The Hidden Why Podcast

Leigh Martinuzzi

This is The Hidden Why Podcast. It's my space to explore deep conversations with inspiring guests, share insights from my own journey, and provide practical wisdom to help you grow and exceed. Whether you're here for personal development, mindset shifts, or motivation, I hope you find something valuable that resonates with you.

  1. 5d ago

    Episode 1173: Coach Chris Bennett - This Is About Running. This Is Not About Running: Living Bravely

    In this episode of The Hidden Why Podcast, I sit down with Chris Bennett, Global Head Coach of Nike Running, better known to millions of runners around the world as Coach Bennett. Chris believes running is both about running and not about running at all. The lessons we discover while moving, including courage, honesty, resilience, patience, vulnerability, and showing up when things are difficult, have a habit of following us into the rest of our lives. Drawing from decades as a runner and coach, Chris shares the philosophy behind his new book, This Is About Running. This Is Not About Running: Essential Lessons on Living Bravely. We explore why everyone has the potential to be a runner, why your first goal should simply be wanting to run again, and why pace, distance, and performance matter far less than developing a healthy relationship with movement. This is a conversation about running, certainly. But more importantly, it's about how we approach the things that matter to us and how doing something difficult can help us become more courageous, honest, and alive.   Chris believes that everyone has the potential to become a runner, regardless of speed, distance, or pace. He explains why comparison and unrealistic expectations often stop people before they even begin and why running should meet you where you are today. For those starting their first run or returning after a long break, Chris encourages starting small, even if it's only five minutes. The real goal of that first run is simply to finish wanting to do another one, showing that sometimes doing less today can help you achieve more tomorrow. Chris also encourages us to think of running as a relationship rather than simply another fitness goal. Like any worthwhile relationship, running requires honesty, commitment, flexibility, patience, forgiveness, and the willingness to keep showing up. Some days the relationship will feel fantastic, while other days it may not, but the key is learning how to keep it healthy enough to last. He also explores the importance of finding your real "why," explaining why goals based purely on pace, weight, distance, medals, or external validation often fail to sustain us. Looking beneath the goal and understanding why it truly matters can help us adapt when circumstances change and focus on who we want to become rather than simply what we want to achieve. Honesty is another important part of becoming your own coach. Chris discusses why good athletes need to recognise when to push and when to back off, while learning to speak to themselves with the same intelligence and encouragement that a great coach would provide. He explains why beating yourself up rarely leads to sustainable performance. Running and sport can also provide a safe place to fail, struggle, learn, and try again. Through difficult experiences, we can build courage, self-trust, and the ability to handle challenges beyond sport. Finally, Chris explores how running can support mental and emotional health. Movement can change more than our physical health, and even a short run can influence how we interact with others for the rest of the day. Running can provide an opportunity to process emotions, think, reset, and reconnect, with benefits that extend far beyond the kilometres completed. He also discusses what happens when our passions change shape due to competition, careers, or different seasons of life. Losing one version of something we love doesn't mean we have to abandon it completely; instead, we can allow our passions to evolve and find new ways to stay connected to the things that make us feel alive. Key Topics Discussed: Everyone can be a runner. You don't need to run fast or far to belong. Start smaller than you think. The best first run is one that makes you want another run. Lowering expectations can increase consistency. Sustainable progress beats heroic bursts followed by burnout. Know your why. The deeper reason behind the goal matters more than the number attached to it. Be your own coach. Honesty and encouragement will take you further than constant self-criticism. Failure is training. Sport gives us a relatively safe environment to practise courage, vulnerability, and resilience. Let your passions evolve. You don't have to abandon something simply because your relationship with it changes.     About Coach Chris Bennett: Chris Bennett is the Global Head Coach of Nike Running and is known around the world as Coach Bennett. Through guided runs on the Nike Run Club app, training programs, podcasts, newsletters, events, and live coaching, Chris has helped tens of millions of athletes discover a more positive and sustainable relationship with running. His philosophy is refreshingly simple: everyone is a runner.   Rather than focusing solely on splits, statistics, and finish times, Chris encourages athletes to understand the experience of the run itself, celebrate where they are, and continue moving forward one run at a time. Before joining Nike, Chris was a high school history teacher and coach of one of the most successful running programs in the United States.   He attended the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he captained the Tar Heels' Cross Country and Track teams. After college, he competed for five years with the Olympic Developmental Nike Farm Team at Stanford University.   Chris lives in Oregon with his wife, Tammie, and their three children, Jack, Maggie, and Emma.     Action from This Episode: Don't worry about becoming a runner. Just go for one run. Forget pace. Forget distance. Forget whether it deserves to be uploaded somewhere so strangers on the internet can inspect your kilometre splits. Start comfortably. Stay present. Finish feeling like you could have done a little more. Then ask yourself: "Do I want to do that again?" That's a pretty good starting line, not only for running, but for almost anything worth doing.   Resources & Links: Get Chris Bennett's book on Amazon: This Is About Running. This Is Not About Running: Essential Lessons on Living Bravely Website: Two Coach Bennetts   Connect with Coach Chris Bennett: Instagram Facebook

