Let's Talk Like Men

Myles Harris & Rex Howard Jr.
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The safe space FOR MEN by MEN. This is where we have brutally honest conversations about manhood. Everything from money, women, and life advice. We tell it ALL as real and uncut as possible! Now...Let's Talk Like Men!

  1. 2d ago

    The 3 Decisions Every Man Must Make In His Life Pt. 1

    Every man eventually faces decisions that shape the rest of his life. In this episode, we break down the three major decisions every man must make: who he submits his life to, what his purpose is, and who his wife will be. These choices determine a man’s direction, discipline, relationships, and legacy. We explore each decision through three perspectives: Why the decision mattersThe cost of making the decisionWhat happens when a man refuses to decideBecause staying undecided often creates confusion, drift, and instability. What You’ll Learn in This Episode This conversation is for men seeking clarity, purpose, faith, leadership, and intentional growth. Why submission and spiritual foundation matter for menHow purpose shapes identity and disciplineWhy choosing the right wife affects your future deeplyThe cost that comes with meaningful decisionsThe danger of drifting through life without directionHow intentional decisions shape a man’s legacyWhy growth requires sacrifice and commitment Who This Episode Is For Men searching for purpose and directionMen focused on faith and spiritual growthMen preparing for marriage and leadershipMen committed to self-improvementYoung men building identity and discipline

    1h 4m

  2. May 22

    “You Don’t Live There Anymore” | Letting Go of the Old You & Stepping Into Your New Life

    Some seasons of life require you to leave old spaces, old habits, and old versions of yourself behind. In this episode, we explore what it really means to outgrow your past and fully step into a new season of life. From grieving old identities and environments to building new habits and relationships, we discuss the emotional and spiritual process of transformation. We also talk about the temptation to revisit old lifestyles, why nostalgia can become dangerous, and how to establish boundaries that protect the new life you’re building. Because growth often begins with accepting one simple truth:You don’t live there anymore. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How to grieve your old life in a healthy wayWhy growth requires leaving certain things behindThe emotional danger of constantly revisiting the pastHow nostalgia can delay your transformationWhy people struggle to accept the new version of youHow to build habits and environments that support growthWhat it means to truly step into a new season Who This Episode Is For People navigating major life changesMen and women focused on personal growthIndividuals healing from past lifestyles or environmentsPeople stepping into new spiritual or emotional seasonsAnyone struggling to let go of the past letting go of the past, personal growth journey, identity transformation, healing and transformation, mindset transformation, spiritual growth, emotional healing, outgrowing old habits, moving into a new season, self improvement journey, becoming a new person, changing your environment, healing from your past, growth mindset, christian self improvement, transformation journey, emotional growth, leveling up mentally

    1h 2m

  3. May 15

    You Are Not Protecting Your Relationship! Ways to Protect Your Marriage & Relationship From Harm

    Healthy relationships don’t just happen — they have to be protected. In this episode, we discuss the intentional ways couples can protect their relationship and marriage from unhealthy influences, spiritual attacks, poor boundaries, emotional division, and outside interference. We break down the importance of boundaries with the opposite sex, protecting your partner publicly and privately, being careful who you allow access to your relationship, and why communication, prayer, and unity matter so much. This conversation is for couples who want to build relationships that are strong internally and protected externally. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why protecting your relationship requires intentional effortHow boundaries protect trust and unityWhy outside influences can slowly damage relationshipsThe importance of protecting your spouse publicly and privatelyHow spiritual warfare can affect marriages and relationshipsWhy communication and consideration matter deeplyHow to build a relationship rooted in unity and protection Who This Episode Is For Couples wanting stronger marriages and relationshipsMen and women preparing for marriageCouples working on communication and boundariesAnyone seeking healthier, more intentional relationships protect your relationship, marriage advice, relationship boundaries, healthy marriage habits, protecting your marriage, communication in relationships, spiritual warfare relationships, emotional intimacy, healthy relationships, relationship discipline, couples communication, god centered relationships, protecting your spouse, marriage self improvement, avoiding relationship problems, social media and relationships, building strong relationships, healthy couples habits

    1h 3m

  4. May 8

    Men Are Crying For Help- How Can You Tell and What Can We Do About It?

