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Helping parents raise happy, healthy, and successful athletes.

  1. 01/30/2025

    The Coaching Wisdom Every Sports Parent and Coach Needs – A Conversation with Greg Berge

    The Coaching Wisdom Every Sports Parent and Coach Needs – A Conversation with Greg Berge The Coaching Wisdom Every Sports Parent and Coach Needs – A Conversation with Greg Berge. How do you build a winning team culture? What’s the biggest mistake parents make in youth sports? And why do some of the best players never start? In this episode, I sit down with Greg Berge—a highly respected high school coach, principal, and leadership expert—who shares game-changing advice for coaches, parents, and athletes. Greg has spent decades coaching and leading teams, and his insights on coaching philosophy, youth sports culture, and player development are a must-hear. His simple yet powerful approach to leadership has helped thousands of athletes and coaches improve—not just on the field but in life. What We Cover in This Episode: ✅ How coaching changes over time – What Greg learned after stepping away and returning to coaching ✅ The biggest mistakes parents make – And how they unknowingly hold their kids back ✅ The real reason some teams overachieve – Hint: It’s not just talent ✅ How to fix today’s youth sports culture – Addressing the coach shortage, referee crisis, and player entitlement ✅ Why less is more in coaching – How simplifying your approach leads to better results ✅ The myth of captains vs. leaders – Why the best leaders aren’t always the ones wearing the ‘C’ Greg also shares personal stories about coaching his own kids, what he’s learned from the best teams, and how parents can support their children without overstepping. If you’re serious about helping young athletes thrive, this is an episode you don’t want to miss. Follow Greg Berge for More Coaching & Leadership Insights: 📌 Twitter/X: @GB1121 📌 Newsletter & Resources 🎙️ More from I Love to Watch You Play: 👉 Take Back The Game: Restoring Joy in Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan 👉Unlocking the Secrets of Raising Athletes: Insights from a Youth Sports Expert

    48 min

  2. 01/24/2025

    Breaking Through Fear and Perfectionism in Youth Sports, with Rebecca Smith

    Breaking Through Fear and Perfectionism in Youth Sports, with Rebecca Smith. Why do some kids freeze in sports while others thrive under pressure? Breaking Through Fear and Perfectionism in Youth Sports. In this episode, I sit down with Rebecca Smith, founder of Complete Performance Coaching and Perform Happy, to discuss the hidden mental struggles of young athletes. A former gymnast who battled fear and self-doubt, Rebecca now helps athletes break through mental blocks, manage pressure, and regain confidence in their sport. We cover: Why fear—not lack of effort—is often the real reason kids struggle How parents may be adding pressure without realizing it The science behind fight, flight, or freeze many athletes experience in sports What real mental toughness looks like—and why it’s not just about pushing through Actionable strategies for parents to help kids build confidence and overcome fear Chapters: 04:42 Understanding Fear and Mental Blocks in Young Athletes 07:22 The Role of Parents in Athlete Performance 11:31 Mindset Matters: Fixed vs. Growth Mindset 14:45 Overcoming Fear and Anxiety in Sports 18:32 The Perfectionist Athlete: Causes and Solutions 22:49 Recognizing Negative Patterns in Young Athletes 26:55 The Importance of Sleep for Performance 29:40 Pre-Performance Routines: Finding What Works 32:32 In-Game Self-Talk and Recovery Techniques 38:37 Redefining Mental Toughness If your child has ever hesitated, second-guessed themselves, or lost their love for their sport, this conversation is a must-listen. 📍 Find Rebecca at: 🔹 Confidentgymnast.com 🔹 Instagram: @complete_performance 🎙️ More from I Love to Watch You Play: 👉 Take Back The Game: Restoring Joy in Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan 👉Unlocking the Secrets of Raising Athletes: Insights from a Youth Sports Expert

