Just Drawz - The Podcast

Just Drawz

Welcome to the Just Drawz Podcast where we have intimate, vulnerable, and stripped down conversations about topics that affect and are important to us as masculine presenting, gay Black men. Meet Darius, Jeff, and every so often, a guest host. Sit in with us! #letstalkaboutit

  1. JAN 11 · BONUS

    BONUS EPISODE: A look back with clips from Season 3 In Case You Missed It

    Subscribers new and old, welcome! We present to you moments from 2025 and our third season. If you've missed something, and want to go back, this is the bonus episode for you! 00:16 - Let's Talk About Sex - 00:38 - And Then There Were Two - 00:26 - Inauguration Aggravation - 01:11 - Tips for Navigating the Dating Scene - 01:29 - Infidelity and Dishonesty in Gay Relationships - 02:22 - International Gay Travel - 02:41 - A Matter of Faith - 03:18 - Infidelity and Dishonesty in Gay Relationships - 03:35 - Losing Our Same Sex Virginity - 03:56 - The Six Stages of Dating - 04:37 - Serving Vulnerability Realness - 05:27 - Performative Queerness - 05:57 - Unsolicited Advice 2 - 06:27 - Uncommon Common Sense - 07:37 - Bonus Questions and Answers - 08:14 - Gaying Over 40 - 08:47 - Unfriended - 09:53 - Thanksgiving 2025 Special - 10:39 - Christmas 2025 Special - We also have our Performative Blackness episode and DMC's solo episode from this season as well! ______________________________ Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist: The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. III [Fall 2025] ⁠⁠⁠YouTube Music⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Apple Music⁠⁠⁠ _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠⁠⁠ Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠⁠⁠ _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ _______________________________ Keywords: Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, authenticity, accountability, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, identity, childhood, platonic relationships, self-perception, chosen family, support, misunderstanding, peace, LGBTQIA, platonic, men and women, healing, protection, boundaries, guarding, heart to heart, _______________________________ #JustDrawz #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

    11 min

  2. TRAILER

    Welcome to Just Drawz!

    Welcome to our channel! JustDrawz is a show for the section of the LGBTQIA space that sometimes feels overlooked by the current mainstream and influencer crowd. Hosted by two Black gay men, DMC and Jeff,, we have real conversations that matter. Sure, we talk about sex and dating, but there's more to our lives that that. Politics, personal growth, society, pop culture and more are all topics that we cover here. This is a Black queer lens that stays honest, unfiltered, and rooted in truth but we are rated E for Everybody because Black, Latino, Asian, female, straight, and every combination in between, our stories are relatable. We are real, regular guys who are proud to stand in our "unc" status!So, whether you are here to laugh, learn, heal, or just feel seen, you are in the right place! Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/deeemcee Jeff: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠ _______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, mental health, family dynamics, colorism, queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA, aging, after 40, AARP, retirement_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayingafter40 #after40 #aarp #retirement

    6 min

  3. 12/18/2025

    Celebrating Christmas and the Holidays: Family, Friends, and Fun

    Happy Holidaze!It's our third Christmas show and this year, we discuss some of our holiday traditions, the significance of gift-giving, and how we spend Christmas Day. What's the first decoration to go up? What are our favorite holiday themed movies and shows? And would we wear matching pajamas with our significant others? From food to what Christmas means to us, we talk about that and more! “Just… Deck The Drawz”______________________________ Listen to Our Christmas 2025 Playlist: Happy Holidaze - A Playlist from Just Drawz The Podcast YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtzbcOhWeiHAGEVtYuDLp7Nc Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4J3SYvmGGS1vT4t7KhFGpf?si=jvNvNOFXRxCP8CmRNZjVHg Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-happy-holidaze-vol-i-2025/pl.u-MDAWv8qTevJMem Spotify Exclusive Continuous Version: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1NdDczd0UySYCZAwz8kTN8?si=eb0b6b9527eb4fae _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/deeemcee Jeff: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠ _______________________________ Keywords: Christmas, holiday traditions, gift giving, family time, Christmas movies, decorations, holiday spirit, Christmas gifts, Christmas activities, Christmas locations, Christmas, gifts, nostalgia, holiday traditions, music, food, family, reflections, regifting, adulting, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA+,LGBTQ, LGBTQIA, gay, Black gay men _______________________________ #JustDrawz #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayconversations #Christmas #holidaytraditions #giftgiving #familytime #Christmasmovies #decorations #holidayspirit #Christmasgifts #Christmasactivities #Christmaslocations #gifts #nostalgia #holidaytraditions #music #food #family #christmastime #holidaycheer #2025

    1h 35m

  4. 12/11/2025

    Exploring Performative Blackness and Black Identity Within Black LGBTQ and Same Gender Loving Spaces