  2. Aug 31

    Episode 1172: Jennifer Shahade - Thinking Sideways: Chess, Poker & Better Decision-Making

    In this episode of The Hidden Why, I sit down with Jennifer Shahade, two-time U.S. Women's Chess Champion, poker pro, author, commentator, and speaker to explore how the mental frameworks behind chess and poker can help us make better decisions and live more intentionally.   Drawing on her new book, Thinking Sideways: How to Think Like a Chess Player and Win at Life, Jennifer shares why great decision-making is less about predicting 10 moves and more about seeing options clearly, adapting quickly, and knowing when to act.   We explore flow, focus, memory, visualization, planning, and why the best thinkers learn to look beyond the obvious move.     Jennifer shares her journey into chess and why she sees it as both a game and an art form. She explains why elite chess players don't simply think "10 moves ahead," but instead focus on seeing the "empty squares" and hidden possibilities. The conversation explores how to balance planning with flexibility and alternative scenarios, as well as why overthinking small decisions can create anxiety and decision fatigue. Jennifer also discusses the role of poker in understanding risk, probability, and uncertainty, and how visualization can support performance under pressure. She highlights the importance of sleep and deep focus, and shares insights on creating your own lane by combining different strengths. Jennifer also defines success as living on your own terms while creating value. Finally, she introduces the SOFA memory framework: Sleep, Organization, Focus, and Active Learning. Key Topics Discussed: Better decisions come from evaluating what matters now, not obsessing over every possible future. Flexibility is a strength. Strong plans leave room for change. The best opportunities are often found in the "empty squares" others overlook. Low-stakes decisions should be made quickly to preserve mental energy for what matters. Memory, focus, and learning remain valuable even in an age of AI and instant information.   About Jennifer Shahade: Jennifer Shahade is a two-time U.S. Women's Chess Champion, professional poker player, author, commentator, and internationally recognised speaker. Her work sits at the intersection of chess, poker, art, culture, and decision-making. She has spoken at organisations and institutions including MIT, Yale, Harvard, NYU, TEDx Baltimore, Boston Consulting Group, and Merrill Lynch. Jennifer is the author of several books, including Chess Queens and her latest, Thinking Sideways: How to Think Like a Chess Player and Win at Life.     Action from This Episode: The next time you're stuck on a decision, ask yourself: "What am I not seeing?" Look beyond the obvious move. Consider the space around the problem, not just the problem itself. Sometimes the best path forward is sideways. Peace, passion, and purpose.   Resources & Links: Get Jennifer Shahade's book on Amazon: Thinking Sideways: How to Think Like a Chess Player and Win at Life     Website: Jennifer Shahade Connect with Jennifer Shahade: Facebook Instagram X

