iDeall Relationships

Spirit Catholic Radio Network

Relationships can be joyful, complicated, and everything in between. Hosted by Dcn. Tom Deall & Jeb Eischeid, the program explores dating, marriage, and everyday relationship challenges with honest conversation and a faithful Catholic perspective. Airs live on Mondays at 8 PM CT.

Episodes

  1. 2D AGO

    iDeall Relationships - Modern Dating, Catholic Singles, and Authentic Connection with Bethany Kline - Episode 7

    In Episode 7 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid welcome special guest Bethany Kline from the 365 Catholic Singles Community and the Catholic Singles Newsletter for an honest and faith-centered conversation about modern dating and the challenges Catholic singles face today. Together, they explore how dating culture has changed dramatically over the last decade, especially with the rise of dating apps, swipe culture, ghosting, and increasing social isolation. Bethany shares the female perspective on many of the frustrations singles encounter today, including superficial communication, fear of commitment, and the difficulty of forming authentic relationships in an increasingly digital world. The discussion also focuses on the importance of intentionality, healthy communication, boundaries, and approaching relationships through the lens of faith rather than modern cultural expectations. Deacon Tom, Jeb, and Bethany talk about how Catholics can navigate dating while remaining grounded in prayer, community, discernment, and trust in God's plan. Listeners will also hear practical advice for both men and women, including respectful ways to approach dating, common mistakes people make in relationships, and encouragement for those who may feel discouraged or burned out by the modern dating scene. At its core, this episode is a reminder that authentic love cannot be built on convenience or superficiality, but must instead be rooted in Christ, honesty, dignity, and genuine human connection. Bethany also shares ways singles can become involved in Catholic community opportunities that foster friendship, fellowship, and meaningful relationships beyond dating apps and social media. iDeall Relationships airs Monday nights at 8:00 p.m. Central Time.

    29 min
  2. MAY 11

    iDeall Relationships - Never Regret Meeting Anyone - Episode 6

    In Episode 6 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid reflect on the idea that every relationship we encounter in life—both positive and painful—has value and purpose in God's plan. Titled Never Regret Meeting Anyone, the conversation explores how even difficult relationships can teach us important lessons, shape our character, and ultimately draw us closer to Christ. The discussion acknowledges that not every person we meet will make our lives easier or bring us immediate joy. Some relationships may involve hurt, disappointment, or suffering. Yet through a Catholic perspective, Deacon Tom and Jeb emphasize that every person has dignity because they are created by God, and every encounter has the potential to help us grow spiritually. Sharing personal stories and reflections on negative relationships they've experienced, they discuss how trials and emotional wounds can lead to wisdom, stronger boundaries, greater compassion, and a deeper reliance on God. Rather than living with regret or resentment, listeners are encouraged to see these experiences as opportunities for growth and grace. At the heart of the episode is the reminder that our most important relationship is ultimately the one we have with Jesus Christ. Even painful relationships can become part of our journey toward holiness if we allow God to work through them. This episode challenges listeners to trust that no relationship is wasted when it brings us closer to our Lord and helps us better understand love, forgiveness, and human dignity. iDeall Relationships airs Monday nights at 8:00 p.m. Central Time.

    29 min
  3. MAY 4

    iDeall Relationships - What Will Matter at the End - Episode 5

    In Episode 5 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid step back from the pace of everyday life to ask a deeper question: What will truly matter at the end of our lives? In a culture that often prioritizes money, success, recognition, and achievement, it's easy to lose sight of what has lasting value. Through a faith-centered lens, the conversation highlights how relationships, especially those rooted in Christ, are what ultimately define a life well lived. While professional accomplishments and material gains may seem important in the moment, they don't carry the same eternal weight as the love we give and receive, the people we invest in, and the way we reflect God's love to others. A key part of the discussion centers on the nature of authentic love. Deacon Tom and Jeb emphasize that true, healthy relationships are not conditional or transactional, but rooted in self-giving, unconditional love, reflecting the way God loves us. They explore how conditional love can limit relationships, while Christ-centered love allows them to flourish and endure. Deacon Tom and Jeb also share personal insights and reflections on how relationships shape our happiness, our purpose, and our legacy. They challenge listeners to be more intentional in nurturing the relationships that matter most, family, friendships, and romantic relationships, and to avoid taking them for granted. At its core, this episode is a reminder that when we look back on our lives, and ultimately when we meet our Creator, it won't be our achievements that define us, but the depth of our relationships and how well we loved. Rooted in a Catholic understanding of life and vocation, this conversation encourages listeners to focus on what truly matters: God, love for others, and living a life oriented toward eternity. iDeall Relationships airs Monday nights at 8:00 p.m. Central Time.

    29 min
  4. APR 27

    iDeall Relationships - Dating with the Future in Mind - Episode 4

    In Episode 4 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid take a closer look at how modern dating culture has shifted away from intentional, future-focused relationships toward something much more casual and short-term. With the rise of hookup culture and a “take it day-by-day” mindset, many people are dating without a clear purpose or long-term vision—often avoiding conversations about commitment, marriage, and what they truly want. Deacon Tom and Jeb reflect on how this change has impacted the way people approach relationships, sharing personal insights and stories that highlight the contrast between past and present dating cultures. They explore how a lack of intentionality can lead to confusion, unmet expectations, and relationships that never fully develop into something lasting. At the heart of the conversation is a call to return to a more purposeful way of dating, one that keeps the future in mind. Rooted in a Catholic understanding of love and vocation, this episode emphasizes the importance of being clear about intentions, pursuing relationships with honesty, and recognizing that dating should ultimately be oriented toward something deeper, including the possibility of marriage. This episode challenges listeners to move beyond casual dating habits and instead approach relationships with commitment, clarity, and a vision for the future, trusting that God has a plan for authentic, lasting love. iDeall Relationships airs Monday nights at 8:00 p.m. Central Time.

    29 min

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Relationships can be joyful, complicated, and everything in between. Hosted by Dcn. Tom Deall & Jeb Eischeid, the program explores dating, marriage, and everyday relationship challenges with honest conversation and a faithful Catholic perspective. Airs live on Mondays at 8 PM CT.