Living OUT Loud Podcast

michele flamer
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Living OUT Loud with Michele Flamer is a space for courage, truth, and belonging. The podcast celebrates Queer voices and the people in our communities who are living out loud with intention. Each episode lifts up authentic stories of self-discovery, purpose, and the moments that shaped who we become. Michele welcomes a wide range of guests who are opening doors and extending their hearts. From everyday heroes to community organizers, from artists and authors to politicians and advocates, these conversations honor the resilience and bravery found in Queer communities across the country. Together, they explore what it means to lead with vulnerability, to create connection, and to stand firmly in our truth. Through honest conversation, curiosity, and compassion, Michele invites listeners to reflect on their own stories and the power of showing up as their whole selves. Because when we live out loud, we create space for others to do the same. Thanks for listening and sharing.  Stay Loud and Stay Proud!  Michele

  1. 6D AGO

    Chris Hartman

    What does fairness look like when it’s lived, not just legislated? I’m joined by Chris Hartman, CEO of the Fairness Campaign, for a deeply human conversation about building bridges, leading with empathy, and advancing LGBTQ equality across Kentucky, from small Appalachian towns to the state capital. The conversation with Chris Hartman covers the journey of self-discovery, coming out, building community, the impact of LGBTQ protections, career trajectory, and the importance of human stories in advocacy. Key takeaways include the importance of family support and the resilience of the LGBTQ community. The conversation covers a range of topics, including advocacy for inclusive opportunities, the impact of fairness and backlash, the future of fairness and progress, changing hearts and minds, personal growth and advocacy, the proliferation of pride festivals, balancing work and personal life, the North Star of trans rights and intersectionality, Kentucky's LGBTQ community and culture, personal insights and preferences, the influence of fairness and intersectionality, personal struggles and triumphs, and the significance of music and authentic living. #podcast #livingOUTloud Takeaways Family supportCommunity resilience Supporting trans rights is a key focusThe importance of living authentically Chapters 00:00 The Journey to Self-Discovery08:15 Building Community and Advocacy17:03 Career Trajectory and Nonprofit Work22:35 Human Stories and Advocacy43:25 Music and Authentic Living

    46 min

  2. FEB 11

    Tommy Marzella

    The conversation explores personal connections, positive youth development, and the power of peer support in the LGBTQ+ community. It delves into coming-out experiences, family support, career journeys, and the impact of online spaces on identity and belonging. The discussion also highlights The Trevor Project's mission and the importance of creating safe, affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ youth. The conversation covers topics such as creating safe spaces for LGBTQ youth, positive youth development, international access, personal growth, living authentically, career development, embracing possibilities, and reflection. The discussion emphasizes the importance of supporting LGBTQ youth, providing mentorship, and embracing hope and possibilities for the future. Takeaways Youth support is crucial for positive developmentFamily support and acceptance are vital for LGBTQ+ individuals Creating safe spaces for LGBTQ youth is crucial for their well-being and development.Embracing possibilities and hope allows for curiosity and a sense of optimism. #TREVORPROJECT Our Values:  Heart  |  Integrity  |  Community  |  Belonging  |  Progress The Trevor Project is the leading suicide prevention and crisis intervention organization for LGBTQ young people. Chapters 00:00 Personal Connection and Youth Support10:15 Career Journey and LGBTQ+ Advocacy21:02 Positive Youth Development and Peer Support27:11 International Access and Expansion32:47 Living Authentically and Supporting LGBTQ Youth41:53 Embracing Possibilities and Hope

    48 min

  3. FEB 4

    Anna Goodman

    Anna Goodman, a visionary community builder, shares her journey of coming out, forming her identity, and creating inclusive spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. She discusses her passion for community building, the challenges and lessons learned, and the expansion of her events across different cities. Anna's commitment to creating safe and welcoming spaces is evident in her approach to event planning and her personal life. Anna Goodman shares her journey of creating inclusive spaces, exploring drag king performance, event planning and expansion, personal growth and impact, navigating the political climate, connecting with the community, and engaging in a rapid-fire Q&A about her favorite queer anthem, karaoke song, pickleball vs. piano bar, best advice from a queer woman, and living out loud. Takeaways Passion for community buildingChallenges and lessons learned Creating inclusive spaces for solo attendeesPersonal growth and impact on the community Chapters 00:00 The Visionary Community Builder06:07 Jewish LGBTQ+ Community and Identity13:40 Event Creation and Expansion20:55 Personal Life and Unwinding27:31 Creating Inclusive Spaces33:16 Event Planning and Expansion39:58 Navigating Political Climate45:28 Rapid Fire Q&A

