Kink Your Way

Leann Herron

Welcome to the Kink Your Way Podcast. Through honest communication and compelling personal stories, everyday people share their experiences, knowledge, education, and opinions on all things Kink and BDSM. Your Host, Leann Herron, is a Kink Aware Professional Certified Health, Life, and Relationship Coach. BDSM and Kink Practitioner and Educator and married collared submissive. Whether you're a seasoned kink enthusiast or just beginning to explore alternative lifestyles, Kink Your Way is here to guide and support you on your journey to embrace your desires.

  1. Dopamine and Desire: Understanding Pleasure Pathways

    JAN 27

    Dopamine and Desire: Understanding Pleasure Pathways

    Dopamine and Desire: Understanding Pleasure Pathways What if pain isn’t just pain—and pleasure isn’t always what we think? In the world of BDSM, the lines between agony and ecstasy blur in ways neuroscience is only beginning to explain. Join us as groundbreaking sex researcher Nishita Rao unpacks the neurobiology of kink, revealing how your brain processes pain, power, and pleasure. In this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron engages with sex researcher Nishita Rao to explore the complex neurobiology of BDSM, focusing on how the brain processes pain and pleasure. They discuss the role of dopamine in reward pathways, the significance of the amygdala in evaluating stimuli, and how context influences the perception of pain in BDSM. The conversation highlights the intricate relationship between pain and pleasure, emphasizing that BDSM experiences are not merely physical but deeply psychological and contextual. Key Takeaways: Pain and pleasure are not binary; they can overlap. Dopamine plays a crucial role in motivation and reward anticipation. The brain's response to stimuli is context-dependent. The amygdala evaluates the relevance of stimuli based on past experiences. BDSM can transform pain into pleasure through established trust and consent. Understanding the neurobiology of kink can enhance sexual experiences. Anticipation heightens the experience of pleasure in BDSM. Different types of pain (sharp, dull, emotional) affect perception differently. The brain's pathways for pain and pleasure are interconnected. 🕛 Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Dopamine and Desire with Nishita Rao 02:07 Disclaimers 03:27 Understanding Pleasure Pathways in the Brain 11:35 The Role of Dopamine in Reward and Anticipation 17:49 The Amygdala: More Than Just Fear 24:03 Contextualizing Pain in BDSM 34:44 The Neurobiology of Pain and Pleasure in BDSM Episode Resources: Guest: Nishita Rao Nishita Rao is the First and only Indian to become an AASECT Certified Sex Educator. She is also an Interdisciplinary Sex Researcher and a Behavioral Neuroscience Consultant, who hails from a background in Behavioral Neuroendocrinology, Bioengineering, Brain-Computer Interfaces & Sustainable Fragrance Industry. Connect with Nishita Rao Website: https://www.pillowtalkwithnixi.com/about Pillow Talk with Nixi https://www.pillowtalkwithnixi.com/ Center for Integrated Human Studieshttps://center-for-integrated-human-studies.notion.site/cihs Neuroscience Consultation https://cal.com/nishita-rao-ptwn Trauma-Informed Care https://cal.com/soul-sync-sanctuary Free Library https://www.pillowtalkwithnixi.com/sexscholarslibrary Eros Coaching: https://www.eroscoaching.com/2025/06/nishita-rao/ You can also find her on Bluesky, Instagram, LinkedIn, and YouTube Videos: Nociceptors - An Introduction to Pain https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUKlpuz2VTs PAIN! Physiology - The Ascending Pathway, Descending Pain Pathway and the Substantia Gelatinosa https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5c8maFAhqIc About your host: Leann Herron is a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast. Connect with Leann Herron: Kink Your Way Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ Finding Resilience with Leann Website: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com 🏷️Keywords: BDSM, neurobiology, pleasure pathways, dopamine, amygdala, pain perception, sex education, kink, neuroscience, pleasure and pain 🔎Related Hashtags:#neurobiology #neuralpathways #dopamine #amygdala #painpercept