  3. Aug 24

    Episode 1171: David Gerber - Coming Alive Again with David Gerber

    In this episode of The Hidden Why Podcast, Leigh sits down with David Gerber, mental performance coach, TEDx speaker, partner at Novus Global, certified lion tracker, and author of The Lion Is You: Lessons from the Wild on Coming Alive Again. David has spent years coaching elite athletes, CEOs, and high-performing leaders, but some of his greatest lessons haven't come from the boardroom. They've come from walking on foot through the African bush, tracking wild lions, where every step demands presence, courage, and complete trust. Together, Leigh and David explore what the lions have taught him about fear, purpose, integrity, and why so many of us are merely surviving instead of truly living. They unpack how adversity, vulnerability, and taking meaningful risks are often the very things that reconnect us with our deepest sense of aliveness. David shares how becoming a certified lion tracker in South Africa transformed the way he sees life, from walking on foot through lion territory and being charged by lions to discovering powerful lessons about presence, boundaries, patience, courage, and trust. Drawing from his experiences in the African bush and his work coaching professional athletes, executives, and leadership teams through Novus Global, David explores why life unfolds one step at a time and why learning to trust the next step can create greater awareness and better decisions.   He discusses why slowing down, surrendering, and letting go of the need to control outcomes can lead to greater progress, while also exploring the hidden stories that keep high performers stuck and why external success doesn't always lead to fulfilment. The conversation dives into purpose, calling, and what it means to feel fully alive, including whether purpose is something we discover or create and how experimenting, serving others, embracing discomfort, and engaging with the world's pain can help us move toward meaningful work. David also shares insights on fear, courage, integrity, and the surprising lessons found in failure and embarrassment, while offering practical ways to get unstuck through small daily challenges, honest feedback, repetition, and taking action before confidence arrives.   He also reveals the daily practices that help him stay mentally strong and resilient, including strength training, movement, hot yoga, walking around 10,000 steps a day, accountability through group classes, and consistently choosing discomfort over comfortable stagnation. Key Topics Discussed: Aliveness isn't found in comfort. It's found in presence, courage, and meaningful action. Fear rarely disappears before action. It dissolves because of action. Purpose is discovered by taking the next step, not by waiting for perfect clarity. Integrity builds confidence. Every promise you keep to yourself strengthens your identity. Small acts of courage today prepare you for life's bigger challenges tomorrow. About David Gerber: David Gerber is a mental performance coach, TEDx speaker, bestselling author, and Partner at Novus Global, where he helps elite athletes, executives, entrepreneurs, and leaders break through limiting beliefs and perform at their highest level.   Alongside his coaching work, David is also a certified lion tracker, spending weeks on foot in the African wilderness learning lessons about presence, courage, fear, and resilience that few people ever experience. His work combines transformational coaching with wisdom drawn from nature, helping people move beyond survival and into a life marked by courage, purpose, and radical aliveness.   His TEDx talk has been viewed more than one million times, and his new book, The Lion Is You, challenges readers to stop merely existing and start fully living.     Action from This Episode:   Ask yourself one simple question: "Where in my life have I become comfortable instead of fully alive?" Then take one small courageous action today. You don't need the entire path. Just the next step. As David reminds us, you don't get from A to Z in one leap. You simply follow the next track. Peace, passion, and purpose.   Resources & Links: Get David Gerber's book on Amazon: The Lion Is You: Lessons from the Wild on Coming Alive Again   Website: David Gerber Novus Global   Connect with David Gerber: Instagram Facebook X Linkedin

  4. Aug 17

    Episode 1170: Thais Gibson - The New Attachment Theory: Rewiring Your Relationships

    In this episode of The Hidden Why, I sit down with Thais Gibson, a relationship expert, bestselling author, and founder of The Personal Development School, to explore how our attachment styles shape how we love, communicate, and connect with others.   Drawing on years of research, clinical experience, and her own healing journey, Thais explains why traditional attachment theory is only part of the story. Through her work on The New Attachment Theory, she shows how our subconscious patterns can be rewired using the brain's natural capacity for change, allowing us to build healthier relationships and move toward secure attachment.   Whether you struggle with anxiety in relationships, fear of intimacy, people-pleasing, or repeating the same unhealthy patterns, this conversation offers practical insights into understanding yourself and creating lasting change.     We explore attachment theory and why it influences the way we experience and navigate relationships throughout our lives. We dive into the four attachment styles and how they shape our behaviours, beliefs, and emotional responses, while also examining how subconscious programming can influence many of our reactions. We discuss the power of neuroplasticity and why lasting change is possible at any stage of life, including how to rewire limiting beliefs, heal core wounds, and break self-sabotaging patterns. The conversation also covers emotional regulation, creating a sense of safety within yourself, and the connection between attachment styles, addiction, and unhealthy coping strategies. Finally, we explore practical steps you can take to move toward a more secure attachment style and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.       Key Topics Discussed: Your attachment style isn't your identity; it's a learned pattern that can be changed. Healing begins by becoming aware of your subconscious beliefs and emotional triggers. Secure relationships are built through self-awareness, communication, and emotional regulation. Lasting transformation comes from consistently rewiring old patterns, not simply understanding them. The relationship you have with yourself shapes every other relationship in your life.     About Thais Gibson: Thais Gibson is a relationship expert, counsellor, bestselling author, and founder of The Personal Development School. She holds a Ph.D. and is certified in 13 therapeutic modalities, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Somatic Processing, and Trauma Work. Through her development of Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory, Thais combines attachment theory with neuroscience and neuroplasticity to help people identify and reprogram subconscious relationship patterns. Her courses and teachings have helped millions of people build healthier relationships, improve emotional wellbeing, and develop greater self-awareness.   Action from This Episode: Spend a few moments reflecting on your closest relationships and ask yourself: "When I feel triggered, what story am I telling myself?" Awareness is the first step toward changing the subconscious patterns that no longer serve you. Peace, passion, and purpose.     Resources & Links: Get Thais Gibson's book on Amazon: The New Attachment Theory Website: The Personal Development School   Connect with Thais Gibson: Instagram X Facebook Youtube

