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Decoding how human success drives business performance with The People Principle. Hosted by Tommy Sim.

  1. 6d ago

    Why Your Best Salespeople Leave (And It’s Not About Money)

    What if losing your best salesperson had nothing to do with salary? In this episode of Lead to Grow, Tommy Sim breaks down one of the most misunderstood problems in business: sales team retention. Because when great salespeople leave, it’s rarely about a bigger offer. It’s about how they experienced your environment long before they resigned. This episode unpacks what actually drives people to stay, perform, and grow inside your business and what silently pushes them out. Why money is just a scoreboard, not the real motivator The SCARF model and how it explains behaviour at work The 5 drivers behind retention: Status Certainty Autonomy Relatedness Fairness Why top performers don’t leave suddenly, they check out slowly How poor leadership decisions quietly destroy retention The real reason people say “it’s about money” when they resign  Mentioned in this episode: 9 Rules for Good Commission Schemes: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2wTRXgXNbBJmUDsvFsABO4?si=8iraEk1DRreTgICzfmV-7g  Raise Your Floor to Become a Better Leader:  https://open.spotify.com/episode/05Hunzh3mQtdpdZ6IfGW7Z?si=fR0Uy70MSxSiKuUE0ixkdQ Connect with us: Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/ 00:00 Why Salespeople Really Leave 02:10 Money Is Just the Scoreboard 04:32 The SCARF Model Explained 06:59 Status and Self-Identity at Work 08:50 Certainty and Why Uncertainty Pushes People Out 09:26 Autonomy and the Impact of Micromanagement 10:40 Relatedness and Feeling Part of the Team 11:30 Fairness and Why Perception Matters 11:52 The Power of Monthly 1:1 Conversations 13:10 Recognition Done Right (And Wrong) 16:46 Incentives, Commission, and Status Rewards 19:12 Career Development Without Forcing Management Roles 21:39 Providing the Right Tools for Success 26:26 Building a Sense of Belonging 28:50 Why Psychological Safety Matters 31:14 The Real Reason People Resign 33:38 Final Takeaways on Retention About Lead to Grow Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and  decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately. New episodes are released regularly. If this episode helped you rethink how you approach feedback, share it with a leader who may need it. Follow the show on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or subscribe on YouTube for future episodes.

    34 min
  2. May 13

    What to Do in Your First 100 Days as a New Leader

    Stepping into a new leadership role can feel like a whirlwind—especially if you’ve been promoted from within and are now leading your peers.  In this episode of Lead to Grow, host Tommy Sim breaks down a practical, three‑phase roadmap for your first 100 days as a leader.  You’ll learn how to diagnose the real challenge you’ve inherited, define your mandate and expectations with clarity, and execute with the kind of discipline that builds trust, momentum, and results.  By the end, you’ll know how to turn those crucial first 100 days into a foundation of credibility, not a scramble to catch up Key practical applications Clarify with your manager whether you’re leading a turnaround, elevation, growth, efficiency push, or cultural reset so you don’t waste your first 100 days solving the wrong problem. Schedule early conversations with your boss, peers, and key partners (Finance, HR, IT, Marketing, Operations) to understand what they need from you and to avoid nasty surprises later. Ask each team member about their current fulfilment (e.g. “Out of 10…?”), what helps, and what holds them back, so you can adjust goals and support with real insight instead of gut feel. Capture the behaviours you truly live (not just nice‑sounding values) and start recognising people when they demonstrate them to build credibility quickly. Align with your manager first, share draft expectations with the team, invite feedback, refine, then lock them in so you don’t have to walk back big promises later. Put recurring team meetings, operational check‑ins, and monthly 1:1s in the calendar so performance, development, and engagement conversations happen by default, not in crisis mode. Address small but important behaviour issues calmly and specifically before they turn into 9/10 performance or culture problems. Pick 1–3 early improvements that clearly link to your mandate and remove a pain point for your team or stakeholders to build momentum and trust. Commit time in your first 100 days to learning, coaching, and reflection so you model the growth mindset you want from your team. Connect with us: Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/ Chapters 00:00 – Why your first 100 days matter 00:42 – Welcome to Lead to Grow and episode overview 01:13 – The whirlwind of becoming a new leader 02:22 – Beyond textbook advice: what leaders really get wrong 02:42 – The 3 phases and 10 key actions in 100 days 03:10 – Shifting identity from individual contributor to leader 03:58 – Defining the true job to be done 04:24 – Managing expectations up, across, and down the value chain 06:04 – Building credibility across internal and external partners 06:51 – Taking a temperature check and mapping influence 08:26 – What you should know by the end of Phase 1 09:20 – Phase 2: Defining and aligning direction 09:45 – Clarifying what you stand for as a leader 10:29 – Setting expectations in the right sequence 11:20 – Showing the staircase, not just the summit 11:48 – What you should have by the end of Phase 2 12:16 – Phase 3: Execute with discipline 12:45 – Designing your leadership rhythm and meeting cadence 13:16 – Navigating remuneration and your decision authority 13:39 – Role clarity, wrong seats, and toxic behaviour 15:04 – Mastering the “4 out of 10” conversation 16:27 – Quick wins done properly 16:57 – Leadership as a craft and growth mindset 17:17 – What success looks like after the first 100 days 18:37 – Closing thoughts and call to action About Lead to Grow Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately. If this episode helped you rethink how you approach feedback, share it with a leader who may need it.

