Life in Focus

Suttida
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Hosted by @suttidayang — Healing, growth, grief, & more.

  1. 14h ago

    Emotional Avoidance Keeps You Functional, But Unfulfilled

    You're productive, composed, and can handle anything. People also come to you because you're always steady. And alone in a quiet room with nothing to distract you, something tightens in your chest that never fully goes away. This episode is about what it's actually costing you to keep everything contained. In this episode: Why the person who never falls apart is usually the one working hardest to make sure nothing leaks.What happens to feelings you've decided not to have, and where they go instead.The gap between a life that looks good on paper and one that feels alive.If this hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Stay connected: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

    11 min

  2. May 31

    The Hardest People to Love Need It Most

    Someone in your life picks a fight right when things start to feel close. Goes silent when screaming inside. Pushes you away at the exact moment you thought you were finally getting somewhere. This episode is about what's actually happening underneath that behavior, why it makes complete sense when you understand the wound, and what you're allowed to do with that information. In this episode: Why the people who crave love the most are often the ones most terrified of letting it in.The difference between understanding where someone's behavior comes from and being required to absorb it.What you get to decide when compassion alone stops being enough to sustain you.If this hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Stay connected: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

    10 min

  3. May 23

    You Can't Stretch Someone's Capacity to Meet You

    You've had the conversation. You've sent the paragraph text. You've explained yourself in every possible way. And nothing changes. This episode is about why that happens, what it's actually costing you, and the moment you finally stop trying to build something inside someone else that only they can build. In this episode: Why no amount of better communication, patience, or effort will expand what someone was never built to hold.What it's really costing you to keep maintaining a connection that should be carrying itself.Why the fact that you keep trying, long after the pattern was clear, says everything about what you were taught love is supposed to feel like.If this hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Stay connected: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

    9 min

  4. May 16

    A Good Person Can Still Be the Wrong Person for You

    Everyone loves them. They're kind, they show up, they mean well. And you're sitting with a knot in your stomach you can't explain because how do you walk away from someone who hasn't done anything wrong. This episode is about that exact place where so many people get stuck for years. In this episode: Why "good person" and "good for you" are two completely different conversations, and how you've been letting one silence the other.What happens to your relationships when you've done the healing work and the people around you haven't.The question that actually matters when you strip away the guilt and the "but they're such a good person."If this hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Stay connected: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

    11 min

  5. May 10

    The Ick Is Your Clarity Without the Filter

    You were obsessed with this person. Their name alone did something to your nervous system. And now you can barely look at them without your skin crawling. That shift feels disorienting, but this episode is about why it's actually the healthiest thing your system has done in a while. In this episode: Why most of what you felt wasn't about them at all, and what you were actually responding to.How your unhealed wounds can make an ordinary person feel extraordinary until the filter comes off.What the ick is actually showing you about yourself and what to do with that information.If this hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Stay connected: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

    10 min

  6. May 3

    The Person You Needed Most Was the Least Equipped to Love You

    You saw something in them nobody else could see. And you stayed. Through the shutdowns, the disappearing acts, the mornings where the energy shifted for no reason you could name. You told yourself that's what love looks like. This episode is about what was actually happening, and what it cost you to be the steady one for someone who could only show up when it was raining. In this episode: Why their wound felt like home to you, and what that says about what you learned love was supposed to feel like.What it does to you when you spend years being someone else's anchor and forget you need to be held too.Why your love was real, your effort was real, and it still wasn't the thing that could save them.If this hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Stay connected: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

    10 min

  7. Apr 25

    Why Are You Building Meaning Off Breadcrumbs?

    There's someone in your life giving you just enough to keep you standing at the door. And you've been collecting those moments like coins in a jar, holding each one up to the light, convincing yourself the rest is coming. This episode is about what's actually happening when you do that, and why you keep doing it in the first place. In this episode: Why the depth you feel with them is real, and why that's exactly what makes it so hard to see clearly.The difference between someone who activates you and someone who actually sustains you.Why you keep accepting breadcrumbs and what that pattern has to do with how love was modeled for you long before this person showed up.If this hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Stay connected: ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

    10 min

  8. Apr 18

    Stop Self-Abandoning To Keep People Around

    You have people right next to you and you still feel like you're screaming into a void. This episode is about why. It's about the slow, quiet way you've been peeling off pieces of yourself and handing them over just to make sure someone stays. And what it actually costs you when you do. In this episode: How self-abandonment starts small and why you don't notice it until you look in the mirror one day and don't recognize yourself.Why any relationship that requires you to disappear is consumption, not love.What coming back to yourself actually looks like when the in-between feels unbearable.If this hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Stay connected: ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

    11 min
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Hosted by @suttidayang — Healing, growth, grief, & more.

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  • Creator
    Suttida
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    40
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Suttida
  • Show Website
    Life in Focus

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