INNtrospection

Amy Lindner-Lesser
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Welcome to INNtrospection: Grief to Growth the podcast which addresses navigating the grief and paralysis stemming from a life quake (aka a life transition on steroids) into a new identity and joy-filled life. I’m Amy Lindner-Lesser, your host, social worker, certified life transitions coach, Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist, & life quake thrive. In this podcast, I share my thoughts, experiences, and discussions around all aspects of quakes, causes, and interesting interviews to expand your thinking and transition to living your life fully with joy.

  1. Mar 10

    The Art of Cleaning & Organizing

    In this episode of Inntrospection: Grief to Growth, host Amy Lindner-Lesser is joined by Candi Ruppert, a certified professional organizer and founder of Sage Organizing. They dive into the emotional and physical complexities of "life quakes"—those significant transitions like moving into assisted living, navigating a divorce, or clearing the estate of a deceased loved one. Candi shares her "treasure versus give up" philosophy, offering practical advice on how to handle sentimental belongings, manage the overwhelming burden of paper clutter, and decide when "too much" is actually a safety concern. Whether you are currently downsizing or planning for the future, this conversation provides the tools and grace needed to transform a daunting task into a meaningful journey of preserving memories. Episode Notes *The "Spark" of Professional Organizing: Candi shares her origin story, which began with helping a friend clear out a deceased parent's home in just four days. *TREASURE vs. GIVE UP: A shift in mindset to focus on the items you want to hold close to your heart rather than focusing on what you are losing. *The "Judgy Mother-in-Law" Rule: A humorous yet effective rule of thumb for donations—if you wouldn't give it to her, don't give it to charity. Practical Organizing Tips: *The 20/20 Rule for Paper: If it takes more than 20 minutes to replace or costs less than $20, think twice about keeping it. *Creative Memories: Transforming old clothing into teddy bears or t-shirt quilts to preserve memories without the bulk. *Sensory Comfort: Using a partner’s clothing to create a "huggable" pillow scented with their soap or cologne. *Recognizing the Levels of Clutter: An introduction to the Clutter Hoarding Scale and identifying when clutter begins to obstruct daily life or safety. *The Importance of Professional Standards: Why it’s crucial to look for organizers through regulated bodies like NAPO (National Association of Productivity & Organizing Professionals) and NASM (National Association of Senior Move Managers). *Family Distribution & Wills: Advice on labeling items ahead of time and keeping written records to prevent family disagreements during difficult times.

    44 min

  2. Feb 24

    Stop Asking The Calendar For Permission

    After loss, big decisions feel loaded. Should I move? Is it too soon to sell? What do I do with their things? Am I allowed to date? Will people think I’m rushing? And the hardest question of all: How do I know if I’m ready? In this episode, I explore: *The difference between urgency and clarity *Emotional vs. practical readiness *Why your nervous system matters more than the calendar *The identity shift underneath selling, purging, and dating *How to tell the difference between escaping and moving forward *Gentle readiness markers you can use to self-check *There is no gold star for waiting longer. *There is no medal for acting fast. There is only alignment. If you’re navigating big changes after a life transition, this episode will help you move from pressure to steadiness. In This Episode We Explore: ✔️ Why everyone has an opinion about your timeline ✔️ The “urgency trap” after loss ✔️ How to tell if a decision is reactive or reflective ✔️ Emotional readiness vs. practical readiness ✔️ The identity layer beneath big life changes ✔️ Why selling or purging can trigger a second wave of grief ✔️ How to test a decision before fully committing ✔️ The difference between escaping and integrating Key Takeaways *There is no universal timeline for rebuilding after loss. *Fast is not strong. Slow is not weak. *Decisions that survive different emotional weather tend to be steadier. *You can practice forward motion without detonating your life. *The right one for you is yours. Questions for Reflection *Does this decision feel reactive… or reflective? *Am I trying to stop feeling, or build something new? *Does the idea feel steady across different moods? *Can I tolerate mixed emotions about this change? What’s Next? In the next episode, I’ll be joined by a professional organizer to talk about how to gently and compassionately sort, purge, and create space after a lifequake — once you’ve decided you’re ready. Schedule your Complimentary Author Your Next Chapter Call here https://calendly.com/inntrospection/author-your-next-chapter-call

    18 min

  3. Feb 18

    The Digital Mirror: Navigating Grief in the Age of AI

    Grief is as old as humanity, but the tools we use to navigate it are evolving in ways we never imagined. In this episode of Introspection: Grief to Growth, host Amy Lindner-Lesser explores the complex intersection of artificial intelligence and the grieving process. While the idea of seeking comfort from a machine might have once seemed like science fiction, AI is now becoming a common resource for those navigating loss. Amy discusses how AI can serve as a non-judgmental mirror for complicated emotions, while also cautioning against the risks of emotional dependency and the ethical dilemmas of simulating the dead. Join us for a thoughtful look at how to use technology as a supplement to—rather than a replacement for—the essential human connections that facilitate true healing.