    This show, DMC and Jeff wrap up the “Performative” series with “Performative Blackness” having already covered Performative Masculinity and Performative Queerness.  We explore the concept of performative Blackness, discussing its historical roots, contemporary interpretations, and personal experiences with identity. Then delve into the expectations and stereotypes associated with being Black, the impact of social media, and the nuances of language within the Black community.  We touch on cultural appropriation and the challenges of explaining Black culture to others, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and reflection in navigating these complex topics. The dialogue also touches on interracial relationships and the societal expectations surrounding Black identity, ultimately emphasizing the importance of embracing one's authentic self without the need for performance. “Just… Acting Black” _______________________________ Takeaways:  Performative Blackness is a dynamic and socially constructed identity. Historical performances often relied on stereotypes and distorted representations. Contemporary Black performers use their art to resist racism and explore identity. Code-switching is a common experience for many black individuals in different spaces. Social media can amplify performative aspects of identity. Language and vernacular play a significant role in cultural expression. Cultural appropriation raises questions about appreciation versus exploitation. Proximity to Blackness can influence how individuals express their identity. Authenticity in Blackness can be a feeling rather than a definition. Navigating spaces of Blackness can vary based on comfort levels. Rejecting respectability politics is crucial for authenticity. Blackness is expansive and encompasses a wide range of experiences. Our Blackness does not need to be validated by others. ______________________________ Listen to Our Christmas 2025 Playlist: Happy Holidaze - A Playlist from Just Drawz The Podcast YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtzbcOhWeiHAGEVtYuDLp7Nc Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4J3SYvmGGS1vT4t7KhFGpf?si=jvNvNOFXRxCP8CmRNZjVHg Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-happy-holidaze-vol-i-2025/pl.u-MDAWv8qTevJMem Spotify Exclusive Continuous Version: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1NdDczd0UySYCZAwz8kTN8?si=eb0b6b9527eb4fae _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/deeemcee Jeff: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠ _______________________________ Keywords: performative Blackness, identity, cultural appropriation, social media, Black culture, activism, stereotypes, language, personal experiences, historical context, Cultural Identity, Blackness, Interracial Relationships, Authenticity, Shared Experiences, Cultural Practices, Identity, Race, Community Same gender loving, SGL, , , se, family, personal growth, self reflections, identity, self-perception, cultural differences , identity, personal growth, LGBTQIA+,LGBTQ, LGBTQIA, gay, Black gay men _______________________________ #JustDrawz #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #selflove #personalgrowth #LGBTQIA  #gayconversations #queerissues #gayconversations #samegenderloving #SGL #authenticity

    1h 23m

  5. 11/26/2025

    Thanksgiving Super Sized Episode - Our Relationship with Food and Critiquing Social Media Motivation

    It’s Thanksgiving week, family! And we recorded an episode about food and our relationship with it. But the conversation took a little bit of a shift as we ended up talking about body image and social media. Let’s call it a ‘side’ to the entree of our main conversation.  This is an expanded show that runs a little bit longer than we normally go for one sitting but we think this dish is best served hot and complete.  _______________________________ Takeaways:  Social media can significantly impact self-image. Early food memories can affect what we like and don’t like as adults. Pound cake, peach cobbler, and banana pudding are soul food stables. Likes on social media can serve as a form of validation. There is a noticeable difference in engagement between innocent and provocative posts. People may seek motivation from the validation they receive online. Social media can create a cycle of seeking approval through likes. Understanding this dynamic is crucial for mental health awareness. Awareness of these patterns can lead to healthier social media habits. ______________________________ Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist: The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025] YouTube Music: ⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠ Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠ Apple Music:  ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠ _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/deeemcee Jeff: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠ _______________________________ Keywords: Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, mental health, family dynamics, colorism, queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA _______________________________ #JustDrawz #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayfem #masc4masc #fem4fem #mascformasc #gayconversations #thirstrap #queerissues #masculinity #Thanksgiving #engagement #socialmedia #engagementfarming #gayconversations

