Blow Your Mind(set)

Nicole F. Smith, M.Ed.

Welcome to the Blow Your Mind(set) Podcast — where ordinary moments meet extraordinary mindset shifts. 🎙️ In a world that’s noisy, messy, and constantly moving, we slow things down just enough to ask: "Did that really just happen?"  I’m your host, Nicole Smith — emotional intelligence expert, mindset disruptor, and your favorite thought partner in this wild ride we call leadership and life. Every episode, we crack open the stories, shifts, and surprises that challenge how we think, lead, and show up. From boardrooms to breakups, social trends to self-talk, we’re unpacking it all through the lens of emotional brilliance. You’ll hear powerful solo episodes and unfiltered conversations with game-changers, thought leaders, and real people doing the inner work. No fluff. Just real talk, real insight, and a real push to think differently. Whether you're navigating a personal pivot or leading in high-pressure spaces — this is your space to reset, reframe, and blow your mindset wide open. Let’s get into it.

  1. 1D AGO

    Blow Your Mind(set): Boss Moves: How to Run Sh*t When Nobody Gave You Permission with Connie Woolard

    Send a text What happens when you're managing change at work while change is managing you? Connie Woolard—talent development expert, new grandmother ("Meema"), and K-12 survivor—gets real about the messy, magnificent chaos of navigating a multi-generational household, perimenopause hot flashes, and showing up powerfully in rooms where you don't have "the title." Fresh from the classroom to the boardroom, Connie breaks down why listening first is your superpower, how "PSWIG" (Put Sh*t Where It Goes) keeps family harmony alive, and what it really takes to earn your seat at the corporate table and become an entrepreneur at the same time. Plus, the dream home story that proves timing matters more than timelines and why sometimes "I don't know" is the most emotionally intelligent answer you can give. This isn't your typical career conversation. It's two friends, two decades of friendship, goldfish crackers in the car, and the unfiltered truth about what leadership looks like when pushing through the 4th decade of life, hot in 32 degree weather, and still showing up to change the game. Perfect for: Women navigating career transitions, new grandmas balancing multi-gen households, anyone who's ever felt "too young" or "not enough," and every human trying to lead with influence—not just a title. You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn nicole@thenicolefsmith.com powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

    47 min

  2. FEB 4

    Blow Your Mind(set): The Shift from Control to Connection with Dr. Shanesia Davis

    Send us a text What happens when leaders prioritize control over connection? Nicole F. Smith and Dr. Shanesia Davis unpack the critical shift modern leaders must make: moving from control reflexes to authentic relationships. Dr. Davis reveals how cultural norms like urgency and perfectionism condition leaders to stay in "doing mode" while neglecting the inner work that creates sustainable impact. In this episode, you'll discover: ✅ Why leadership is a relational process that begins with self-leadership  ✅ How unexamined emotions leak into public consequences affecting teams  ✅ Why empathy doesn't mean fixing others  ✅ How to develop emotional regulation as a core leadership skill  ✅ The difference between being a leader and doing leadership tasks If you've ever felt the weight of needing all the answers or controlling every outcome, this episode will give you permission to lead differently. True influence comes not from control, but from showing up authentically and creating space for others to do the same. Resources mentioned: 📖 20 Golden Leadership Nuggets, Refined by EQ Impact by Nicole F. Smith 🎓 Upcoming webinars on emotional intelligence www.thenicolefsmith.com Your leadership impact begins with your inner work. Connect with Dr. Davis: uandmeconsulting.com sdavis@uandmeconsulting.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1AnqSWDbKs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leadership_lounge_tm/ LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-shanesia-davis-359310aa TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@niesha_davis1117?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn nicole@thenicolefsmith.com powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

    48 min

  3. JAN 28

    Blow Your Mind(set): Trust Yourself First: Strategic Communication & Pricing for Black Women Experts