    21 min

  4. Jan 27

    The Gift of the Gap: Navigating Grief, Artistic Expression, and Life’s Liminal Spaces

    In this episode of Inntrospection, host Amy Lindner-Lesser sits down with artist, actor, and coach Andrea Sadler for a deep dive into the "messy middle" of life. Andrea shares her personal journey through the sudden loss of her partner, the subsequent shift in her creative identity, and how she learned to embrace the "liminal space"—the gap between who we were and who we are becoming. They discuss the vital role of creative expression in processing grief, the difference between "moving on" and "moving forward," and how to find beauty in the moments when life feels completely unsettled. Whether you are a creative professional or someone navigating a major life transition, this conversation offers a compassionate roadmap for honoring your pace and finding your light. Key Topics Covered: How the sudden loss of a partner reshapes one's world and creative drive. Understanding "Liminal Space": Why the in-between is a place of potential, not just pain. The intersection of art and healing: Using performance and creation to metabolize grief. Practical ways to survive "The Gap" when your internal GPS feels broken 00:00 - Introduction and welcome to Inntrospection 02:15 - Meet Andrea Sadler: From the stage to the healing path05:40 - The "Before and After": Navigating the sudden loss of a life partner 10:22 - The impact of grief on creative expression and career 15:45 - Defining Liminal Space: Learning to stand in the threshold 21:30 - The "Gift of the Gap": Finding clarity when everything feels empty 27:10 - Art as a metabolic process for heavy emotions 34:50 - Transitioning from performing to coaching and guiding others 41:15 - Why "Productivity" is a trap during periods of deep transition 48:30 - Simple rituals for grounding yourself in the messy middle 54:10 - Closing thoughts and where to find Andrea’s work

    52 min

  5. Jan 13

    Why January is About Orientation, Not Reinvention

    January is often the loudest month of the year, filled with pressure to set big goals, fix what is "wrong," and completely reinvent ourselves. But for those navigating grief, loss, or major life transitions, this "clean slate" narrative often feels hollow and exhausting. In this episode, Amy Lindner-Lesser explores the concept of liminal space—the threshold between who you were and who you are becoming. Instead of sprinting through this period to find answers, we are invited to inhabit it. Amy discusses why your body and soul may be demanding rest and how the most radical thing you can do this month is to refuse to rush yourself. In this episode, you’ll learn: The difference between a doorway and a threshold. Why "willpower" isn't the reason you might feel unmotivated in January. How to ask "better" questions instead of "bigger" ones to find your steady ground. The power of "soft release"—letting go of roles and expectations that are simply completed.

    17 min

  6. 12/30/2025

    Standing in the Messy Middle: Grief, Possibility, and Choosing Your Word of the Year

    As the year comes to a close, Amy Lindner‑Lesser invites you into a compassionate conversation about navigating the “messy middle” — the space between what was and what comes next. Whether you're carrying grief, rebuilding after a life quake, or simply stepping into a new year with uncertainty, this episode offers grounding, permission, and possibility. Amy explores why the “after” doesn’t come with instructions, how grief and hope can coexist, and why you don’t need to be fully healed to begin again. She also shares her powerful annual practice of choosing a Word of the Year — a gentle alternative to resolutions that honors who you are and who you're becoming. This episode is an invitation to meet yourself with grace, reconnect with old dreams, and imagine a 2026 shaped by authenticity, intention, and self‑trust. 00:00 – 00:01 Introduction: Who Amy is and why this conversation matters. 00:01 – 00:03 Standing at the edge of a new year — uncertainty, grief, and the “big question mark.” 00:03 – 00:05 Life quakes and the before/after divide. 00:05 – 00:07 The messy middle: being changed, still standing, and unsure of what comes next. 00:07 – 00:09 Possibility inside the unknown — rebuilding, reimagining, and choosing who you want to be next. 00:09 – 00:11 Permission to feel everything: contradictions, grief suitcases, and moving forward imperfectly. 00:11 – 00:13 Old dreams resurfacing and choosing to live for yourself again. 00:13 – 00:15 Sacred questions that arise after chaos and the whisper of “there’s more.” 00:15 – 00:17 Invitation #1: Let 2026 be the year you gift yourself you. 00:17 – 00:20 Invitation #2: Release resolutions — choose a Word of the Year instead. 00:20 – 00:22 How a guiding word supports growth, grounding, and self‑trust. 00:22 – 00:24 Amy’s 20‑year practice and the free reflection guide. 00:24 – 00:26 A reminder: your life is unfolding now — and you don’t have to walk it alone. 00:26 – 00:28 Closing encouragement, gratitude, and a look toward 2026.

