Life After Enough

Life After Enough

Life After Enough is a podcast about money, meaning and the life you design when work becomes optional. The show explores what happens when money stops being the main constraint in your life - and the traditional script of “success” starts to feel too small, too narrow, or just not yours anymore. I’m Nic and I'm in the final stretch toward early retirement. I’ve done everything the career playbook told me to do, and I’m now designing what comes after: identity, purpose, family, freedom, and the messy transition from work to life. I’m navigating this in real time, and along the way, I’m talking to people who’ve redesigned their careers, rethought their priorities, stepped off the hamster wheel, or simply chosen to live differently with the freedom they have. Every episode explores: what “enough” really meansthe fears and friction points that hold us backthe psychology, math and mindset of financial independencethe realities of identity shifts, parenthood, purpose and reinventionthe courage it takes to build a life you actually want to live This isn’t a podcast about escaping work. It’s about choosing your life on purpose - and becoming someone you’re proud to be. Financial independence doesn’t give you all the answers. But it does give you the space to ask better questions… and the freedom to decide who you become next. Let's get into it!

Episodes

  1. 1D AGO

    Getting Out of Debt and Getting Your Life Back

    #005 Debt isn’t just a money problem. It’s a time problem. An energy problem. A freedom problem. In this episode of Life After Enough, we talk honestly about debt - especially consumer debt - and why it  steals your future long before the interest shows up on your statement. I share my own experience of mistaking high income and large credit limits for success, rotating through 0% balance transfers, and living in the gap between “I look fine” and “I’m barely staying afloat.” What finally changed wasn’t a spreadsheet,  it was understanding what debt was actually costing me: confidence, optionality, and the ability to build a future instead of constantly paying for my past. This episode isn’t about shame, judgement, or quick fixes. Rather, it’s about: Why debt is emotionally loaded and psychologically stickyHow modern life is engineered to push capable people into borrowingThe difference between useful debt and freedom-eroding consumer debtWhy debt is rarely caused by one big mistake, but by slow, socially normal decisionsHow 0% cards and balance transfers quietly extend the problemWhy debt feels like a maths problem, when in fact its is really an identity problem We also walk through a clear, practical framework to help you reclaim control: Building a small but sacred emergency buffer so progress doesn’t collapseUnderstanding which “debt story” you’re actually living: habit, keeping-up, or structuralChoosing the right repayment strategy (snowball vs avalanche) for your psychologyCreating a realistic three-year window to clear consumer debt and unlock freedomKnowing when to seek professional help, without seeing it as failure Most importantly, we talk about what happens before the final balance hits zero. Real freedom starts earlier than most people think - that magic moment you stop hiding from the numbers, stop adding new debt, and start keeping promises to yourself. Debt freedom isn’t just a financial transformation. It’s an identity transformation! If you’re carrying debt and feeling stuck, this episode is your reminder that you’re not broken, you’re human. Getting your life back is possible, often faster than you think.

    20 min
  2. 5D AGO

    Quick Take - The Cost of More

    QT002 What would really happen if you got a 20% pay rise tomorrow? Would your savings rate go up…Or would your lifestyle quietly rise to meet it? In this Quick Take episode of Life After Enough, Nic breaks down the hidden cost of lifestyle creep and why it’s one of the biggest reasons people stay stuck chasing financial independence longer than they need to. Lifestyle creep doesn’t look reckless. But every permanent upgrade actually raises the price of your freedom. In this Quick Take, we explore: What lifestyle creep actually is and why it’s so easy to missHow spending just $1,000 more per year adds $25,000 to your FIRE numberWhy lifestyle creep turns into time creepHow “deserved” upgrades become invisible baseline costsThe psychology behind lifestyle inflation: exhaustion, autopilot, statusWhy FIRE plans fail when spending drifts without intention Practical takeaways: How to freeze fixed costs while income growsWhy automating salary increases is one of the fastest ways to buy freedomHow to run an “enough audit” using intentional spendingOne grounding question that reveals bad trade-offs:Would I trade more time at work for this? If you want to learn more about the math underpinning this: This episode builds directly on Episode 3 — FIRE 101: Freedom, Myths & Math, where we break down how your FIRE number works, why spending matters more than income, and how lifestyle choices quietly add years to your timeline. The core idea is that lifestyle creep feels like progress but it’s often just disguised delay. Choosing enough over more isn’t about deprivation. It’s about buying back time, flexibility, and peace. 🎙️ Quick Takes are short, reflective episodes designed to interrupt autopilot and help you think differently about money, work, and the life you’re building after enough. If this episode resonated, follow Life After Enough and share it with someone quietly paying the cost of more.

