Let the Biscuits Burn

Abby Kuykendall
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Let the Biscuits Burn is the podcast that embraces the mess and beauty of hospitality. Hosted by Abby Kuykendall, Christian author and hospitality expert, this show is for anyone who believes that loving people well is at the heart of great meals, meaningful conversation, and deep community. Each episode shares real, down-to-earth advice on creating intentional moments around the table, without the pressure for perfection. Abby challenges listeners to overcome obstacles, prioritize people over presentations, and discover the profound spiritual practice of hospitality.

Episodes

  1. 09/26/2025

    From Mega Church to Small Town Kitchen with Chrissie Dunham | EP011

    In this heartfelt episode of Let the Biscuits Burn, Abby sits down with Chrissie Dunham to talk about a theme that never gets old: hospitality, community, and the joy of simply showing up for others.Chrissie shares her powerful story of transition—from serving as a women’s minister at one of the largest churches in the country to stepping into a quieter, simpler life in a small town. What she discovered in the process wasn’t a loss—it was a renewed vision of hospitality. No longer about perfection, performance, or polished presentation, her new rhythm of life has been about loving people around the table, letting the biscuits burn if they must, and choosing connection over comparison.Together, Abby and Chrissie unpack: Why hospitality doesn’t require a flawless home or a Pinterest-worthy spreadHow cooking and serving can become a form of ministryThe beauty of small acts of obedience that transform livesWhy community is essential for spiritual and personal growthHow being present and intentional creates spaces people actually want to belong toWebsite / Home: https://www.chrissiedunham.org/ ChrissiedunhamPodcast page (Wonder Podcast & The Party Table): https://www.chrissiedunham.org/podcast ChrissiedunhamInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cdunham01/ Instagram“Book Now / Speaking” page: https://www.chrissiedunham.org/speakingHospitality is about connection, not perfection.Saying yes to God’s call, even in small ways, can shift the entire direction of your life.Community is where growth, support, and joy flourish.Cooking and serving are powerful tools of ministry.Genuine hospitality is about being fully present.Every shared meal can be an act of love.“Let the biscuits burn!”“Love me and love people.”“I want to be their friend.”This conversation will encourage you to stop stressing about the menu, forget about the perfect setting, and instead focus on what matters most: love, presence, and people.Links: ✨ ORDER the book Let the Biscuits Burn now and get exclusive preorder goodies: https://nelsonbooks.co/AK_ams📕 A book for the overwhelmed woman who wants to obey God and open her door—even if the biscuits burn.🎤 Interested in bringing Abby to speak at your church, conference, or women’s event? Reach out via [your email/website here].📲 Want weekly hospitality encouragement straight to your phone?Text BISCUITS to 501-833-6045 to join Abby’s text crew.Connect with Chrissie: Key TakeawaysMy Favorite QuotesChapters00:00 – Introduction and Background06:06 – Embracing Change and New Beginnings12:12 – The Heart of Hospitality15:23 – From Entertaining to Genuine Hospitality21:05 – Creating Community Around the Table

