Let's Talk Surrogacy

American Surrogacy

A podcast about the people, experiences, and decisions that shape the surrogacy journey. Whether you're a surrogate, an intended parent, or just exploring the process, we’re here to share real conversations and insights. 

Episodes

  1. 3D AGO

    Finally Holding Her Baby: An Intended Mother’s Moving Surrogacy Journey

    Christina and her husband faced years of infertility, failed IVF transfers and unimaginable loss until one embryo and one perfect match changed everything. In this emotional episode of "Let’s Talk Surrogacy", Christina opens up about the pain, the hope and the moment she finally held her daughter in her arms. She walks us through her lowest points, why they chose American Surrogacy, what made their experience feel personal and how one match (on the very first day) brought them full circle. Whether you're an intended parent, surrogate or someone considering a different path to parenthood, Christina’s story will give you hope and perspective. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur 00:00 - Intro 00:24 - The Moment Christina Knew Surrogacy was the Path 01:48 - The Emotional Journey of Infertility 05:32 - How to Navigate Others' Input about Family Building 07:52 - Christina's Advice to Overcoming Infertility Grief 11:03 - One Embryo, No Problem for American Surrogacy 13:26 - The Shift from IVF to a Surrogacy Journey  19:39 - What's the Role of a Surrogacy Specialist? 21:47 - The Different Journeys of Infertility & Surrogacy 23:22 - What Stands Out about the Embryo Creation Process? 24:50 - Did Christina Pursue Genetic Testing? 25:33 - How Embryo Results Influence a Surrogacy Timeline 27:37 - "The unknown is hard, it's scary, it's difficult." 28:35 - The Reassurance of American Surrogacy's Pre-Screening 29:47 - Why Christina Chose American Surrogacy 31:33 - The Moment Christina Found the Right Surrogate 36:17 - Overcoming Tough Talks During the Initial Surrogate Meeting 39:38 - The Joys of Matching with a Surrogate 41:18 - Christina's Advice to Intended Parents about Wait Times 44:20 - The Relationship Christina Shared with Her Surrogate 46:21 - An Early Scare the Shook Christina's Surrogacy Journey 49:46 - The Importance of Surrogacy Specialist Involvement 51:30 - The Emotions of Delivery Day 53:22 - "We cannot say how grateful we are for our surrogate." 56:47 - Christina's Reflections on her Surrogacy Journey 57:58 - Is Surrogacy the Next Step? 59:02 - Outro #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogatejourney #ivf #embryotransfer #podcast

    1 hr
  2. JAN 6

    From Curiosity to Calling: A Surrogacy Journey That Inspired Hope

    Codi, an experienced surrogate, shares her raw, real surrogacy story from her teenage calling to navigating contracts, pregnancy and emotional recovery with American Surrogacy. In this episode of "Let’s Talk Surrogacy", host Lindsay sits down with Codi, a surrogate who opens up about her unique experience carrying for another family. Codi walks us through the highs and lows of her journey including medical hurdles, emotional dynamics, postpartum healing and the beautiful bond she formed with the family she helped. Whether you're curious about becoming a surrogate, an intended parent or simply drawn to powerful human stories, this episode delivers truth, vulnerability and inspiration. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip 00:00 - Intro 00:14 - What Led Codi to Consider Becoming a Surrogate? 02:35 - Her Husband’s Support & Contract Language 03:54 - Why Codi Chose American Surrogacy 07:55 - The Emotions of the Screening Process 11:49 - The Length of Codi's Journey 13:28 - Choosing & Connecting with Intended Parents 15:31 - Questions for Intended Parents 17:54 - Why They Were the Right Match 18:36 - Getting to Know the Intended Parents 22:26 - Postpartum Emotions 23:30 - Explaining Surrogacy to Your Family & Strangers 27:21 - The Embryo Transfer Process 29:55 - "[Belly shots] were overall the hardest for me." 33:58 - The Emotions of Transfer Day 35:43 - How Codi Envisioned Her Birth Plan [Using a Doula] 41:40 - How the Intended Parents Supported Codi through the Process 44:54 - The Proud Feeling Codi Shares about Surrogacy 46:08 - How Codi's Children Reacted to Surrogacy 46:54 - What Surprised Codi the Most about her Experience 50:44 - How Surrogacy Shaped Codi 52:10 - Codi's Advice to Those Considering Surrogacy 54:14 - Outro #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogatejourney #embryotransfer #podcast

    55 min
  3. 12/02/2025

    "Going Back, I Would Not Change Anything" [A Real Surrogacy Story]