    7 min
  3. JAN 18

    Financial Independence: How to Know When You Have "Enough"

    #004 I hit my original FIRE number in 2024 - the one I’d been chasing for years - and the spreadsheet basically said: congratulations, you’re free! But I didn’t feel free. Instead I felt a kind of panic. Because almost immediately my brain went: What if it’s not enough? What if the future is more expensive? What if something unexpected happens? That’s when it clicked: financial enough isn’t just a number. It’s a relationship. A skill. A mindset. And most of us never learn how to build it. In this episode, we go deeper than the spreadsheets and talk about what “enough” actually looks like in real life. Its especially relevant if you’re the kind of person who keeps moving the goalposts, adding “one more year,” and calling it responsibility. We cover: Why hitting your FIRE number doesn’t always feel euphoric (and why that’s normal)The real reason “one more year” is so seductive and what it’s actually costing youHow lifestyle creep quietly rewrites your definition of enough without you noticingSequence of returns risk (and practical ways to build resilience: buffers, diversification, dynamic withdrawals)How to build emotional readiness alongside financial readiness, so the numbers can actually landA practical framework to define your floor and ceiling (stable vs “rich life”) and find your real enough in betweenWhy your FIRE number should evolve as you do, and explore why changing it isn’t failure, it’s growthA simple reality check to assess whether you’re financially and emotionally ready for freedom If you’ve ever thought, “I should feel safe by now… so why don’t I?” then this episode is for you. The goal isn’t to chase safety forever. It’s to recognise when you already have it, and then learn how to live from there. 🎧 Follow Life After Enough for the next episodes as we keep building the full picture: money, meaning, identity, and what happens after the number.

    25 min
  4. JAN 11

    FIRE 101 - Freedom, Myths & Early Retirement

    #003 What if retirement wasn’t something that happened at 65? What if financial independence wasn’t about escaping work, but about reclaiming choice? In this episode, I break down the Financial Independence, Retire Early (FIRE) movement from the ground up where it came from, how the maths actually works, and why it’s about far more than money. This isn’t a hype piece or a promise of beachside cocktails at 40. Rather, it’s a grounded look at FIRE as a framework for designing freedom on your own terms. We cover: How I first discovered FIRE during Singapore’s COVID lockdown and why it totally changed my lifeThe simple maths behind early retirement (and why savings rate matters more than income)The 4% rule, the Trinity Study, and how to calculate your own “Enough” numberThe different flavours of FIRE: Lean, Fat, Coast, and Barista - and who each one suitsCommon myths about FIRE (it’s only for the wealthy, it means never working again, it requires extreme frugality)Why the FIRE movement is evolving massively from pure financial optimisation toward purpose, identity, and alignment At its core, FIRE isn’t about quitting work as fast as possible. It’s about building enough financial stability that work becomes optional and life becomes something you actively design, not just endure. This episode lays the foundation for everything that follows on Life After Enough - from emotional wellbeing, to identity, to what actually happens once the number is reached. 🧠 Referenced in this episodeGet Rich Slowly: the “stages of financial independence” frameworkMr. Money Mustache: he Shockingly Simple Math Behind Early RetirementChooseFI: early FIRE inspiration and communityTrinity Study: the Trinity Study on safe withdrawal ratesA Richer Retirement: updated research by Bill Bengen (who is the originator of the 4% rule) on withdrawal strategiesRamit Sethi: “Rich Life” philosophy on spending with intention 🔑 Key takeawaysFIRE is about options, not extreme early retirementYour savings rate matters more than your salaryThere’s no single “right” version of FIRE alignment matters more than labelsFinancial independence is the foundation not the finish line