    44 min
  2. Handcrafted Pleasure - The Kink Shop

    12/18/2025

    Handcrafted Pleasure - The Kink Shop

    Handcrafted Pleasure: The Legacy and Lifestyle Behind The Kink Shop In this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron and Ben from the Kink Shop discuss the intersection of community, craftsmanship, and kink culture. They explore their personal journeys into kink, the importance of education and consent, and the Kink Shop's philosophy of being 'by kinksters for kinksters.' The conversation highlights the significance of quality in kink products and the role of community in fosteringa safe and enjoyable kink experience. Key Takeaways: The Kink Shop has thrived for over 25 years due to itsstrong community ties.Ben's journey into kink began with his first event atFolsom Street Fair.Leann's introduction to kink came after a long vanillamarriage and self-discovery.Both Ben and Leann emphasize the importance ofexploring kink together with partners.The Kink Shop prioritizes customer service and treatscustomers like family.Education is crucial for safe and enjoyable kinkexperiences.Negotiation and consent are fundamental aspects ofkink play.The Kink Shop aims to provide quality products with alifetime warranty.Ben expresses a desire to expand the Kink Shopinternationally, particularly in Europe.Leann's podcast reaches a global audience, helping toconnect kinksters worldwide. 🕛 Timestamps 00:00 Handcrafted Pleasure for Over 25 Years 00:24 Greetings and Introduction to Ben and The KinkShop 01:48 The Kink Shop: Family-Owned, Handcrafted Toys 04:02 Ben's Kink Journey 07:13 Leann's Path to Kink 10:25 Shared Experiences in Kink Relationships 13:12 Kinktoberfest and Learning Together 17:05 Kink Shop Philosophy: By Kinksters for Kinksters 22:23 Quality and Craftsmanship in Kink Toys 27:05 Education and Safety in Kink Play 31:42 Navigating Safe Words and Scene Endings 32:09 Understanding Top and Bottom Headspaces 33:17 The Importance of Education in Kink 35:31 Exploring Sensuality and Intention in Play 37:14 The Role of Education and Resources in Kink 39:07 Negotiation and Safety in Kink Dynamics 40:24 The Risks and Responsibilities of Kink 43:20 Creating a Safe and Educational Kink Environment 44:48 Personalizing the Kink Experience 50:21 Kink and BDSM Resources and Education forWriters and Readers 54:28 Kink and BDSM Coaching 55:32 Future Aspirations for the Kink Shop 59:47 Connecting with the Kink Shop Don’t forget to like 👍, share 👉, and subscribe! Episode Resources: Guest: Ben, a proud kinkster, seasoned sales pro, and futureco-owner of The Kink Shop—a multi-generation, family-owned company that’s been handcrafting toys for over 25 years. Known for their thuddy impact toys, stingy sensations, and electro delights, The Kink Shop has become a cornerstone ofkink culture across the U.S. Connect with Ben: Website: https://thekinkshop.com/ Email: tks@joytrust.org Facebook: thekinkshop Twitter x @TheKinkShop Fetlife: TheKinkShop   About your host: Leann Herron is a Kink-AwareProfessional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast.  Connect with Leann Herron: Kink Your Way Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ Finding Resilience with Leann Website: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com 🔑 Keyword Tags Kink, BDSM, community, craftsmanship, education, consent, intimacy, identity, pleasure, toys 📣 Hashtags #education #sexpositive #consentculture #podcastinterview #community #lifetimewarranty #exploration #customerservice

