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This podcast explores the messy, magical and meaningful parts of being human, from identity and emotions to sports and friendship. Each episode dives into different aspects of modern life, told through raw conversations, smart commentary and moments of reflection

JAN 13

Ep 34: The Emotional Cost of Always Being ‘Low Maintenance

Always being “low maintenance” can quietly cost you your voice, your energy, and your needs. In this episode, we explore how minimizing yourself becomes a survival strategy, why asking for more feels uncomfortable, and how to let your needs take up space without guilt.

17 min
JAN 6

Ep 33: Why Happiness Sometimes Triggers Guilt

Happiness isn’t always easy to accept. In this episode, we explore why feeling good can bring guilt, how past pain shapes our relationship with joy, and why peace can feel undeserved after survival. A quiet conversation about learning to let happiness exist without self-punishment.

17 min
12/30/2025

Ep 32: Outgrowing the Version of You People Still Love

Outgrowing the version of yourself that people still love can feel painful and isolating. In this episode, we explore the guilt, grief, and freedom that come with change, and what it means to choose growth without apologizing. A reflective conversation about identity, boundaries, and becoming who you are now.

18 min
12/23/2025

Ep 31: The Fear of Being Seen After You’ve Healed

After healing, being seen can feel more intimidating than being wounded. In this episode, we explore why peace feels vulnerable, how presence changes visibility, and what it means to show up without overexplaining. A quiet, honest conversation about boundaries, integration, and learning to be seen on your own terms.

24 min
12/16/2025

Ep 30: When Peace Feels Boring: Why Chaos Can Feel Like Home

Sometimes peace doesn’t feel like relief. Sometimes it feels unfamiliar, restless, even boring. In this episode, Oni explores why chaos can feel like home, how our bodies learn to survive in intensity, and why calm challenges the identities we’ve built around struggle. From the subtle ways we recreate chaos to the practice of staying present in stillness, this episode dives deep into what it truly means to exist without constant urgency, and how peace reshapes our connection with ourselves and others.

44 min
12/02/2025

Ep 29: The Art of Small Talk

This episode explores the surprisingly rich and essential role of small talk in human connection. We trace its origins back to our survival instincts, where brief, polite exchanges helped signal safety and trust in early communities. What seems trivial commenting on the weather or asking about someone’s weekend is actually a deeply social ritual that helps us read cues, build rapport, and create safe openings for deeper interaction. We unpack how small talk acts as a gateway to emotional check-ins, tiny flashes of belonging, and spontaneous moments of joy. Rather than dismiss it as awkward or shallow, we reframe small talk as a vital social art form one that’s unscripted, low-pressure, and rich with human potential. From grocery lines to office elevators, it's these tiny conversations that keep us tethered to each other in an increasingly disconnected world.

16 min
11/25/2025

Ep 28: Why do we clap?

Why do we clap? It seems simple, even automatic but behind every round of applause is a strange, fascinating story. In this episode, we dig into the cultural history of clapping, from ancient rituals to Roman emperors, from paid audiences in old opera houses to political rallies and global traditions. Along the way, we explore why clapping feels so satisfying, how it spreads like a social wave, and what it really means when we bring our hands together in sync. Is it instinct? Is it learned? Is it just noise or something deeper? This episode travels through awkward silences, heartfelt performances, sacred spaces, and standing ovations to uncover how applause became a universal expression of connection and gratitude. Whether you’re a full-throttle stadium clapper or a quiet golf-clap kind of soul, this one’s for you.

27 min
11/18/2025

Ep 27: Read Me Wrong: The Science (and Chaos) of First Impressions

In this engaging and reflective episode, we dive deep into the psychology and real-life messiness of first impressions. From that one time someone ghosted after a “perfect” first date to misjudging a future best friend based on an awkward hello, we explore how quickly our brains form judgments and how often they're completely off. Blending science with personal storytelling and pop-culture-worthy observations, the episode unpacks why we get stuck on initial vibes, what those impressions really say about us, and how to navigate the social world with more grace, curiosity, and second chances. It’s funny, a little chaotic, and surprisingly hopeful because even when we mess it up, there’s always room to see someone (or be seen) more clearly the second time around.

20 min

This podcast explores the messy, magical and meaningful parts of being human, from identity and emotions to sports and friendship. Each episode dives into different aspects of modern life, told through raw conversations, smart commentary and moments of reflection

Creator

Oni
Years Active

2025 - 2026
Episodes

34
Rating

Clean
Copyright

© Oni
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