    1h 39m

  6. 11/20/2025

    Reconnecting, Rebuilding, and Remaining Friends After 40 Years

    Darius and Nikki continue their revealing conversation about their decades long friendship. Witness recovery and healing in action through their conversation with heartfelt moments, laughter, and new understanding of each other. "Just... Unfriended: Part 2" _______________________________ Takeaways:  Friendships can endure long periods of silence and still reconnect. Consistency in communication is vital for maintaining friendships. Life changes can impact friendships significantly. Understanding each other's perspectives can lead to healing. Mourning the loss of friendships is a natural process. Self-reflection helps in recognizing one's role in relationships. Family dynamics can shape how we approach friendships. It's important to express love and appreciation regularly. Time spent with friends creates lasting memories. Vulnerability can strengthen the bond between friends. It's important to gauge situations based on individuals, not past experiences. Communication is key to understanding expectations in friendships. Expressing love and appreciation is crucial for maintaining relationships. Self-discovery is a vital part of personal growth and healing. Quality of friendships matters more than quantity as we age. Men often struggle to express vulnerability and emotions. Losing friends can be a painful experience that isn't often discussed. ______________________________ Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist: The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. III [Fall 2025] ⁠⁠YouTube Music⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apple Music⁠⁠ _______________________________ Guest: Nikki: https://www.instagram.com/nikkinicole78/ Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠⁠ Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠⁠ _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠⁠ _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠⁠ _______________________________ Keywords: Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, authenticity, accountability, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, identity, childhood, platonic relationships, self-perception, chosen family, support, misunderstanding, peace, LGBTQIA, platonic, men and women, healing, protection, boundaries, guarding, heart to heart, _______________________________ #JustDrawz #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

    1h 4m

  7. 11/13/2025

    40 Years of Friendship Down the Drain After a Misunderstanding! Can the Relationship Recover?

    In this episode, Darius and Nikki, one of his oldest friends, explore the complexities of long-term friendships, focusing on their own relationship that has spanned over 40 years. They discuss the challenges of maintaining connections through life changes, the importance of communication, and the process of mourning friendships that have faded. The conversation highlights the significance of consistency, self-reflection, and vulnerability in nurturing relationships, ultimately leading to a deeper understanding of each other's perspectives and the value of time spent together. _______________________________ Takeaways:  Friendships can endure long periods of silence and still reconnect. Consistency in communication is vital for maintaining friendships. Life changes can impact friendships significantly. Understanding each other's perspectives can lead to healing. Mourning the loss of friendships is a natural process. Self-reflection helps in recognizing one's role in relationships. Family dynamics can shape how we approach friendships. It's important to express love and appreciation regularly. Time spent with friends creates lasting memories. Vulnerability can strengthen the bond between friends. It's important to gauge situations based on individuals, not past experiences. Communication is key to understanding expectations in friendships. Expressing love and appreciation is crucial for maintaining relationships. Self-discovery is a vital part of personal growth and healing. Quality of friendships matters more than quantity as we age. Men often struggle to express vulnerability and emotions. Losing friends can be a painful experience that isn't often discussed. ______________________________ Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist: The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Fall 2025] ⁠YouTube Music⁠ ⁠Spotify⁠ ⁠Apple Music⁠ _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠ Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠ _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠ _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠ _______________________________ Keywords: Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, authenticity, accountability, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, identity, childhood, platonic relationships, self-perception, chosen family, support, misunderstanding, peace, LGBTQIA, platonic, men and women, healing, protection, boundaries, guarding, heart to heart, _______________________________ #JustDrawz #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

    1h 1m

  8. 10/30/2025

    Gay Life After 40: Sex, Health, Relationships, and Boundaries

    On this show, Jeff and DMC explore the experiences of being Black gay men over 40, discussing the evolution of their social lives, dating dynamics, and sexual experiences. They reflect on how their perceptions of self and body image have changed over the years, the impact of club culture on social interactions, and the role of confidence in their sexual lives.  The discussion also touches on the importance of connection and community, physical health, and mental health care. They discuss setting boundaries in relationships and their aspirations for the future  _______________________________ Takeaways:  Being gay after 40 can bring new perspectives and experiences. Social lives can expand with age and self-acceptance. Finding a supportive community is crucial for personal growth. Body image issues can persist but evolve over time. Clubbing culture has shifted significantly over the years. Younger men often seek older partners, changing dating dynamics. Confidence plays a key role in sexual experiences as one ages. Sexual enhancement drugs can be fun but are not always necessary. Self-perception impacts social interactions and relationships. The importance of living in the moment and enjoying experiences. Physical health becomes a priority as we age. Mental health care is essential for overall well-being. Comfort in life is a key aspiration for many. Aging does not mean the end of opportunities. Self-care practices are vital for health. Future aspirations can drive personal growth. ______________________________ Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist: The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Fall 2025] YouTube Music Spotify Apple Music _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/ ⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/deeemcee Jeff: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠ _______________________________ Keywords: Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, mental health, family dynamics, colorism, queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA _______________________________ #JustDrawz #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

    1h 21m
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Welcome to the Just Drawz Podcast where we have intimate, vulnerable, and stripped down conversations about topics that affect and are important to us as masculine presenting, gay Black men. Meet Darius, Jeff, and every so often, a guest host. Sit in with us! #letstalkaboutit

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  • Creator
    Just Drawz
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    88
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Just Drawz
  • Show Website
    Just Drawz - The Podcast