Leading Yourself

Carolina de Arriba
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The Leading Yourself Podcast is your go-to space for personal growth, career and leadership development, habits, relationships, and more. Each episode delivers practical insights, tools, and strategies to help you unlock your potential and become the best version of yourself. Join me for real conversations, tough love, and actionable advice designed to help you take meaningful steps toward the life you want. No fluff, just the mindset shifts, habits, and strategies that lead to real results. If you’re ready to stop waiting and start growing, you’ve come to the right place. Welcome to The Leading Yourself Podcast!

  1. 2D AGO

    345: Personal Boundaries: Feeling guilty doesn't mean you did something wrong.

    You said yes. And the second the word left your mouth, you knew you meant no. Maybe you felt it in your stomach. Maybe you smiled and said of course and spent the next three days quietly dreading it. And then, because this is the part nobody talks about, you felt guilty for even having a limit at all. In this episode, we will get honest about why so many of us don't set boundaries even when we know we should, and why the guilt we feel when we finally do isn't evidence that we did something wrong. It's evidence that we're changing a pattern. Those two things feel identical from the inside. But they are not the same. I will share a personal story about what it actually costs to keep saying yes to everything, and the moment that made it impossible to keep pretending the pattern wasn't a problem. Then we will break down the guilt loop: how it works, why it's so hard to interrupt, and what it takes to hold a line without burning a relationship to the ground. Feeling guilty doesn't mean you did something wrong. It means you're changing a pattern. And different, even when it's necessary, is always going to feel uncomfortable before it feels right. IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN: →  Why we don't set boundaries even when we know we should →  What a boundary actually is — and what it isn't →  The identity behind the always-available pattern — and how to update it →  The guilt loop explained: how to recognize it and interrupt it →  The resentment diagnostic — how to find exactly where you need to start →  Five scripts for: family asks, one-sided friendships, the mental load, pushback after a no, and protecting personal time Download the 5 scripts here: https://real-talk-scripts.lovable.app/ Subscribe to the Morning Brew: https://leadingyourself.myflodesk.com/mondaybrew

    29 min
  2. Morning Brew: Discipline

    4D AGO

    Morning Brew: Discipline

    “Discipline is choosing what you want most over what you want now.”

    4 min
  3. 344: Career Systems - Your career shouldn't run on hustle. It should run on structure.

    MAR 9

    344: Career Systems - Your career shouldn't run on hustle. It should run on structure.

    Protect the Work: Your Career Shouldn't Run on Hustle. Build the Systems That Actually Move You Forward. You're working hard. You're showing up. You're delivering. So why does it feel like your career is standing still? In this episode, we get honest about the gap between being busy and being strategic, and why the most hardworking women in the room are often the ones whose growth quietly stalls. The problem isn't effort. It's the absence of systems that actually drive career advancement. We will introduce five career systems you can start building right now: the weekly career planning ritual that separates reactive professionals from intentional ones, visibility by design so the right people know your name, protecting your deep work time before the week swallows it whole, networking as a consistent practice instead of a desperate scramble, and managing up, being intentional about the most important professional relationship you have. Showing up and delivering is the floor. It's not the ceiling. This is episode two of a five-week series on systems and boundaries. Whether you've been here since January or you're finding us now, this episode will change how you think about your career week. Subscribe to the Monday Brew: https://leadingyourself.myflodesk.com/mondaybrew

    28 min
  4. Morning Brew: Progress Over Perfection

    MAR 7

    Morning Brew: Progress Over Perfection

    The goal is not to be perfect by the end. The goal is to be better today.

    5 min
  5. 343: PROTECT THE WORK: Build Systems That Hold When Motivation Doesn't

    MAR 2

    343: PROTECT THE WORK: Build Systems That Hold When Motivation Doesn't

    You've set the goal. You've felt the motivation. And somewhere between the excitement of starting and the reality of a busy Thursday, the whole thing quietly fell apart. Sound familiar? In this episode, we kick off March's theme : Protect the Work, by tackling the real reason our best intentions don't stick: we build them on motivation instead of systems. Motivation is fleeting. A well-designed system works even when you're exhausted, overwhelmed, and the last thing you feel like doing is the thing that matters most. We are about to break down the three levers that make any personal system actually hold: your inputs, your environment, and the feedback loop problem that makes most people quit right before the breakthrough. You'll walk away with a framework you can apply immediately and one small system to build this week. This episode is part of a five-week series on systems and boundaries. If you've been with us since January , this is where the real work begins. If you're new here, welcome. Start here. https://leadingyourself.myflodesk.com/mondaybrewhttps://forms.gle/qjavss68CozQUVDy7

    33 min
  6. Morning Brew: Trust the Compass

    FEB 28

    Morning Brew: Trust the Compass

    You’re not behind. You’re being built. Every setback sharpened you. Every rejection refined you. Every fear pointed you forward. Trust the compass.

    6 min
  7. 342: Your Energy Integration Session — Bringing It All Together

    FEB 23

    342: Your Energy Integration Session — Bringing It All Together

    We've spent this month diving deep into energy management: why time management alone isn't enough, the practical toolkit you need, and how to use energy as your career navigation system. Today, we're bringing it all together. This is a two-part integration episode designed to help you move from information to action. Part 1 is a coaching session. Just you and me, working through the questions that turn awareness into commitment. I'll guide you through three reflection questions, help you identify your ONE thing, and walk you through making a concrete commitment you can actually keep. Part 2 is a Q&A where I answer the three most common questions I received this month: → "I'm in the wrong role but I can't just quit. What do I do?" → "How do I protect my Genius Zone time when my manager keeps scheduling over it?" → "I've tried to change before and it never sticks. Why would this time be different?" Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/VmcXEA6E52qdHyKN8

    33 min
  8. Morning Brew: Start With Growth

    FEB 21

    Morning Brew: Start With Growth

    “Being successful doesn’t begin with success. It begins with having a growth mindset.”

    5 min
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The Leading Yourself Podcast is your go-to space for personal growth, career and leadership development, habits, relationships, and more. Each episode delivers practical insights, tools, and strategies to help you unlock your potential and become the best version of yourself. Join me for real conversations, tough love, and actionable advice designed to help you take meaningful steps toward the life you want. No fluff, just the mindset shifts, habits, and strategies that lead to real results. If you’re ready to stop waiting and start growing, you’ve come to the right place. Welcome to The Leading Yourself Podcast!

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  • Creator
    Carolina de Arriba
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    554
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Carolina de Arriba
  • Show Website
    Leading Yourself

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