Love Beyond Limits Desire and Purity

Can you find true love on kinky apps? Let's dive into Desire's journey to find out. She joined We Are X two years ago, but a sexy date made her decide to leave them for good. We’ll discuss how to tweak your dating profile to attract better matches and reveal the two words you should never use if you’re looking for a serious relationship.
Kinky apps market themselves differently to men and women, affecting your chances of finding the right match. We'll explore whether these apps can hurt a woman's self-esteem and if Desire was naive to search for love on them. Who are these apps really for, and who should avoid them?
Desire has a new strategy to find a polyamorous primary partner. Join us as we explore the world of kinky apps and the search for true love.
IN THIS EPISODEWhy Desire joined kinky apps We Are X (then Killing Kittens) two years ago.The sexy date that made Desire decide to leave We Are X (and other kinky apps) for good. The evolution of a dating profile: how to tweak what you're looking for to attract better matches.The two words you should NEVER use in a dating profile if you're looking for a serious relationship.How kinky apps market themselves differently to men and women - and how that affects your chances of finding the right match for you.Do kinky apps hurt a woman's self-esteem?Was Desire naive to look for love on kinky apps like We Are X?Who are these kinky apps for?Who should avoid kinky apps - even when they're looking for a kinky partner.Desire's new strategy to find a polyamorous primary partner.
3 VALUE BOMBSMatched with a promising partner online? Always ask them what attracted them to your profile. You'll immediately know if they've read what you're looking for or just trying their luck. Kinky apps are great for people who are too busy to date and just want to find play partners or friends with benefits. If you're looking for love, you may end up with your hopes (and self-esteem) crushed.Using dating apps feels like a fast track to finding a date. You can easily get a match for the night, but you'll end up meeting a ton of people who just waste your time. This can make you lose faith in love. But don't stress, the perfect person is out there, and you might bump into them when you least expect it.
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Ever thought about reconnecting with a past poly or kinky partner? It can be tricky. Can you really pick up where you left off? We'll dive into that question and share some real-life stories of reconnecting that didn't quite go as planned—and why they failed. But it’s not all doom and gloom. We’ve got a feel-good tale of a couple who rekindled their spark after months apart and what made it work.
Before you reach out to an old flame, there’s one crucial thing you need to consider. We’ll tell you exactly what that is. Plus, we’ll give you the perfect message to send to reconnect with an old partner and increase your chances of getting a positive response.
Timing is everything, so we’ll discuss when it's right to suggest meeting up in person. And there's one topic you should totally avoid in your messages—unless they bring it up first. Ready to navigate the dos and don’ts of rekindling old connections? Let’s get into it!
IN THIS EPISODECan you ever pick up an old connection where you left off?Some real-life stories of reconnecting gone wrong - and why they failed.A feel-good tale of a couple rekindling their spark after months apart - what made it work.The most important thing to think about before reaching out to an old flame.The exact message to send to reconnect with an old kinky and poly partner - and get a positive response.When’s the right time to suggest meeting up in person?The one topic you should totally avoid in your messages - unless they bring it up first.
3 VALUE BOMBSBefore you send that first message, get clear on your intention. Are you just looking to hook up again, or do you actually miss them and want another shot?Skip talking about what you want at the start. In your first text, just check in with them and see how things are going.Hold off on the sexting. Just because you’ve been intimate before doesn’t mean they’re ready to go there again.

In the world of BDSM and kink, the lines between personal pleasure and partnership fidelity can sometimes blur. Today, we're diving deep into a topic that stirs up plenty of controversy: Is playing with a professional Dom considered cheating? Purity opens up about her encounters with married subs who navigate the delicate balance of satisfying their kinks while remaining faithful to their partners.
So, what exactly constitutes cheating? As everyone has their own set of relationship rules, identifying what crosses the line can be complex. We'll explore how to determine if you're cheating, based on varying definitions and relationship dynamics.
Moreover, can someone engage with a Dom or play partner without catching feelings? It's a common fear among married or partnered individuals stepping into play or ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships. We'll discuss the emotional risks and how to manage them.
But not all strategies for fulfilling your desires are created equal. We'll look at some approaches that might seem good on paper but fail in practice, especially when your significant other isn't into the same things. Is constantly seeking new, one-time play partners a healthy way to manage your needs? Or does it lead to its own set of problems?
Wrapping up, we'll guide you through the right way to satisfy your kinks when your partner isn’t on board, ensuring respect and consent are never compromised. Join us as we unpack these thorny issues, aiming to shed light on a path that keeps relationships intact while honoring personal desires.
IN THIS EPISODEPurity shares her story of being approached by married subs looking to satisfy their kinks without cheating on their wives.What is cheating? How to know if you're cheating when everyone has different rules.Is it possible to play with a Dom or play partner without developing feelings for them?Why married/partnered people are scared of developing feelings for play or ENM partners - and how to deal with it.Bad strategies for satisfying your kinks when your partner isn't into the same things as you.Is always looking for new, one-time play partners healthy?The right way to satisfy your kinks when you're partner isn't on board.
