Legacy Parenting

John and Lori Lane
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The Legacy Parenting Podcast equips parents with Biblical wisdom and practical strategies for faith-based parenting in today's challenging world. Hosted by John and Lori Lane, this podcast draws from their 42 years of marriage, 40 years of parenting, 43 years in education and the arts, and 25 years of home education to offer clear, Scripture-rooted guidance that rises above the noise of conflicting voices. Through engaging conversations and real-life examples, together they share how faith-based parenting builds children's lifelong commitment to God's Truth and creates a legacy that impacts generations. Whether you're just beginning your parenting journey or entering grandparenthood, Legacy Parenting provides the encouragement and Biblical principles needed to parent with confidence and purpose while navigating cultural “noise.” Join us in building a faith-filled family legacy that stands on the unchanging foundation of God's Word.

  1. 3D AGO

    40. Systems That Build Self-Motivated Kids | Biblical Strategies for Raising Responsible Children

    "We cannot become our child’s internal engine for motivation...but we can help them build it." – Lori LaneIn Part 2 of our self-motivation series, Lori and John Lane share practical, grace-filled strategies to help your children move from external reminders to internal ownership. Whether your child is three or seventeen, this episode provides age-specific tools to instill confidence, initiative, and personal responsibility. The heart is where motivation starts—but systems are what keep it moving. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why young children need visible routines and walkthroughsHow responsibility + feedback build confidence in 8–12 year-oldsWhy teens thrive with freedom + accountabilityHow to help your kids self-evaluate their work biblicallyWhat scaffolding ownership looks like in a discipleship-based home You’ll also hear personal stories from Lori and John—raising four boys, mentoring others, and watching the long-term fruit of gospel-centered, system-supported parenting. 🎧 Want more than parenting tips? Access our free series Trends vs. Truth: A Path to Countercultural Parenting through the link in our show notes.

    19 min
  2. 39. How to Raise Self-Motivated Kids | Biblical Parenting that Builds Ownership & Purpose

    12/30/2025

    39. How to Raise Self-Motivated Kids | Biblical Parenting that Builds Ownership & Purpose

    “We’re not just raising kids who complete their tasks—we’re raising kids who understand the importance of being faithful with the little things.” – Lori LaneHow do we move our kids from constant prodding to purposeful ownership? In this episode of the Legacy Parenting Podcast, Lori and John Lane explore what it means to nurture self-motivation from a biblical worldview—not by bribing or pressuring, but by discipling the heart. Through the lens of three core Legacy Parenting principles—Imago Dei, priority of the heart, and the supremacy of Scripture—they share practical, grace-filled ways to raise kids who understand responsibility, embrace identity, and find motivation in who God created them to be. In this episode you’ll discover: How overmanaging undermines internal motivationThe connection between identity, purpose, and responsibilityWhy kids need room to fail and grace to growHow to ask powerful questions that promote ownershipWays to teach responsibility early—from pet care to planning school projects This episode is filled with encouragement, scriptural insight, and practical tools to help your children become faithful stewards of what God has given them—because ultimately, their motivation begins with who they believe they are in Christ. 🎧 Stay tuned for Part 2: From Prodding to Ownership – Systems That Build Motivation

    21 min
  3. 37. Using Music to Disciple Your Children This Christmas - Resources and Rhythms, Pt. 2

    12/16/2025

    37. Using Music to Disciple Your Children This Christmas - Resources and Rhythms, Pt. 2

    “If you don’t include music, I don’t think you can go as deeply into the Christmas story.”In this second part of our Christmas mini-series, Lori Lane and guest Mary Prather continue the conversation on how music can be a powerful, grace-filled tool in discipling your children. This isn’t about performance—it’s about presence. Whether you’re playing classical pieces during math time or singing sacred hymns at bedtime, music has the power to soften hearts, shape the atmosphere of your home, and anchor your family in Christ. You’ll hear practical rhythms for families in every season (even the messy ones), insight into the best sacred and classical resources, and encouragement for parents who want to create beauty and connection during the Christmas season—no musical talent required. In this episode: Why sacred music creates emotional and spiritual connectionHow to create a realistic rhythm of musical discipleshipThe power of Handel’s Messiah and classical music in shaping faithChoosing music like a healthy diet for your child’s soulHow to make beauty part of your family legacy #LegacyParenting #ChristianParenting #MusicDiscipleship #ChristmasWithKids #GospelCenteredParenting #FamilyWorship #AdventMusic #HomeschoolMusic #HandelsMessiah #SacredMusic #DisciplingChildren #CharlotteMason #FaithFilledHome

