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