Light Up Your Worth

Debbie McAllister

Hi, this is Light Up Your Worth, and I am your host, Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. If you're a high-achieving midlife woman who's checked all the boxes but still feels like something's missing—this podcast is for you.  You've built incredible success, but inside you're exhausted, burned out, and wondering "Is this all there is?" You're ready to rediscover what truly lights you up without walking away from everything you've worked so hard to build. Beyond Success Awaits. I help you create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Each week, you'll experience a blend of heart-centered guest interviews and intimate solo episodes that combine spiritual connection with practical strategies—because you deserve both depth and results. Together, we'll navigate the path from burnout to genuine fulfillment, building the confidence to create a life that doesn't just look successful on paper, but actually feels successful, joyful, and alive. Subscribe now and discover how to feel authentically worthy, embrace your truth, and shine your light in this next powerful chapter of your life. It's time to Light Up Your Worth.

  1. JAN 6

    No Goals, No Pressure—Just Truth: An End-of-Year Reflection

    Send us a text In this intimate season finale, I invite you into a quiet, reflective space to gently close out 2025—no guest, no performance, just an honest conversation between you and me. Grab a warm drink, get comfortable, and allow this episode to meet you exactly where you are. Rather than focusing on goals or productivity, this episode centers on self-honoring reflection: what you’ve lived, what you’ve learned, what you’re ready to release, and what you’re quietly craving more of as you step toward a new year. This is not about fixing yourself—it’s about recognizing your wholeness. ________________________________________ ✨ WHAT YOU’LL EXPLORE IN THIS EPISODE • How to reflect on your year without judgment or pressure • Why acknowledging personal wins (big or small) matters • The power of beginnings that are imperfect but authentic • What releasing draining relationships can create space for • How cravings can point to deeper connection—not lack • The art of simplifying your life to protect your energy • A compassionate question to ask your past self without regret • Why your worth has never been tied to productivity or achievement  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your li Support the show I'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond! 💫 By sponsoring one or more episodes, you'll connect with kindred spirits ready to receive your gifts. Together, we can create ripples of transformation worldwide. ✨

    13 min
  2. 12/30/2025

    Embracing Worthiness: Lessons from Wise Women – Part 4

    Send us a text Welcome back to Light Up Your Worth! I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach, and we're diving into episode three of "What Wisdom Women Would Say." AVERY THATCHER Episode: "The Differences Between Stress, Burnout and Trauma with Stress Management Specialist Avery Thatcher" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube ELIZABETH KIPP Episode : "Elizabeth Kipp on Ancestral Burdens, Quantum Healing, and the Power of the Present" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube LAURA HAVER Episode : "The Art of Play: Cultivating Fulfillment and Vibrancy in Everyday Living with Laura Haver" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube LINDA ZURAK Episode: "Embodying Your Worth: A Journey with Linda Zurak" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube SARA TORPEY Episode : "Selling for Weirdos: Crafting Your Unique Path with Flexibility and Joy" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube TESSA LYNNE ALBURN Episode : "Exploring Soul Fragmentation with Soul Connection Coach Tessa Lynn Alburn" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube TRACY KAY Episode: "Money Alchemy Lab with Tracy Kay" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube You've built a successful career, checked all the boxes—but inside, you feel exhausted, burned out, and lost. 'Is this all there is?' I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. I created the Beyond Success Blueprint—a structured process for high-achieving midlife women who refuse to choose between success and fulfillment. I'll help you rediscover what lights you up and create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustio  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your li Support the show I'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond! 💫 By sponsoring one or more episodes, you'll connect with kindred spirits ready to receive your gifts. Together, we can create ripples of transformation worldwide. ✨

    30 min
  3. 12/23/2025

    Are You Being Kind to Yourself? Self-Compassion as the Foundation of Self-Worth

    Send us a text What do self-compassion, Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, and gratitude have in common—and how can they help you navigate life transitions with more clarity and confidence? In this reflective episode, Debbie McAllister, Spiritual Transformational Coach and host of the Light Up Your Worth Podcast, shares her wandering thoughts on personal growth, emotional healing, and rebuilding your life from the inside out. Debbie explores how meeting your core needs, practicing self-compassion, and cultivating gratitude can unlock deeper self-worth and inner alignment. This episode is especially for women in transition—whether you’re navigating career shifts, relationship changes, personal reinvention, or spiritual awakening—and looking for grounded, soulful guidance. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • How self-compassion supports emotional healing and resilience • The role of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs in personal growth and self-worth • Why gratitude is a powerful tool during times of transition • How to identify and release subconscious blocks and self-sabotaging patterns • Gentle ways to move forward with confidence and inner alignment About Debbie McAllister Debbie McAllister is a Spiritual Transformational Coach, intuitive healer, and host of the Light Up Your Worth Podcast. She helps women in transition identify and overcome internal blocks that prevent them from living out their deepest desi You've built a successful career, checked all the boxes—but inside, you feel exhausted, burned out, and lost. 'Is this all there is?' I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. I created the Beyond Success Blueprint—a structured process for high-achieving midlife women who refuse to choose between success and fulfillment. I'll help you rediscover what lights you up and create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustio  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your li Support the show I'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond! 💫 By sponsoring one or more episodes, you'll connect with kindred spirits ready to receive your gifts. Together, we can create ripples of transformation worldwide. ✨

