What happens when a woman who is used to doing it all finally asks, “What do I actually need?” In this episode, Anne Duffy sits down with Dr. Erin Sheffield, a board-certified oral and maxillofacial surgeon, speaker, podcast host, and founder of The Doctor Is All In retreat, for a real conversation about visibility, self-worth, boundaries, and the kind of support high-achieving women rarely give themselves permission to receive. Dr. Sheffield shares the surprising story of entering a Maxim over-40 cover competition, advancing through multiple rounds, and facing the discomfort of publicly asking for support. What began as an unexpected adventure became a powerful lesson in confidence, criticism, and allowing yourself to be seen. Anne and Dr. Sheffield also explore why intimate, relationship-centered spaces matter so deeply for women in dentistry and healthcare. From the vision behind her 2027 retreat at Miraval Austin to the sisterhood that formed after Anne’s DeW retreat, this conversation highlights the healing power of connection, rest, and being known beyond your title. They also talk about people-pleasing, the pressure to show up for everyone else, and why even the strongest leaders need permission to pause, especially when their bodies and spirits are asking for it. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why high-achieving women often struggle to define success beyond accomplishment. How visibility and self-promotion can feel uncomfortable but still create meaningful growth. What Dr. Sheffield learned from public support, criticism, and putting herself out there. Why smaller, more intentional retreats can create deeper connection than large conferences. How women in dentistry can reconnect with who they are beyond their roles. Why rest, recovery, and boundaries are not luxuries but leadership necessities. How people-pleasing shows up in patient care, team leadership, and personal health. What doctors often misunderstand about social media and building trust online. How sisterhood and consistent support can carry women through grief, burnout, and transition. Press play for an honest, heart-opening conversation about being seen, supported, and finally giving yourself permission to fill your own cup. Learn More About Dr. Erin Sheffield Here! Website: https://www.doctorisallin.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drerinsheffield/ Resting Stitch Face podcast: https://pod.link/1827598652 The Doctor Is All In retreat (Feb 2027 at Miraval Resort, Austin): https://www.doctorisallin.com/agenda Ready to be part of a movement of women shaping the future of dentistry? Join Dental Entrepreneur Woman for masterminds, education, exclusive events, and a supportive community designed to help you grow, lead, and leave your mark on the industry. Become a member at: https://dew.life/membership/ Mentions & Links: Events: The DeW Life Retreat Organizations: Maxim magazine People mentioned: Dr. Riddhi Patel Dr. Jessica Emory