    32 min

  2. 09/11/2025

    Messy, Scary, Beautiful: Saying Yes to God Anyway with Lauren Hogge | EP008

    Summary In this conversation, Lauren Hogge shares her journey of faith, the challenges of church planting, and the development of the James Method, a scripture engagement tool. She emphasizes the importance of small steps of obedience in faith, the impact of community, and the blessings that come from following God's calling. Lauren's story illustrates how personal growth and ministry can intertwine, leading to significant changes in both her life and the lives of others. Links:  ✨ PRE-ORDER the book Let the Biscuits Burn now and get exclusive preorder goodies: https://nelsonbooks.co/AK_ams 📕 A book for the overwhelmed woman who wants to obey God and open her door—even if the biscuits burn. 🎤 Interested in bringing Abby to speak at your church, conference, or women’s event? Reach out via [your email/website here]. 📲 Want weekly hospitality encouragement straight to your phone?Text BISCUITS to 501-833-6045 to join Abby’s text crew. The James Method:   - https://www.thejamesmethod.com/  - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_james_method/  - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyvQ8RFxvd2-mcnexs4UcdA Takeaways Lauren Hogge is a pastor's wife and creator of the James Method.The James Method helps people engage deeply with scripture.Small steps of obedience can lead to significant changes.Faith often requires overcoming fear and doubt.Community impact is a key aspect of faith-based initiatives.E-commerce challenges can arise when launching a ministry.Obedience can have a ripple effect on others' lives.Daily time with God is essential for guidance and clarity.God can use our past experiences for new purposes.The journey of faith is often messy but rewarding. Titles From Obedience to Impact: Lauren Hogge's JourneyThe James Method: Engaging with Scripture Sound Bites "I was scared to death.""It was that domino effect.""We fail forward." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Lauren Hogge and Her Journey 02:31 The Journey of Faith and Church Planting 08:34 Steps of Obedience Amidst Worldly Pressures 15:38 The James Method: Engaging with Scripture 20:10 Engaging with the Holy Spirit 22:38 The Journey of Launching a Business 24:11 Overcoming Challenges and Spiritual Warfare 26:08 Taking Practical Steps Towards Obedience 28:04 The Importance of a Personal Relationship with God 30:19 Letting Go of Comfort for New Opportunities 32:39 Recognizing God's New Directions 37:18 The Ripple Effect of Obedience Keywords: faith, church planting, obedience, scripture engagement, James Method, personal growth, community impact, spiritual journey, e-commerce, Christian ministry

    33 min

  3. 09/11/2025

    The Bible’s Most Surprising Hospitality Moment | EP 006

    Have you ever felt far from God and wondered why He seems silent? In Episode 006 of Let the Biscuits Burn, we dive into one of the Bible’s most quietly powerful hospitality moments - the Road to Emmaus. The disciples didn’t recognize Jesus in the sermon, in the Scriptures, or in the walk… They saw Him when He broke bread. ➡️ If you're craving closeness with God but feel stuck in a busy or messy season, this episode will reframe how you view your home, your table, and your ordinary moments. ✨ PRE-ORDER the book Let the Biscuits Burn now and get exclusive preorder goodies: https://nelsonbooks.co/AK_ams 📕 A book for the overwhelmed woman who wants to obey God and open her door—even if the biscuits burn. 🎤 Interested in bringing Abby to speak at your church, conference, or women’s event? Reach out via [your email/website here]. 📲 Want weekly hospitality encouragement straight to your phone?Text BISCUITS to 501-833-6045 to join Abby’s text crew.

    19 min

  4. 09/09/2025

    Who’s Cutting the Turkey? A Friendsigving Episode with Molly Anne Sandefur

    🎉 This episode is special because I’m joined by my sister Molly Anne—a real-life hospitality hero and mama to FOUR kiddos under 10. She recently hosted a giant Friendsgiving with 30 people and 12 kids in her home, and she’s here to talk about how we love people well, even when our arms (and homes) are full. We also unpack one of the Bible’s most surprising and sacred hospitality moments—where obedience trumped perfection and people encountered God in the middle of real life. 🔥 You don’t want to miss this one if you’ve ever said: “I’m too busy for hospitality” “My house is too chaotic” “I’m not cut out for this” In this episode of 'Let the Biscuits Burn', host Abby and her sister Molly Anne discuss the challenges and joys of hosting a Friendsgiving. They explore the pressures of perfection in hospitality, the importance of flexibility, and the value of community support. Molly Anne shares her personal experience of preparing for Friendsgiving with her family, emphasizing that it's not about having a perfect home but about creating meaningful connections with others. The conversation offers practical advice for first-time hosts and encourages listeners to embrace the messiness of hospitality while focusing on the love and relationships that matter most. Takeaways Hospitality can feel overwhelming but is worth the effort.It's important to fight the pressure of perfection in hosting.Delegation and community support are essential in hospitality.Flexibility is key when hosting large gatherings.Creating a warm and inviting atmosphere is important, but it doesn't have to be perfect.Involving children in the hosting process can be a great teaching moment.It's the memories made with friends that matter most, not the food served.Saying yes to hospitality can lead to unexpected blessings.Preparation is important, but so is being open to the unexpected.Embrace the chaos and focus on connection over perfection. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Hospitality and Friendsgiving 02:50 Molly-Anne's Experience with Friendsgiving 06:08 Preparing for Friendsgiving: The Chaos and the Joy 08:48 Navigating Logistics and Flexibility in Hosting 12:05 Embracing Imperfection in Hospitality 14:52 Advice for First-Time Hosts 18:02 The Importance of Community and Delegation 20:46 Reflections on the Experience and Future Gatherings 23:54 Final Thoughts on Hospitality and Connection ✨ PRE-ORDER the book Let the Biscuits Burn + get exclusive goodies right here: https://nelsonbooks.co/AK_ams 📕 For the women who love Jesus but can’t keep the floor clean. This book is your permission slip to open the door anyway. 🎤 Want Abby to speak at your next event? Whether it’s a women’s brunch, leadership conference, or retreat, she’d love to be there! Reach out through [your email/website]. 📲 Join the weekly text crew by texting BISCUITS to 501-833-6045 for hospitality tips, devotionals, and real-life encouragement.

