Loosely Structured

Becca Malliet
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Loosely Structured is a place for curious conversations about motherhood, faith, and everything in between. Join Becca as she explores the ideas, questions, and rabbit trails that make life meaningful—from raising kids and building family traditions to travel, history, health, local communities, and the everyday moments that are easy to overlook. Some weeks you'll hear an Ain't Nobody Got Time for That episode, giving you permission to let go of unnecessary pressure. Other weeks, you'll follow along as Becca tries something new, changes her mind, weighs life's tradeoffs, or simply asks, "Have you ever wondered...?" If you're looking for thoughtful conversations, a little humor, plenty of curiosity, and the freedom to embrace a life that's intentionally—but not perfectly—put together, you're in the right place. Find Becca, articles, and more resources at www.looselystructuredliving.com.

  1. 3d ago

    34 Years, 4 Lessons, and Some Trains

    Becca is 34! 🎂 And instead of sharing 34 lessons learned, she narrowed it down to four—because honestly, four is plenty. ☕ Want to buy Becca a birthday coffee? Support Loosely Structured here: https://buymeacoffee.com/looselystructured In this birthday episode, Becca talks about what 34 years have taught her about hard seasons, faith, being misunderstood, accepting who you are, and realizing that these just might be the good old days. Plus, why turning 34 feels a little like getting off the train, looking around, and appreciating how far you've come before figuring out where you're headed next. Whether you're 24, 34, or 84, this one's for you.

  2. Sep 4

    The Unofficial Rules for Making Someone's Life 4% Better

    ⭐ Has Loosely Structured ever made you laugh, think, or feel a little less alone? Make my life approximately 4% better by leaving a rating or review on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/loosely-structured/id1873443023 What if loving your neighbor sometimes looks less like a grand gesture, and more like moving your purse off the empty chair? In this episode, Becca establishes a few extremely unofficial rules for making life approximately 4% better for the people around us. Say the compliment. Scoot over. Let them merge. Notice the good kid. None of these things costs money, takes much time, or requires a signup sheet or matching T-shirts. They're simply small ways to be a little more generous, thoughtful, and pleasant to exist around. There has been no research into the 4%. It just feels correct. Find more at https://looselystructuredliving.com. ☕ Want to support the show? Buy Becca a coffee and help fuel future rabbit holes, mildly unnecessary investigations, and the continued ownership of a microphone: https://buymeacoffee.com/looselystructured

  3. Sep 1

    Choosing a Bible Study You'll Actually Stick With

    STUDIES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Attributes of God — https://amzn.to/4xqOdyc The Bible in a Year — https://amzn.to/4xv6x9k The Armor of God — https://amzn.to/3SFigD6 First 5 — https://first5.org/resources/ Ruth by Kelly Minter — https://amzn.to/4ydcyHF As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links above are Amazon affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you purchase through them, at no additional cost to you. Have you ever bought the Bible study, gathered the good pens, opened to Day One with every intention of becoming A Person Who Finishes Bible Studies...and then found it six months later in The Stack? Same. In this episode, we're talking about how to choose a Bible study you'll actually stick with. Topical studies vs. studying a book of the Bible, options for our Type A and Type B ladies, and what works when your Bible study group has both. And if you're the woman finishing her homework in the church parking lot three minutes before Bible study starts? Parking-lot lady, come anyway. Because the goal isn't finishing the workbook. It's knowing God more. 🎧 Loosely Structured: motherhood, faith, and literally everything else.

  4. Aug 22

    Ain't Nobody Got Time For That: Back-to-school Edition

    Back-to-school season is here, and apparently we're labeling individual crayons now. In the first episode of Season 2 (and the first official episode of the newly rebranded Loosely Structured podcast) we're kicking off a new series: Ain't Nobody Got Time for That. We're talking teacher gifts before you've even met the teacher, first-day balloon arches, the annual delusion that this planner will finally change your life, signing your kids up for allllll the activities, stegosaurus-shaped sandwiches, volunteering for everything, and more. And listen, if these things bring you joy, carry on. This isn't about doing less just for the sake of doing less. It's about remembering that you don't have to trade your time, energy, or sanity for something just because the internet made you wonder, Wait... are we all supposed to be doing this now? Consider this your official permission slip to do what works for your family, and let the rest go. Want to Buy Everything I Just Told You Not to Buy? Did you listen to this entire episode and think, You know what, Becca? I actually DO want the stegosaurus sandwich cutter. Fair. In the interest of supporting you wherever you are on your journey, I have gathered some of the very things I just spent an entire episode telling you that you absolutely do not need. Do you need a balloon arch for the first day of school? No. Will your child's sandwich have the exact same nutritional value if you don't cut it into the shape of a prehistoric animal? Yes. Am I still going to give you the links? Obviously. Quick heads up: The links below are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you purchase through them, at no additional cost to you. Shop the Ain't Nobody Got Time for That List 🎈 First-Day Balloon Arch Kit Make the rest of us look bad. 🦕 Stego Sandwich Cutter Same sandwich. More prehistoric. ⭐ Tiny Vegetable Cutters For vegetables that apparently needed a rebrand. 🦄 Unicorn Food Picks If this gets your child to eat the blueberry, I withdraw my objection. 🍱 Bento Box Lunch, but with significantly more compartments. 🏷️ Tiny Personalized Labels For those unwilling to financially absorb the loss of the Burnt Sienna. 📓 An Unnecessarily Beautiful Planner  This is it, guys. This is the one that's finally going to change us. And remember: you don't have to buy any of it. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

