TRTM: They're Rabbis & They're Married

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What does it mean to be Rabbis who are married to each other? What does it mean to live Jewishly? What are ways that I can incorporate Jewish wisdom, values, and practices into my everyday life? Join Rabbi Rachel and Rabbi Marcus, a husband-and-wife rabbi team who serve as the co-rabbis of Temple of Aaron in Saint Paul, Minnesota, as they bring you an intimate glimpse into how they live out their daily Jewish lives. Each episode they will share their joys, struggles and everything in between as they work to apply Jewish ideas, values, and practices to their daily lives—building a Jewish home, raising children, serving their community, and navigating their busy daily lives. Join Rabbis Rubenstein each episode to learn ways that you too can practice an open-minded, modern, human-oriented, and sincere Judaism in your everyday life. Intro music by the very talented Coleen Dieker and Jeffrey Baldinger

  1. OCT 29

    Getting in With the Government

    How should a Jew, according to the Torah, relate to the secular governemnt in which one lives in? How trusting should Jews be of the government and how much attention should we pay to it? The Rabbis Rubenstein learn, teach and discuss texts that discuss these essential questions for the modern Jew. They also speak about a very exciting event coming up at Temple of Aaron on Nov. 15th, 2025 on Shabbat morning when local St. Paul elected leaders will be visiting and meeting the community.

    59 min

  2. AUG 22

    Suprise Text: Praying for Healing on a Day of Rest

    Can you pray for someone who’s sick on Shabbat? In this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus talk through a Talmudic debate on Shabbat 12b that asks exactly that question. Together, they explore why the rabbis might have hesitated about mixing words of healing with a day meant for rest and joy, and how this tension shows up in our own lives when we bring pain and worry into sacred time. What does it mean to pray for others on Shabbat, and how do we balance the holiness of the day with the reality of human need?

    59 min

  3. AUG 5

    Dancing in the Vineyards: Unpacking Tu B’Av and the Talmud’s Greatest Love Story

    In this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus dive deep into one of the Talmud’s most surprising and romantic discussions— the closing passage of Tractate Taanit — to uncover the origins and deeper meanings of Tu B’Av, the 15th of Av. What makes this day, alongside Yom Kippur, one of the two greatest days in the Jewish calendar? Why were the daughters of Jerusalem dancing in white in the vineyards — and what does that have to do with matchmaking, war, unity, and redemption? Join us as we explore love, loss, and the surprising halachic history behind this lesser-known holiday that just might be Judaism’s most radical celebration of relationship, renewal, and hope.

    55 min

  4. JUL 29

    Why Cry Over Ruins? Finding Meaning in Mourning the Temple

    As modern Jews, especially outside of Israel, the destruction of the Temple can feel like a distant and abstract loss. So why do we still fast, cry, and read Lamentations thousands of years later? In this episode, Rabbis Rachel and Marcus Rubenstein explore the spiritual value of mourning the Beit HaMikdash today. What does this grief open in our souls? How can remembering the brokenness of Jerusalem help us reconnect—with God, with people, with our own inner wholeness? Drawing from rabbinic texts, Chassidic thought, and their own experiences as clergy and partners, they uncover the enduring relevance of Tisha B’Av and the Three Weeks in a post-Temple, post-modern world.

    48 min

  5. JUL 11

    Is Israel Committing Genocide in Gaza?

    In this bold and timely episode, our Rabbis Rubenstein take on one of the most serious and inflammatory accusations facing the Jewish state today: the charge that Israel is committing genocide in Gaza. From the headlines to the hashtags, this claim has gained traction around the world — but what’s really behind it? The Rabbis cut through the misinformation and double standards to present a clear, Jewish defense of Israel. Grounded in facts, Jewish ethics, and historical context, they explore how these accusations distort both international law and Jewish values. What does Judaism actually say about war, self-defense, and the sanctity of life — including the lives of one’s own people? How should Jews respond to the moral confusion and outright hostility surrounding this issue? This episode is a passionate and principled response to a dangerous lie, and a reminder that defending Israel is not just a political act — it's a spiritual and moral responsibility.