    27 min
  5. JAN 4

    Enough Is Not the Finish Line

    #002 We spend years chasing a number. A salary. A net worth. A moment where everything is finally supposed to click into place. But what if hitting “enough” doesn’t end the journey and actually starts a much harder, more interesting one? In this episode, I unpack a realisation that surprised me on my own FIRE path: Financial independence is foundational, but it’s not the whole story. Enough isn’t a destination. It’s the moment the real questions begin. In this episode, we explore:Why “enough” is often treated as a purely financial milestone — and why that framing falls shortThe three pillars of Enough: 🥇 Financial Enough — safety, choice, and breathing room🥈 Emotional Enough — peace, calm, and not living in survival mode🥉 Identity Enough — who you become when you stop climbing How focusing only on money can quietly drain meaning, joy, and directionWhat surprised me when I hit my original FIRE number, and why it didn’t feel like the finish line I expectedWhy freedom without emotional and identity work can feel disorienting instead of fulfillingThis episode is for you if:You’re financially responsible, maybe even thriving, but still feel restlessYou’re pursuing FIRE and wondering what actually comes afterYou’ve achieved a lot on paper… and feel quietly unsure what it’s all forYou suspect there’s more to “enough” than a spreadsheet can captureThe key takeaway:Money can remove fear but it can’t create meaning. That part has to be built alongside it. Enough gives you permission to ask better questions about your life. What you do with that permission… is where everything changes. 🎧 Next episode: We’ll go deeper into Financial Enough - and unpack the myths, maths, and misconceptions around FIRE. If this episode resonated, make sure you’re following Life After Enough so you don’t miss what comes next. You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re just standing at the start of a new chapter.

    21 min
  6. JAN 4

    Welcome to Life After Enough

    #001 What happens when you do everything right…and it still doesn’t feel like enough? In this opening episode, I share why Life After Enough exists and who it’s really for. I’ve built a life that looks successful on paper. The career. The milestones. The financial stability. And yet, something still felt misaligned. If you’ve ever looked around your life and thought: “Is this really it?” you’re not alone, and you’re in the right place. This episode is an invitation to pause, zoom out, and start asking better questions about success, money, and how you actually want your life to feel. 🎯 In this episode, we explore:Why achieving traditional success doesn’t automatically bring fulfilmentThe quiet discomfort that shows up after you’ve ticked all the boxesWhat “Enough” really means, beyond just moneyWhy financial independence isn’t the finish line, but the starting pointThe pillars that shape a life that feels intentional, aligned, and yours 👀 This podcast is for you ifYour career looks great from the outside but feels hollow on the insideYou’ve achieved what you set out to do… and still feel restlessYou’re financially responsible (maybe even thriving), but craving more meaningYou’re curious about FIRE, life design, or what comes after the grindYou want to build a life that fits you not one you inherited by default 🧭 What is Life After Enough?This is a podcast about the space after financial stability and the questions that money alone doesn’t answer. We’ll talk about: purpose and identity beyond job titlesjoy, time, and energyrelationships, community, and belongingplace - where your life gets to happenlove, partnership, and family decisionsand the messy, human reality of choosing differently Some episodes will be reflective and personal. Others will feature conversations with people who’ve redesigned their lives on their own terms. Not to copy their paths, but to expand what you believe is possible for yours. 💭 Why this mattersWe get one life. Waiting until 65 for permission to enjoy it feels like a gamble many of us don’t want to take. You deserve a life that feels like your life. 🎧 Subscribe or follow Life After Enough so you don’t miss what comes next. I’m really glad you’re here.

    5 min

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Life After Enough is a podcast about money, meaning and the life you design when work becomes optional. The show explores what happens when money stops being the main constraint in your life - and the traditional script of “success” starts to feel too small, too narrow, or just not yours anymore. I’m Nic and I'm in the final stretch toward early retirement. I’ve done everything the career playbook told me to do, and I’m now designing what comes after: identity, purpose, family, freedom, and the messy transition from work to life. I’m navigating this in real time, and along the way, I’m talking to people who’ve redesigned their careers, rethought their priorities, stepped off the hamster wheel, or simply chosen to live differently with the freedom they have. Every episode explores: what “enough” really meansthe fears and friction points that hold us backthe psychology, math and mindset of financial independencethe realities of identity shifts, parenthood, purpose and reinventionthe courage it takes to build a life you actually want to live This isn’t a podcast about escaping work. It’s about choosing your life on purpose - and becoming someone you’re proud to be. Financial independence doesn’t give you all the answers. But it does give you the space to ask better questions… and the freedom to decide who you become next. Let's get into it!