    32 min

  5. 07/14/2025

    The Hospitality Secret You've Been Waiting For!

    Welcome back to Let the Biscuits Burn—your go-to place for messy tables, meaningful conversations, and permission to be wildly obedient without needing your life to look perfect.In Episode 004, Abby Kuykendall shares a behind-the-scenes look at her new book Let the Biscuits Burn (coming September 23!) and why this hospitality secret is the one you've been waiting for. From advanced reader copies to raw vulnerability, this episode is the pep talk your soul needs to stop waiting for perfect and start inviting people in. Abby delves into the inspiration behind the book, emphasizing the importance of genuine hospitality over perfection. She shares personal anecdotes and encourages listeners to embrace vulnerability and authenticity in their hospitality practices. Abby also discusses the distinction between hospitality and entertaining, and the concept of hospitality as a spiritual discipline. The episode covers practical tips and concludes with an AI hospitality hack and an invitation to join Abby’s community for updates and pre-order goodies.00:00 Introduction and Exciting Announcements01:15 The Heart of Hospitality01:55 Personal Journey and Book Insights06:27 The Deeper Meaning of Hospitality10:20 Overcoming Obstacles and Excuses14:26 The Story Behind the Title20:23 Pre-Order Goodies and Final Thoughts🎧 Order the book & audiobook: https://nelsonbooks.co/AK_ams📲 Text BISCUITS to 5018336045 for launch surprises, prayer updates, and goodies💡 This week’s AI Hospitality Hack: Use ChatGPT to plan hangouts and write your text invites—because hosting doesn’t have to be hard.🧡 Subscribe, like, comment, and share if this episode blessed you—and don’t forget to let the biscuits burn.#HospitalityTips #ChristianLiving #LetTheBiscuitsBurn #FaithAndFriendship #WomenOfFaith #MessyTableMoments #ChristianPodcast #BookLaunch2025 #FaithBasedCommunity

    24 min

  6. 07/03/2025

    The #1 Lie You Believe About Hospitality

    Welcome to Episode 3 of 'Let the Biscuits Burn' with Abby Kuykendall! This episode dives deep into the essence of true hospitality, emphasizing the importance of heartfelt connections over perfect presentations. Abby explores the distinction between entertaining and Biblical hospitality, sharing personal anecdotes and insights. Learn how to balance beauty and purpose, and how to use AI tools like ChatGPT to simplify your event planning, allowing you to focus on what truly matters—people. Tune in for practical tips, scriptural wisdom, and an exciting announcement about Abby's upcoming AI Hospitality Handbook. Don't miss out!🎉 My new book Let the Biscuits Burn is coming September 23—and it’s all about ditching perfection and embracing real, people-first hospitality (even when the biscuits are burned and the house is a mess).You can pre-order the book here: https://nelsonbooks.co/AK_amsWant some fun, free goodies to go with it?Text BISCUITS to (501) 833-6045 and I’ll send you:✨ Exclusive launch updates + surprisesThis is your permission slip to open the door, make a mess, and let God do something sacred at your table. Let’s do it together! 00:00 Welcome to Let the Biscuits Burn00:53 The Essence of Hospitality02:07 Martha Stewart and True Hospitality03:04 Biblical Perspective on Hospitality11:11 Practical Hospitality Tips12:38 AI Hospitality Hack14:34 Pre-order and Upcoming Events16:18 Final Thoughts and Next Episode Preview

