In The Loop

Tom Durrance
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Conversations on church growth and leadership for the 21st century apostolic church.

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    [January 2026] Ashley Waddle: Lead Well. Live Well.

    Leadership today often rewards exhaustion, packed calendars, and nonstop motion—but that’s not the leadership God designed. Somewhere along the way, we started believing that being busy meant being effective, and being tired meant being faithful. Live Well., we’re laying the foundation for a healthier way forward. Because the truth is, leadership doesn’t begin with strategy or vision—it begins with how you live. Your habits, your health, your pace, your peace. If you want to lead well for the long haul, you have to learn how to live well right now. We’re talking about self-leadership, sustainable rhythms, and why your leadership will only go as far as your life allows.

    13 min

  2. 12/01/2025

    [December 2025] My Answer is YES!

    Today on In the Loop with Tom Durrance, we’re diving into a simple phrase that has the power to transform your life, your calling, and your walk with God: “My answer is yes.” Two small words—yes, Lord—can shift the entire trajectory of your ministry. This episode is all about living in that posture of yes—before you have the details, before you see the path, and even before you know the question. Let’s talk about what happens when your answer to God is already yes.

    15 min

  3. 11/01/2025

    [November 2025] I. Don't. Want. To. Go.

    Ever stared at your schedule and thought, “Ugh… I really don’t want to go”? We’ve all been there—whether it’s a meeting, a ministry event, or even a Sunday service. But here’s the truth: leadership isn’t about convenience. In Episode 62, I’ll talk about why showing up matters, how your presence sets culture, and why your influence is bigger than you realize. This is your reminder: leadership is lived in the moments you choose to be present.

    13 min

  4. 10/01/2025

    [October 2025] One Thing that Changes Everything

    Leadership isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about asking the right questions. The truth is, churches don’t grow by accident, lives aren’t changed by chance, and leaders don’t stay passionate without purpose. Today, I want to invite you to step back from the busyness of ministry and lean into some core questions that can reshape the way you lead. These aren’t once-a-year, strategic-plan questions; they’re the kind you carry in prayer, revisit often, and let guide your decisions.

    16 min

  5. 09/01/2025

    [September 2025] The Power of a Quiet Leader

    When we picture a leader, most of us imagine someone loud, bold, extroverted—someone who walks into a room and immediately takes charge. But leadership doesn’t always look that way. Some of the most powerful and effective leaders are the quiet ones. They don’t lead with volume, but with presence. They don’t demand the spotlight, but they make space for others to shine. Quiet leaders are listeners, thoughtful decision-makers, and steady examples. Today, we’re going to talk about the strengths, the challenges, and the calling of what I call “The Silent CEO”—the power of a quiet leader.

    16 min

  6. 08/01/2025

    [August 2025] "Hey Narcissistic Leader... Who, Me?"

    There’s a quiet danger in leadership—the slow drift toward narcissism. It doesn’t happen overnight. It starts small: a little pride, a little control, a little spotlight. But left unchecked, it can poison a ministry from the inside out. In this episode of In the Loop, we’re taking a hard look at the subtle shift from servant to celebrity, from called to controlling. This is a heart-check for every leader—because the most dangerous leader is the one who no longer sees the need to grow.

    14 min

  7. 07/01/2025

    [July 2025] Stop Chasing the Pulpit—Start Carrying the Load

    There’s a dangerous misconception creeping into the mindset of too many aspiring ministers today—a subtle but powerful lie that says the pulpit is the prize. That somehow, the goal of ministry is the microphone. Your pastor doesn’t need another sermon—he needs a servant. The spotlight doesn’t sanctify you—service does. Today, we’re going to talk about what it really means to be used by God, and why chasing the pulpit will never compare to carrying the load.

    15 min

  8. 06/01/2025

    [June 2025] When Work Becomes the Enemy of Vision

    Let’s be real—you’ve had that moment. The lightbulb moment. The “this is it” kind of vision. It hits you out of nowhere and suddenly, you can see it. The future looks big, bold, and full of purpose. You start dreaming, planning, maybe even telling people about it. It’s exciting… until it isn’t. Because right after the vision comes the realization: this is going to take a lot of work. And that’s when doubt starts creeping in. The excitement fades, the energy dips, and you start wondering—*was this ever really the right path?* Today, I want to talk to you about that exact moment—when work starts feeling like the enemy of your vision. Because you’re not alone, and you're not crazy. Let's unpack it together.

    13 min
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Conversations on church growth and leadership for the 21st century apostolic church.

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  • Creator
    Tom Durrance
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    65
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Tom Durrance
  • Show Website
    In The Loop