Kingdom Grindset

Kingdom Grindset: A Division of UncommonTEEN

Stop settling for average. Kingdom Grindset is the podcast for Christian teen guys who are tired of just drifting. Every week, we break down how to sharpen your faith, dial in your discipline, and train your body for the mission God has for you.It's time to stop watching from the sidelines while the world tries to make you soft. Start winning the war for your future. This is the grind. This is the Kingdom.

  1. MAY 11

    What Girls Actually Want in a Guy

    What Teen Girls REALLY Want in a Man of God (It’s Not What You Think) Stop guessing and start leading. In a world obsessed with superficial "red flags" and casual dating culture, what does it actually take to be the man a godly woman is looking for? Today, we’re joined by Coach Jamie Kirschner (founder of UncommonTEEN) to pull back the curtain on the heart of the modern Christian teen girl. We’re breaking down why "good vibes" aren't enough and why your identity in Christ is your greatest "green flag." If you’re struggling to navigate dating, purity, or emotional stability, this episode is your roadmap. In this episode, you’ll learn: The 5 key themes every man of God needs to embody. How to lead in purity without it being "weird." The #1 mistake guys make with their emotional health. Why "Awakening love before its time" is a recipe for heartbreak. 🔗 Connect with Coach Jamie & UncommonTEEN: Website: https://uncommonteen.com Instagram: @uncommon.teen 🏰 Join the Kingdom Grindset Community: Website: kingdomgrindset.com Follow us on IG: @kingdomgrindset What would you like to hear on the show? Email us: kingdomgrindset@uncommonteen.com 📖 Scripture Referenced: Song of Solomon: "Do not awaken love before it's time." Philippians 4:8: Fixing our thoughts on what is pure and lovely. If this episode helped you, make sure to: ✅ Subscribe for more Kingdom-minded growth. 🔔 Hit the Bell so you never miss a drop. 💬 Comment Below: What is one "Green Flag" you're working on developing this year? #KingdomGrindset #ChristianDating #ManOfGod #Purity #UncommonTEEN #BiblicalManhood #DatingAdvice

    18 min
  2. APR 27

    To the Guy Who Feels Like He Doesn't Belong...(Loneliness & Rejection Part 1)

    "I'm fine." It’s the biggest lie we tell ourselves as teen guys. We live in a world that’s more "connected" than ever, yet most guys are secretly struggling with intense loneliness and the sting of rejection. Whether it’s not having the "right" status, the right clothes, or just feeling like you’re the only one still into "Ninjago" while everyone else moved on to football—the feeling of being an outsider is real. In Part 1 of this series, we’re getting raw about the "Quiet Struggle." We’re breaking down why we self-isolate, how rejection can lead to hidden addictions (even food!), and why "fitting in" is a losing game for a man called to live for Christ. ⚠️ NOTE: We had a technical blowout with our video feed today, but this conversation was too important to keep in the vault. Audio-only for this 2 part series—lean in. In this briefing: Why growing up feels like losing your tribe. Why we reject ourselves before others can.  How loneliness fuels secret addictions and negative coping habits. Why your weirdest traits are actually your greatest Kingdom assets. How to be "true to yourself" without being a jerk. Timestamps: 0:00 – Technical Update: Why this message couldn't wait. 0:45 – The reality of the "Quiet Struggle" in teen guys. 4:20 – Status symbols and the pressure to fit in. 7:10 – When loneliness leads to addiction (The "Chocolate" talk). 10:30 – Self-rejection: Why we stay home and miss out. 14:45 – The "Hardened Heart" defense mechanism. 19:00 – Galatians 5: The ultimate roadmap to finding your real circle. 🚨 DON'T MISS PART 2 Next week, we move from the WHY to the HOW. We’re giving you the tactical manual on exactly what to do when those feelings of rejection creep in and how to build a brotherhood that actually lasts. 👉 SUBSCRIBE and ring the notification bell so you don't miss the solution. Connect with the Kingdom Grindset: Website: kingdomgrindset.com Follow us on IG: @kingdomgrindset #KingdomGrindset #ChristianTeen #MentalHealth #OvercomingRejection #Loneliness #ChristianMen #FaithDaily #KingdomIdentity

    15 min
  3. APR 20

    The Burnout of Influencer Culture (Overcoming Greed and Pride Part 2)

