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This podcast is about sex positivity, kink, bdsm, and polyamory. The interviews are with people in these communities and we discuss everything from the fun, to the not so fun, to the politics, and matters of the heart.

Intellectual Erection Intellectual Erection

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.7 • 6 Ratings

This podcast is about sex positivity, kink, bdsm, and polyamory. The interviews are with people in these communities and we discuss everything from the fun, to the not so fun, to the politics, and matters of the heart.

    Niki Davis-Fainbloom on Sex and Communication

    Niki Davis-Fainbloom on Sex and Communication

    On this episode we discuss everything from dirty talk to polyam communication, jealousy, and compersion with one of our favourite sex educators.

    Niki has been on the show several times before to talk to us about consent, sex education, and dirty talk. You will definitely remember her bubbly personality and fun-loving approach to sex ed, and this time it's no different. We dive into all the lovely talk that happens in and around sex, from the things that make it work to the things that make it stop.

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    • 1 hr 2 min
    Lola Jean: Sex Educator, World Record Holder, & Mistress

    Lola Jean: Sex Educator, World Record Holder, & Mistress

    On this episode we get a deep dive into Lola Jean’s work from squirting champ to seven days of domination.

    You heard bits of this interview with Lola (@lolajeandotcom) in our “What You Want to Know About Squirting” episode, and here you get the full conversation along with her discussion about sex work and domination (previously unreleased). This is part of a set of two episodes we’ll release this month as we prepare more juicy thematic episodes for you.

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    • 56 min
    Nudes From Your Favourite Sex Workers

    Nudes From Your Favourite Sex Workers

    On this episode we talk all about online sex work with some of your favourite humans, Isla Carlisle, Bailey Archer, Camden Peach, Ravyn Alexa, Cam Damage, and Ten Against.

    We start this episode by going over the laws, bills, and legislations in North America that attempt to tackle issues of human trafficking and underage porn, while having serious consequences for sex workers, especially in terms of their ability to exist online. Then we discuss the work, challenges, and rewards that go into online sex work with some of our favourite sex workers that we highly recommend you follow.

    Guests:

    Isla Carlisle IG @cuddlesluut Twitter @ittybittyisla

    Bailey Archer IG @bb.archer Twitter @bbarcher_

    Camden Peach IG @camdenpeachxo Twitter @camdenpeach

    Ravyn Alexa IG @ravynxalexa Twitter @ravynalexa

    Cam Damage IG @notcamdamage Twitter @hannibaldamage

    Ten Against IG @ten.against Twitter @tenagainst

    Shout outs:

    Zenaya Rose IG @ittybittynotitties

    Pineapple Support IG @pineappleysw

    Vespa IG @latexvespa

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    • 1 hr 5 min
    Talk Dirty to Me

    Talk Dirty to Me

    On this episode we find out all the layers of dirty talk, what it’s for, and how to do it from three seasoned sexperts, Alisha Fisher, Marla Renee Stewart, and Niki Davis-Fainbloom.

    We had a lot of fun with the research on dirty talk, from all the categories of filth we can say, to the effect it can have on our sexual and relationship satisfaction, to how it works psychologically to arouse us. The sexperts weigh in and give us the basics of dirty talk, guide us through some dirty talk exercises, and discuss some of the most important factors that make this kink work, or fail horribly. We end off the episode with a very special surprise thanks to you, the listeners, who submitted some filth for us to play with.

    Song credit: “The Double Up” by Derwatt

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    • 58 min
    What You Want to Know about Squirting

    What You Want to Know about Squirting

    On this episode we speak with sexpert Alisha Fisher, squirting world-record holder Lola Jean, and a panel of humans all about squirting.

    The research on squirting is controversial and hardly conclusive. Most scientists want to know if it’s pee or prostatic fluid, how it differs from what’s called “female ejaculation,” and if it relates to urinary incontinence. We want to know how it feels, what it brings up emotionally, how to connects to people’s sex lives, and why it’s so popular now. So, we asked sex and relationship scholar Alisha Fisher (@alisha.jj.fisher) all about the functions of squirting, we asked sex educator Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) all about her squirting notoriety, and we got a panel together to talk about the fun, the shame, and the excitement of squirting.

    Panelists: @peachbum (Twitter) @miss_obscure @emoxhobbit @imjustadaisy @littlemiss_bee

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    • 1 hr 1 min
    Sex in the Time of Corona

    Sex in the Time of Corona

    Welcome to a new season of Intellectual Erection with a brand new format and new co-host, my partner, Yaz (they/them)! On this episode we speak to sex educators, sex therapists, and a panel of sex positive humans about sex during Covid.

    The new episode structure features a research segment where your co-hosts go over some of the academic literature on sex and Covid, followed by interviews with queer sex educator Eva Bloom (@whatsmybodydoing) and sex and relationship therapist Kat Kova (@katkovatherapy). We then ask a panel of sex positive humans, kinksters, and polyamorists what their experiences around sex and intimacy have been like during the pandemic. The episode ends off in Intellectual Erection tradition with some very juicy sexy stories.

    P.S. you may have noticed Instagram has taken down our podcast page, so we started a new one. Please follow along on @intellectualerection

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    • 54 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
6 Ratings

6 Ratings

Scurvybutt ,

Extremely enjoyable listen

I love Patrick and his community. I’ve always been interested in sex positivity and kink communities, but it’s not something that’s easy to talk about! So listening to this podcast makes me feel less lonely and more likely to reach out. Patrick’s voice and conversation style are also pretty enticing.

Some things I feel can be improved: the recording studio seems to have a bit of echo, and Patrick’s particular leanings heavily influence the kinds of guests he has on. There’s a lot about polyamory, and I’d like to hear some more deep dives into people, things, and trends that are out there.

Some really great things about the podcast: I love the friendly, open, and intelligent energies that interact here! The communication is always conscientious and thoughtful. Patrick asks certain questions every episode (like “what’s your earliest memory pertaining to maybe being different, sexually?”) that always provide interesting perspective for people outside the community. Much of the content in general can be very helpful for completely “ordinary” people who aren’t looking to get involved in any of this. It’s a low-pressure look into a world that’s seldom shed light upon.

dont like to be ignored ,

Enjoyed but

I didn’t know what to expect going into this but found it fun and enjoyable. I always enjoy hearing women talk explicitly about their sexual experiences because it runs so counter to my upbringing and expectations. One negative: the last segment of the episode I listened to was billed as comic relief. It was easily the stupidest and unfunniest thing I’ve ever listened to. There was no humor in it at all.

DeaconJericho ,

A casual take on insider knowledge

The podcast takes an insider’s look at various kinds of sex work and kink, but it’s not the investigative journalism you might find somewhere else or even exposé interviews. The host is clearly an insider talking to other insiders. While no one completely forgets that the listeners may not be insiders, the interviews are not geared towards informing the public. These are portraits. Individuals providing glimpses into their world with a tertiary focus on informing people who might be considering dipping their toes into that world.

It is still very educational. I know that I’ve picked up quite a few things, but the core of the show is the humanity of the guests, rather than the science or logistics of the work; which is what I was expecting going in.

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