  5. Aug 10

    Episode 1169: Dr. Mary Sanders - Aligning Your Energy: Bioenergetics, Burnout & Healing from Within

    In this episode of The Hidden Why, I sit down with Dr. Mary Sanders, a chiropractor, medical intuitive, and host of the Energy Medicine: Align Your Mind, Body, and Spirit podcast, to explore the powerful connection between our energy, our health, and the way we experience life.   Drawing on more than 35 years in the healing arts, Dr. Mary shares how true wellbeing goes beyond treating physical symptoms. We discuss bioenergetics, the body's energy field, chakras, meditation, grounding, and why so many people today are living in a constant state of depletion and burnout.   Whether you're curious about energy medicine or simply looking for practical ways to restore your wellbeing, this conversation offers a thoughtful and accessible introduction to reconnecting with your mind, body, and spirit.     Dr. Mary's journey from chiropractic care to energy medicine and intuitive healing offers a unique perspective on how our bodies function as energetic systems. In this conversation, she explores what bioenergetics is, provides a practical understanding of the chakra system and its connection to health, and discusses how burnout, chronic stress, and people-pleasing can drain our life force. She also highlights the importance of energetic boundaries and "neutral separation," along with grounding, meditation, and heart-brain coherence as everyday healing practices.   The conversation explores why present-moment awareness is one of the greatest tools for health and resilience and offers simple, practical ways to begin restoring your energy even during the busiest seasons of life.   Key Topics Discussed:   Your energy often becomes depleted long before physical symptoms appear. Grounding, meditation, and conscious breathing are simple practices that help restore balance. Healthy boundaries protect your energy without disconnecting you from others. Presence is one of the most powerful antidotes to stress and overwhelm. Healing begins by caring for your whole self mind, body, and spirit.     About Dr. Mary Sanders : Dr. Mary Sanders is a chiropractor, medical intuitive, and energy medicine practitioner with more than 35 years of experience helping people reconnect with their vitality and purpose. Blending chiropractic care, positive psychology, neuroscience, and Intuition Medicine, Mary teaches practical tools that help people manage stress, cultivate resilience, and create lasting wellbeing. She is also the host of the internationally acclaimed podcast Energy Medicine: Align Your Mind, Body, and Spirit and leads retreats and workshops around the world.       Action from This Episode: Take just five minutes today to reconnect with yourself. Step outside, feel your feet on the earth, take a few slow breaths, and simply notice how you feel without trying to change anything. Sometimes the greatest healing begins with creating a little space to be present. Peace, passion, and purpose.   Resources & Links: Website:  Dr. Mary Sanders Energy Medicine Podcast     Connect with Dr. Mary Sanders: Instagram Facebook Linkedin