    21 min
  4. 36. Using Music to Disciple Your Children This Christmas: Simple, Biblical Habits for Your Home (Part 1)

    12/09/2025

    36. Using Music to Disciple Your Children This Christmas: Simple, Biblical Habits for Your Home (Part 1)

    “Music brings a lot of peace… it can set the direction of our heart and the tone of our day.” — Mary PratherIn this special Christmas episode, Lori welcomes longtime friend and music educator Mary Prather to explore how sacred music can shape the atmosphere of your home and the hearts of your children during the Advent season. Rather than treating Christmas music as background noise, Mary helps us see it as a discipleship tool—one that forms affection, builds rhythms of worship, and quiets the noise of a busy holiday culture. Together, they discuss how parents can recover simple, meaningful practices such as Advent hymns, listening rituals, and Scripture-centered musical traditions—even if you “don’t feel musical.” Encouraging and deeply practical, this conversation shows how the beauty of Christmas music can lead your children toward awe, peace, and a deeper love for Christ. In This Episode, We Cover:How sacred music becomes a formational tool in a child’s spiritual lifeWhy Advent rhythms anchor the home in truth amid December busynessSimple ways to reintroduce hymns, carols, and Scripture-songs into daily routinesWhat to do if you feel “non-musical” (and how to start anyway)Mary’s favorite carols, resources, and listening rhythms for familiesHow curated playlists and musical habits calm the heart and point children to Christ ResourcesAbout Mary Prather Mary Prather is a veteran homeschool mom who has graduated two children from her homeschool journey. Married for 28 years to her husband, Hal, Mary brings her love of family, teaching, and the arts into everything she does. With a Bachelor’s degree in Music Education and a Master’s in Educational Leadership and Supervision, she has combined her passions for music and education to serve families through SQUILT Music Appreciation—the curriculum she founded in 2011 to help make fine arts accessible and joyful for every learner. When she’s not teaching or creating, Mary enjoys great books, serving in her church’s special needs ministry, and all things related to music. Connect with Mary Website: Homegrown LearnersWebside: SQUILT Music AppreciationInstagram: Homegrown LeanersInstagram: SQUILT Music Legacy Parenting Resource: ➡️ Trends vs. Truth: A Path to Counter-Cultural Parenting Your free 5-episode private podcast series + discussion guide

    17 min

  5. 12/02/2025

    35. Raising Kids Who Worship the Giver, Not the Gifts: Countercultural Parenting at Christmas

    “Entitlement isn’t cured by guilt—it’s transformed by heart discipleship.”Every parent wrestles with how to handle Christmas “wants.” But at Legacy, we believe the season is one of the richest opportunities to disciple the heart—not just manage the wishlist. In today’s episode, John and Lori Lane guide us through how to parent biblically and intentionally when consumer culture gets loud. You’ll hear a powerful reminder: discipling your child toward Christ in December might be the most lasting gift you give all year. Whether it’s unmet expectations, wish list disappointment, or the deeper longings for value and recognition, this episode offers truth-centered encouragement and practical tools to shepherd your child well. Takeaways: Why biblical gift-giving is rooted in the GospelThe contrast between Herod and the wise men—and what it reveals about worshipHow to uncover the heart behind your child’s disappointmentSimple family practices that re-center the focus on ChristEncouragement for weary parents: why it’s okay not to give them everything

    17 min
  6. Bonus Episode: Not a Perfect Christmas - Real Talk About Holiday Pressure

    12/01/2025

    Bonus Episode: Not a Perfect Christmas - Real Talk About Holiday Pressure

    Is there really such a thing as a “perfect” holiday season? This episode is a personal one. I’m opening up about the pressure we carry into the Christmas season—especially as moms, grandmas, adult children, and women who care deeply about creating meaningful memories. From unrealistic expectations to the quiet ache of comparison, this season can weigh heavy on our hearts. I’m sharing what I’ve learned—and am still learning—about letting go of perfection, celebrating what’s real, and finding peace in the middle of the mess. Whether you’re feeling the weight of planning, missing someone you love, or just craving a quieter kind of Christmas…this one is for you. Let’s lower the pressure and raise our presence. Listen in as I reflect on: Why we set the bar so high during the holidaysHow unrealistic expectations affect our familiesThree heart-level shifts that bring peace, not pressureThe freedom of choosing presence over perfectionYou’re not alone—and you don’t have to do Christmas perfectly to make it meaningful. #ChristmasStress #HolidayExpectations #FaithfulNotFlawless #LegacyParenting #RealChristmas

