Lead & Follow

Sharna Fabiano
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Lead & Follow offers a candid discussion of teamwork, collaboration, and professional development. Host Sharna Fabiano talks with scholars, educators, and artists to explore the relational dance between leadership and followership, and how to become excellent in both roles.

  1. JAN 17

    The Tango Waits For You - Episode 4: Night of Spirits

    Send Fan Mail by Text! This is a bonus episode of The Tango Waits For You, a 3-part audio documentary series that tells the story of the first year of building a brand-new tango community in Long Beach, California. It’s both my story, of losing a dream and finding it again, and it’s also a story of dozens of people coming together by chance in a way that feels like it was truly meant to be. It’s a story full of friendship, connection, trust, and discovery, all the things we seek together on the dance floor. Being together in person is so important right now. Whether you dance tango or not, I hope you enjoy these episodes. Episode 4: Night of Spirits -  LB Tango hosts its first ritual milonga for the greater LA tango community, in celebration of Dia de los Muertos. Episode References “Tar Liom Siar,” written and performed by Moya Brennan, Lynne Earls, and Cormac de Barra. Produced and recorded by Lynne Earls, from the album Timeless.  Long Beach Tango https://www.sharnafabiano.com/tango Altar Milonga (Photos by Andrei Andreev) https://www.sharnafabiano.com/altar-milonga Elena's Elixirs https://elenaselixirs.com/ Altar Society Brewing & Coffee Co. https://altarsocietybrewco.com/ Mike Cokley, Altar Society General Manager gm@altarbrands.com Wisdom of the past (by Elena's Elixers) Ilegal Joven Mezcal • Largo Bay Coquito Liqueur • Cacao Liqueur • Fresh Lime Juice • Ancho Reyes Chile Liqueur • Egg White • Aztec Cacao Bitters Garnished with fresh nutmeg and floating marigold From the high deserts of Oaxaca to the sun-warmed shores of the Caribbean, this cocktail traces an invisible thread through the Americas—where every region honors those who came before. In Mexico, marigolds (cempasúchitl) carpet the paths for Día de los Muertos. Guatemala flies giant barriletes for Día de Todos Los Santos. Bolivia shapes bread into guaguas de pan for Día de Todos los Difuntos. Peru, Ecuador, El Salvador—each has its own name, its own ritual, yet all share the same November vigil. This drink brings together ingredients with no obvious reason to meet, yet they dance in surprising harmony. Un Abrazo Final (by Elena's Elixers) Tequila Reposado • Malbec • Fresh Lime Juice • Grenadine • Araceli Marigold Liqueur • Fernet-Branca Sea salt rim, finished with a spritz of rose and marigold for fragrance On Día de los Muertos, the veil between worlds grows thin. The living and the dead draw close—not in sorrow, but in celebration, in one final dance of remembrance. This cocktail honors that tender moment when memory becomes presence, when those we've lost feel near enough to touch. Salt crystallizes like tears along the rim. Fernet-Branca whispers bitter truths of departure. Grenadine holds the sweetness of stolen moments, while Malbec bleeds with the complexity of love and loss. Tequila and marigold become golden of Support the show * Connect with your host Sharna Fabiano https://www.sharnafabiano.com Order the book: Lead & Follow https://www.amazon.com/Lead-Follow-Dance-Inspired-Teamwork/dp/1646632796/ Support the Show! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1735834/support

    25 min

  2. 12/31/2025

    The Space Between: How Followership Expands our Ability to Lead - Sharna Fabiano & Amy Lombardo

