its_that_girlpearls podcast

its_that_girlpearls

A storytelling and mindset podcast exploring growth, healing, and becoming. its_that_girlpearls is a reflective space for open conversations and personal stories about growth, healing, self-belief, and purpose. Through honest talks and deep reflections, it explores what it means to evolve, rebuild confidence, and show up as your best self—no matter what life throws your way. Each episode invites listeners to slow down, think deeper, and connect with their own journey. Thoughtful, relatable, and real, its_that_girlpearls is here to remind you that becoming never ends.

  1. 1 ene

    Stop Auditioning for Love

    In this episode of itsthatgirlpearls podcast I’m talking about something many of us do without realizing it: auditioning for love. That pattern of over-explaining yourself, over-giving, and trying to “prove” your value to people who keep giving you the bare minimum. Whether it’s in friendships or relationships, auditioning for love can look like always being the one to check in, always being the one to forgive, always being the one to keep things going—until you’re exhausted and emotionally drained. I share my reflections on why real love and real friendship should not feel like a competition, confusion, or a constant fight for attention. You shouldn’t have to beg for consistency. You shouldn’t have to shrink your needs to keep someone around. And you definitely shouldn’t have to sacrifice your self-respect just to be chosen. This episode is a reminder that you can be kind, soft, and genuine… while still having standards. We talk about choosing mutual energy, watching patterns instead of words, slowing down access, setting boundaries without guilt, and learning how to walk away from anything that keeps you auditioning. Because the right people won’t need you to perform—they will meet you halfway with respect, clarity, and effort. If you’ve ever felt taken for granted, unseen, or like you’re “too much” for wanting basic care, this one is for you. Keep your love—just stop giving it to people who don’t know how to value it.

    7 min

  2. 1 ene

    The Desperation to Be Queen — What It Taught Me About Respect and Peace

    In this short reflection inspired by Campus Queen: The Desperation to Be Queen, I talk about the illusion of fame, the hunger for validation, and why peace will always be more valuable than popularity. If you’ve ever been taken for granted in friendships or relationships, this is your reminder: keep your love, but change your access. Real people earn your trust with consistency, respect, and patience.

    3 min

  3. 19/09/2025

    Outgrowing People Without Feeling Guilty

    Sometimes the hardest part of growing is realizing that not everyone can come with you. In this episode of its_that_girlpearlspodcast, we’re talking about outgrowing friendships and relationships — and how to do it without carrying unnecessary guilt. We’ve all had those connections that just… don’t feel the same anymore. The inside jokes stop landing, the conversations feel forced, and deep down, you know the relationship has run its course. But then the guilt creeps in. Am I a bad friend? Am I selfish? Do I owe them more? This episode is here to remind you that outgrowing someone isn’t cruel — it’s a sign that you’re evolving. I share how to recognize when it’s time to let go, how to walk away gracefully without drama, and how to honor the memories while still prioritizing your growth. If you’ve ever felt guilty for pulling back from a friendship or relationship that no longer aligns with who you are, this one’s for you. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, Overcast, and more. 💌 Don’t forget to rate, comment, like, repost, and share this episode so it can reach someone who needs this reminder right now!

    2 min

  4. 19/09/2025

    Ghosted, But Make It Character Development

    Getting ghosted hurts — but what if it’s actually a glow-up moment in disguise? 💅🏾 In this quick episode, we talk about how to turn ghosting into character development, stop blaming yourself, and come out even stronger (and hotter). Whether you’ve been ghosted once or 10 times (no judgment 😅), this is your sign to stop chasing, start glowing, and move on like the main character you are.

    2 min

  5. 11/07/2025

    IMPOSTOR SYNDROME: REAL VS. PERCEIVED GAPS

    IN THIS EMPOWERING EPISODE, I DIVE DEEP INTO THE FEELING THAT SO MANY OF US QUIETLY CARRY BUT HARDLY EVER ADMIT — IMPOSTOR SYNDROME. THIS IS FOR THE ONES WHO HAVE EVER WALKED INTO A ROOM THEY PRAYED FOR AND STILL FELT UNWORTHY. FOR THE ONES WHO QUESTION THEIR SUCCESS, DOWNPLAY THEIR WINS, AND SECRETLY FEEL LIKE THEY’RE ONE STEP AWAY FROM BEING “FOUND OUT.” TOGETHER, WE UNPACK THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN REAL GAPS — THE AREAS YOU CAN GROW INTO — AND PERCEIVED GAPS — THE FALSE BELIEFS ROOTED IN FEAR, PAST HURTS, OR COMPARISON. I REMIND YOU THAT SELF-DOUBT DOESN’T MEAN YOU’RE A FRAUD — IT MEANS YOU’RE EXPANDING. YOU ARE WALKING INTO SPACES THAT YOUR YOUNGER SELF NEVER THOUGHT POSSIBLE. AND THAT ISN’T FAKE — THAT’S GROWTH. THIS EPISODE WILL LEAVE YOU FEELING SEEN, ENCOURAGED, AND EQUIPPED WITH GENTLE TOOLS TO START SPEAKING TRUTH BACK TO THE LIES IN YOUR HEAD. IF YOU’VE EVER STRUGGLED TO OWN YOUR VALUE, TRUST YOUR VOICE, OR TAKE UP SPACE — THIS ONE IS FOR YOU. YOU DON’T HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL YOU FEEL READY. YOU ALREADY ARE. YOU CAN LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE ON SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, AMAZON MUSIC, AND MORE.