    Send us a text Stop undervaluing your expertise! In this game-changing episode, host Nicole F. Smith sits down with Kelly Charles Collins, Esq—former trial lawyer, mediator, and arbitrator turned strategic advisor and professional speaker—for a conversation that will challenge everything you believe about pricing your expertise. Kelly doesn't hold back as she addresses the uncomfortable truth: Black women experts are showing up in spaces without getting paid what they're worth, and it's time to change that narrative. ANNOUNCEMENT! JOIN US IN ATLANTA: Kelly is hosting The 6 Speaking Industry Expo, March 16-18, where Nicole will be speaking at the Iconic Talks Speaker Showcase! This business incubator isn't about taking notes—it's about implementation. Learn the strategies Kelly has used to help clients go from zero to multiple five figures and close six-figure contracts. Ready to disrupt the industry and stop being complicit in your own erasure? Register for The 6 Speaking Industry Expo taking place in Atlanta March 16-18 now at speakingindustryexpo.com Connect with Kelly! facebook.com/kellycharlescollins Instagram: instagram.com/kellycharlescollins LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kellycharlescollins Threads: threads.com/kellycharlescollins You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn nicole@thenicolefsmith.com powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

    56 min

  4. JAN 21

    The Legacy You Lead One - A peek into one of Nicole's keynotes

    Send us a text Your legacy isn't what you leave behind — it's what you're building right now. In this powerful episode, Nicole F. Smith challenges leaders to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start living their legacy intentionally. Drawing from her keynote The Legacy You Lead and her EQ Impact® Framework, Nicole guides you through a transformative reflection process: What do you need to START doing to align with your values? What do you need to STOP that's blocking your impact? And what strengths do you need to CONTINUE to protect your growth? This episode isn't about achievements or titles. It's about emotional intelligence, authentic leadership, and the courage to show up in a way that creates lasting impact. You'll learn how to define your legacy statement and ensure your presence reflects the leader you want to be remembered as — not someday, but today. You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn nicole@thenicolefsmith.com powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

    25 min

  5. JAN 7

    Blow Your Mind(set) | From Trauma to Triumph: Healing Through Divorce with Nicole Bright

    Send us a text You're Not Going BACK, You're Becoming NEW w/ Nicole Bright Divorce doesn't mean going back to who you were before—it means discovering who you're becoming. In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Nicole Bright, certified divorce coach, author, and motivational speaker, to talk about healing from divorce with emotional intelligence, authenticity, and intention. Nicole shares her personal journey of leaving a controlling, abusive marriage while secretly coaching other married women—and how she transformed that pain into her purpose of helping others rebuild their lives after separation. In This Episode, We Discuss: ✨ Why you can't recover the old you—and why that's a good thing  ✨ The shame, guilt, and anger that surface during divorce (and how to process them)  ✨ Nicole's "Find the Bright Spot in Your Darkness" framework  ✨ How to reposition your ex-spouse in your life while protecting your peace  ✨ Why therapy and coaching aren't optional—they're essential  ✨ Breaking free from the masks we wear and the exhaustion of pretending  ✨ The truth: two people in a home can still be a broken home Whether you're navigating divorce, supporting someone through it, or leading others through major life transitions, this episode will shift your perspective on healing, resilience, and self-discovery. About Nicole Bright: Nicole Bright is a certified life coach specializing in divorce recovery, author, motivational speaker, and mother of two. She helps individuals heal from divorce and rebuild their lives with confidence and clarity. www.facebook.com/CoachNicoleBright/  You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn nicole@thenicolefsmith.com powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

    50 min

  6. 12/17/2025

    Blow Your Mind(set): 50 Cent, Diddy, and the Emotional Intelligence Masterclass You Missed

    Send us a text Most people see drama. Leaders see strategy. In this episode, I dissect 50 Cent's documentary move on Diddy—not as celebrity gossip, but as an emotional intelligence masterclass. He controlled his emotions, read the cultural moment, understood the emotional climate, and turned years of tension into influence, revenue, and global positioning. Your leadership will face similar moments. Maybe not on Netflix, but absolutely in your workplace and reputation. I break down five critical truths for leading in cancel culture: Power without EQ is a liabilitySilence is the real scandalReceipts live foreverEQ gives you influence that outlasts backlashSelf-correction speed determines survivalYou cannot afford to lead on autopilot. The leaders who rise in 2025 are the ones who maximize their emotional intelligence—not for show, but for sustainability. This is your wake-up call. You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn nicole@thenicolefsmith.com powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

