Imperfectly Honest

Imperfectly Honest

Welcome to the real us. We’re shifting from the people we’ve felt obligated to be to the people we’re born to be. We welcome eavesdroppers to our conversations.

  1. Could I, Would I, Donate a Kidney? A Living Donor’s Perspective

    APR 3

    Could I, Would I, Donate a Kidney? A Living Donor’s Perspective

    What if you knew that donating a kidney isn’t as extreme - or as impossible - as it sounds? In this episode, Elizabeth sits down with Liz Nelson for an honest, deeply personal conversation about her decision to do just that. Liz shares her experience as a living kidney donor, offering a transparent look at what the kidney donation process actually involves — physically, emotionally, and logistically. Rather than positioning the decision as heroic or extraordinary, she aims to demystify organ donation and help others better understand what’s possible. Together, they move beyond the initial question of “could I?” into the more personal reality of “would I?” — unpacking the motivations, misconceptions, and practical considerations that come with becoming a living organ donor. As conversations around organ donation and transplant waitlists continue to grow, this episode offers a grounded, human perspective on generosity, agency, and informed choice. This isn’t about pressure or persuasion. It’s about expanding awareness — and inviting a more open, curious look at what it really means to give. Show Notes: You can learn about the National Kidney Registry’s innovative voucher program at NKR.org. Visit the National Kidney Donation Organization for more general information about living kidney donation. Check out Kidney.org for a great resource on kidney health. The documentary Liz mentioned is Confessions of a Good Samaritan, available on Netflix. Sue Heilbronner’s blog post about kidney donation is where Liz’s journey began. You can see Sue's own post about Liz's decision here. You can connect with Liz at www.essarynelson.com, or on LinkedIn.  Hear more Imperfectly Honest perspectives at www.imperfectlyhonest.com. Chapters (00:00:00) - Donor's Donor: Imperfectly Honest(00:00:58) - Imperfectly Honest(00:02:08) - I Donated My Kidney to the US(00:08:34) - Donor Donates a Kidney(00:11:25) - Why I Donated My Kidney(00:13:01) - Donor's Donor's Story(00:14:32) - I Donated My Kidney To A Stranger(00:24:38) - Having Children Is a Personal Decision(00:31:56) - Donating a Kidney on the Podcast(00:36:35) - Donating a Kidney to a Cancer Patient(00:40:20) - Donor's Donor's Guide

    42 min
  2. Would an AI Partner Be Better Than a Human? Exploring the Appeal of Love Without Risk

    MAR 19

    Would an AI Partner Be Better Than a Human? Exploring the Appeal of Love Without Risk

    In this episode, Elizabeth sits down with Sheila Lamont to explore a timely and deeply personal question: Could AI partners supplement—or even replace—human romantic relationships? As AI relationships and virtual partners become more sophisticated, technology offers a seductive promise: companionship without rejection, compromise, or heartbreak. An AI partner can provide attention, affirmation, and emotional support while eliminating many of the risks that come with human intimacy. But what if the very things we try to avoid—uncertainty, vulnerability, and the act of choosing and being chosen—are actually essential to authentic, nourishing relationships? Elizabeth and Sheila examine the growing rise of AI companionship, the psychological appeal of risk-free relationships, and what might be lost if technology begins to replace human connection. As artificial intelligence moves deeper into our personal lives, this episode invites listeners to reflect on the future of intimacy and ask an important question: What do we truly want from love and partnership? Show Notes: The article that inspired this conversation can be found in Psychology Today. If you haven’t already, we recommend you listen to Elizabeth and Sheila’s recent episode on “Default No." Hear more Imperfectly Honest perspectives at www.imperfectlyhonest.com. Chapters (00:00:00) - Imperfectly Honest: Can AI Replace Love?(00:01:51) - Not All Relationships Are Without Risk(00:05:35) - Are You a Default Yes or No Person?(00:09:53) - Would You Rather Have a Robot in Your Home?(00:14:59) - Would a Relationship With a Robot Be Safer?(00:21:42) - "I Would Sexually Serve My Partner"(00:24:02) - Would You Choose a Robot Over a Human Partner?(00:33:00) - A Relationship With a Robot(00:36:30) - About Love and Loneliness(00:36:58) - A Question for Sheila

    37 min
  3. When “Good” Is – and Isn’t – “Good Enough”

    FEB 19

    When “Good” Is – and Isn’t – “Good Enough”

    In this episode, Elizabeth and Kayla wrestle with a deceptively simple question: when should we strive to be better – and when is it wiser to accept what is, even if it’s imperfect? They explore the double edge of perfectionism, the pressure to optimize every part of our lives, and the recognition that improvement doesn’t always change the outcome. They talk candidly about the reality that life isn’t always an equal playing field, the underdog doesn’t always win, and sometimes, no matter how much effort is invested, you might never be “good enough.”  From career paths and leadership to body image, relationships, and self-compassion, Elizabeth and Kayla explore when to invest in potential and when to recognize limits. This isn’t about settling, and it’s not about striving endlessly either. It’s about knowing when to push, when to pause, and when to be HONEST. Show Notes: Hear more Imperfectly Honest perspectives at www.imperfectlyhonest.com. Chapters (00:00:01) - Imperfectly Honest(00:01:43) - When Better Isn't Good Enough(00:03:35) - What Do You Meant To Be Better?(00:07:07) - In the Elevator With Steve Jobs(00:10:19) - Celebrating the Growth of Others(00:19:24) - An Enneagram Person on His Type(00:20:42) - How to Striving to Be Better without Becoming Destructive(00:25:56) - The Perfect Body Doesn't Matter(00:28:21) - More Self-Compassion For Body Image(00:31:35) - A Year in the Life of Entrepreneurs(00:33:48) - Democracy on Listeners

    34 min

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Welcome to the real us. We’re shifting from the people we’ve felt obligated to be to the people we’re born to be. We welcome eavesdroppers to our conversations.