    45 min

  3. 01/13/2025

    From Setbacks to Comebacks: Raising Mentally Tough Athletes With Dr. Rob Bell

    From Setbacks to Comebacks: Raising Mentally Tough Athletes With Dr. Rob Bell From Setbacks to Comebacks: Raising Mentally Tough Athletes With Dr. Rob Bell. How do you help young athletes bounce back after failure? Can you really teach mental toughness, or is it something kids learn by facing adversity? In this episode of I Love to Watch You Play, Asia Mape sits down with Dr. Rob Bell—sports psychologist, author, and advocate for raising resilient, joyful athletes. Dr. Bell opens up about his own “hinge moment”—a life-changing event that ended his sports career but led to his passion for helping athletes thrive under pressure. He explains why failure is a bruise, not a tattoo, and shares why it’s essential to prepare kids for uncomfortable situations instead of shielding them from challenges. Parents, this episode is a game-changer. You’ll learn how to: Shift from “should-ing” on your kids to building their confidence. Turn mistakes into tools for growth, not roadblocks. Create an environment where athletes thrive on their terms—not yours. If you’ve ever wondered how to strike the balance between pushing too hard and not pushing enough, Dr. Bell’s wisdom will resonate deeply. He also shares powerful insights on fear, why kids quit, and how one coach or moment can change everything. It’s packed with actionable advice and fresh perspectives for anyone raising or coaching young athletes. Don’t miss this conversation, which will transform your approach to sports and parenting. Resources & Links to Connect with Dr. Rob Bell 🌟 Dr. Rob Bell Official Website Find Dr. Bell’s books, blog posts, and resources, including his Daily Focus Roadmap with "7 super-fast ways to win the day." Social Media 📸 Instagram: @drrobbell 🐦 Twitter/X: @drrobbell Books 📚 Explore Dr. Bell’s impactful books, such as: Puke and Rally: It’s Not About the Setback, It’s About the Comeback Don’t Should on Your Kids: Build Their Mental Toughness I Can't Wait to Be Patient: The Fastest Way to Get There For a complete list, visit his Books Page on his website. Free Resources 💡 Download the Daily Focus Roadmap to discover quick strategies for winning the day and sharpening your mental game.

    51 min

  4. 01/06/2025

    Take Back the Game: Restoring Joy in Youth Sports With Linda Flanagan

    Take Back the Game: Restoring Joy in Youth Sports With Linda Flanagan Take Back the Game: Restoring Joy in Youth Sports. What if the very thing you thought would set your child up for success is actually causing more harm than good? Today, we’re diving into the world of youth sports with Linda Flanagan, a journalist, coach, and author of Take Back the Game. Linda unpacks how the youth sports industry plays on parents’ fears, pushing competition and pressure at the expense of what sports are truly about—character, connection, and joy. We’ll explore the seismic shift from kid-driven fun to adult-driven pressure, the emotional highs and lows parents feel on the sidelines, and how societal expectations have transformed sports into a high-stakes rat race. But it’s not all doom and gloom—Linda shares how we can reclaim the magic of sports, give kids agency in their journey, and model a balanced, happy adulthood. Get ready to rethink everything you know about youth sports. Let’s jump in!  Follow Linda on Instagram Email Linda  Linda on X

    1h 11m

  5. 08/17/2024

    Unlocking the Secrets of Raising Athletes: Insights from a Youth Sports Expert

    Unlocking the Secrets of Raising Athletes: Insights from a Youth Sports Expert Unlocking the Secrets of Raising Athletes: Insights from a Youth Sports Expert. Linda Martindale may be one of the most qualified youth sports experts we've had on the podcast. Her father was a coach, she played D1 basketball. All four of her kids play collegiate sports—basketball, beach volleyball, skiing, soccer, and Lacrosse. She is the head coach of a men's high school varsity basketball team, has a podcast where she speaks to athletes about overcoming challenges, and also happens to be an athlete mental wellness coach!  This is one you don't want to miss. We discuss reframing pressure as a privilege. Normalizing female athlete jealousy - how it brings unnecessary shame and why we need to accept it as competition and use it as motivation. We also talk about why when an athlete quits, this is a normal reaction to hard things and why Linda considers herself a quitter. Linda shares the superpowers female athletes need, how to conquer performance anxiety, and how to teach our kids to be hungry - even if they have never missed a meal.  You can find Linda, her Podcast, how to work with her, and all her socials on her website, MartindaleCoaching.com. Listen to more great podcasts: Bring Back The Joy! Coach Ballgame Is Changing The Way We Coach Our Youth Athletes. George Mumford: How Mindfulness Can Help Your Athlete Tony Snethen: Good Enough: 45 Minutes that will change YOUR life. Max Rooke: Pepperdine's Associate Women's Soccer Coach: Performing, Playing, and Living Life To The Max. Katie Wood: The Author of a Simple Seed. A book that will change your athlete's life.