    In this episode of Let’s Talk Surrogacy, host Lindsay talks with Alison, a surrogate who knew she wanted to carry a child for someone else since she was 8 years old.  From a challenging mock cycle and months of injections to a high-risk pregnancy and a postpartum emergency, Alison takes us through the beautiful, emotional, and sometimes scary reality of being a surrogate, and why, despite everything, she still hopes to do it again. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip 00:00 - Intro 00:47 - When Alison Knew She Wanted to Become a Surrogate 02:42 - The Importance of a Surrogacy Support Group 03:33 - Why Alison Chose Agency Surrogacy vs. Independent Surrogacy 06:38 - The Emotions of a Surrogacy Pregnancy 07:36 - What is a "Mock Cycle"? 09:43 - Surprises through the Surrogacy Process 11:33 - Alison's Surrogacy Matching Journey 17:51 - The Relationship Between Surrogate & Intended Parent 20:14 - Explaining Surrogacy to Your Children & Strangers 23:08 - Unexpected Challenges of Surrogacy  29:05 - American Surrogacy Exceeding Expectations 30:34 - How American Surrogacy Dealt with SEAM 32:39 -  Different Emotions Between Pregnancies 36:14 - What’s Next for Alison 37:43 - Alison Gives Advice to Wannabe Surrogates 40:39 - "Blood is thicker than water." 41:59 - Outro #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogatejourney #surrogacymatch #embryotransfer #ivf #surrogacysupport #podcast

    42 min
  4. 11/04/2025

    How a Surrogacy Agency Redefined Family-Building

    Wade Morris, Director of Community Resources at American Surrogacy, reveals how to choose the right surrogacy agency, avoid scams and save time in this must-hear deep dive episode of "Let's Talk Surrogacy". Are you considering surrogacy and don’t know where to start? In this episode of "Let’s Talk Surrogacy", host Lindsay sits down with Wade to break down the entire process from IVF to finding a surrogate, avoiding scams, managing costs and choosing the best agency for your journey. Whether you're an intended parent or considering becoming a surrogate, this episode is packed with expert guidance to help you make informed decisions. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip 00:00 - Intro 0:17 - Wade's Role at American Surrogacy 00:59 - Surrogacy Basics: The Genetic Connections 02:32 - Traditional vs. Gestational Surrogacy Explained 03:45 - First Step for Intended Parents: Choosing a Fertility Clinic 07:02 - Good vs. Bad Surrogacy Agency: Surrogacy Screening 13:15 - The Different Types of Agency Programs 15:11 - American Surrogacy's Programs & Financial Protections 18:31 - The Hidden Pitfalls in a Surrogacy Journey 20:10 - Why American Surrogacy Matches Parents Faster 21:54 - What Surrogates Look for in Intended Parents 23:47 - BTS: American Surrogacy's Surrogate Screening Process 26:05 - Limited-Risk vs. Foundation Programs 28:42 - Do Surrogates Need Health Insurance? 29:57 - Benefits of Independent Surrogacy 30:55 - American Surrogacy's Independent Program  33:16 - Do You Need Embryos Before Working with an Agency? 34:38 - Tips for Getting to Know Your Surrogate 35:39 - The Importance of Communicating with Your Surrogate 39:20 - What Surrogacy Relationships Look Like After Birth 42:24 - Surrogate's Communication with Their Agency 43:36 - IVF, Surrogacy & Adoption Cost Breakdown 49:03 - Surrogacy Financial Planning Tips & Loan Options 50:47 - Why “No Upfront Fees” Can Be a Red Flag 52:25 - American Surrogacy's Strong Relationship with Clients 54:10 - How American Surrogacy Responded to the SEAM Fraud Case 57:48 - Family Mentality at American Surrogacy 58:36 - Surrogacy Journey Length & Working with Out-of-State Agencies 59:28 - Final Thoughts from Wade Morris #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogacyjourney #infertilitysupport #podcast #surrogacyagency #surrogacycosts