    Send Fan Mail by Text! This is a reverse interview with my coaching colleague and former teacher Amy Lombardo, originally recorded for Amy’s podcast, Human Not Hacked.   Through the lens of dance, art, and embodied practice, this conversation challenges one of our culture’s most persistent illusions: that power means control, and that growth requires constant self-improvement. In this soulful conversation, Sharna and Amy unpack what happens when we stop trying to master ourselves and instead learn to move with life, not against it. Together, they explore how the anti-self-help philosophy—the heart of Human Not Hacked—intersects with Sharna’s groundbreaking work on leadership and followership. From the dance floor to the boardroom, they talk about what it means to lead with presence, to follow with awareness, and to allow space for the unexpected. They also dive into how control shows up somatically: in the body, in relationships, and in the subtle ways we tighten around our desire to “get it right.” Sharna shares her lived experience of unlearning the toxic self-help conditioning that tells us we must be endlessly optimized, productive, and emotionally contained. She speaks candidly about the courage it takes to unhook from those narratives, to honor our imperfections, and to build a new relationship with power—one rooted in responsiveness, humility, and connection. Sharna also reflects on her experience in the Brilliance Coaching Academy, discussing how the training helped her shed the “shoulds” of performance-based leadership and reconnect to her authentic voice as a coach and teacher. About Amy Amy Lombardo is the founder of the Brilliance Coaching Academy and author of the award-winning book Brilliance. With more than 25 years of experience as a coach, leadership mentor, and yoga teacher, Amy weaves together somatic practices, deep listening, and inclusive leadership tools to guide people into authentic transformation. Her work is rooted in the belief that each of us has an inner brilliance waiting to be expressed—and that when we nurture it, we change not only our own lives but the world around us.  Amy Lombardo https://amylombardo.com/ Brilliance Coaching Academy https://coach-brilliance.com/ Human, Not Hacked: The Anti-Self Help Podcast https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-human-not-hacked-the-anti-297892497/ Support the show * Connect with your host Sharna Fabiano https://www.sharnafabiano.com Order the book: Lead & Follow https://www.amazon.com/Lead-Follow-Dance-Inspired-Teamwork/dp/1646632796/ Support the Show! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1735834/support

    1h 3m

  3. 10/12/2025

    The Tango Waits For You - Episode 3: Community

    Send Fan Mail by Text! The Tango Waits For You is a 3-part documentary series that tells the story of the first year of building a brand-new tango community in Long Beach, California. It’s both my story, of losing a dream and finding it again, and it’s also a story of dozens of people coming together by chance in a way that feels like it was truly meant to be. It’s a story full of friendship, connection, trust, and discovery, all the things we seek together on the dance floor. Being together in person is so important right now. Whether you dance tango or not, I hope you enjoy these episodes. Episode 3: Community -  We start teaching two simultaneous classes, add a monthly práctica, and the group dynamic takes on a life of its own.   Episode References Altar Milonga: Night of Spirits - Monday, Nov. 3 https://www.sharnafabiano.com/tango Tango Resources & LB Tango Schedule https://www.sharnafabiano.com/tango Altar Society Brewing & Coffee Co. https://altarsocietybrewco.com/ Mike Cokley, Altar Society General Manager gm@altarbrands.com Support the show * Connect with your host Sharna Fabiano https://www.sharnafabiano.com Order the book: Lead & Follow https://www.amazon.com/Lead-Follow-Dance-Inspired-Teamwork/dp/1646632796/ Support the Show! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1735834/support

    24 min

  4. 09/21/2025

    The Tango Waits For You - Episode 2: Altar Society

    Send Fan Mail by Text! The Tango Waits For You is a 3-part documentary series that tells the story of the first year of building a brand-new tango community in Long Beach, California. It’s both my story, of losing a dream and finding it again, and it’s also a story of dozens of people coming together by chance in a way that feels like it was truly meant to be. It’s a story full of friendship, connection, trust, and discovery, all the things we seek together on the dance floor. Being together in person is so important right now. Whether you dance tango or not, I hope you enjoy these episodes. Episode 2: Altar Society -  Partnership with a local venue provides an opportunity for Long Beach Tango to expand and grow.   Episode References Tango Resources & LB Tango Schedule https://www.sharnafabiano.com/tango Altar Society Brewing & Coffee Co. https://altarsocietybrewco.com/ Mike Cokley, Altar Society General Manager gm@altarbrands.com Support the show * Connect with your host Sharna Fabiano https://www.sharnafabiano.com Order the book: Lead & Follow https://www.amazon.com/Lead-Follow-Dance-Inspired-Teamwork/dp/1646632796/ Support the Show! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1735834/support