    18 min

  7. 06/28/2025

    I Have a Mattress In My Kitchen!!!

    What do you do when your home feels more like a construction zone than a sanctuary? You throw a baby shower with a mattress in your kitchen—obviously! 🙃 In this episode of Let the Biscuits Burn, I’m sharing a real-life story (yep, there’s literally a mattress next to my stove) and a heart-level truth: your house doesn’t have to be perfect to be a place of hospitality. We’ll talk about why presentation isn’t the point, how to ditch the Pinterest pressure, and what God actually cares about when it comes to opening your door. Spoiler alert: it’s not matching throw pillows. Oh—and my book, Let the Biscuits Burn, drops September 23! 🎉 Grab your copy here: https://nelsonbooks.co/AK_ams Show Notes Is your home “host-worthy” only when it’s spotless? Let’s talk about that. I share the behind-the-scenes chaos of hosting during a renovation (hello, mattress in the kitchen) Why we confuse entertaining with hospitality—and how to tell the difference A soul reminder: God isn’t measuring your table settings, He’s watching your heart Devotional from 1 Samuel 16:7: “People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” Practical encouragement for opening your home as-is 💡 AI Hack: Use ChatGPT to create a cozy tablescape with only what you already have at home! ✨ Want more of this heart-meets-real-life hospitality? My new book, Let the Biscuits Burn, comes out September 23, and it’s packed with stories, devotions, and practical tools to help you let go of perfection and welcome people in with purpose. 📘 Grab your copy here: https://nelsonbooks.co/AK_ams 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview01:08 The Pressure of Perfection02:44 Embracing Imperfection in Your Home04:36 The True Meaning of Hospitality08:26 Battling Comparison and Self-Doubt14:06 God's Strength in Our Weakness20:46 Upcoming Episodes and Announcements

    25 min

  8. 06/16/2025

    Spoiler: I Burned the Biscuits!

    In this debut episode of Let the Biscuits Burn, Abby Kuykendall kicks off with a confession: she’s failed at hospitality more times than she can count and she’s still showing up. If you’ve ever felt unqualified, overwhelmed, or tempted to cancel the invite because your house (or heart) wasn’t “ready,” this one’s for you. Abby unpacks why biblical hospitality isn’t about perfection, it’s about obedience and how sometimes the holiest moments happen when everything feels like a hot mess. Expect real talk, encouragement rooted in Scripture, and a reminder that God doesn’t need your table to be Pinterest-perfect, He just needs it to be open. Plus: an AI hack to make dinner happen even when your brain short-circuits. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:30 The Purpose of the Podcast 02:08 Setting Up the Podcast Structure 03:17 The Symbolism of the Pantry 04:34 Ben Rector's Influence 06:23 Abby's Journey and Projects 10:18 The Heart of Hospitality 12:42 Embracing Imperfection 19:15 AI Hospitality Hack 20:43 Fun Facts About Abby 22:31 Upcoming Episodes

    24 min
  • 8 Episodes

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Let the Biscuits Burn is the podcast that embraces the mess and beauty of hospitality. Hosted by Abby Kuykendall, Christian author and hospitality expert, this show is for anyone who believes that loving people well is at the heart of great meals, meaningful conversation, and deep community. Each episode shares real, down-to-earth advice on creating intentional moments around the table, without the pressure for perfection. Abby challenges listeners to overcome obstacles, prioritize people over presentations, and discover the profound spiritual practice of hospitality.

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  • Creator
    Abby Kuykendall
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Abby Kuykendall
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    Let the Biscuits Burn