  5. Apr 28

    The Myth of Getting It All Together (and What Actually Brings Peace)

    Are you constantly trying to "get your life together" but ending up overwhelmed, burned out, and frustrated? In this episode of Peace for Type B Moms, we're talking about the myth of getting it all together, and why it never actually leads to the peace we're looking for. If you're a mom who feels behind, struggles with routines, or keeps falling into the cycle of big plans followed by burnout, this episode will meet you right where you are. We'll unpack the pressure to be more organized, more productive, and more put together, and why that standard is often unrealistic. You'll also walk away with 5 simple, practical ways to bring more peace into your days without rigid schedules or all-or-nothing thinking. These gentle, realistic habits are designed specifically for moms who want progress without pressure. In this episode, we cover: Why "getting it all together" is a moving target The cycle of fresh starts, burnout, and guilt How comparison and productivity culture affect moms Simple daily planning that actually works How to choose priorities and let go of perfection If you're ready to stop chasing a version of life that doesn't exist and start experiencing peace in your real, everyday life—this episode is for you.

  6. Apr 14

    When You Feel Lost in Motherhood: Reclaiming Your Identity

    It's easy for moms to feel like their entire identity is wrapped up in their roles. Wife. Mom. Employee. Volunteer. Caregiver. But who are you beyond those roles? In this episode, we're talking about something many moms quietly struggle with: losing themselves in the responsibilities of motherhood. While our roles are meaningful and important, they aren't the full picture of who we are. We'll explore what it means to build a healthy identity in three key areas: your identity in Christ, caring for your physical health, and nurturing your mind. When we neglect these parts of ourselves, burnout and exhaustion aren't far behind—but the good news is that renewal doesn't require a perfect routine or hours of free time. This episode offers simple, realistic ideas for busy moms with young children who want to reconnect with their faith, take small steps toward better health, and keep growing mentally—even in the middle of busy family life. If you've ever felt like you've disappeared behind the title of "mom," this conversation is for you. In this episode we talk about: Why moms often lose their sense of identity Finding your true identity in Christ Small ways to care for your body and physical health Why your mind still deserves growth and stimulation Practical habits for moms who don't have much free time How small changes can lead to deep renewal You are more than your roles—and caring for your spiritual, physical, and mental life will make you a stronger, healthier mom in the long run.

  7. Mar 31

    Letting Go of Things That Don't Fit Anymore

    ✨ Take the Seasons of Motherhood Survey: https://forms.gle/EgzmwfJN4q1eWVfe6 I'm gathering real stories and perspectives from moms for an upcoming episode, and I would love your voice to be part of it. There comes a point in life where things that once fit… just don't anymore. In this episode, we're talking about what it looks like to let go with intention. Not out of frustration or burnout, but from a place of growth, honesty, and faith. Because sometimes we're not stuck… we've simply outgrown what we're holding onto. We'll walk through real-life areas where letting go might be necessary: old versions of ourselves work that no longer aligns relationships that feel heavy or one-sided physical clutter limiting beliefs guilt, shame, and unrealistic timelines And we'll also talk about something deeper, the things we try to control that were never ours to carry in the first place. This episode is for the woman who feels the tension… who knows something isn't quite right anymore, but isn't sure how to release it. You don't have to throw everything away. But you are allowed to stop forcing what no longer fits.

  8. Mar 27

    Becoming the Woman Who Finishes What She Starts

    I'm going to be honest… finishing what I start isn't always my strong suit. In this episode, I'm sharing a little behind-the-scenes truth—this podcast (yes, this one you're listening to) is one of the longest commitments I've kept in a long time. And that's exactly why we're talking about this today. If you've ever felt like the queen of good intentions but not-so-great follow-through… you are not alone, and you are definitely in the right place. We're diving into: Why finishing what you start actually matters (and how it builds trust with yourself) 3 super practical ways to start becoming a woman who follows through And an honest conversation about when it's actually okay to not finish something Because sometimes quitting is wisdom… and sometimes it's just avoidance—and learning the difference is everything. I'll also give you a simple little "homework" challenge to help you take your first step toward finishing something that's been sitting on your heart for way too long. Also—quick favor before you go! I'm working on an upcoming episode all about the different seasons of motherhood, and I would absolutely love your input. I've created a short survey where you can share your experience—your favorite season, your hardest season, and everything in between. 👉 Motherhood Through the Seasons Survey Your responses are going to help shape the episode, and honestly, I just love hearing from you guys. So if you have a minute, fill it out and feel free to share it with a friend too!

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Loosely Structured is a place for curious conversations about motherhood, faith, and everything in between. Join Becca as she explores the ideas, questions, and rabbit trails that make life meaningful—from raising kids and building family traditions to travel, history, health, local communities, and the everyday moments that are easy to overlook. Some weeks you'll hear an Ain't Nobody Got Time for That episode, giving you permission to let go of unnecessary pressure. Other weeks, you'll follow along as Becca tries something new, changes her mind, weighs life's tradeoffs, or simply asks, "Have you ever wondered...?" If you're looking for thoughtful conversations, a little humor, plenty of curiosity, and the freedom to embrace a life that's intentionally—but not perfectly—put together, you're in the right place. Find Becca, articles, and more resources at www.looselystructuredliving.com.

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  • Creator
    Becca Malliet
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026
  • Show Website
    Loosely Structured