    32 min

  5. 09/07/2025

    The Tango Waits For You - Episode 1: The Dream

    Send Fan Mail by Text! The Tango Waits For You is a 3-part documentary series that tells the story of the first year of building a brand-new tango community in Long Beach, California. It’s both my story, of losing a dream and finding it again, and it’s also a story of dozens of people coming together by chance in a way that feels like it was truly meant to be. It’s a story full of friendship, connection, trust, and discovery, all the things we seek together on the dance floor. Being together in person is so important right now. Whether you dance tango or not, I hope you enjoy these episodes. Episode 1: The Dream -  After being retired from tango for seven years, Sharna meets four locals at a coffee meetup who want to learn to dance.   Episode References Tango Resources & LB Tango Schedule https://www.sharnafabiano.com/tango Altar Society Brewing & Coffee Co. https://altarsocietybrewco.com/ Mike Cokley, Altar Society General Manager gm@altarbrands.com Support the show * Connect with your host Sharna Fabiano https://www.sharnafabiano.com Order the book: Lead & Follow https://www.amazon.com/Lead-Follow-Dance-Inspired-Teamwork/dp/1646632796/ Support the Show! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1735834/support

    27 min

  6. 08/11/2025

    What Makes Tango So Compelling - Sharna Fabiano & Dan Istrate

    Send Fan Mail by Text! In this episode, Sharna shares her own history and experience with tango as a social dance form. It’s a reverse interview with Actor and Director Dan Istrate, who has been a guest on the show twice before. They talk together about Sharna's discovery and rediscovery of tango, and about what makes tango so compelling for so many people. “There’s a weight within this dance, within this concept, that speaks for itself.”"Tango comes like a revelation in one’s life and you just know it.""There was some kind of way that this particular form was changing me on all levels and that’s what made it feel so necessary and inevitable.""You bring yourself to it and it's scary in a way but then it's so beautiful when you really connect."More with Dan Istrate S3 E3: Connected Social Conversations – Dan Istrate https://leadfollow.buzzsprout.com/1735834/episodes/14781194-connected-social-conversations-dan-istrate S1 E15: Lead/Follow Relationships in Live Theater Performance - Dan Istrate https://leadfollow.buzzsprout.com/1735834/episodes/9621693-lead-follow-relationships-in-live-theater-performance-dan-istrate Connect with Dan Istrate www.danistrate.com Support the show * Connect with your host Sharna Fabiano https://www.sharnafabiano.com Order the book: Lead & Follow https://www.amazon.com/Lead-Follow-Dance-Inspired-Teamwork/dp/1646632796/ Support the Show! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1735834/support