    Most guys think the "Grindset" is just about hitting 10k months. But what happens when you get everything you wanted, and you're still empty? In this episode, Ken B and Ken K pull back the curtain on the "Hidden Cost of Success." We’re breaking down why influencer culture is leading to massive burnout and how to build a life that actually lasts. If you’re tired of the endless comparison trap and want a success that doesn’t cost your soul, this one is for you. The Mission: Turn your platform into a purpose and your grind into a Kingdom investment. 🔥 WHAT WE’RE COVERING: The Influencer Lie: Why "making it" often leads to burnout. Wealth vs. Worth: The dangerous illusion of security in your bank account. The Anti-Burnout Toolkit: How prayer and Scripture actually fuel your productivity. Redefining the W: What real success looks like from a Biblical perspective. ⏳ CHAPTERS: 0:00 – The Burnout of Influencer Culture 📉 0:33 – The Grind: When the hustle turns toxic 1:11 – Materialism is a trap (The Biblical view) 1:26 – Why money won't make you feel safe 2:54 – The "New Toy" effect: Why material joy is temporary 4:02 – What do you actually want? 4:44 – The Antidote: Using Scripture to reset 📖 4:51 – The secret of Contentment 6:24 – Why Thankfulness is a superpower 8:20 – Fulfillment > Materialism 9:28 – Stop Competing: The comparison trap explained 10:03 – The "Love of Money" (Warning 🚩) 11:40 – Redefining the Win 13:18 – Using your platform for Christ 👑 14:33 – 3 Practical steps to kill materialism today 16:29 – Outro 📜 THE BLUEPRINT (RESOURCES): "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven..." — Matthew 6:19-21 "But godliness with contentment is great gain." — 1 Timothy 6:6-10 🚀 JOIN THE KINGDOM GRINDSET: If you’re a young man looking to grow in faith, fitness, and finance without losing your way, hit that SUBSCRIBE button and join the community. Drop a comment: What’s one area of the "grind" you're struggling with right now? Let's talk. #KingdomGrindset #ChristianTeen #SuccessSecrets #FaithAndBusiness #MentalHealth #BiblicalManhood #NoBurnout

    17 min
  4. MAR 30

    Lust Isn't What You Think (Hidden Sins Part 2)

    Is Your "Hobby" Actually a Hidden Sin? | Kingdom Grind Set Think lust is just about "inappropriate websites"? Think again. In this episode, we’re tearing the lid off the "Hidden Sins" that are quietly sabotaging young men today—from the thrill of horror movies and the trap of social media envy to the "slow burn" of isolation. If you feel like your life is stuck on a screen while everyone else is living a movie, this conversation is for you. We’re breaking down how to stop living for the next dopamine hit and start building a life that actually feels like it’s worth living. In this episode, we discuss: The Broader Definition of Lust: How a good hobby (like hiking or gaming) can turn into an obsession that replaces God. The "Slow Burn" Effect: Why you might not realize you’re being "burnt" by sin until someone else points it out. The Addiction to Fear: Why we get hooked on dread, jump-scares, and the "impending doom" of horror media. The YouTube & Social Media Trap: How envy and comparison erode your ability to improve your own life. The Antidote to Isolation: Why "living for yourself" never leads to satisfaction, and how serving others unlocks true joy. Key Verse: "A man who isolates himself seeks his own desires..." — Proverbs 18:1 RESOURCES & LINKS: 🔥 Missed Part 1? Catch the first installment of our Hidden Sins series here: Stop Fighting Alone: Your Guide to Spiritual Freedom 📈 Level Up Your Walk: Subscribe to the Kingdom Grind Set for weekly episodes designed to help Christian guys lead with purpose. 👥 Share the Strength: If this hit home, send this video to a brother who needs to hear it. Don't let him fight the fire alone. #ChristianTeen #Lust #KingdomGrindSet #MentalHealth #YoungMenOfGod #SpiritualGrowth #OvercomingTemptation #HiddenSin

    17 min

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Stop settling for average. Kingdom Grindset is the podcast for Christian teen guys who are tired of just drifting. Every week, we break down how to sharpen your faith, dial in your discipline, and train your body for the mission God has for you.It's time to stop watching from the sidelines while the world tries to make you soft. Start winning the war for your future. This is the grind. This is the Kingdom.