    1 hr
  5. 10/07/2025

    Surrogacy Across Oceans: The Story That Defied Borders & Doubts

    What happens when a surrogate and international intended parents connect so deeply, they choose to do it all again? In this touching episode of "Let’s Talk Surrogacy", host Lindsay welcomes Brittany, a surrogate from Missouri, along with Anja and Christian, a couple from Switzerland, to share their remarkable story. From an instant connection to two beautiful international surrogacy journeys that crossed oceans, cultures and expectations, this conversation explores trust, shared values, the emotional ups and downs and how they truly became family. Whether you’re a hopeful intended parent, a potential surrogate or just someone who loves stories about human connection, this international surrogacy story is for you. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip 00:00 - Intro 00:41 - Brittany, Anja & Christian Share What Led Them to Surrogacy 02:01 - The Intended Parents' Hopes for a Right Surrogate Match 04:12 - Surprises During the Surrogate Matching Process 07:24 - The First Meeting & Instant Connection 11:50 - Anja & Christian's Decision to Choose an American Surrogate 14:22 - Cultural Differences in International Surrogacy 18:32 - Countries Anja & Christian Considered for Surrogacy 19:58 - What to Consider When Pursuing International Surrogacy 23:35 - IP Advice for Other IPs Working with an American Surrogate 24:27 - Building Trust & Good Communication in International Surrogacy 29:26 - Years of Bad Infertility News Led These IPs to Surrogacy 31:16 - The Emotions & Stories of Delivery Day 37:31 - Inspiration for Another Journey Together (Sibling Surrogacy) 40:47 - Differences Between the First & Second Journey 43:57 - Brittany's Advice for a Potential Second-Time Surrogate 45:05 - How Surrogacy Shaped Brittany, Anja & Christian 48:20 - Brittany's Advice for Someone Considering International Surrogacy 50:07 - Advice Brittany, Anja & Christian Wish They Heard 52:08 - How Brittany, Anja & Christian Describe Their Surrogacy Journey 52:28 - Outro #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #internationalsurrogacy #surrogatejourney #surrogacymatch #podcast

    53 min
  6. 09/02/2025

    Two Surrogacy Journeys, One Surrogate's Unstoppable Heart

    What happens when a surrogate faces failed pregnancy after failed pregnancy, and still chooses hope? In this raw and inspiring episode of "Let’s Talk Surrogacy", Madie, a two-time surrogate opens up about her decade-long journey of resilience and the powerful bond between surrogates and intended parents. Madie walks us through her three journeys, the emotional highs and crushing lows, and how she went from feeling “damaged goods” to successfully helping two families grow.  Whether you’re a hopeful surrogate, an intended parent or just curious about what it really takes to be a surrogate, this is a surrogacy story you won’t forget. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip 00:00 - Intro 00:17 - What Inspired Madie to Become a Surrogate? 01:46 - Her Husband’s Reaction to Surrogacy 03:21 - When Madie Started Her First Surrogacy Journey 04:19 - First-Time Surrogate Emotions & Hesitations 07:14 - Madie's First Experience with the Intended Parents 08:24 - What Makes a Great Surrogacy Match? 10:45 - Working as a Waitress During Pregnancy 12:53 - Explaining Surrogacy to Her Kids 14:29 - The First Match: Embryo Transfers & The Emotional Toll of Miscarriage 19:20 - Success at Last: A Baby Girl Is Born 21:19 - How the IPs Supported Madie throughout the Journey 24:25 - Madie's Relationship with Her IPs Today 26:07 - The Second Journey: Three Transfers, No Baby   29:02 - When Emotional Burnout Happens   30:06 - Trying an Independent Journey   32:59 - Another Failed Transfer & Heavy Reflection   35:26 - Rebuilding Confidence After Failure   36:09 - Her Final Journey: 2 Dads, 1 Rainbow Baby   38:34 - “I'm Hopeful. I Have One More Journey”: What’s Next for Madie 39:32 - Facing Criticism & “Surrogacy Opinions” 41:02 - Agency vs. Independent Surrogacy: Madie's Preference   43:44 - The Emotions in the Delivery Room 46:27 - The Importance of Stress Tests 49:55 - Breastfeeding a Surrogate Baby 50:26 - Madie's Advice & Encouragement for Other Surrogates 53:55 - Madie Describes Her Surrogacy Journey in One Word 54:53 - Outro #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogatejourney #surrogacymatch #embryotransfer #podcast

    56 min
  7. 08/05/2025

    Surrogacy to Sisterhood: An Act of Love, Three Babies, and An Unbreakable Bond.

    A surrogate, a twin birth and a surprise pregnancy?? See how this American Surrogacy journey is truly one for the books. What happens when a surrogate and intended parent form a bond so deep, it turns into family? In this heartfelt episode of "Let’s Talk Surrogacy", host Lindsay sits down with Lindsey and Megan to share their incredible journey: how Megan carried twin boys for Lindsey, while Lindsey unexpectedly became pregnant herself. They discuss their first meeting reactions, sharing pregnancy milestones together, supporting each other through birth and staying connected years later as their children grow. You’ll also hear how American Surrogacy helped guide their journey by handling logistics and legal support, so the relationship could blossom freely. Whether you're considering surrogacy or simply love powerful human stories, this episode will move and inspire you. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com?ref=asytsur Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip 00:00 – Intro: Meet Lindsey and Megan 00:32 – Lindsey’s Starting Point with Surrogacy 01:49 – IVF, Embryos & an Emotional Pause 02:58 – Megan’s Inspiration to be a Surrogate 03:29 – How Megan & Lindsey Found Each Other 04:13 – Megan & Lindsey's First Meeting Magic 06:03 – Communication, Trust & Boundaries in Surrogacy 10:45 – Lindsey’s Surprise Natural Pregnancy 14:39 – How Shared Pregnancy Strengthened Their Bond 16:20 – Delivery Day Experience 19:09 – Post-Birth Relationship 24:55 – Financial Support Beyond Money 27:56 – Medical & Emotional Uncertainties 30:35 – How the Surrogacy Experience Shaped Megan & Lindsey 33:22 – Biggest Emotional Surprises in Surrogacy 35:59 – Advice for Surrogates & Intended Parents 37:26 – Most Unforgettable Moments in the Surogacy Journey 38:45 – One Word to Sum Up the Journey 39:37 – Final Thoughts & Gratitude #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogatejourney #ivf #podcast

