KElevate

Kelly Gifford

Chit chats about all the breakthroughs that have changed my life + all things food freedom, anti-diet culture, body acceptance and spiritual awakening

  1. 12/26/2023

    47. "I KNOW... But I FEEL The Opposite"

    If you've said things like… “I know they probably don’t hate me… but I FEEL like they do.” “I know everything will be ok… but I FEEL like it won’t be.” “I know I am good enough for them… but I don’t FEEL like I am.” “I know I am loved… but I don’t FEEL loved.” “I know I am capable of achieving more… but I FEEL so incapable…” And maybe you’ve questioned why “knowing better” isn’t enough to shift how you’re acting in world and how you’re perceiving yourself... In this episode, I explore why we can't integrate a better mindset / higher perspective on a situation when we FEEL some strong feelings about it. *IMPORTANT NOTE* - If you have a strong resistance towards being in your body and feeling, this could be a sign of unintegrated Trauma. The kind of work talked about in this podcast could take you out of your window of tolerance and that could be unsafe for you. If you want to do deep healing work around Big-T Trauma, work with a professional who's trained to work with Trauma, like a Somatic Psychotherapist. -- Website: ⁠https://kelevatecoaching.com⁠ Enter to win a 90-minute deep dive breakthrough session with Kelly ($250 value): ⁠https://forms.gle/6AAjAmwbxyVXxAab7 ⁠ Kelevate Method: a 6 stage transformational program for healing your relationship with food, exercise, your body and self ⁠⁠https://www.kelevatecoaching.com/general-9⁠⁠ Instagram: @kelevate_ ⁠https://instagram.com/kelevate_⁠ TikTok: @kelevate ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kelevate?_t=8f8XkvZcuwv&_r=

    20 min
  2. 12/06/2023

    44. "Limiting Beliefs" That You KNOW Aren't True (But They're Still There...)

    Have you noticed that you have a lot of negative thoughts and limiting beliefs that you “know” aren’t true? Maybe thoughts about yourself or your body that get you down, like I’m ugly or I’m not good enough or no one could ever really love me this way… and when you recognize those thoughts happening you hear repeats in your head of every self love and healing inspired quote that tells you that that thought you were thinking is simply a self-abusing lie?  And even though you KNOW that, and believe that negative self talk isn’t true… or at least want to believe it’s not true… those same self-abusing whispers seem to be the filter you experience much of your life and yourself through?  In this episode, I explain why simply "knowing better" and deciding that you want to believe something more positive about yourself / your life often isn't enough to transform the impact these "negative" beliefs have on your life, your self-esteem, your relationships, etc. And then I take you through a process of reprogramming your unconscious mind to allow a positive shift in your belief systems to happen more permanently and organically. Website: ⁠https://kelevatecoaching.com⁠ Enter to win a 90-minute deep dive breakthrough session with Kelly ($250 value): ⁠⁠https://forms.gle/6AAjAmwbxyVXxAab7 ⁠⁠ Kelevate Method: a 6 stage transformational program for healing your relationship with food, exercise, your body and self ⁠https://www.kelevatecoaching.com/general-9⁠ Instagram: @kelevate_ ⁠https://instagram.com/kelevate_⁠ TikTok: @kelevate ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kelevate?_t=8f8XkvZcuwv&_r=

    22 min
  3. 11/29/2023

    43. Existential Kink: Stranded In India Without A Passport

    What if everything you dislike and disprove of in your life... you actually want in some really deep, weird, f*ked up way? After my 25 hour itinerary to Australia turned into a 5 day disastrous journey of getting stranded in India without a passport... looping in my anxiety and stress over all of the powerlessness and uncertainty that continued presenting itself in different ways... the long stretches of waiting for answers became time spent in introspection (as I do) and I began to apply a concept I have heard about + worked with many times in my life; Having is evidence of wanting. If I'm stuck in a situation I really, REALLY do not like... I've learned to use this as an invitation to explore if there's any part of me that I'm unaware of that actually, weirdly, is getting something desirable from this situation I don't like. And through this curiosity I received many insights detailing my deep, weird, f*ked up desire to be a victim and receive others' pity... I know... gross. In this episode, I explore the importance in recognizing, owning and embracing that the very thing you don't want... is actually something that you DO want, no matter how "wrong" it feels to want it. And how you can USE this awareness and these tools to align your unconscious + conscious minds and more easily get what you DO want (and get out of your own way!) Enter to win a 90-minute deep dive breakthrough session with Kelly ($250 value): ⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/6AAjAmwbxyVXxAab7 ⁠⁠⁠ Kelevate Method: a 6 stage transformational program for healing your relationship with food, exercise, your body and self ⁠⁠https://www.kelevatecoaching.com/general-9⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://kelevatecoaching.com⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: @kelevate_ ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/kelevate_⁠⁠ TikTok: @kelevate ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kelevate?_t=8f8XkvZcuwv&_r=

    43 min

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Chit chats about all the breakthroughs that have changed my life + all things food freedom, anti-diet culture, body acceptance and spiritual awakening