  6. Aug 3

    Episode 1168: Nicki Sizemore - Mind, Body, Food: Finding Joy in the Kitchen

    In this episode of The Hidden Why, I sit down with chef, author, and mindfulness teacher Nicki Sizemore to explore how cooking can become so much more than preparing a meal. It can be a daily practice of presence, creativity, and connection. After experiencing burnout in both her career and home life, Nicki realised she had lost the joy that first drew her to the kitchen. By combining mindfulness with everyday cooking, she discovered a simple yet powerful way to transform ordinary routines into meaningful rituals. Together, we discuss how intention, gratitude, and slowing down can not only change the way we cook, but also the way we live. Whether you're someone who loves cooking or simply wants to make daily life feel a little less rushed, this conversation is full of practical wisdom you can begin applying today.     Nicki shares her inspiring journey from experiencing burnout to rediscovering joy through the practice of mindful cooking. She explains why living with intention is far more powerful than striving for perfect outcomes and introduces her BEST framework for bringing mindfulness into the kitchen: Breathe, Engage your senses, Set an intention, and Thank your food and your body. By incorporating these simple yet meaningful practices, everyday cooking can become a restorative ritual that nurtures both body and mind. Nicki also highlights the importance of morning meditation, journaling, and cultivating presence throughout the day as ways to build a more mindful life. Throughout the conversation, she encourages listeners to let go of perfectionism, embrace self-compassion, and recognize that cooking can be much more than preparing meals; it can become a pathway to greater well-being, deeper connection, and a stronger sense of purpose.     Key Topics Discussed: Everyday routines can become opportunities for mindfulness and joy. Intention isn't about achieving more; it's about how you choose to show up. Small rituals help calm the nervous system and create moments of presence. Gratitude deepens our connection to food, our bodies, and the people we share meals with. Happiness is often found in the ordinary moments we usually rush through.   About Nicki Sizemore : Nicki Sizemore is a chef, cookbook author, recipe developer, and mindfulness teacher who helps people reconnect with the joy of cooking and everyday living. Her latest book, Mind, Body, Spirit, Food: Adaptable Recipes and Grounding Meditations for Preparing Meals with Joy and Intention, blends nourishing recipes with simple mindfulness practices, showing readers how cooking can become a daily ritual of presence, creativity, and self-care. Nicki also hosts the Mind, Body, Spirit, FOOD newsletter and podcast, teaches at the renowned Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health, and has been featured in publications including The Washington Post, Real Simple, EatingWell, Better Homes & Gardens, and Goop.   Action from This Episode: Before preparing your next meal, pause for just one minute. Take a few slow breaths, notice your surroundings, and ask yourself: "How do I want to feel while I make this meal?" You may discover that the greatest ingredient isn't in the recipe; it's the intention you bring to the experience. Peace, passion, and purpose.   Resources & Links: Get Nicki Sizemore's book on Amazon: Mind, Body, Spirit, Food: Adaptable Recipes and Grounding Meditations for Preparing Meals with Joy and Intention Website: Nicki Sizemore From Scratch Fast Mind, Body, Spirit, FOOD Newsletter & Podcast Connect with Nicki Sizemore: Instagram linkedin

  7. Jul 20

    Episode 1167: Marcus Aurelius Anderson - Transforming Adversity Into Victory

    In this episode of The Hidden Why, I sit down with Marcus Aurelius Anderson, leadership catalyst, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and U.S. Army veteran, to explore how our greatest challenges can become the foundation for our greatest growth. After suffering a catastrophic spinal injury that left him paralysed from the neck down and dying twice on the operating table, Marcus was told he would never walk again. Rather than allowing adversity to define him, he chose to use it as a catalyst for transformation. Together, we discuss resilience, radical acceptance, gratitude, leadership, and why taking action- not simply collecting knowledge is the key to creating lasting change. If you're navigating a difficult season or searching for the courage to take the next step, this conversation offers practical wisdom and a powerful reminder that adversity doesn't have to be the end of your story. Marcus shares his extraordinary journey from paralysis to discovering a renewed sense of purpose, revealing how adversity can become one of life's greatest teachers when we choose to learn from it rather than be defined by it. Together, we explore the powerful philosophy of Acta Non Verba: actions, not words, and why lasting transformation comes from consistently applying what we know rather than simply collecting more knowledge. Marcus explains how radical acceptance and genuine gratitude can shift our perspective during life's most difficult moments, while also discussing practical ways to overcome fear, self-doubt, and the influence of other people's opinions. We also dive into the simple daily habits that build resilience over time, including meditation, mindfulness, and intentional action, demonstrating how these practices can bring clarity, strength, and purpose even in the face of life's greatest challenges. Key Topics Discussed: Adversity is inevitable, but how we respond is always within our control. Growth begins when we stop resisting reality and start accepting it. Reading another book won't change your life; taking action will. Gratitude isn't denying hardship; it's choosing a perspective that empowers you. Progress comes from consistently applying what you already know. About Marcus Aurelius Anderson: Marcus Aurelius Anderson is a leadership catalyst, keynote speaker, bestselling author, and U.S. Army veteran who helps leaders transform adversity into a competitive advantage. Following a devastating spinal injury that left him paralysed, Marcus rebuilt his life through resilience, disciplined action, and a philosophy centred on Acta Non Verba actions, not words. Today he works with CEOs, entrepreneurs, and high-performing leaders around the world, helping them navigate adversity with greater courage, clarity, and purpose. He is the author of The Gift of Adversity and Acta Non Verba: Transforming Adversity Into Victory Through Actions Not Words. Action from This Episode: Ask yourself one simple question: "What's one action I can take today instead of waiting until I feel ready?" Knowledge creates possibility. Action creates transformation. Peace, passion, and purpose.   Resources & Links: Website:  Marcus Aurelius Anderson   Connect with Marcus Aurelius Anderson: Facebook Instagram

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This is The Hidden Why Podcast. It's my space to explore deep conversations with inspiring guests, share insights from my own journey, and provide practical wisdom to help you grow and exceed. Whether you're here for personal development, mindset shifts, or motivation, I hope you find something valuable that resonates with you.