    51 min

  4. JAN 28

    Becka Eppley

    The conversation with Becca Eppley delves into the themes of authenticity over expectation and the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Becca's story is one of unlearning old narratives, choosing authenticity over expectation, and finding community in places she once thought she didn't fit. The discussion explores Becca's journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and the transformative power of embracing one's true identity. The conversation delves into the journey of self-discovery and the embrace of authenticity, compassion, and self-discovery. It explores the deconstruction of faith and identity, the healing journey, writing as a form of self-expression, living out loud, belief and self-discovery, and a rapid-fire Q&A session. Takeaways Authenticity over expectationThe journey of self-discovery and acceptance Journey of self-discoveryEmbracing authenticity Chapters 00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Acceptance29:49 Embracing the Journey35:07 Deconstructing Faith and Identity40:20 Writing and Self-Expression45:31 Living Out Loud53:17 Belief and Self-Discovery

    1h 3m

  5. JAN 21

    Juan Rodriguez

    The conversation with Juan Rodriguez covers a range of topics, including his vision for 'Thinking A New Thought,' his personal interests, the impact of his conversations, the journey of coming out, the power of empathy and compassion, and the need for connection and support. Throughout the discussion, the themes of compassion and curiosity are evident, highlighting the importance of understanding, empathy, and human connection. The conversation delves into the themes of empathy and kindness, consistency and implementation, and self-discovery and authenticity. Juan shares insights on the importance of empathy and kindness, the value of consistency and implementation, and the significance of self-discovery and authenticity in personal growth and interaction with others. Takeaways CompassionCuriosity Empathy and kindnessConsistency and implementationSelf-discovery and authenticity Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Juan Rodriguez15:12 The Journey of Coming Out23:29 The Power of Empathy and Compassion36:20 Self-Discovery and Authenticity

    52 min

  6. JAN 14

    Tello Films

    Loved connecting with Stacey and Christin. Beautiful humans, co-owners and life partners! The conversation delves into the celebration of queer representation, the experiences of late-life lesbians, the creation of Tello Films and Tello Books, the curation of LGBTQ+ content, balancing work and relationships, and the concept of manifesting soulmates. The conversation explores the themes of embracing divine timing and surrender, creating space for vulnerability and representation, and navigating challenges while fostering community. The guests share their experiences and insights, highlighting the importance of living out loud and fostering inclusivity within the queer community. Takeaways Authentic LGBTQ+ storytellingNavigating late-life lesbian experiences Divine timingBuilding community Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Queer Representation06:59 Building Tello Films and Tello Books19:06 Curating LGBTQ+ Content25:48 Balancing Work and Relationship33:03 Manifesting Soulmates40:10 Navigating Challenges and Building Community

    1h 2m

  7. JAN 7

    Lori Gatto

    Loved meeting Lori Gatto via TikTok, and her messaging is raw and honest. The conversation covers a range of themes, including acceptance, authenticity, family dynamics, professional journey, child advocacy, consulting role at the Obama Foundation, supporting a transgender child, personal evolution, advocacy, legacy, and living out loud. Each chapter delves into the guest's experiences, insights, and perspectives, providing a comprehensive exploration of the themes. Takeaways AcceptanceAuthenticity Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement05:02 Family Acceptance and Relationship Dynamics11:40 Lessons from Childcare Experience and Parent-Teacher Partnership19:14 Consulting Role at the Obama Foundation and Advocacy Work27:13 Advocacy and Legacy34:57 Living Out Loud and Rapid Fire Questions

    40 min

  8. 12/31/2025

    Franco Stevens - Curve Foundation

    Franco Stevens, the visionary founder of Curve magazine, shares her coming out story, the challenges she faced, the origin story of Curve magazine, the risks and visibility associated with queer media, the behind-the-scenes of Curve magazine, the preservation of queer women's history, and the creation of positive change through the Curve Foundation. The conversation covers the evolution of queer terminology, the power of unity in the LGBTQ+ community, the importance of standing together, and the significance of identity and respect. It also delves into community needs, magazine nostalgia, and the concept of living out loud. Takeaways Pioneering queer mediaPreserving queer women's stories Unity in the LGBTQ+ communityThe evolution of queer terminology Curve Foundation website - donate or sponsor with Curve for Lesbian Visibility week. Amazing Lesbian Magazine - Curve Mag Chapters 00:00 The Visionary Founder05:07 Family Support and First Relationship11:35 Visibility and Risk19:09 Preserving Queer Women's History27:27 Lessons from the Past33:03 Franco's Journey38:53 Identity and Respect47:58 Living Out Loud

    55 min
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Living OUT Loud with Michele Flamer is a space for courage, truth, and belonging. The podcast celebrates Queer voices and the people in our communities who are living out loud with intention. Each episode lifts up authentic stories of self-discovery, purpose, and the moments that shaped who we become. Michele welcomes a wide range of guests who are opening doors and extending their hearts. From everyday heroes to community organizers, from artists and authors to politicians and advocates, these conversations honor the resilience and bravery found in Queer communities across the country. Together, they explore what it means to lead with vulnerability, to create connection, and to stand firmly in our truth. Through honest conversation, curiosity, and compassion, Michele invites listeners to reflect on their own stories and the power of showing up as their whole selves. Because when we live out loud, we create space for others to do the same. Thanks for listening and sharing.  Stay Loud and Stay Proud!  Michele

Information

  • Creator
    michele flamer
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    150
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 michele flamer
  • Show Website
    Living OUT Loud Podcast