    18 min
  3. Apr 27

    Why Great Leaders Stop Telling and Start Asking

    What separates good leaders from great ones? It’s not a strategy.It’s not intelligence.It’s not even an experience. It’s how they show up for their people. In this episode of Lead to Grow, we sit down with Them Lam, Head of Sales & Distribution, at AFG to unpack the real drivers of leadership success. From fleeing Vietnam as a child to leading large teams and influencing thousands of business owners, this conversation dives deep into mindset, growth, and what it actually takes to lead at scale. We cover: The difference between individual success and team success Why humility, vulnerability, and curiosity are leadership superpowers The shift from telling to coaching How to build trust and unlock performance in your team Why slowing down is the fastest way to grow The role of gratitude and resilience in leadership What separates top-performing business owners from the rest How to create leaders who think for themselves This is not a theory. It’s real leadership, built through experience, mistakes, and growth. If you’re leading a team or stepping into leadership, this episode will reshape how you think about success. Connect with us: Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/ 00:00 Faster Answers vs Better Leadership 02:07 Early Life & Foundations 03:45 Work Ethic & Early Discipline 06:08 Reframing Stress as Growth 07:49 Learning from Mistakes 09:37 From Doing to Coaching 11:02 Slowing Down to Lead Better 14:36 Why Taking Action Matters 15:02 Traits of High Performers 17:28 Growth Mindset in Business 19:41 Broker Investment Program 22:11 Scaling Support for Business Owners About Lead to Grow Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately. New episodes are released regularly. If this episode helped you rethink how you approach feedback, share it with a leader who may need it. Follow the show on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or subscribe on YouTube for future episodes.

    23 min
  4. Apr 13

    The Feedback Problem Every Manager Has (And 12 Ways to Solve It)

    We break down why feedback so often goes wrong, why managers avoid it, and what actually makes feedback change behaviour rather than damage relationships. This episode goes beyond generic advice. It introduces the red line versus green line model, explains why credibility and empathy matter more than delivery scripts, and walks through 12 practical tips leaders can apply immediately. If you dread giving feedback or feel your message never quite lands, this episode is essential listening. Connect with us: Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/ In this episode, we explore: Why feedback often feels threatening for both managers and employees The difference between coercion and willingness in behaviour change The red line versus green line model of leadership influence Why credibility determines whether feedback is even heard The role of empathy in reducing defensiveness How unclear expectations create avoidable feedback conversations Why annual reviews fail and bite-sized feedback works The importance of recognition and building goodwill Why venting is not the same as leading The Behaviour–Impact–Next Time–Benefit (BINB) framework How overloading someone with examples creates defensiveness The difference between debriefing and briefing Coaching techniques that increase ownership The power of stories and visuals in reinforcing learning The “same side of the table” approach to feedback About Lead to Grow Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately. New episodes are released regularly. If this episode helped you rethink how you approach feedback, share it with a leader who may need it.Follow the show on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or subscribe on YouTube for future episodes.