    Many men are silently carrying pain they don’t know how to express. In this episode, we explore the signs that a man is crying out for help — even when he never says the words directly. From emotional shutdown and isolation to anger, burnout, and hopelessness, we break down how internal struggles often show up externally. We also discuss practical ways men can begin healing themselves, as well as how friends, family, and loved ones can provide meaningful support during dark seasons. This is a conversation about awareness, healing, and helping men realize they don’t have to suffer alone. What You’ll Learn in This Episode The hidden signs a man is mentally or emotionally strugglingWhy many men avoid asking for helpHow stress and emotional pain show up in men differentlyWhat men can do to begin healing and rebuildingThe role of purpose, discipline, and faith in recoveryHow loved ones can support struggling men effectivelyWhy silence and isolation can become dangerous Who This Episode Is For Men battling emotional pain, burnout, or hopelessnessMen who feel isolated or mentally exhaustedFriends and family supporting struggling menWomen wanting to understand men’s emotional challengesAnyone passionate about mental health and healing men’s mental health, men are crying for help, depression in men, signs a man is struggling, helping struggling men, emotional health men, men suffering in silence, burnout in men, men and emotional pain, purpose and healing, mental health awareness, healing for men, masculine emotional health, emotional support for men, stress in men, men self improvement, supporting struggling men, how to help depressed men

    1h 1m

  5. May 1

    Stop Wasting Her Time — The Ways We Waste Vital Years of A Woman's Life

    Not every man is ready to date — but many do it anyway… and end up wasting a woman’s time. In this episode, we break down the behaviors, patterns, and mindsets that lead men to enter relationships they’re not prepared for. From lack of purpose to emotional immaturity, empty promises, and misuse of time — we highlight the real ways time gets wasted and how to fix it. stop wasting her time, signs he is wasting your time, dating advice for men, men not ready for relationship, relationship red flags, emotional maturity men, intentional dating, masculine development, men self improvement, unhealthy relationship patterns, commitment issues men, how to know if he is serious, relationship accountability, modern dating problems, choosing the right partner, dating mistakes men make, men growth mindset This episode is about accountability, awareness, and growth — helping men become more intentional and helping women recognize when they need to walk away. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How to know if you’re not ready to date or marryThe most common ways men waste women’s timeWhy lack of direction creates unhealthy relationshipsHow emotional immaturity shows up in datingThe role of discipline and self-control in relationshipsHow to become more intentional and accountableHow women can identify red flags earlier Who This Episode Is For Men who are dating or considering relationshipsMen struggling with purpose or consistencyWomen who feel drained or led onAnyone seeking healthier, more intentional relationships 01:35 Introduction To Topic – Stop Wasting Her Time 05:25 Your Neediness Waste Her Time 12:32 Your Fleshly Desires Waste Her Time 18:54 Getting It Out Your System Waste Her Time 23:54 Your Empty Promises Waste Her Time 32:00 Your Irresponsibility Waste Her Time 38:40 Your Lack of Faith In God Waste Her Time 46:54 Your Money Waste Her Time 50:22 Your Lack of Purpose Waste Her Time 56:22 Your Brokenness Waste Her Time

    1h 2m

  6. Apr 24

    Muscle Memory- How Men Set A New Standard In Their Faith, Relationships, & Self Control