    18 min

  7. 12/10/2025

    Blow Your Mind(set): From Trauma To Triumph: Mastering the Art of Becoming with Malaysia Harrell

    Send us a text In this transformative episode, host Nicole F Smith sits down with Malaysia Harrell—psychotherapist, spiritual transformation coach, UN peace ambassador, best-selling author, and military veteran—for a conversation that will challenge everything you thought you knew about success, purpose, and healing. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:  ✅ How to know when you're living in your divine assignment  ✅ The difference between authenticity and transparency  ✅ Why trauma can redirect you toward your purpose  ✅ How to master the art of becoming and surrender  ✅ Why everyone can't come with you on your journey  ✅ How to redefine success on your own terms MALAYSIA'S STORY: After surviving childhood trauma, near-death experiences in the military, and nine surgeries in five years, Malaysia found herself at rock bottom—254 pounds, Bell's palsy, sarcoidosis, and unable to walk. But in that dark night of the soul, she had a true conversation with God and chose surrender. Three weeks after military retirement, she met with Howard Schultz (Starbucks founder), proving that obedience leads to miracles. Now as a UN-sanctioned peace ambassador, Malaysia travels internationally, helping high-achieving women heal from behind their masks of perfection and step into their divine assignments. CONNECT WITH MALAYSIA HARRELL:  📖 Book: God Has My Six  🌐 Website: MalaysiaHarrell.com  🏢 Consulting: BlissfulLifeConsulting.com  📧 Email: info@MalaysiaHarrell.com  📱 Instagram: @MalaysiaHHarrell @YourWellnessMogul SUBSCRIBE for more transformational conversations that blow your mindset! 🔔 You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn nicole@thenicolefsmith.com powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

    50 min

  8. 11/26/2025

    Blow Your Mind(set): When Clarity, Confidence, and Courage Collide: Season 4 Recap

    Send us a text Season 4 brought the real work to the surface. Across every episode, leaders opened up about grief, reinvention, parenting almost-adults, navigating faith, surviving adversity, and choosing courage over comfort. You heard raw conversations about DEI, AI, emotional maturity, purpose-driven leadership, and what it means to stop performing and start living your truth. This season reminded us: • Clarity comes when you confront what you’ve been avoiding • Confidence grows when you lead with honesty instead of perfection • Emotional maturity is the foundation of spiritual, personal, and professional growth • Healing is leadership work — not a side assignment • Mindset + EQ determine the quality of every conversation, decision, and relationship • Purpose gets louder when you stop hiding behind titles and start telling the truth • You can’t build trust or resilience without emotional intelligence From faith leaders to entrepreneurs, community builders to corporate voices — every guest showed what transformation looks like in real time. Season 4 asked you to stop reacting. Season 5 will push you to rise. See you on Season 5! You can even SEE us power through this conversation via YOUTUBE! Contact Nicole - she can't wait to talk to you! Instagram LinkedIn nicole@thenicolefsmith.com powered by: JMS Creative Leadership Solutions Website: https://www.thenicolefsmith.com © 2025 Blow Your Mind(set). All rights reserved. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this podcast or its content without express written permission is prohibited.

    26 min
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Welcome to the Blow Your Mind(set) Podcast — where ordinary moments meet extraordinary mindset shifts. 🎙️ In a world that’s noisy, messy, and constantly moving, we slow things down just enough to ask: "Did that really just happen?"  I’m your host, Nicole Smith — emotional intelligence expert, mindset disruptor, and your favorite thought partner in this wild ride we call leadership and life. Every episode, we crack open the stories, shifts, and surprises that challenge how we think, lead, and show up. From boardrooms to breakups, social trends to self-talk, we’re unpacking it all through the lens of emotional brilliance. You’ll hear powerful solo episodes and unfiltered conversations with game-changers, thought leaders, and real people doing the inner work. No fluff. Just real talk, real insight, and a real push to think differently. Whether you're navigating a personal pivot or leading in high-pressure spaces — this is your space to reset, reframe, and blow your mindset wide open. Let’s get into it.

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  • Creator
    Nicole F. Smith, M.Ed.
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    38
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Blow Your Mind(set)
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