Life Lab

Mai Lê

Life Lab is a self-discovery podcast that helps you build confidence through compassion, curiosity, and courage. Hosted by Mai Lê, each episode explores a powerful question about identity, relationships, fear, self-trust, and change. Through a mix of personal storytelling and thoughtful conversations with guests, Life Lab examines what it really means to choose yourself and build a life that feels aligned. Drawing from lived experiences—including leaving a long-term relationship, career transitions, extreme sports, solo travel, van life abroad, dating, healing from trauma, and starting over—Mai creates space for honest reflection. Every episode includes a short listener exercise designed to help you apply the insights to your own life. If you’re navigating change, questioning your path, or learning how to choose yourself without becoming hardened, Life Lab is a place to slow down, reflect, and experiment with what comes next.

Episodes

  1. FEB 23

    Exploring Self-Doubt: What is Wrong with Me?

    Summary In this episode of Life Lab, host Mai Lê explores the detrimental effects of self-doubt and the question, 'What is wrong with me?' She reflects on her personal experiences with criticism, perfectionism, and the impact of external feedback on self-worth. Through her journey, she emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and reframing self-assessment. Mai introduces the 4C framework—Compassion, Curiosity, Courage, and Confidence—as a tool for personal growth and encourages listeners to detach their self-worth from their productivity and external validation. Takeaways Self-doubt often manifests as the question, 'What is wrong with me?'.Criticism can be internalized, affecting self-worth.Perfectionism can lead to avoidance of constructive feedback.It's essential to separate self-worth from productivity.Emotional responses to job loss can be profound and lasting.Reflection on past experiences can foster growth and understanding.Reframing self-assessment questions can lead to healthier self-talk.The 4C framework promotes self-compassion and personal growth.We are inherently worthy, regardless of external circumstances.Living life for the first time requires patience and self-compassion. Chapters 00:00 Podcast Introduction 00:29 Episode Introduction 01:16 Understanding the origin and reason for this question 02:39 The impact of asking this question 04:04 Criticism in the workplace 05:08 The impact of not showing up for myself and trying to control the situation 06:46 The aftermath of being fired 10:42 Seeing different versions of myself now 12:29 Finding empathy and understanding 14:37 Reflecting on my old mindset 17:29 Intentions with my podcast and coaching 18:18 What you say matters 19:16 Productivity, self-worth, and external opinions 21:41 Explaining the 4C Framework 23:38 Life Lab exercise 27:59 Conclusion Keywords self-discovery, self-compassion, personal growth, self-worth, criticism, perfectionism, emotional intelligence, career challenges, reflection, mental health

    29 min
  2. JAN 16

    Am I Enough? A Journey to Self-Worth

    Summary In this episode of Life Lab, host Mai Le delves into the profound question of self-worth, exploring the theme of whether we are enough. She shares her personal journey of grappling with low self-esteem, perfectionism, and societal pressures that shaped her identity. Through heartfelt reflections, Mai recounts her struggles with negative self-talk and the impact of external validation on her self-worth. She emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and the journey of recognizing one's inherent value beyond achievements and societal expectations. Mai also introduces a Life Lab exercise designed to help listeners separate their identity from their circumstances. This exercise encourages introspection and self-discovery, prompting individuals to reflect on their feelings and thoughts about their current situations. By sharing her experiences and insights, Mai aims to inspire others to embrace their authentic selves and cultivate a deeper understanding of their worth, regardless of external factors. Takeaways Self-compassion is essential for recognizing inherent worthIdentity is not based on outcomes, but on patterns of beingPracticing self-compassion and honoring curiosity leads to confidence and self-awareness Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Life Lab and Today's Topic 1:37 - Mai's Journey with Low Self-Esteem 13:05 - The Influence of Brene Brown's Work 16:21 - The 4C Framework to Confidence 18:56 - Being a Perfectionist 22:56 - Understanding Inherent Worth 24:18 - Story Reflection 25:54 - Life Lab Exercise: Who Am I Without the Situation? 29:32 - Closing Thoughts

    31 min

About

Life Lab is a self-discovery podcast that helps you build confidence through compassion, curiosity, and courage. Hosted by Mai Lê, each episode explores a powerful question about identity, relationships, fear, self-trust, and change. Through a mix of personal storytelling and thoughtful conversations with guests, Life Lab examines what it really means to choose yourself and build a life that feels aligned. Drawing from lived experiences—including leaving a long-term relationship, career transitions, extreme sports, solo travel, van life abroad, dating, healing from trauma, and starting over—Mai creates space for honest reflection. Every episode includes a short listener exercise designed to help you apply the insights to your own life. If you’re navigating change, questioning your path, or learning how to choose yourself without becoming hardened, Life Lab is a place to slow down, reflect, and experiment with what comes next.