    54 min

  7. 07/23/2025

    Followership as Voluntariness – Maike Kugler

    Send Fan Mail by Text! Dr. Maike Kugler shares her research on followership as voluntariness, a specific way of understanding followership behavior. She also speaks on the need to both expand and deepen followership research to account for a wide range of cultural contexts, variations of language and meaning, and relational dynamics, in order to fully understand the phenomenon of followership in organizations and beyond.  “[Followership] is not something that’s defined in a book, but it’s something that happens between people. It’s a social thing. So it really depends on the expectations that both parties have.”“Followership in one situation can be different than followership in another situation.”“Culture and context are most underrated in current followership research.”“I’d like to see articles that define what followership means in that article, a wider range of methods, more exploration of foundational understanding, and all of that in a more context and cultural sensitive mindset.”  Episode References  "The (In)voluntary follower," Martin Blom and Mikael Lundgren https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1742715019888078 "Following the beaten paths: a systematic literature review of followership behavior," Maike Kugler and Ruth Sims  https://www.emerald.com/insight/content/doi/10.1108/jmd-10-2024-0359/full/html S1 E4 – Influence of Followership Behaviors on Organizational Success - Ruth Sims https://leadfollow.buzzsprout.com/1735834/episodes/8516582-influence-of-followership-behaviors-on-organizational-success-ruth-sims  S3 E6 - The 4 Tiers of Followership - Eric McDermott https://leadfollow.buzzsprout.com/1735834/episodes/15254928-the-4-tiers-of-followership-eric-mcdermott Connect with Maike Kugler LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-maike-kugler University profile: https://www.ehip.eu/hochschule/team/professoren/prof-dr-maike-kugler/ Support the show * Connect with your host Sharna Fabiano https://www.sharnafabiano.com Order the book: Lead & Follow https://www.amazon.com/Lead-Follow-Dance-Inspired-Teamwork/dp/1646632796/ Support the Show! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1735834/support

    46 min

  8. 07/02/2025

    Followership Responses to Destructive Leadership in the Tech Industry - Karen Perham-Lippman

    Send Fan Mail by Text! Dr. Karen Perham-Lippman shares her research on destructive leadership patterns in the tech industry, and the response of various types of positional followers in those companies. Her findings include the behaviors of Challenger followers and their communities of coping that give rise to positive acts of self-restoration and collective resistance. “Challengers were revealed not just as individual followers who wanted to resist destructive leadership as part of their personal integrity or their moral belief about a thing but as a social process.”  “If you can find a group of folks who can help you sort out the true from the false and help you acknowledge that what you’re experiencing is real, then that community of coping is not just about coping, but about giving you the agency to do something about it.“You see over and over and over that performance outcomes and efficiency goals are being prioritized over employee well-being.” “Destructive leadership is a genetic mutation that’s a disease in an organization. It’s toxic. It spreads like a virus. You can’t let it do that.” About Karen Dr. Karen Perham-Lippman serves as Senior Manager of Global Inclusion and Belonging at Otis Worldwide Corporation. As a pracademic and mission-driven business strategist with nearly fifteen years of demonstrated strategic and process thinking results in diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI), ESG, and social impact, she has worked with nonprofits, state government, municipal clients, and businesses across diverse industries and sectors globally. She currently serves as Co-President of the League of Women Voters South Hampton Roads in Virginia and was appointed to the State League’s DEI Committee.  Karen is a Certified Diversity Professional and holds a certificate in designing equitable courses from the Association of College and University Educators (ACUE). She earned her Doctor of Philosophy (Ph.D.) in Organizational Leadership and Business Management from Eastern University, where she received the College of Business and Leadership's 2025 Student Service Award presented to a graduating student who has exemplified the college and doctoral program's ideals of leadership and scholarship on and off campus through significant contributions to the field. Karen’s scholarship is published with Ethics International Press, Emerald Publishing, Forbes, Merits International Journal, and SAGE Publishing. Her forthcoming book, Bridging Generations: Transformative Intergenerational Leadership and Followership, will be available from Emerald Publishing in Spring 2026.   Episode References ILA Global Conference in Prague Connect with Karen LinkedIn - for general connections ResearchGate – for research updates or to collaborate  Support the show * Connect with your host Sharna Fabiano https://www.sharnafabiano.com Order the book: Lead & Follow https://www.amazon.com/Lead-Follow-Dance-Inspired-Teamwork/dp/1646632796/ Support the Show! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1735834/support

    50 min
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Lead & Follow offers a candid discussion of teamwork, collaboration, and professional development. Host Sharna Fabiano talks with scholars, educators, and artists to explore the relational dance between leadership and followership, and how to become excellent in both roles.

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  • Creator
    Sharna Fabiano
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    84
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