3 VALUE BOMBSEveryone has a different definition of cheating. Discuss boundaries with your partner before engaging with new people. And if you ever feel like you're cheating, you probably are.Developing feelings for other people, including play partners, is natural. It's part of being human. Expect it to happen, but don't make it mean anything about this new relationships. You can have feelings for someone new without it hurting your marriage or primary relationship.Your kinks are never going away. The sooner you open up to your partner, the sooner you can create a fully satisfying relationship for everyone involved.
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Setting up a dating profile that stands out in the poly and kinky communities?
Now, while looks are important, they're not the be-all and end-all. There’s something else that significantly influences swipe rates. And speaking of swiping, let’s talk about those subtle red flags in pictures that might be sending potential matches left instead of right.
When it comes to your bio, there are some common pitfalls that could be stopping you from getting matches. Don't worry, though, we'll also share three key things you can add to your bio to draw in a high-quality partner, even if you’re struggling with what to say.
Finally, we’ll help you perfect the "What I'm looking for" section to ensure you attract exactly the right kind of partner for your adventures. Ready to revamp your profile? Let’s get into the nitty-gritty of creating a dating profile that's truly irresistible.
IN THIS EPISODEHow to pick the right pictures for your dating profile.How many pictures should you have on your dating profile?Do looks matter? (Hint, not as much as this one thing)Red flags in pictures - the subtle signs that make your potential match swipe left.Is filtering your pictures cheating (and the right way to do it)?Should you include sexy pictures in your dating profile?Is it ok to include pictures of other people in your dating profile?The number one picture hack to get more matches swipe right. The most common mistake people make in their bio that stops them from getting matches3 things to write in your bio to attract a high quality partner - even if you don't know what to sayHow to fill in the "What I'm looking for" section, so you can attract partners that are the right match for you
3 VALUE BOMBSBe honest. Don't be afraid to share your dealbreakers and what you're looking for in a relationship. You'll save yourself time (and money, if you're paying for the date) and only match with people who are the best fit for you.Grooming is more important than looks. Who wants to go on a date with someone who looks like he couldn't be bothered to take a shower when taking his profile picture? When writing your bio, ask yourself: what do I want people to know about me? Add a curious fun fact to pique interest.
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Thinking about hitting up the Fox Den Skulk social? Let's dive into whether it's your next must-go event. How does the venue itself play into this? We'll dive into whether it's just a cool setting or if it really helps you connect.
What's the dress code? From casual to extravagant, we’ll tell you how to match the mood. Who's going to be there? Expect a mix of seasoned community members and curious newcomers, all ready to mingle. And if you get peckish, we’ll cover what kind of food and drink you can snag without missing a beat.
No need for a membership to join the fun, so is it worth checking out their themed parties? We’ll wrap up with a quick verdict on whether the Fox Den Skulk social should be your next night out. Tune in to find out if this is your scene!
IN THIS EPISODEWhat is the Fox Den?The venue - does it help or hinder networking?What do you wear at the Fox Den social?The crowd - who can you expect to meet?Food and drink - what you can get at the venueDo you need a membership to attend the Fox Den Skulk social?What kind of parties does Fox Den host - and are they right for you?Fox Den Skulk: who is it for?The final verdict: is it worth going to the Fox Den Skulk social?
3 VALUE BOMBSFox Den is a favourite for newcomers to the poly and kinky scene, thanks to its friendly and inclusive vibe. You'll meet a lot of newbies who are as eager to mingle and make connections.You don't need a membership to attend a Fox Den Skulk, but you do need one to attend their play parties. The vetting process involves a call with the founder, Foxy, to make sure you're the right fit for the community.Fox Den hosts luxurious and cozy dinner parties, big glamorous balls, educational workshops, and informational pub social - no matter what you're into, there's something for everyone.
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Diving right into the digital world of dating, especially on kinky apps, can feel like navigating a minefield. Let's talk about that crucial first message—because yes, it can make or break your chances. Desire has seen it all, from cringe-worthy openers that had her hitting the block buttons faster than you can say "swipe left" to messages that piqued her interest immediately.
What do men think women want, and what do they actually want? There's often a big gap there, not to mention the mess caused by fake femdoms that hurts everyone's game.
Approaching someone on these apps? It’s crucial to get the tone right. Going full dom on a submissive before even meeting? Big no-no. We'll break down the right way to craft that first message—one that sparks excitement and curiosity instead of the urge to swipe left. Plus, we’ll give you examples of what works to get that eager reply. Ready to turn your dating app experience around? Let’s dive in.
IN THIS EPISODEExamples of intro messages Desire received that made her block or report the guy on kinky apps (don't do this!).What men think women on kinky apps want.What women on kinky apps really want.The rise of the fake femdoms phenomenon (and why it hurts everyone on kinky apps).How to approach submissive women VS how to approach submissive men - why what works with men backfires with women.If you're approaching a submissive on a kinky app, is it ok to dom them before even meeting them in person?The secret to writing a first message that makes your kinky interest excited to engage with you (80% of people DON'T do this!).Examples of intro messages that get replies.
3 VALUE BOMBSWhen writing that first message, imagine the person is in front of you. What would you say to him/her?Sending very sexual messages as an introduction is the same as barging into someone's living room without being invited: it's a boundary violation. Let the conversation naturally evolve towards sex and kink. If you feel you're pushing it, you probably are - and it won't end well.
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