    43 min
  4. 12/16/2025

    Embracing Worthiness: Lessons from Wise Women – Part 3

    Send us a text Welcome back to Light Up Your Worth! I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach, and we're diving into episode three of "What Wisdom Women Would Say." CASEY KANG HEAD Episode: "Finding Joy Beyond Survival: 3x Cancer & Stroke Survivor Casey Kang Head" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube CATHERINE CATTERSON Episode : "Reinventing Life After 50: Career Change Success with Catherine Catterson" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube JACQUELINE ROSE Episode : "Menopause: Beyond Symptom Management" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube KIMBERLY CROWE Episode : "Empowering Entrepreneurs and Speakers" Listen: Apple You've built a successful career, checked all the boxes—but inside, you feel exhausted, burned out, and lost. 'Is this all there is?' I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. I created the Beyond Success Blueprint—a structured process for high-achieving midlife women who refuse to choose between success and fulfillment. I'll help you rediscover what lights you up and create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustio  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your li Support the show I'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond! 💫 By sponsoring one or more episodes, you'll connect with kindred spirits ready to receive your gifts. Together, we can create ripples of transformation worldwide. ✨

    32 min
  5. 12/09/2025

    Embracing Worthiness: Lessons from Wise Women – Part 2

    Send us a text Welcome back to Light Up Your Worth! I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach, and we're diving into episode two of "What Wisdom Women Would Say." LILLI BEWLEY Episode 150: "Unlocking True Love: Healing and Growth with Lilli Bewley" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube BILLIE AADMI : "Unleashing Inner Magnificence: Billie Aadmi's Journey from Trauma to Triumph" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube DANIELLE MENDOZA : "Unleashing the Power of Words: How Storytelling Shapes Your Legacy" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube KRISTINA DRISCOLL : "Embracing Authenticity and Creativity" Listen: Apple Podcasts | YouTube RAIN STICKNEY : "Meditati You've built a successful career, checked all the boxes—but inside, you feel exhausted, burned out, and lost. 'Is this all there is?' I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. I created the Beyond Success Blueprint—a structured process for high-achieving midlife women who refuse to choose between success and fulfillment. I'll help you rediscover what lights you up and create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustio  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your li Support the show I'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond! 💫 By sponsoring one or more episodes, you'll connect with kindred spirits ready to receive your gifts. Together, we can create ripples of transformation worldwide. ✨

    29 min
  6. 12/02/2025

    Embracing Worthiness: Lessons from Wise Women – Part 1

    Send us a text In this episode of 'Light Up Your Worth,' host Debbie McAllister engages with accomplished women who share transformative insights on self-worth.  Through a series titled 'What Wise Women Would Say,' guests explore the critical question: 'What would you tell your younger self about your own worth?'  Key takeaways include  • recognizing inherent worthiness,  • overcoming external validation reliance, and  • fostering self-love.  Featured guests such as Amy Fowler, Carey Adams, Holly Hughes, Kim Rogers, and Nancy Reagan impart wisdom on self-trust, release of burdens, persistence, and the transformative power of self-love. Questions are provided for the listener's self-reflection. Each story guides listeners towards internal fulfillment and authentic living. Listeners will be reminded of the importance of internal validation and the daily practice of self-compassion, making this a transformative listening experience. Listen and watch these full episodes: Amy Fowler Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manifesting-your-best-life-using-healy-for-personal/id1559104427?i=1000681555169 YouTube https://youtu.be/-JCppeSxjS0?si=VHh0UDMBcsF08SwN Carey Adams Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fitter-leaner-stronger-health-mastery-for-women-over-40/id1559104427?i=1000684838909 YouTube https://youtu.be/qFNgMmqviAQ?si=2xUgiT3uaQmT0En6 Holly Hughes Podcast You've built a successful career, checked all the boxes—but inside, you feel exhausted, burned out, and lost. 'Is this all there is?' I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. I created the Beyond Success Blueprint—a structured process for high-achieving midlife women who refuse to choose between success and fulfillment. I'll help you rediscover what lights you up and create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustio  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your li Support the show I'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond! 💫 By sponsoring one or more episodes, you'll connect with kindred spirits ready to receive your gifts. Together, we can create ripples of transformation worldwide. ✨

