It's A Mess, Sis!

Reena and Jessica
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  • SOCIETY & CULTURE
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A therapeutic conversation geared towards black queer women who have discovered that the life script is not enough! Come join us and if you vibe, we tribe!

  1. 06/15/2023

    Is Weird the New Normal? EP. 90

    Hello, Hello! Welcome back to the conversation. This Episode is all about being “weird”. We define it, discuss the impact of “being weird” in our lives, like the good, bad, ugly, and weird. Then round it out with how we cope. We make each section clearly know so that you can follow along and have this conversation with us, with others, with yourself, so feel free to pause where you see fit to give you time to write, journal, or just reflect…or just keep listening…do you!    OH, and if you vibe...we tribe! Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.com Comments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.com Instagram: @itsamesssispodcast Facebook: itsamesssispodcast Twitter: @itsamesssis YouTube: It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)

    1h 2m

  2. 05/18/2023

    What Kind of Mother Are You?…to Yourself EP. 89

    Mother's Day just passed and we used our recording time to not only discuss our beautiful mothers but also to explore how we are "Mothering" ourselves in life and carrying on their work. So, join us.... as we have conversation about “Mothering” and  what it means to be a mother to oneself,  the impact of stepping into that maternal role as we learn to care for ourselves and conclude with how we are coping and intend to cope moving forward.   OH, and if you vibe...we tribe!  Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.com Comments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.com Instagram: @itsamesssispodcast Facebook: itsamesssispodcast Twitter: @itsamesssis YouTube: It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)

    52 min

  3. 05/04/2023

    Heal More…Aim for Less EP. 88

    Y'all are back!!!...and we love y'all for that!...  This episode we have conversation about “healing” and “ambition” (define), how the two correlate (aka impact), and how we (cope) moving forward. We make each section clearly know so that you can follow along and have this conversation with us, with others, with yourself, so feel free to pause where you see fit to give you time to write, journal, or just reflect…or just keep listening…do you!    OH, and if you vibe...we tribe! Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.com Comments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.com Instagram: @itsamesssispodcast Facebook: itsamesssispodcast Twitter: @itsamesssis YouTube: It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)

    49 min

  4. 04/20/2023

    I Don't Wanna Know...If the World's Ending...Keep it on the LOW! EP. 87

    Question: If the World was Ending, Would You Want to Know?   This episode we  have conversation about “knowing” talk about the impact and how we cope with having so much access to information, knowledge, and each other.  We make each section clearly know so that you can follow along and have this conversation with us, with others, with yourself, so feel free to pause where you see fit to give you time to write, journal, or just reflect…or just keep listening…do you!   Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.com Comments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.com Instagram: @itsamesssispodcast Facebook: itsamesssispodcast Twitter: @itsamesssis YouTube: It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)

    1h 4m

  5. 04/06/2023

    Would You Do the Crime, If You Didn't Get Time? EP 86

    Back with a lighter conversation for you all! We've all done it. Thought about something unsavoryr...illegal... a crime and said "no, I could never, it would cost too much, it's too much of a risk...but what if it wasn't? What if you had a real "Get out of Jail" card? That's what we talk about in this episode...if there were no consequences, what crime would we commit, why, and what would be the impact? Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.com Comments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.com Instagram: @itsamesssispodcast Facebook: itsamesssispodcast Twitter: @itsamesssis YouTube: It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)

    1h 17m

  6. 03/23/2023

    Season 4: Is Black Mediocrity the New Black Excellence? EP. 85

    What do y'all think? As the title implies, this week we talk about Black "Excellence" vs "Mediocrity" and find our selves on opposite sides of the spectrum. So give us a listen, hit us up on social media, and join the  conversation! Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.com Comments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.com Instagram: @itsamesssispodcast Facebook: itsamesssispodcast Twitter: @itsamesssis YouTube: It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)

    1h 1m

  7. 03/09/2023

    Season 4: Friends…How Many of Us Have Them in our 20s EP. 84

    BOOM, you're suddenly 25, 29, or 32...or whatever age and you look up and ask yourself, "Damn, where did my friends go?" This is your episode. Alot of us spend our years going through "Growing Pains" at different stages in our lives. When we are children, we go through physical growing pains from our bodys shifting and changing, as teens we tackle independence and sense of self as we learn to make our own decisions. And in our 20s (and 30s and ongoing really) we continue to grow as we hone our relationships as we transition  from our school age years, surrounded by friends, to seeing our socialization  needs and behavior change as that number of people dwindle down when enter our adult years.  Suggested by a lovely listener (Jessica, You Rock!...see what we did there), This episode we explore friendship, growth, and releasing (aka "The Great Shed" as social media calls it) in our mid 20s (and beyond), the impact in our lives, and how we did/will cope. We make each section clearly know so that you can follow along and have this conversation with us, with others, with yourself, so feel free to pause where you see fit to give you time to write, journal, or just reflect…or just keep listening…do you!  Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.com Comments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.com Instagram: @itsamesssispodcast Facebook: itsamesssispodcast Twitter: @itsamesssis YouTube: It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)

    1h 20m

  8. 02/23/2023

    Season 4: Do You Punish Yourself For Your Failures? EP. 83

    Ever hear of Pride and Prejuidice? Well today we bring you "Failure and Punishment"...LOL. Seriously,  this episode we are talking about.....failure in our lives and the ways in which we punish ourselves, and the impact of it all. This is a topic I think everyone actively avoids in both  action and thought. Even in describing this episode, I feel like I am failing to fully capture the weight of this theme in our lives. So, if you have ever felt like you failed, feel like youre failing...wonder if you failed...wonder what it feels like to fail...check out this episode. This is one of our deeper and more vulnerable topics spanning two areas of our lives. Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.com Comments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.com Instagram: @itsamesssispodcast Facebook: itsamesssispodcast Twitter: @itsamesssis YouTube: It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)

    1h 5m
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A therapeutic conversation geared towards black queer women who have discovered that the life script is not enough! Come join us and if you vibe, we tribe!

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  • Creator
    Reena and Jessica
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2023
  • Episodes
    89
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2023 It's A Mess, Sis!
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