    4 min

  6. 11/07/2025

    Introversion vs. Extroversion in Creativity

    IN THIS POWERFUL AND HEALING EPISODE, I UNPACK THE TRUTH ABOUT CREATIVITY AND THE DIFFERENT WAYS IT SHOWS UP THROUGH INTROVERSION AND EXTROVERSION. THIS IS A GENTLE YET BOLD REMINDER THAT YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE LOUD TO BE CREATIVE, AND YOU DO NOT NEED TO SHRINK YOUR ENERGY TO BE ACCEPTED. WHETHER YOU CREATE IN STILLNESS OR IN SOUND, IN CROWDS OR IN QUIET SPACES, YOUR ART IS VALID. YOUR VOICE IS ENOUGH. YOUR EXPRESSION IS WORTHY. THIS EPISODE IS FOR THE QUIET GIRLS, THE BIG-ENERGY SOULS, THE CREATIVES WHO FEEL OVERLOOKED OR EXHAUSTED BY COMPARISON. IT’S FOR ANYONE RELEARNING HOW TO TRUST THEIR NATURAL FLOW AND SHOW UP FULLY WITHOUT APOLOGY. WE TALK ABOUT CREATIVE RHYTHMS, PERSONAL ENERGY, AND HOW TO HONOR YOUR TRUE CREATIVE LANGUAGE—WHETHER YOU’RE INTROVERTED, EXTROVERTED, OR SOMEWHERE IN BETWEEN. YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH SOULFUL REFLECTIONS, A GENTLE CALL TO ACTION, AND A REMINDER THAT THIS IS YOUR REBIRTH SEASON—AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO CREATE LIKE ANYONE ELSE TO BE SEEN, LOVED, OR ENOUGH. TAP PLAY IF YOU’RE READY TO HEAL, CREATE, AND BLOOM IN YOUR OWN WAY. THIS IS YOUR SPACE. THIS IS YOUR TIME. THIS IS YOUR VOICE.

    4 min

  7. 06/07/2025

    Passion Is Not Enough: What It Really Takes to Succeed

    WE’VE BEEN TOLD THAT PASSION IS EVERYTHING — THAT IF YOU JUST LOVE IT ENOUGH, SUCCESS WILL FOLLOW. BUT HERE’S THE TRUTH: PASSION IS ONLY THE BEGINNING. IN THIS POWERFUL AND HONEST EPISODE, WE DIG DEEP INTO WHY PASSION ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH TO BUILD SOMETHING THAT LASTS. BECAUSE THERE WILL BE DAYS WHEN PASSION FADES, WHEN YOU DON’T FEEL MOTIVATED, WHEN YOU QUESTION EVERYTHING. AND IN THOSE MOMENTS, IT’S NOT PASSION THAT WILL CARRY YOU — IT’S DISCIPLINE, CONSISTENCY, GRIT, AND A DEEP COMMITMENT TO YOUR PURPOSE. THIS IS A MESSAGE FOR CREATORS, ENTREPRENEURS, DREAMERS, AND ANYONE WHO’S CHASING SOMETHING BIG. IF YOU’VE BEEN WONDERING WHY YOU FEEL STUCK EVEN THOUGH YOU’RE PASSIONATE, THIS EPISODE WILL GIVE YOU THE CLARITY YOU NEED. WE’RE TALKING ABOUT THE REAL WORK — SHOWING UP WHEN IT’S HARD, PUSHING FORWARD WHEN IT’S QUIET, AND BUILDING EVEN WHEN NO ONE IS WATCHING. THIS IS WHAT IT REALLY TAKES TO SUCCEED. SHARE THIS WITH SOMEONE WHO NEEDS TO HEAR IT. AND REMEMBER — PASSION WILL LIGHT THE FIRE, BUT DISCIPLINE WILL KEEP IT BURNING. 🎧 LISTEN NOW ON SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM.

    4 min

  8. 06/07/2025

    THE STRUGGLE OF CREATING WHEN NOBODY IS WATCHING

    THE STRUGGLE OF CREATING WHEN NOBODY IS WATCHING IS REAL — AND IT’S ONE THAT EVERY CREATOR, ARTIST, PODCASTER, OR DREAMER HAS FACED AT SOME POINT. IN THIS POWERFUL EPISODE, WE’RE TALKING ABOUT WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO SHOW UP EVERY DAY, POUR YOUR HEART INTO YOUR WORK, AND STILL FEEL INVISIBLE. NO VIEWS. NO LIKES. NO COMMENTS. NO “YOU’RE DOING AMAZING.” JUST YOU, YOUR DREAM, AND A WHOLE LOT OF SILENCE. BUT SILENCE DOESN’T MEAN FAILURE. AND THIS EPISODE IS YOUR REMINDER THAT YOU’RE STILL GROWING, STILL EVOLVING, AND STILL WINNING — EVEN IF NOBODY IS CLAPPING YET. IF YOU’VE EVER FELT LIKE GIVING UP BECAUSE NO ONE IS WATCHING, THIS ONE’S FOR YOU. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. AND THIS SEASON IS BUILDING YOU. TUNE IN FOR A RAW, HONEST, AND MOTIVATING MESSAGE THAT WILL REIGNITE YOUR FIRE TO KEEP GOING — EVEN IN THE QUIET. 💛 SHARE THIS EPISODE WITH ANOTHER CREATOR WHO NEEDS TO HEAR THIS. 🎧 LISTEN NOW ON SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, OR YOUR FAVORITE PODCAST PLATFORM.

    4 min
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A storytelling and mindset podcast exploring growth, healing, and becoming. its_that_girlpearls is a reflective space for open conversations and personal stories about growth, healing, self-belief, and purpose. Through honest talks and deep reflections, it explores what it means to evolve, rebuild confidence, and show up as your best self—no matter what life throws your way. Each episode invites listeners to slow down, think deeper, and connect with their own journey. Thoughtful, relatable, and real, its_that_girlpearls is here to remind you that becoming never ends.

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  • Años de actividad
    2025 - 2026
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