    40 min
  8. 07/24/2025

    Embryo Q&A: Genetic Testing? State Laws? Egg Donors? Surrogacy Expert Answers It All!

    The Director of Community Resources at American Surrogacy, Wade Morris breaks down embryo creation, donation costs & more in this expert, rapid-fire Q&A about embryos for "Let's Talk Surrogacy". Curious about how embryos factor into the surrogacy process? This Q&A provides clarity to some of the most common (and complex!) questions about embryos, IVF, egg donation and embryo transfers. If you're someone considering surrogacy, this episode is packed with expert guidance to help you make informed decisions. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur 00:00 - Introduction 0:28 - How do you emotionally process the choice to stop carrying? 1:30 - How many IVF cycles before choosing surrogacy? 1:58 - What does transitioning from IVF to surrogacy look like? 2:27 - What are the first steps to transitioning to surrogacy? 2:51 - Do you need embryos ready before getting matched? 3:22 - Unsuccessful with creating embryos, what are your options? 3:53 - How many embryos do you need for surrogacy?  4:21 - What if you only have one embryo? 05:08 - Should you create more embryos if you have two? 06:00 - What happens if you run out of embryos? 06:59 - Is genetic testing required for embryos? 7:36 - Does fresh vs. frozen embryos matter? 8:01 - Can you ship embryos to the surrogate? 8:55 - What if your embryos are in another country? 10:17 - Can you choose the gender of the embryo? 10:36 - Can you do a double embryo transfer? 11:29 - Are dual journeys allowed? 13:03 - Does American Surrogacy do embryo donation? 13:30 - What are the different types of egg donation? 14:33 - How does egg & sperm donation change surrogacy costs? 15:33 - How does American Surrogacy match surrogates? 15:55 - What are the legal protections for egg donation? 16:14 - Do state laws affect embryos in surrogacy? 18:01 - Outro #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogacyjourney #embryotransfer #podcast #ivfprocess #eggdonation #surrogacyagency #surrogacycosts #embryodonation

    18 min
  9. 06/30/2025

    Why I Became a Surrogate: The Real, Raw & Beautiful Journey

    In this powerful first episode of the "Let's Talk Surrogacy" podcast, Meg, an experienced surrogate, opens up about her surrogacy journey, giving birth for two other families. Meg is a mom of four and two-time surrogate. She shares her incredible journey into surrogacy from what sparked her interest, to navigating IVF, dealing with miscarriage, setting boundaries with intended parents and how her own children processed it all. This raw and inspiring interview is for anyone considering becoming a surrogate or working with one. Subscribe for more real conversations on surrogacy ►► bit.ly/4n6Fv3s Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments! Learn more or start your surrogacy journey: Website: https://www.americansurrogacy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/american_surrogacy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/american.surrogacy If you are interested in becoming a surrogate, please visit: https://www.americansurrogacy.com/surrogate/surrogate_free_info?ref=asytsur If you are ready to get started as an intended parent please visit:  https://www.americansurrogacy.com/parents/parents_free_info?ref=asytip 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Why Meg Became a Surrogate 1:15 - Importance of Spouse Support 2:47 - Mental & Physical Obstacles during Surrogacy 4:54 - Scheduled Injections during Pregnancy 7:31 - Compensation & Experience in Surrogacy 9:22 - The Importance of Matching with the Right Family 13:02 - Picking an Agency vs. Going Independent 16:58 - Meg's Two Very Different Surrogacy Journeys 19:34 - Handling Emotional Attachment as a Surrogate 22:24 - The Unexpected Miscarriage in Journey Two 25:32 - Staying in Touch with Intended Parents 26:44 - Do Children Know They Were Carried by a Surrogate? 28:42 - Was there Postpartum Depression or Support? 32:06 - Is Having a Spouse during Surrogacy Preferred? 33:13 - How Meg Included Her Family in the Process 35:26 - Meg's Advice to Future Surrogates 37:25 - Outro #LetsTalkSurrogacy #AmericanSurrogacy #surrogatejourney #ivf #podcast

    38 min

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A podcast about the people, experiences, and decisions that shape the surrogacy journey. Whether you're a surrogate, an intended parent, or just exploring the process, we’re here to share real conversations and insights.