    15 min
  7. 34. How to Keep Christ Central in a Busy Christmas Season

    11/25/2025

    34. How to Keep Christ Central in a Busy Christmas Season

    “We don’t need more time this Christmas, but we do need more intention.” – Lori LaneIn this special Advent episode of Legacy Parenting, Lori Lane invites us to step off the hamster wheel of holiday hustle and embrace sacred space—margin that leads to heart-level transformation. Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical rhythms, Lori helps us realign our family calendar with what matters most: Christ. We explore the difference between doing everything good and choosing the best things—the ones that make room for reflection, connection, and discipleship. Whether you're a first-time parent or a grandparent navigating family traditions, this episode gives you permission (and a framework) to parent with purpose this season. Key Takeaways: How “sacred space” creates room for spiritual transformationWhy margin matters more than a full schedule during AdventThe biblical foundation for intentional rhythms at ChristmasPersonal examples from John and Lori's family about saying “yes” on purpose—and “no” with peaceIdeas for creating a slower, Christ-centered Christmas through Scripture, music, quiet evenings, and simple acts of kindnessEncouragement to parent with eternal vision, not just seasonal performance 🎧 Don't forget to subscribe and share this Advent series with a friend or fellow parent looking for peace and purpose this Christmas. #LegacyParenting #AdventReflections #ChristCenteredChristmas #BiblicalParenting #SacredSpace #MarginMatters #SlowChristmas #IntentionalParenting #FamilyDiscipleship #ChristianParentingPodcast #FaithFilledHolidays #GospelCenteredParenting #HeartFocusedParenting #RaisingKingdomKids #JesusIsTheReason

    20 min

  8. 11/18/2025

    33. - How Tiny Habits Can Build Big Faith in Your Children - Interview with Christie Thomas

    “You don’t have to do it all or know it all—because you can trust that God is faithful.” – Christy ThomasIn this encouraging episode of the Legacy Parenting Podcast, Lori Lane is joined by Christie Thomas—children’s ministry leader, family discipleship coach, and author of Little Shoots, Deep Roots. Together, they unpack how tiny, grace-filled habits can lay a powerful spiritual foundation for your children without overwhelming your days. Christie shares her journey from insecurity and performance-based parenting to a place of peace, wisdom, and practical discipleship at home. Through relatable stories and science-backed habit strategies, she reveals how just 3–5 minutes of intentional time each day can cultivate deep-rooted faith in your kids. In this episode, you’ll learn:Why small habits lead to lasting transformationWhat the “Seed, Sprout, Root” discipleship model looks like in real lifeHow to use “anchor prompts” to build faith habits into your daily rhythmsHow sanctification in your own life impacts your childrenThe truth about spiritual leadership when your spouse isn’t actively involvedWhy fun and freedom matter in family discipleship Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, guilty, or unsure where to start, this episode will leave you feeling encouraged and equipped to lead your family with biblical confidence—one small step at a time. 📘 Recommended Resource: Little Shoots, Deep Roots by Christy Thomas ➡️ https://littleshootsdeeproots.com 📲 Follow Christy: Instagram: @littleshootsdeeproots YouTube: @bedtimedevomama 🎧 Listen to more episodes at: LegacyParenting.org/legacypodcast #ChristianParenting #FamilyDiscipleship #FaithHabits #LegacyParenting #BiblicalParenting #ChristyThomas #ParentingPodcast #FaithAtHome #RaisingGodlyKids #StartLittleGrowDeep

    40 min
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The Legacy Parenting Podcast equips parents with Biblical wisdom and practical strategies for faith-based parenting in today's challenging world. Hosted by John and Lori Lane, this podcast draws from their 42 years of marriage, 40 years of parenting, 43 years in education and the arts, and 25 years of home education to offer clear, Scripture-rooted guidance that rises above the noise of conflicting voices. Through engaging conversations and real-life examples, together they share how faith-based parenting builds children's lifelong commitment to God's Truth and creates a legacy that impacts generations. Whether you're just beginning your parenting journey or entering grandparenthood, Legacy Parenting provides the encouragement and Biblical principles needed to parent with confidence and purpose while navigating cultural “noise.” Join us in building a faith-filled family legacy that stands on the unchanging foundation of God's Word.

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  • Creator
    John and Lori Lane
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    41
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 John and Lori Lane
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    Legacy Parenting