    36 min
  7. 11/25/2025

    Decoding Birth Order: Unveiling Family Dynamics with Dr. Robert Hurst

    Send us a text In this episode of Light Up Your Worth, host Debbie McAllister invites Dr. Robert Hurst, an orthodontist and professor with over 50 years of experience, to discuss the intriguing subject of birth order and its effects on life. Dr. Hurst, educated at Indiana University and Harvard, shares insights from his book 'Life's Fingerprint,' which introduces the concept of double birth orders. Through detailed explanations and real-life examples, Dr. Hurst elucidates how birth order influences personality, behavior, career choices, and relationships. Listeners will gain a deep understanding of their own and others' behaviors through the lens of birth order, enhancing self-awareness and interpersonal relationships. 00:00 Introduction to Birth Order with Dr. Robert Hurst 00:55 Discovering the Impact of Birth Order 02:45 The Concept of Double Birth Order 04:17 Examples of Double Birth Orders 07:53 Sibling Dynamics and Rivalries 19:19 Birth Order and Money Consciousness 24:52 Understanding the Impact of Birth Order on Career and Business 27:46 Birth Order and Romantic Relationships 34:05 Blended Families and Birth Order Dynamics 38:21 Birth Order and Self-Worth 39:53 Birth Order in Historical Context 42:43 Final Thoughts and Resources Connect with Dr. Robert: Websites: https://www.lifesfingerprint.com                   https://mybirthorder.com You've built a successful career, checked all the boxes—but inside, you feel exhausted, burned out, and lost. 'Is this all there is?' I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. I created the Beyond Success Blueprint—a structured process for high-achieving midlife women who refuse to choose between success and fulfillment. I'll help you rediscover what lights you up and create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustio  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your li Support the show I'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond! 💫 By sponsoring one or more episodes, you'll connect with kindred spirits ready to receive your gifts. Together, we can create ripples of transformation worldwide. ✨

    53 min
  8. 11/18/2025

    Unlocking Self-Worth and Transformation with Rapid Transformational Therapy - Insights from Dua Aly

    Send us a text In this episode of the Light Up Your Worth podcast, host Debbie McAllister is joined by Duaa Aly, a rapid transformational therapy (RTT) practitioner and founder of Liberate You.  Duaa shares her mission to help people overcome limiting beliefs through RTT, a therapeutic approach combining hypnotherapy, talk therapy, CBT, NLP, and neuroscience.  She discusses her personal journey to discovering RTT and provides a detailed description of a typical RTT session, including a guided hypnosis demonstration.  The conversation also delves into the impact of childhood experiences and generational trauma on our present beliefs and behaviors. Duaa offers practical advice on changing deep-seated habits and emphasizes the importance of a supportive, structured healing process. 00:00 Introduction to Today's Guest 00:52 Understanding Rapid Transformational Therapy 01:51 Personal Journey to RTT 05:21 The RTT Session Process 13:36 Experiencing a Live RTT Session 24:56 Post-Session Insights and Follow-Up 28:08 Addressing Common Issues with RTT 29:07 Generational Healing and Complex Issues 38:09 Practical Advice for Habit Change 40:31 How to Connect with Duaa Aly Connect with Dua: Website: www.liberatedyouhypno.com/ Instagarm: liberatedyou_hypnosis/ Facebook: LiberatedYouHypno Offer: 35% off sessions and packages for Family Day week. You've built a successful career, checked all the boxes—but inside, you feel exhausted, burned out, and lost. 'Is this all there is?' I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. I created the Beyond Success Blueprint—a structured process for high-achieving midlife women who refuse to choose between success and fulfillment. I'll help you rediscover what lights you up and create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustio  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your li Support the show I'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond! 💫 By sponsoring one or more episodes, you'll connect with kindred spirits ready to receive your gifts. Together, we can create ripples of transformation worldwide. ✨

    46 min
5
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36 Ratings

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Hi, this is Light Up Your Worth, and I am your host, Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. If you're a high-achieving midlife woman who's checked all the boxes but still feels like something's missing—this podcast is for you.  You've built incredible success, but inside you're exhausted, burned out, and wondering "Is this all there is?" You're ready to rediscover what truly lights you up without walking away from everything you've worked so hard to build. Beyond Success Awaits. I help you create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Each week, you'll experience a blend of heart-centered guest interviews and intimate solo episodes that combine spiritual connection with practical strategies—because you deserve both depth and results. Together, we'll navigate the path from burnout to genuine fulfillment, building the confidence to create a life that doesn't just look successful on paper, but actually feels successful, joyful, and alive. Subscribe now and discover how to feel authentically worthy, embrace your truth, and shine your light in this next powerful chapter of your life. It's time to Light Up Your Worth.