    39 min
  5. Stop Managing Time. Start Managing Energy.

    Mar 30

    Stop Managing Time. Start Managing Energy.

    You have the same 24 hours as everyone else. So why do some leaders move the needle while others feel constantly busy yet frustrated? In this episode of Lead to Grow, Tommy Sim challenges the traditional idea of time management and introduces a more accurate lens: energy management. Most leaders think the problem is not enough time.But time is fixed. Energy is not. When leaders misunderstand this distinction, they sprint all day but make little progress on what actually matters. The result? Ongoing tension between leaders and their teams, unfinished priorities, and a feeling that the important work keeps slipping. This episode introduces a practical framework, the Energy Value Matrix to help leaders understand where their time is really going and how to regain control. In this episode, we explore: Why most time management advice does not address the real issue The tension between leaders wanting more output and teams feeling overwhelmed Why time is constant but energy fluctuates How emotions and energy drive what we choose to work on The Energy Value Matrix and how it reframes productivity The difference between high-value and low-value tasks Why leaders gravitate towards low-value but energising work How burnout often comes from too much time on draining tasks Why busyness can become emotional validation The “Hour of Power” technique and why it works How Parkinson’s Law influences productivity Delegate it, do it, or dump it and how to avoid boomerang delegation Why leadership productivity is an identity shift, not just a scheduling fix Key insights from the episode: Time is not the variable you should be managing.Every leader has the same number of hours. The differentiator is how energy is allocated across tasks. Energy drives behaviour more than logic does.Leaders naturally gravitate towards work that feels good, even when it is lower value. Without awareness, this creates hidden time waste. Most performance tension is energy misalignment.Leaders want more output. Teams feel drained. Often the issue is not workload volume but where energy is being spent. The Energy Value Matrix reveals blind spots.By categorising tasks into four quadrants high value vs low value, energising vs draining leaders can identify where productivity is leaking. Busyness can be emotionally rewarding.Being needed and constantly interrupted can validate identity. But it often prevents strategic work. Structure creates freedom.Deliberately scheduling high-value, draining work during peak energy hours reduces friction and increases control. Leadership growth is intentional.High performance does not happen by accident. It requires conscious choices about where attention and energy go.   Connect with us: Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/   The Energy Value Matrix Explained The matrix uses two axes: Horizontal: How much energy a task gives or drainsVertical: How valuable the task is to your role Quadrants: Puppies – High value and energisingFrogs – High value but drainingSloths – Low value but energisingMonkeys – Low value and draining Performance improves when leaders increase time spent on puppies and deliberately manage frogs rather than defaulting to sloths.   Practical takeaways for leaders: Map your core tasks onto the Energy Value Matrix Identify your peak energy window and protect it Use the “Hour of Power” for high-value draining work Stop being unkind to your future self by overloading tomorrow Delegate intentionally and avoid boomerang tasks Recognise when busyness is masking avoidance Build leadership capability to handle uncomfortable conversations Align your identity with your role as it evolves Who this episode is for: Business owners and founders Senior leaders and people managers HR and People & Culture professionals Leaders feeling constantly busy but underproductive Anyone wanting to improve focus without adding more hours About Lead to Grow Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately. New episodes are released regularly. If you found this episode useful, share it with a leader who feels stretched or overwhelmed.Follow the show on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or subscribe on YouTube for future episodes   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    30 min
  6. Why Training Fails (And How to Make Learning Actually Stick)