    1h 1m
  3. Conscious Kink, Community, and Connection

    12/04/2025

    Conscious Kink, Community, and Connection

    Conscious Kink, Community, and Connection - The Kink Collective In this conversation, host Leann Herron speaks with Cat Ormeand Joshua Rodriguez, co-founders of the Kink Collective, about the transformative power of kink as a path to healing and empowerment. They discuss the importance of community, the philosophy of 'people before kink', and the necessity of education in navigating kink safely. The Kink Collective offersvarious programs aimed at fostering personal exploration, connection, and understanding within the kink community. They emphasize the significance of body mapping and communication in creating safe and fulfilling experiences inkink. In this conversation, Cat and Joshua explore the intersections of BDSM, personal responsibility, communication, and consent within BDSM practices. They emphasize the importance of self-advocacy, negotiation techniques for safer scenes, and the role of mentorship in kink communities. The discussion also delves into the integration of trauma and kink, the redefinition ofmasculinity, and the creation of safe spaces for vulnerability. Theconversation concludes with insights on personal growth and the importance of education in navigating these complex topics. Key Takeaways: BDSM is a valid contribution to somatic healing arts.Personal responsibility is crucial in BDSM practices.Communication is key; partners should not expect mind reading.Negotiation is essential for safety and consent in BDSM.Mentorship is vital for newcomers in kink communities.Trauma can inform one's experience in kink and BDSM.Redefining masculinity is important for personal growth.Creating safe spaces allows for vulnerability and healing.Education is necessary for understanding and navigating kink. 🕛 Timestamps 00:00 Greetings and Introduction of Cat Orme and JoshuaRodriguez 02:37 The Mission of the Kink Collective 04:55 Community and Connection in Kink 08:29 People Before Kink Philosophy 11:10 The Importance of Educational Spaces 14:26 Navigating Kink Safely 19:07 Healing Through Kink Practices 23:35 Finding Your Voice in Kink 27:43 Programs Offered by the Kink Collective 35:28 The Power of Perspective-Based Learning 37:22 Healing Through Kink Program 39:15 Body Mapping: Understanding Our Sensations 43:57 Navigating Limitations in BDSM 46:49 Personal Responsibility in BDSM Relationships 01:01:02 The Role of Mentorship in BDSM 01:03:09 MITPISA - Negotiation Tools for Safety in BDSM 01:17:13 The Importance of Follow-Up and Communication 01:19:23 Navigating Grief and Trauma in Kink 01:31:38 Redefining Masculinity and Identity 01:44:15 Creating Safe Spaces for Men to Share Episode Resources:   Guests: Cat Orme and Joshua Rodriguez –Co-founders of Kink Collective Kink Collective is a place where curiosity is met with respect, and every journey is built on honesty and understanding. Find the support and community to explore meaningful connections and profound self-discovery. Connect with Cat Orme and JoshuaRodriguez: Website: https://kinkcollective.net/   About your host: Leann Herron is a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast.    Connect with Leann Herron: Kink Your Way Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/   Finding Resilience with Leann Website: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com Podcast: Happiness On Tap https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVch1Dz_wc4GYfCzZrK656eNXpOqBYcm3&si=AQ_vTu-zvwmJCY_F   Keywords: Kink, BDSM, Healing, Community, Education, Transformation, Empowerment, Connection, Negotiation, Safety, somatic healing, BDSM, personal responsibility, communication, consent, negotiation, mentorship, trauma, masculinity

    1h 52m
  4. Beyond Safe Words: The Psychology of Trust and Power Exchange

    10/06/2025

    Beyond Safe Words: The Psychology of Trust and Power Exchange

    Beyond Safe Words: The Psychology of Trust and Power Exchange In this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron is joined by the dynamic duo—Enchantress Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky. Together, they bring a fresh, playful, and deeply insightful perspective to intimacy, love, and personal growth. Shane and Steve share their PARN framework—Play, Attention, Reveal, Notice, a practical and transformative guide to building trust and connection beyond the mechanics of safe words. From the psychology of vulnerability to the importance of humor and play, they explore how power exchange becomes a pathway to authentic relationships that feel alive and nourishing. Whether you’re curious about kink or looking to deepen your current dynamics, this conversation offers wisdom, laughter, and real-world practices to help you create relationships rooted in trust, freedom, and joy. We discussed: 0:00 Greetings and Introduction of Enchantress Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky 1:52 An introduction to their backgrounds, their partnership, and how their shared journey informs their teachings on love, intimacy, and personal growth. 15:01 The PARN Framework — Play, Attention, Reveal, Notice: How their unique approach helps couples and individuals cultivate deeper intimacy, self-awareness, and connection. 21:44 The Role of Playfulness - curiosity, joy, being childlike. 31:59 Leann shares her story of loving herself, developing her voice, and exploring which eventually led to her discovery of Kink and BDSM. 37:28 Mindfulness, self-awareness, and safety are keys to receiving pleasure. 39:21 Beyond Safe Words - The power of communication in negotiating. 42:12 Noticing - Awareness, breaks, and edging to extend the play. 44:01 It's your responsibility to use your safe-word, if needed. 45:03 Vulnerability as a strength enhances the experience of power exchange and deepens trust between partners. 56:09 Revealing - Check-In's are vital during and after play. 59:46 Mindfulness and Intimacy: Dr. Steve shares how meditation and mindful presence build safety, connection, and trust in everyday relationships. 1:04:40 Exercises for connecting your mind to your body. 1:04:14 Creativity and Emotional Awareness: Shane discusses how creativity, emotional expression, and self-revelation weave into the psychology of intimacy and power dynamics. 1:12:18 Navigating Challenges in Trust and Power: Common struggles couples face—like communication breakdowns and fear of surrender—and how to move through them with compassion. 1:21:26 First Steps into Power Exchange: Encouragement and guidance for those curious about exploring kink, with a focus on safety, curiosity, and mutual respect. Episode Resources: Guests: Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky Enchantress Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky, partners in both life and work, guide people through the art of connection using their unique framework of P.A.R.N. - Your Pathway to Real Intimacy Through Play, Attention, Revealing, and Noticing. For more information on Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky, please visit: Website: https://www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EnchantressShane 🆓Free Gift: Coming Soon About your host: Leann Herron is a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast. For more information on Leann Herron, please visit: Kink Your Way Website: https://kinkyourway.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ Finding Resilience with Leann Website: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com 🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secrets

