In The Know with Tony Reeves

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Hosted by former attorney and Judge Tony Reeves, this podcast delivers sharp insights, commentary, and real talk on law, leadership, public service, and the Black Gen X experience. Whether you’re navigating bureaucracy, seeking inspiration, or craving honest reflections from someone who’s lived it, ‘In The Know with Tony Reeves’ offers the wisdom and wit to keep you informed—and empower Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

  1. 8H AGO

    Letting Go of My Mother’s House Without Letting Go of Her

    In this deeply personal reflection, Tony Reeves shares the emotional experience of selling his mother’s house after her passing. For decades, that house was more than property—it was an anchor, a family gathering place, and a physical reminder of his mother’s presence. But as Tony walks through the process of clearing out the home, signing the paperwork, and saying goodbye to one of the last tangible connections to his mother, he reflects on a truth many people eventually face: letting go of a thing is not the same as letting go of the person. This episode is about grief, legacy, family anchors, and learning that the people we love remain with us long after the physical reminders are gone. CTA Have you ever had to let go of something that reminded you of someone you loved? Share your story in the comments, and follow In the Know with Tony Reeves for more real conversations about life, loss, legacy, and moving forward. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

    15 min

  2. 5D AGO

    The Safe Space That Protected Me as a Young Black Naval Officer

    During his time as a young Black naval officer at Camp Lejeune, Tony Reeves discovered the profound importance of safe spaces and informal support networks. What began as casual social gatherings hosted by a fellow officer turned out to be something much deeper: a deliberate effort to build a community where young Black professionals could connect, support one another, and stay aware of unseen risks.  In this episode, Tony reflects on how those relationships became an invisible infrastructure of protection and guidance — and why having people who watch your back can make all the difference. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

    9 min

  3. MAY 11

    When the Anchor Is Gone: Letting Go of My Mother’s House

    After my mother passed away in 2025, I found myself facing one of the hardest decisions an only child can make: selling the house that had become the center of her life and the anchor point for mine. Although I didn’t grow up in this house, it became the place I always returned to. It was where family gathered, where friends stayed, and where my mother built the life she had worked so hard to create. When the time came to clean it out and sell it, I realized I wasn’t just dealing with real estate. I was confronting the loss of the last major physical connection to the person who had been my foundation for nearly six decades. In this episode, I reflect on grief, legacy, and the difficult truth that letting go of an object does not mean letting go of the person. Sometimes the most important lesson is understanding that the memories, impact, and love remain long after the physical anchor is gone. If you’ve ever had to say goodbye to a parent, a home, or something that symbolized a significant relationship, this conversation is for you. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

    15 min

  4. MAY 6

    Black Gen X_ We Were Told We Made Progress… But Did We?

    What does it really mean to be Black Generation X? We are the generation that came after the Civil Rights Movement… Raised to believe progress had already happened… But lived through experiences that told us something very different. In this video, I break down: The reality of growing up as part of the transitional generationThe difference between progress and the illusion of progressHow history, culture, and lived experience shaped our perspectiveAnd most importantly… what Black Gen X must do moving forwardThis isn’t just about the past. This is about our responsibility right now. If you’ve ever felt like you were caught between what you were told and what you experienced… this conversation is for you. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

    33 min

  5. MAY 4

    The Myth of ‘I Don’t See Color’: Black Gen X and the Language of False Progress

    What does progress really look like—and who gets to define it? In this episode of IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves, Tony takes a deeply personal and thought-provoking look at what it means to be part of Black Generation X—the generation caught between the overt racism of the past and the subtle, coded language of the present. From phrases like “I don’t see color” to accusations of “playing the race card,” Tony breaks down how seemingly harmless language can carry deeper meaning—and why it often leaves Black Gen X navigating a complicated reality: acknowledging progress while still pushing for more.  This episode isn’t about headlines—it’s about lived experience. It’s about understanding how language has evolved, how intent doesn’t always match impact, and why “progress” should never be used as an excuse to stop moving forward. If you’ve ever questioned whether progress is being used as a destination instead of a journey, this conversation is for you.  📢 Call to Action (CTA) If this episode made you think:🎧 Subscribe to IN THE KNOW with Tony Reeves so you never miss a conversation that challenges perspective💬 Share this episode with someone who believes “we’ve already done enough”🛍️ Explore more content and eBooks through The Anthony Reeves Experience on Fourthwall🗣️ Join the conversation: 👉 What phrases have you heard that sound positive—but feel off? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

    18 min

  6. APR 30

    From the Cafeteria Table to the Corporate Boardroom: What Black Gen X Built That People Still Don’t Understand

    This isn’t just a story about where we sat. It’s a story about why we had to sit there—and what we built because of it. Growing up as part of Black Generation X, we entered spaces that were technically “integrated”… but not always inclusive. From: ✔️ Boot camp ✔️ College campuses ✔️ Law school ✔️ Early professional environments We found ourselves in rooms where we were often the only ones. So what did we do? We found each other. Not to isolate. Not to exclude. But to survive, understand, and move strategically. What looked like a simple cafeteria table… Was actually: 👉 A knowledge exchange 👉 A warning system 👉 A professional network 👉 A foundation for long-term success And that same instinct— that same infrastructure— followed us into the corporate boardroom. This podcast breaks down: 🔹 Why Black Gen X gathered the way we did 🔹 The difference between segregation and assembly 🔹 How shared experience became professional strategy 🔹 Why these informal networks became critical to advancement 🔹 What people still misunderstand about those spaces today If you’ve ever: ✔️ Felt like the only one in the room ✔️ Looked for someone who understood your experience ✔️ Built relationships that helped you navigate difficult environments This conversation is for you. 📣 CALL TO ACTION (STRATEGIC) 👉 Primary CTA: “Have you ever had to find your ‘table’ in a space where you didn’t feel seen? Share your experience in the comments.” Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

    21 min

  7. APR 27

    The Weight of the Unknown: Why We Fear Career Change (and How to Push Through It)

    At some point in your career, you’ll face a decision that forces you to choose between what you know and what you don’t. In this episode of In The Know with Tony Reeves, I break down one of the biggest obstacles professionals face at career crossroads: the psychological weight of the unknown. Drawing from my own journey—from running my law firm to becoming a judge—I share how fear, comfort, and bias toward the “known” almost kept me from preparing for a life-changing opportunity.   You’ll learn:Why we naturally favor the “known” (even when it limits us)How failing to prepare for opportunity creates unnecessary stressThe real way to evaluate career decisions (it’s not what you think)Why every decision is the “right” decision—if you own itHow to turn both success and mistakes into career leverageIf you’re facing a career pivot, considering a new opportunity, or stuck between comfort and growth—this episode is for you. 🎯 Call to Action: Explore my Career Crossroads Collection and other resources at my Fourthwall store to help guide your next move. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

    15 min

  8. APR 23

    The Best Life Illusion: Long Game vs. Right Now

    We’ve all heard it: “Live your best life.” But what does that actually mean across generations? This episode explores:The structured path of older generationsThe urgency of younger generationsAnd the Gen X mindset that blends bothIf you’re building something—or rebuilding—this conversation matters Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

    10 min
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Hosted by former attorney and Judge Tony Reeves, this podcast delivers sharp insights, commentary, and real talk on law, leadership, public service, and the Black Gen X experience. Whether you’re navigating bureaucracy, seeking inspiration, or craving honest reflections from someone who’s lived it, ‘In The Know with Tony Reeves’ offers the wisdom and wit to keep you informed—and empower Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.

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  • Creator
    Anthony Reeves
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    369
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Copyright Anthony Reeves
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    In The Know with Tony Reeves