    13 min

  7. 12/16/2025

    Gifting Gratitude: Finding Light in What Remains

    In this heart-centered December episode, Amy explores how gratitude can become a gentle source of light — especially when life feels dark or uncertain. Drawing inspiration from seasonal celebrations of light across faith traditions, she reminds us that gratitude doesn’t erase our grief… it helps illuminate what still holds meaning. Through personal reflection and practical guidance, Amy offers simple ways to “gift gratitude” — to ourselves, to those who’ve walked beside us, and even to the memories of those we’ve lost. You’ll learn how gratitude and grief can coexist — and how both can guide us toward growth, peace, and renewed purpose. In this episode: Why nearly every major faith tradition honors light during this season — and what that teaches us about hope. How gratitude becomes its own kind of light in times of loss or transition. Four ways to “gift gratitude” — to yourself, to others, and to what remains. Why investing in coaching, even when finances are tight, is an act of self-gratitude and courage. Reflection Prompt: “What light still glows within me — and how can I tend to it with gratitude this season?” Mentioned in this episode: Imagining Your Next Chapter Call – Give yourself the gift of reflection and direction for the year ahead. Quote to Remember: “Gratitude doesn’t erase the darkness — it reminds us that darkness isn’t all there is.” 00:00 - Introduction: Finding Light in What Remains00:25 - The Challenge of the "Most Wonderful Time of the Year" When Grieving00:52 - The Season of Lights: How major religions respond to the dark winter (Hanukkah, Advent, Diwali, Kwanzaa)02:02 - The Sacred Meaning Behind Light Rituals in Different Faiths03:26 - Navigating the Mixed Emotions of the Holidays After Loss04:22 - Reframing Gratitude: Why it's okay if it feels complicated05:05 - The Power of "I'm Grateful and Sad": Holding both emotions simultaneously05:44 - Gratitude as a Light that Does Not Erase the Darkness06:18 - Practice 1: Writing a Gratitude Note to the Person or Loss you Miss07:53 - Practice 2: Thanking Someone Who Has Stayed in Your Life (The Ripple Effect)08:37 - Practice 3: Offering Yourself Gratitude for Surviving and Adapting10:49 - Honoring Both the Darkness and the Light11:38 - Self-Care is Self-Preservation: Why coaching is an investment in your healing13:42 - The "Oxygen Mask" Metaphor: Putting Yourself First14:19 - Closing Message and Encouragement

    15 min

  8. 12/02/2025

    Tiny Glimmers of Hope in the Mess of Grief

    Amy Lindner-Lesser explores the concept of “glimmers”—small, gentle moments that remind us we are safe, alive, and capable of joy even in the midst of grief. Through personal stories of widowhood, caregiving, and family transitions, Amy shows how hope and sorrow can coexist, offering listeners practical ways to notice and nurture glimmers in their own lives. This episode is a compassionate reminder that healing doesn’t erase pain, but it does invite beauty back into the mess. 📌 Show Notes with Select Timestamps [00:01:00] What glimmers are and why they matter in grief[00:03:00] Personal reflections: widowhood, single parenting, and caregiving through dementia[00:05:00] Stories of finding peace in small, everyday moments[00:07:00] Four gentle practices to notice glimmers: slowing down, using your senses, journaling, and letting go of guilt[00:10:00] When hope feels far away—why even surviving the day can be a glimmer[00:12:00] Closing encouragement: beauty exists even in the mess, and you are not alone

    13 min
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Welcome to INNtrospection: Grief to Growth the podcast which addresses navigating the grief and paralysis stemming from a life quake (aka a life transition on steroids) into a new identity and joy-filled life. I’m Amy Lindner-Lesser, your host, social worker, certified life transitions coach, Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist, & life quake thrive. In this podcast, I share my thoughts, experiences, and discussions around all aspects of quakes, causes, and interesting interviews to expand your thinking and transition to living your life fully with joy.

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  • Creator
    Amy Lindner-Lesser
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    98
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Amy Lindner-Lesser
  • Show Website
    INNtrospection