    1h 28m
  5. Liberation Through Art, Sex, and Healing

    09/16/2025

    Liberation Through Art, Sex, and Healing

    Liberation Through Art, Sex, and Healing What if kink could be more than play—what if it could also be art, healing, and liberation? In this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron sits down with Tiffany Hall—visionary filmmaker, performer, Reiki Master, yogi, and holistic wellness practitioner—whose work lives at the sacred crossroads of sexuality, spirituality, and design. With roots in theater, dance, film, yoga, and Reiki, Tiffany brings a multidimensional lens to erotic expression. Her latest projects include Delet3Lola, a custom BDSM wear line, along with a striking new collection of copper jewelry and leather fur gear that merges sensuality, ritual, and craftsmanship. Tiffany’s artistry redefines kink not as taboo, but as a powerful pathway to creativity, empowerment, and whole-body healing. Together, we explore how kink gear can become tools of self-actualization, the artistry of BDSM fashion, and the power of inclusive erotic spaces. Tune in for an illuminating conversation that redefines how we see gear, play, and the role of sexuality in our healing and liberation. We discussed: 0:00 Greetings and introduction of Tiffany Hall. 2:02 Tiffany’s journey from theater, dance, film, and yoga into BDSM as a sacred practice. 5:16 The inspiration behind Delet3Lola and how clothing and gear become extensions of empowerment and erotic identity. 7:02 The unique role of copper, leather, and fur in creating sensual and powerful BDSM tools. 7:45 How her designs help people embody and express their erotic selves. 10:23 Healing power of copper, crystals, and energy. 13:12 Tiffany's customizable and infused jewelry and kink gear, including durability. 24:03 The problems with selling BDSM gear. 30:10 Reframing kink beyond play and taboo into a healing, transformative practice. 32:44 The importance of community and inclusivity in creating liberating erotic spaces. 33:32 Tiffany shares her story of how this life, this season, was opened up to her through an astrology reading. 34:59 How storytelling and visual art as a filmmaker influence her BDSM gear and performances. 37:56 Misrepresentations in porn, safety concerns in porn and kink and BDSM spaces. 40:57 Purchasing quality kink and bdsm gear. 41:47 Practical ways to bring more artistry, ritual, and sacredness into your own BDSM practice. Tiffany shows us that kink is not only play—it’s a canvas for healing, self-expression, and empowerment. Tiffany is redefining what it means to embody sexuality as art and medicine. If this conversation opened your mind, share it with a friend who’s ready to explore kink beyond the surface. And remember: stay curious, stay playful, and keep finding the ways you can Kink Your Way. 🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽 Episode Resources: Tiffany Hall Website: https://www.sexiestpocbrands.store/ Other Social Media: Sexiest_POC on Instagram Ki-fi Crowdfunding Campaign https://ko-fi.com/sexiestpocbrands Leann Herron Kink Your Way Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ 🆓Self-Care First Kink Play Prep Checklist - FREE PDF https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/digital-products/ols/products/mental-health-first-kink-play-prep-checklist 📲 You can access the audio version on your favorite podcast platforms: IHeart, Spotify, Amazon Music, Podchaser, and Audible (just search Kink Your Way) #somatichealing #lifestylecommunity #empowerment #copperjewelry #kinkfashion #healing