    1 hr

  6. JUN 4

    10 Foundational Practices: Synagogue (Part 2 of 10)

    In this episode of They’re Rabbis and They’re Married, our Rabbis continue their mini-series on 10 foundational Jewish practices. They explore why showing up to synagogue isn’t just a weekend habit—it’s a cornerstone of Jewish spiritual life. From the ancient Temple to your neighborhood shul, we trace how communal prayer, sacred space, and presence in a minyan have shaped Jewish identity across generations. We talk about the emotional resistance people often feel, what makes a shul feel like home (or not), and how even imperfect prayer spaces still carry divine potential. Whether you're a daily davener, a High Holiday drop-in, or somewhere in between, this conversation invites you to rethink what it means to “belong” in Jewish community.

    43 min

  7. MAY 23

    10 Foundational Practices: Prayer (Part 1 of 10)

    In this special episode, Rabbi Marcus and Rachel Rubenstein kick off a brand-new mini-series exploring 10 foundational practices for living out your Judaism. First up: Prayer. What does it mean to really pray — not just recite words, but connect? The Rubensteins dive into the heart of tefillah, sharing personal stories, spiritual insights, and practical guidance for building a meaningful prayer life, whether you're a daily davener or just beginning to explore the siddur. From ancient texts to modern struggles with focus, from the structure of the Amidah to finding your own voice in conversation with the Divine — this episode sets the tone for a transformative journey into embodied Jewish living. Tune in and take the first step with us.

    45 min

  8. APR 29

    Will it Always Get Better?

    Join our rabbis Rubenstein as they explore the hit Israeli song of the year, "Tamid Ohev Oti" or "Always loves me" by Sasson Ifram Shaulov. The rabbis discuss the meaning of the song and what it says about Israeli society and the Jewish people. Listen to the full song by clicking here: https://tinyurl.com/3fz8ezua Link to Ein Nechamah Song: אלייצור - אין נחמה | ElaytZur- Ein Nechama - YouTube Link to Lyrics of Ein Nechamah: Shilo Ben Saadon - אין נחמה (Ein Nechama) (English translation) Lyrics of Od Yoter Tov:  God is a good Father, and He extols me, He sees my good deeds He sees that I seek to be good, but I’m imperfect, thus all I need is a few prayers But God sees my good deeds, the times I tried, refusing to give up He knows my moment of shame and frustration, and how I continually start over anew And the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness He hears me, has mercy on me, and always answers me, even when the answers feel delayed, God's still there, remind me continually that You always love me, give me new gifts everyday And mercifully guide me, as in this world is called mercy, let everyone see that you hear prayers, and we will be glad and healthy And the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness. And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness. And I will have a prosperous life, and for those seeking love, may they find their match, I will have complete recovery and sound health, an exquisite happy life every year The blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness, the blessed God, always loves me, I will always have nothing but goodness And I will be even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, even better, and I will always have nothing but goodness   ה' הוא אבא טוב והוא תמיד מתפאר בי רואה בי רק ת'נקודות הטובות רואה שאני רוצה להיות טוב רק לא יוצא לי וחסרות לי כולה כמה תפילות וה' הוא גם ראה את הרצון שהיה לי שניסיתי לא אמרתי נואש רואה בבזיון שלי במר שהרגשתי איך התחלתי כל פעם שוב מחדש   וה' יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב ה' יתברך תמיד אוהב אותי ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב ויהיה לי עוד יותר טוב ועוד יותר טוב ועוד יותר טוב ועוד יותר טוב ועוד יותר טוב ועוד יותר טוב ותמיד יהיה לי רק טוב   שומע מרחם עלי ותמיד עונה לי ואם עדיין לא

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What does it mean to be Rabbis who are married to each other? What does it mean to live Jewishly? What are ways that I can incorporate Jewish wisdom, values, and practices into my everyday life? Join Rabbi Rachel and Rabbi Marcus, a husband-and-wife rabbi team who serve as the co-rabbis of Temple of Aaron in Saint Paul, Minnesota, as they bring you an intimate glimpse into how they live out their daily Jewish lives. Each episode they will share their joys, struggles and everything in between as they work to apply Jewish ideas, values, and practices to their daily lives—building a Jewish home, raising children, serving their community, and navigating their busy daily lives. Join Rabbis Rubenstein each episode to learn ways that you too can practice an open-minded, modern, human-oriented, and sincere Judaism in your everyday life. Intro music by the very talented Coleen Dieker and Jeffrey Baldinger

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