Leading Yourself

Carolina de Arriba
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The Leading Yourself Podcast is your go-to space for personal growth, career and leadership development, habits, relationships, and more. Each episode delivers practical insights, tools, and strategies to help you unlock your potential and become the best version of yourself. Join me for real conversations, tough love, and actionable advice designed to help you take meaningful steps toward the life you want. No fluff, just the mindset shifts, habits, and strategies that lead to real results. If you’re ready to stop waiting and start growing, you’ve come to the right place. Welcome to The Leading Yourself Podcast!

  1. 2D AGO

    355: Your Visibility Inventory

    Four weeks. Three dimensions. One through-line: you are worth being seen. Fully. Strategically. Without apology. This is the finale of the May Visibility series, and it is built differently than any other episode this month. Two parts. Part one is a coaching session. Carolina walks you through three categories: your worth, your visibility practice, and your strategy, and for every question, she tells you what your answer actually reveals and exactly what to do with it. This is not a reflection exercise. Grab something to write with. Part two is listener Q&A. Three real questions from the Leading Yourself community, answered honestly. In this episode: The visibility gap isn't where you think it is, and what you are actually looking for in the inventoryWorth: the question that reveals whether you are letting yourself see your own value clearlyVisibility Practice: activity vs. impact language and whether the right people have a current picture of what you are doingStrategy: the five people whose opinion shapes your trajectory, and how well they actually know youThe integration question: what would the version of you from four weeks ago notice about who you are today? Listener Q&A: The anchoring habit still feels incredibly awkward, how long until it stops?My manager told me I'm seen as an executor, not a strategic thinker. How do I change that?I keep meaning to have the career conversation with my manager and never do. What is actually stopping me? SERIES: May | Visibility: From Invisible to Unmistakable Week 1: Owning Your Worth Without Apologizing Week 2: Making Your Work Visible Without Feeling Like You're Bragging Week 3: Why Good Work Isn't Enough Week 4: Your Visibility Inventory

    29 min
  2. Morning Brew: Think Big, Move Small

    4D AGO

    Morning Brew: Think Big, Move Small

    “When making plans, think big.
When making progress, think small.”

    5 min

  3. MAY 18

    354: Why Good Work Isn't Enough: The Third Piece Most High Achievers Are Missing

    She owns her worth. She makes her work visible. She shows up, delivers, and has stopped waiting quietly in the background. And she is still not getting where she wants to go. Sound familiar? Then this is the episode you have been waiting for. In Week 3 of the Visibility series, we'll name the third piece of the equation that most high-achievers are missing, the strategic layer that transforms good performance and visible work into real career momentum. It comes down to three things: relationships (who actually knows you, not just what you do), reputation (what people say when you are not in the room, and whether it is moving you forward or keeping you in place), and positioning (being deliberate about where you are going and making sure the right people know it). This is where everything from the last three weeks connects into a picture you can actually act on. In this episode: The three-part visibility equation: worth + visibility + strategyWhy reliable is not always the reputation that gets you to the next levelThe five people whose opinion most shapes your career and how to invest in those relationships intentionallyHow to find out what you are actually known for (and the question most people never ask)Positioning: how to tell the right people where you are going, and why most people never doThree practices, one for each piece, to start this week

    31 min
  4. Morning Brew: Emotionally Invested

    MAY 16

    Morning Brew: Emotionally Invested

    “When people are financially invested, they want a return. When people are emotionally invested, they want to contribute.”

    5 min

  5. MAY 11

    353: Making Your Work Visible (Without Feeling Like You're Bragging)

    More times than I can count, I've come up with an idea that got implemented, became a best practice, and changed how something was done, without my name on it. Part of me was okay with it. I told myself: I know it was my idea. That is enough. But another part of me was frustrated. Disappointed. And quietly unwilling to admit that the private knowing was not quite enough. If you have ever lived in that same split, talked yourself out of caring about credit, then felt the sting of not getting it anyway, this episode is going to land differently than anything you have heard about visibility. Because this is not about self-promotion. It is not about becoming louder or more aggressive or more political. It is about one thing: Anchoring your name to your thinking in a way that feels honest, grounded, and like you. In this episode we are talking about: Why 'I know it was mine' is a coping mechanism, and what it is costing youThe difference between private knowing and public visibility (and why both matter)Why 'good work speaks for itself' is the most expensive myth in your careerFive visibility strategies: anchor in real time, narrate while it happens, own the room, weekly wins, impact languageHow to use your one-on-one as a visibility tool most people never think to useExact language for when your idea surfaces in a meeting without your name on it

    22 min
  6. Morning Brew: I've wrote a book!

    MAY 9

    Morning Brew: I've wrote a book!

    Pre-order here: https://amzn.to/4nmDsc6 Join the Launch Team here: https://buildyourcareersquad.com

    12 min
  7. Morning Brew: Design you Environment

    MAY 2

    Morning Brew: Design you Environment

    "You don't have to be the victim of your environment, you can also be the architect of it"

    4 min

  8. APR 27

    351: Your Confidence Inventory

    We made it to the final week of April. And I want to close this month the way it deserves to be closed, not with a lecture, but with a conversation. This episode has two parts. Part one is a coaching session. Just you and me, like we're sitting across from each other with coffee and nowhere to be. I'm walking you through your confidence inventory, three categories of evidence you've been sitting on and not counting: what you've survived, what you've built, and what you know. I'll be asking you the questions I ask every client I coach through a confidence conversation. Bring a notebook. Pause and actually answer them. This part only works if you do the work. Part two is listener Q&A. Real questions that came in this month and I'm answering them as honestly as I can. Including the one that stopped me for a minute: "Is there a point where you just accept that you're not a confident person?" I have a lot to say about that one. We also get into: what to do when self-doubt comes back loud after you've been doing the work, how to build confidence when your environment keeps knocking it down, why you feel confident in some areas of your life and not others and what that actually means, and how to stay grounded after a big failure or setback. This is the close of the month. And if you've been here all four weeks, thank you. You showed up for yourself. That matters more than you know. If this is your first episode, go back to week one. This series builds on itself and it's worth starting at the beginning. The person you are becoming is not a future version of you. She is you, with more reps.

    30 min
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The Leading Yourself Podcast is your go-to space for personal growth, career and leadership development, habits, relationships, and more. Each episode delivers practical insights, tools, and strategies to help you unlock your potential and become the best version of yourself. Join me for real conversations, tough love, and actionable advice designed to help you take meaningful steps toward the life you want. No fluff, just the mindset shifts, habits, and strategies that lead to real results. If you’re ready to stop waiting and start growing, you’ve come to the right place. Welcome to The Leading Yourself Podcast!

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  • Creator
    Carolina de Arriba
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    574
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Carolina de Arriba
  • Show Website
    Leading Yourself

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