    53 min
  6. Navigating Kinky, Non-Monogamous, and Lifestyle Relationships

    09/08/2025

    Navigating Kinky, Non-Monogamous, and Lifestyle Relationships

    Navigating Kinky, Non-Monogamous, and Lifestyle Relationships What does it really take to build healthy, shame-free, and joy-filled relationships in kink, non-monogamy, and lifestyle spaces? In this episode of Kink Your Way, I’m joined by Dr. Ashley—Sexologist, Relationship Coach, and proud member of the kink and swinging lifestyle communities. With nearly two decades of experience and a “no-nonsense, don’t f*** around” approach, Dr. Ashley helps individuals and couples break free from shame, guilt, and unhealthy control to create relationships rooted in authenticity and joy. We explore what it really takes to navigate kinky and non-monogamous dynamics, how to deconstruct sex-negative narratives, and why communication and self-knowledge are at the heart of every healthy relationship. Dr. Ashley also shares how her own journey of sexual liberation, survivorship, and mental health advocacy informs her coaching practice. If you’ve ever wondered how to move through stigma, set boundaries, and build thriving relationships in lifestyle communities, this conversation is for you. Key Moments We Discussed Dr. Ashley shares how her journey of sexual liberation, survivorship, and healing informs her coaching. I reflect on my own journey within the kink lifestyle and how those experiences shape my coaching approach. We talk about how it’s absolutely possible to have children and balance lifestyle relationships. Dr. Ashley unpacks how shame and guilt often show up in kinky and non-monogamous relationships, holding people back from full self-expression. She offers her best advice for newcomers to lifestyle dynamics—emphasizing communication, education, exploring proactively instead of reactively, clear boundaries, and pacing yourself. I share my experiences with my introduction to kink, finding community, and exploring different roles. We explore how power dynamics shift across all types of relationships. Together, we discuss the unique challenges kinky and non-monogamous couples face compared to traditional monogamous ones, including jealousy, multiple desires, and agreements—while showing how communication is key. We highlight the importance of realizing you don’t need to be everything for your partner. Dr. Ashley outlines supportive tools for trauma survivors such as coaching, therapy, education, community, and self-awareness practices. I share my own healing as a trauma survivor and how kink gave me empowerment through choice and control. Dr. Ashley challenges the myth that kink or non-monogamy leads to unstable relationships, stressing that intentionality and honesty build success. She speaks openly about living with Bipolar and ADHD, and how her transparency helps clients see that thriving relationships are possible. We close with a discussion on how stigma, slut-shaming, and sex-negative narratives continue to impact lifestyle communities—and how breaking them down creates true freedom. Episode Resources: Dr. Ashley: Website: https://www.relationshipandsexualhealthcoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-ashley-81680b309/overlay/contact-info/ “Just The Tip” Blog https://www.relationshipandsexualhealthcoaching.com/blog Leann Herron Kink Your Way: Subscribe for more great content: @kinkyourway Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ 🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secrets #nonmonogamy #relationshipcoach #traumahealing #polyamory