    54 min

  6. 08/14/2024

    Bring Back The Joy! Coach Ballgame Is Changing The Way We Coach Our Youth Athletes.

    Bring Back The Joy! Coach Ballgame Is Changing The Way We Coach Our Youth Athletes. Bring Back The Joy! Coach Ballgame Is Changing The Way We Coach Our Youth Athletes. Calling all coaches and parents who want to instill A LOVE of sport in their child. Today’s guest is NONE OTHER Than James Lowe; you probably know him as “Coach Ballgame.”  Coach Ballgame is the Ambassador of PLAY BALL, partnering with Major League Baseball coaching camps and growing the game of baseball.  He has also partnered with the Chicago Cubs and FOX SPORTS. His mission is simple: build character and get kids to fall in love with baseball. He has a unique ability to engage kids of all ages through music, poetry, and enthusiasm. Coach Ballgame was a four-year starter at Brown University, where he was captain and All-Ivy League. We discuss the importance of building trust and a connection with young athletes, and he shares his secrets on how to make coaching fun and engaging. He also discusses the challenges of reaching coaches and parents who may have a different mindset and offers advice on how to approach them. The conversation emphasizes the significance of prioritizing joy and character development over winning. Coach Ballgame also discusses the challenges of separating oneself from the experiences of watching kids play sports and the importance of letting them have their own experiences. Where To Find Coach Ballgame: Coach Ballgame Website  Instagram Facebook Listen to more great podcasts: George Mumford: How Mindfulness Can Help Your Athlete Tony Snethen: Good Enough: 45 Minutes that will change YOUR life. Max Rooke: Pepperdine's Associate Women's Soccer Coach: Performing, Playing, and Living Life To The Max. Katie Wood: The Author of a Simple Seed. A book that will change your athlete's life.

    55 min

  7. 08/10/2024

    A Simple Seed – A Book That Will Change Your Athlete’s Life

    Today’s guest is Katie Wood, the author of A Simple Seed. The Simple Seed recently became the best-selling children’s book on Amazon, passing Harry Potter and Dr. Seuss. It also hit the #1 best seller for Happiness Self-Help, passing Jay Shetty, Glenn Doyle, and the Dalai Lama. She's been on The Today Show, and the Simple Seed is now in schools all over the country. It helps with confidence, gratitude, and a growth mindset and allows parents to show their kids how much they matter. It helps create positive habits and routines and connects parents and kids.  Here’s one of my favorite quotes from the book. "The simple act of planting a seed each and every day has a significant impact on how your kids view themselves and the world around them," {and if I might add - how they feel about their relationship with us) Katie is a former teacher. She was also a college basketball player, and her husband played hockey overseas. She is raising four kids, all of whom play competitive sports.  Follow Katie on social media: Instagram The Journal

    43 min

  8. 08/07/2024

    Not Good Enough – The Toxic World of Youth Sports

    Not Good Enough - The Toxic World of Youth Sports My guest on this episode of the Ilovetowatchyouplay.com podcast is Tony Snethen, the executive producer of the documentary Not Good Enough. Snethen is also the Vice President of brand innovation for the Kansas City Royals. It perfectly captures the last nine years of the content we’ve shared here rolled into a perfect and powerful 45 minutes.  The film is critically acclaimed and was recently recognized, earning 3 Telly Awards! A MUST watch and MUST listen for anyone involved in youth sports. You can find the film at Shutoutthestigma.com And The Kansas City Royals Youtube Channel Read about my experience here: My Daughter Quit Youth Sports and This is What I Want All Sports Parents To Know Articles to help you be a great sports parent Listen to more great podcasts: George Mumford: How Mindfulness Can Help Your Athlete Max Rooke: Pepperdine's Associate Women's Soccer Coach: Performing, Playing, and Living Life To The Max. Katie Wood: The Author of a Simple Seed. A book that will change your athlete's life.

    46 min
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Helping parents raise happy, healthy, and successful athletes.

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  • Creator
    Asia Mape
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2025
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Clean
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