Legendary Mindset with Tom Bilyeu Extra Impact

On this episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu is joined by Psychotherapist, New York Times Bestselling Author, and host of the emotionally raw and tell-all podcasts ’How’s Work?’ and ‘Where Should We Begin?’ Esther Perelto discuss such matters and more as they explore the pitfalls you need to be on the lookout for that might be killing your relationships, connections, or marriage. They discuss the downfalls you need to be on the lookout for that pose a threat to your relationships, what complacency looks like, why so many couples get it wrong when trying to solve their differences, the power of words and the meaning behind them, how culture comes into play in your relationship, how to understand other’s perspectives, and the tools you need to have a healthy and thriving relationship with anyone in your life. [Original air date: January 19, 2021].



SHOW NOTES:

Downfalls | Esther reveals the things that kill relationships. [0:17]

Complacency | Esther reveals the step-by-step process of how complacency creeps in. [2:36]

Blind | Esther reveals why so many people in a relationship fail to see their mistakes. [6:14]

Combativeness | Esther reveals the many dynamics of how couples blame each other. [7:33]

Words | Esther reveals the power of your words and how you frame your problems. [10:03]

Culture | Esther reveals how culture comes into play with relationships. [12:56]

Contextualize Yourself | Esther reveals how we can value things differently. [13:58]

Meaning | Esther discusses the importance of the meaning behind what you say. [17:47]

Business | Esther reveals why so many business relationships fail. [19:54]

Perspectives | Esther discusses how you can begin to see other’s perspectives. [21:47]

Tea | Tom shares a story where he and his wife, Lisa, argued over a cup of tea. [26:06]

Fighting | Esther reveals how we fight over lack of respect and recognition. [28:18]

Roles | Esther discusses roles, expectations, and flexibility in a relationship. [30:27]

Tools | Esther reveals the key tools you can use to get the most out of your relationship. [31:28]

Connect | Esther shares how you can engage with her and continue to learn from her. [33:28]



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With 400 patents to his name, Dean Kamen is an accomplished inventor that's given the world major contributions like the Segway and AutoSyringe. His company FIRST is on a mission to overhaul the education system by using engaging, cooperative games that tap into how current generations learn most effectively. Dean talks about how his struggle in the classroom pushed him to create more opportunities outside of it on this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu. [Original air date: April 10, 2018].

SHOW NOTES:

Dean talks about the power of imagination vs. traditional knowledge [3:43]

Dean discusses FIRST and it's push to change our approach to education. [11:40]

Dean shares how his dyslexia and curiosity have been major assets. [22:22]

Dean explains how he built self-esteem throughout his schooling years. [32:09]

Dean reveals the impact he wants to have on the world. [37:48]

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MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE BOOKS:

Principia - https://amzn.to/2uPVmNN [28:43]

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To help you kick start this New Year the right way we've compiled the most actionable insights centered on the art of execution from our many amazing guests on Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu. [Original air date: January 2, 2018].

SHOW NOTES:

David Goggins on why suffering is part of the journey. [2:38]

Watch the full interview with David Goggins: http://bit.ly/2qkQbyR

Mel Robbins on making small decisions toward significant steps. [4:47]

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Naveen Jain on why curiosity leads to real happiness. [10:07]

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Jason Mayden on using introspection to grow. [15:10]

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Jay Williams on pursuing greatness. [20:57]

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Michael Strahan on embracing failure. [23:42]

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Jessica O. Matthews on taking steps to help the world. [26:33]

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The Nerdwriter on the beauty of trauma. [28:23]

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Vanessa Van Edwards on the danger of ambivalent relationships. [32:07]

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Jay Samit on maximizing your time on earth. [36:50]

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BOOKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Mel Robbin’s The 5 Second Rule [8:17] The Emperor’s Handbook [20:43]

Jay Samit’s “Disrupt You!” [37:01] Available here: audible.com/Impact

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Yuval Noah Harari is a New York Times bestselling author whose books have sold over 12 million copies and translated into more than 45 languages. He’s often referred to as one of the most profound thinkers of our time. And in this episode you will see why… [Original air date: November 13, 2018].

SHOWNOTES

How we can hack humans and manipulate their desires [3:26]

How algorithms will learn to understand you better than you understand yourself (and why you could be replaced by one) [5:03]

Why corporations will even be able to predict your sexual orientation… [8:50]

The reality of outsourcing the self-discovery process… [12:27]

How algorithms will change the way we make art… [15:49]

Can AI save us from cancer? (See how it’s possible, but decide for yourself if it's dangerous)... [18:10]

The battle between privacy and health... [19:29]

How to take control of the story you tell yourself and why you need to stop thinking of your life as a movie… [21:09]

Why we’re heading into the direction of immortality and the future is just a series of massive disruptions [28:44]

Why you need to continuously reinvent yourself if you want to survive to 2035. [30:01]

The two most important tools you will need to succeed in the world of AI (and they’re not what you think). [32:05]

Why Yuval believes that science fiction is the most important artistic genre… [34:25]

See what Yuval has to say about the world’s 3 biggest challenges… [37:29]



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On this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Rainn Wilson takes on some of the biggest questions we face as a society today--a mental health crisis that is disproportionately harming younger people, climate change, and an epidemic of loneliness that has only gotten worse with the pandemic. He discusses how therapy helped him deal with severe anxiety, talks about why service to others is so important, and advocates looking at the data on big issues like global warming. [Original air date: September 1, 2020].



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SHOW NOTES:

Rainn discusses mental health, especially its increase among young people [0:51]

Rainn shares his battle with anxiety, and says it never happened when on stage [6:15]

Rainn talks about the gestalt therapy he has used to deal with anxiety [10:25]

We are most satisfied when we serve others, as that creates human flourishing [15:37]

Rainn advocates compassion for others, and making yourself a better person [21:39]

Gratitude is the number one tool of people of faith [28:08]

All teenagers want to do is be with other teenagers, and right now they can’t [32:47]

Rainn explains how he got involved in climate change [34:09]



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This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.

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Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement


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Relationship Theory: Relationships


Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health


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In his 20’s Charity: Water founder Scott Harrison had all the money and material possessions someone could ask for but gave it all up to pursue a more meaningful life. Trading in bottle service for public service, Scott now helps provide water access to millions worldwide and is living proof anyone can rewrite their legacy no matter their past. The author of Thirst shares the journey of resetting his life on this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu. [Original air date: October 9, 2018].

SHOW NOTES:

Scott Harrison defines redemption and the role it’s played in his life. [2:40]

Scott documents the trip that inspired his new path. [6:30]

Scott on using his nightclub promoter skills in the entrepreneurial world. [11:03]

Scott and Tom discuss the power and skill of asking. [17:50]

Scott touches on the importance of innovation and optimism. [24:00]

Scott reveals the impact he wants to have on the world. [28:13]

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