Kinks On A Platter

Lady Ruby

This is a podcast that will be based on my opinions, thoughts, views and lessons from personal experiences and interactions with people living the kinky and queer lifestyle in Nigeria. The podcast will cover everything from sexuality to religion, morality to spirituality, financial freedom to wealth creation and so on.

  1. Intention is the Point

    2월 19일

    Intention is the Point

    Ramadan and Lent are sacred seasons of restraint, reflection, and recalibration. But what happens when devotion becomes performance? In this episode, I explore the tension between intention and image — the difference between quiet discipline and curated spirituality. Drawing from faith, personal experience, and reflections on ethical power dynamics, I ask a simple but unsettling question: why are we practicing what we practice? This is not a critique of religion, but an invitation to protect its depth.

    15분
  2. How Kink Speaks Every Love Language

    2월 14일

    How Kink Speaks Every Love Language

    We all know the feeling of being truly seen by a partner. That moment when someone gets you—really gets you—and responds in a way that makes you feel cherished. But what if that moment happens while you're tied up? What if it comes in the form of a whispered command? What if it's the quiet trust of a safeword? In this episode, we're exploring the surprising overlap between kink and the Five Love Languages. Because when you strip away the leather, the rope, and the stereotypes—what's left is something profoundly human: the desire to connect, to be known, and to love and be loved on your own terms. We break down each love language through a kink lens: · Words of Affirmation: Praise kink, humiliation dynamics, and the power of being "seen" · Acts of Service: Service submission and the Dominant's hidden labor of love · Receiving Gifts: Why Total Power Exchange might be the ultimate present · Quality Time: How scenes demand 100% presence in a distracted world · Physical Touch: Beyond sex—touch as language, comfort, and connection Plus: Is there actually a sixth love language hiding in plain sight? Whether you're deep in the lifestyle or just kink-curious, this conversation will make you think differently about what "romance" can mean. Content note: This episode discusses adult themes related to BDSM and power exchange. We approach everything through the lens of safety, enthusiastic consent, and communication.

    29분

  3. 2025. 08. 06.

    Toes, Temptation, and Tenderness: Exploring Foot Fetish in Your Intimacy

    n this juicy episode of Kinks on a Platter, Goddess Supreme slips off the stilettos and walks you right into the sensual world of foot fetish. 👣 Whether you’re toe-curious or already a proud foot worshipper, this episode breaks down the beauty of foot play, how to introduce it into your relationship, and how to make it a delicious part of your sexual intimacy. We’re talking massages, toe-sucking, foot jobs, dominance, submission, and everything in between — with zero shame and maximum pleasure. You’ll learn practical tips, steamy ideas, and how to turn what many see as “weird” into something powerful, playful, and oh-so-hot. So… feet up or feet down — let’s get kinky.

    13분
  4. Rack: Simply Explained

    2025. 04. 29.

    Rack: Simply Explained

    In this in‑depth solo episode of Kinks on a Platter, Raven Black breaks down the RACK framework—Risk‑Aware Consensual Kink—from its 1990s origins to practical, scene‑by‑scene applications. You’ll learn how to: - Create a comprehensive Risk Inventory that maps out tools, techniques, and emergency plans - Structure a three‑phase consent process with pre‑scene negotiation, in‑scene check‑ins, and post‑scene debrief - Walk through a sample sensory‑deprivation and candle‑wax scene step by step - Troubleshoot unexpected risks, emotional overwhelm, and safeword misfires - Adopt best practices for ongoing education, equipment upkeep, and self‑care Whether you’re exploring kink for the first time or deepening an existing practice, this episode equips you with the confidence and clarity to make every scene both thrilling and responsible.

    22분
  5. Praise Isn't Just Kinky

    2025. 04. 25.

    Praise Isn't Just Kinky

    They say that if it makes your soil tingle then you should not hesitate to ask for it. No one should feel shame craving attention as their is power in asking for what feeds your submissive spirit. How do praise kink work? What does it really do for those who wield it or receive it? This episode will open your eyes and minds into what something as simple as "good girl" and "you did that task so well, I'm proud pumpkin " does in a D/s dynamic. #praisekink #bdsmpodcast #nsfwpodcast #kinkaudio #Africabdsm

    10분
  6. Gender Versus Personality: A Power Exchange Chronicle

    2025. 04. 21.

    Gender Versus Personality: A Power Exchange Chronicle

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    4분

  7. 2023. 06. 19.

    BDSM Roles And Plays That Every Beginner Should Know

    Here we looked at 15 bdsm roles and scenes that every beginner should know when they venture into the bdsm lifestyle. This episode further explains what certain roles entail and how best to do them.

    29분

  8. 2023. 02. 12.

    Safe and Sane Sessions: The POV of a Malesub

    On this episode, we highlighted the path of both paid sessions and lifestyle sessions. My guest, a male sub in the kink world in Nigeria , shares his thoughts and opinions on what SSC means to him in different scenarios. What are the red flags a sub should look out for when going for a session with a pro-domme? How can a sub get out of a session that goes south during play? What makes a sub unappealing to a dominant? What is the best way to communicate a concern? All these are what we tackled on the episode.

    37분
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소개

This is a podcast that will be based on my opinions, thoughts, views and lessons from personal experiences and interactions with people living the kinky and queer lifestyle in Nigeria. The podcast will cover everything from sexuality to religion, morality to spirituality, financial freedom to wealth creation and so on.

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  • 제작진
    Lady Ruby
  • 방송 연도
    2020년 - 2026년
  • 에피소드
    24
  • 등급
    무삭제판
  • 저작권
    © Lady Ruby
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    Kinks On A Platter

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