    53 min
  7. Healing Codependence Through Conscious Kink

    08/20/2025

    Healing Codependence Through Conscious Kink

    Healing Codependence Through Conscious Kink Cheryl Fidelman, the Conscious Codependence Coach, joins the show to discuss how trauma can influence behaviors in kink, including people-pleasing and power dynamics. Learn about codependency in relationships and how understanding these patterns can lead to deeper healing and self-awareness. Discover how to set boundaries and prioritize self love in your power exchange. Cheryl shares her journey into this work and introduces us to her Conscious Codependence™ methodology—a powerful blend of somatic experiencing, cognitive behavioral therapy, and intersubjective meditation. “The practice of true intimacy & sovereignty is to expose our open heart and broken heart at the exact same time. As we move through the process of returning back to ourselves, we find that the safety to do so lies within.” – C. Fidelman We discussed: ✅ Cheryl's mission, passion, and purpose to help people come back into their body. ✅ Codependency versus conscious choice. ✅ Cheryl's journey into this work, her traumatic identity. ✅ Conscious choice for healing and in relationships. ✅ Developing a self, a voice, an identity, after codependency. ✅ What Conscious Codependence™ really means and how it differs from traditional definitions. ✅Being in our emotions and sensations, where we can surrender and receive. ✅ Conscious choice in kink and BDSM. ✅ The 3 Codes to Clear Codependency (see free gift) - the framework of the conscious codependency process for codependency in general and in the kink world. ✅ How codependent patterns often play out in kink dynamics. Kink can be the access to so much healing and personal evolution. ✅ The difference between trauma bonding and authentic connection (especially to self). ✅ Healing the nervous system through a somatic experiencing practice called the TSE Practice: Thoughts, Sensations, Emotions. ✅ Through the conscious codependency process your thoughts are: past tripping, future tripping, or about somebody else. Notice your thoughts and your feelings. ✅ Creating your inner navigator to heal your nervous system and connect with your body. ✅ How intersubjective meditation (TSE practice) supports healing, self-trust and embodiment. ✅ The practice of identifying thoughts (past, future, or about someone else) and shifting into feelings and emotions. ✅ Boundaries as a form of expansion—learning to trust and hold them with clarity and strength. ✅ Learning how to "feel". ✅ Cheryl's offerings for individuals, couples, and groups (virtual only), includes a free consultation. ✅ Decreasing your "return to self" time. ✅ No statute of limitations on consent and communication in kink. This conversation is about reclaiming sovereignty, learning to listen to the wisdom of your body, and building kink relationships from a place of empowered authenticity. 🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽 Episode Resources: Cheryl Fidelman: Website: https://cherylfidelman.com/ (free offerings, videos, audios) Podcast: The Conscious Codependence Podcast https://cherylfidelman.com/podcast/ (250 videos on YouTube) 🆓Get your FREE PDF on:The 3 Codes to Clear Codependency https://cherylfidelman.com/ Leann Herron: Kink Your Way Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ 🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secrets 📲 You can access the audio version on your favorite podcast platforms: IHeart, Spotify, Amazon Music, Podchaser, and Audible (just search Kink Your Way) #traumahealing #somatichealing #codependencyrecovery

    1h 16m
  8. Kink, Community, & Conference Life: The World of Smut Lovers

    08/06/2025

    Kink, Community, & Conference Life: The World of Smut Lovers

    Kink, Community, & Conference Life: The World of Smut Lovers In this fiery and inspiring return episode, host Leann welcomes back USA Today Best-Selling Romance Author Nikki Rome to discuss how she transformed her passion for steamy, kink-positive romance into a thriving, inclusive empire: Smut Lovers. Nikki shares the journey behind Smut Lovers: The Community, The Podcast, and The Conference, revealing how her frustration with the lack of accurate kink information for writers sparked a movement. Smut Lovers has become a vibrant hub where authors and readers can learn, explore, and celebrate the intersection of kink, romance, and storytelling. We discussed: The evolution of Smut Lovers from idea to full-blown brand. What sets the Smut Lovers community apart from typical romance reader groups. Surprising lessons Nikki has learned while expanding her brand. Behind-the-scenes insights into Smut Lovers: The Conference—who it's for and why it matters. Demo dungeon experience. Representation gaps in the genre and what readers are craving now. The role of kink-aware communities in normalizing sexual exploration. A major myth about smutty romance Nikki is ready to debunk. What’s next for Nikki and the Smut Lovers universe. This episode is a celebration of storytelling, sex-positivity, and the power of building spaces where kink, curiosity, and community thrive. 🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽 Nikki Rome: Websites: https://smutlovers.org/ https://smutsource.com/ https://nikkirome.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SmutLovers Smut Lovers: The Podcast on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/475F4uepDq05D3kUF9Kcvf?si=6b24670a07af4e99 Leann Herron: Kink Your Way Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway 🆓 FREE Kink Play Safety Checklist - FREE PDF https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/digital-products/ols/products/kink-play-safety-checklist 📲 You can access the audio version on your favorite podcast platforms: IHeart, Spotify, Amazon Music, Podchaser, and Audible (just search Kink Your Way) #romancereader #bookcommunity #romanceauthor #womenwhowrite #authorinterview #smutlovers

    37 min

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Welcome to the Kink Your Way Podcast. Through honest communication and compelling personal stories, everyday people share their experiences, knowledge, education, and opinions on all things Kink and BDSM. Your Host, Leann Herron, is a Kink Aware Professional Certified Health, Life, and Relationship Coach. BDSM and Kink Practitioner and Educator and married collared submissive. Whether you're a seasoned kink enthusiast or just beginning to explore alternative lifestyles, Kink Your Way is here to guide and support you on your journey to embrace your desires.