    Mar 16

    Why Training Fails (And How to Make Learning Actually Stick)

    People attend training.They take notes.They feel inspired. A week later? Nothing changes. Businesses spend between $1,500 and $2,500 per employee per year on external training. Add time away from work, and the real cost is even higher. So here’s the uncomfortable question: Is it working? In this episode of Lead to Grow, Tommy Sim breaks down why most training efforts fail to produce real performance improvement and what leaders can do differently to get genuine return on their investment. Because the issue isn’t usually the quality of the training. It's a transfer. In This Episode Why training often works in theory but fails in practice The research from Grossman and Salas on transfer of learning Why attendance is not a measure of impact The flawed assumption that information equals behaviour How adult learning really works Why relevance and ownership matter more than content The neuroscience behind feedback defensiveness The four stages of competence and why leaders rush the pain step The 70:20:10 model explained simply Why psychological safety increases learning speed The difference between removing threat and removing discomfort Why reflection multiplies learning When learning is actually complete The LEARN framework for practical application Why lectures don’t create change but loops do Key Leadership Lessons Training fails when it stops at information Behaviour change happens in the day-to-day Managers drive transfer more than facilitators Psychological safety increases speed of learning Feedback works when intent is understood first Reflection amplifies action Capability is proven when it travels Learning is complete when someone can teach it Connect with us: Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/   Chapters 00:00 Why Training Feels Like It Doesn’t Work02:23 What Research Actually Says About Transfer04:50 Why Information Sharing Fails07:18 How Adults Really Learn09:44 Feedback, Ego and Brain Threat12:10 The 70:20:10 Model Explained14:38 Coaching in Practice19:31 When Learning Becomes Capability21:58 Psychological Safety and Error Reporting24:22 Action + Reflection = Learning26:49 Why Training Stops Halfway28:00 The LEARN Framework Who This Episode Is For Business owners frustrated by underperforming teams Leaders who invest in training but see little change HR and People & Culture professionals Managers stuck in the day-to-day because capability hasn’t lifted Anyone who wants development to actually translate into results About Lead to Grow Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately. New episodes are released regularly. If you found this episode useful, share it with a leader who feels stretched or overwhelmed.Follow the show on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or subscribe on YouTube for future episodes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    29 min
  7. Why KPIs and Performance Management Systems Fail (And What Actually Works)

    Mar 2

    Why KPIs and Performance Management Systems Fail (And What Actually Works)