    The habits you build today become the man you are tomorrow. In this episode, we break down the concept of muscle memory and how it applies far beyond the physical — into your relationships, your self-control, and your walk with God. When pressure hits, you don’t rise to the occasion… you fall back on what you’ve practiced. We share practical tools to help you build habits that align with your future goals so that your default reactions become disciplined, intentional, and aligned with purpose. What You’ll Learn in This Episode What muscle memory looks like in everyday lifeHow habits shape your future decisionsWhy repetition creates automatic behaviorHow to build self-control through consistencyHow to apply discipline in relationshipsHow to strengthen your spiritual habits with GodPractical systems for building better habits Who This Episode Is For Men focused on self-improvement and disciplineMen working to build better habitsMen strengthening their spiritual walkWomen seeking to understand men’s growth journeyAnyone serious about long-term personal development0:00 Introduction – What Muscle Memory Means for Your Life 13:10 Faith Muscle Memory 34:53 Relationship Muscle Memory 53:27 Sexual Control Muscle Memory muscle memory habits, habit building, self discipline for men, men self improvement, discipline and consistency, self control habits, spiritual discipline, christian self improvement, habits and success, personal development habits, building better habits, mental discipline men, long term success habits, godly discipline, consistency mindset, habit formation, training your mind, men growth mindset

    1h 3m

  7. Apr 17

    The Right Time For A Man To Go Ghost

    There are seasons in a man’s life where he needs to step back from everything — not to run away, but to grow. In this episode, we break down the real meaning behind “going ghost” and why it can be one of the most important decisions a man makes in his journey. From healing past wounds, to building his future, to deepening his relationship with God — intentional separation can be the foundation for transformation. We also explore how this impacts relationships and how both men and women can better understand these seasons. What You’ll Learn in This Episode The true meaning of “going ghost” for menWhen stepping away is necessary vs unhealthyThe 3 key seasons a man must separate to growHow healing requires distance and reflectionWhy building your life demands focus and disciplineHow solitude strengthens your relationship with GodHow to re-enter life stronger and more aligned Who This Episode Is For Men pursuing growth, discipline, and purposeMen in healing or rebuilding seasonsMen seeking spiritual clarity and directionWomen wanting to understand men’s life phasesAnyone navigating transformation and personal development

    1h 2m

  8. 12/12/2025

    Using Your God Given Creativity

    God is always speaking — often through the creative thoughts, ideas, dreams, and inspiration that move through your mind and heart.In today’s episode, we share personal stories of how we’ve heard God speak creatively and how we’ve learned to steward those ideas with responsibility, discipline, and faith. We’ll talk about how to recognize God’s voice, how to separate divine nudges from random thoughts, and how to honor God by actually implementing the creative ideas He gives you. Whether you’re an artist, entrepreneur, parent, leader, or someone simply wanting clarity, this episode will help you understand the role creativity plays in your spiritual journey. How to recognize when God is speaking through your ideas The difference between random inspiration and divine creativity How to steward God-given creativity with wisdom How to take action on creative thoughts without fear How to partner with God in your creative calling Practical habits that help you hear God more clearly Personal stories of hearing God through creativity Followers of Christ who want deeper spiritual clarity Anyone wanting to hear God’s voice more clearly Creative people who want direction People stepping into purpose or calling Entrepreneurs, leaders, and dreamers seeking divine guidance hearing God’s voice, god given creativity, god speaks through ideas, christian inspiration, spiritual discernment, creativity and faith, how to hear God, divine purpose, stewarding creativity, christian self improvement, god given gifts, spiritual creativity, hearing God in daily life, partnering with God, faith based creativity, god given calling, idea stewardship, Christian podcast episode, creativity and spirituality Episode Summary:In this episode, we explore how God uses creativity to communicate, inspire, and direct our lives. Through personal experiences and practical teaching, we share how to recognize creative thoughts that come from God and what it means to steward those ideas with maturity and intention. Key Takeaways: Creativity is one of God’s primary communication tools Ideas require stewardship, not just inspiration Discernment grows through practice God often speaks softly, creatively, and consistently

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The safe space FOR MEN by MEN. This is where we have brutally honest conversations about manhood. Everything from money, women, and life advice. We tell it ALL as real and uncut as possible! Now...Let's Talk Like Men!

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  • Creator
    Myles Harris & Rex Howard Jr.
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    76
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Myles Harris & Rex Howard Jr.
  • Show Website
    Let's Talk Like Men

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