    You’ve heard all the clichés about performance measures. What gets measured gets managed. Where attention goes, energy flows. And you’ve probably had a business mate tell you they’ve got the right KPIs in place and that’s what truly drives performance. So you ask yourself: why isn’t it working in our business? Do we have the wrong KPIs, or is there some other problem that we can’t see? In Episode 7 of Lead to Grow, Tommy unpacks why so many attempts at KPIs and performance measures fail, the common mistakes that occur, and what you should do differently to avoid this happening. We start with the real reasons leaders introduce performance measures in the first place: people working hard completing tasks but not achieving what’s truly valuable, expectations not being clearly set, and employees saying they don’t know what success looks like. In this episode, we explore: Why “what gets measured gets managed” is an oversimplification• The real reason most KPI and OKR systems don’t improve performance• The critical differences between KPIs and OKRs, and why neither works on its own• How measuring what’s easy can undermine trust and motivation• Why too many KPIs dilute focus and kill follow-through• The hidden cost of set-and-forget performance systems• Why performance measures must be part of a broader people system• The five practical steps leaders can take to make performance systems work• How poor follow-up and weak leadership conversations derail good intentions• Why context matters more than frameworks in performance management Key insights from the episode: Performance measures are signals, not solutions.KPIs and OKRs don’t improve performance by themselves. They only tell you what’s happening. Without strong leadership, role clarity, capability, follow-up and feedback, they become noise. Switching frameworks won’t fix broken systems.Moving from KPIs to OKRs is like replacing a car dashboard when the engine is broken. If the underlying people system isn’t working, a new framework just creates new frustration. Most KPI systems fail for predictable reasons.Common mistakes include measuring trivial things, using vague or unmeasurable goals, tracking too many metrics, failing to involve the team, and expecting the system to work without ongoing effort. Follow-up is where performance systems succeed or fail.The real work begins after KPIs are launched. Without consistent conversations, reinforcement and leadership capability, even well-designed systems fade into irrelevance. There is no neutral performance system.Every framework nudges behaviour in certain directions and suppresses others. The right question isn’t “Which framework is best?” but “What behaviours is this system encouraging in our context?” Practical takeaways for leaders: Treat performance measures as part of an integrated people system• Define success in words first, then make it SMART• Involve the right people at the right points, with clear boundaries• Schedule regular follow-up and make it visible• Invest in developing leaders who can have effective performance conversations Connect with us: Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/Who this episode is for: Business owners and founders• Senior leaders and people managers• HR and people & culture professionals• Anyone frustrated by KPIs, OKRs or performance reviews that don’t stick About Lead to Grow Lead to Grow explores the people principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Simp, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately. New episodes released regularly. If you found this episode useful, share it with someone who’s wrestling with KPIs or performance management.Follow the show on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or subscribe on YouTube for future episodes.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    24 min
  8. Don’t Lock In a Commission Plan Until You’ve Heard These 9 Rules

    Feb 17

    Don’t Lock In a Commission Plan Until You’ve Heard These 9 Rules

    Incentive schemes are everywhere in business. Bonuses. Commissions. Short-term rewards designed to drive performance. And yet, for so many leaders, these beautifully designed schemes quietly fail to deliver what they promise. Worse, the unintended consequences often outweigh the benefits. In this episode of Lead to Grow, we unpack the dark art of incentive schemes and why so many well-intentioned reward structures distort behaviour, damage motivation, and fail to improve real performance. This is not an argument against incentives. It is a practical guide to when they work, when they fail, and how to design them intelligently if you choose to use them. You will learn: Why leaders fall in love with incentive schemes and why they are often overused• The difference between improving performance and simply redirecting effort• Why money is a blunt instrument for motivation• The intrinsic vs extrinsic motivation equation and why it matters• How incentives can quietly reduce job satisfaction and engagement• When incentives actually make sense and when they backfire• Why complexity kills most incentive schemes• How poorly designed schemes distort behaviour and damage trust• The downside risks most leaders never anticipate• Why incentives rarely fix capability, culture, or leadership problems We also break down where incentive schemes can work, particularly in sales and output-driven roles, and how to think about: Whether a role is genuinely suitable for incentives• Pay splits and what ratios make sense• Thresholds and why 75% matters• Caps vs uncapped schemes• Time horizons and payment frequency• Rules, edge cases, and why clarity matters• Retention vs attraction dynamics• Designing schemes that are actually self-funding Finally, we outline the hallmarks of a well-designed incentive scheme, including: Job simplicity• Line of sight• Pay split alignment• Caps and escalation• Rules and edge cases• Time horizons• Thresholds• Management discretion• Base salary alignment The core message is simple:Incentive schemes are powerful, but they are blunt instruments. They are the exclamation mark, not the sentence. When used well, they create clarity and focus.When used poorly, they distort behaviour, undermine motivation, and create long-term problems disguised as short-term gains. If you are considering implementing an incentive scheme, or questioning whether your current one is actually working, this episode will help you avoid expensive trial and error. Connect with us: Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthrYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthrInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/ If you lead people or design reward structures, this episode will change how you think about money, motivation, and performance. Subscribe to Lead to Grow for more practical, human-centred leadership insights. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    27 min

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Decoding how human success drives business performance with The People Principle. Hosted by Tommy Sim.