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Leigh-Anne LoPinto is a Los Angeles based psychologist specializing in love, sex, and relationships. Her mission is to help men + women attract incredible partners and create the relationships of their dreams. She is passionate about healing the relationship between men + women.

Love, Evolved: Conscious Relationships Leigh-Anne LoPinto

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Leigh-Anne LoPinto is a Los Angeles based psychologist specializing in love, sex, and relationships. Her mission is to help men + women attract incredible partners and create the relationships of their dreams. She is passionate about healing the relationship between men + women.

    From Toxic Relationships to Empowerment + Self Love - with Alysondra Duke

    From Toxic Relationships to Empowerment + Self Love - with Alysondra Duke

    This is a very special episode where I asked my client Alysondra Duke to share her story of building an incredible life of empowerment, self-love, expansion, and conscious relating.  Alysondra has come from a life that has not been easy - a tough childhood with less than ideal caregiving that led to relational wounding that impacted her adult relationships.  When we met, she was settling for way less than she deserved in relationships.  Now, with committed work and dedication to building a life that she is proud of, she is a completely different person.  I can't wait to share this inspiring conversation with you!

    We talk about:

    - How childhood dynamics with parents/caregivers imprint us and play out in our adult relationships
    - Rebelling against being told you can't do something/be something (using it as fuel)
    - The pattern of choosing unavailable partners and where this comes from
    - The wound of 'needing to be chosen'
    - People pleasing and needing to caretake others, abandoning our own needs
    - Developing healthy self-love and self-worth as a foundation for healthy relationships
    - Learning to put ourselves first when we are 'givers' or empaths
    - Moving towards secure attachment from avoidant or anxious attachment
    - Owning your patterns and healing them as a source of empowerment vs. being stuck in victim mentality
    - The empath-narcissist dynamic and the importance of boundaries
    - How gaslighting chips away at self-esteem and creates confusion and self-distrust
    - Calling bad behavior what it is vs. being overly nice and accepting
    - The 'high tolerance for b******t' that is so common with empaths
    - Spotting red flags and developing discernment while dating
    - How to use the body as an instrument, tuning in to what it's telling you when you're around other people
    - How trauma can impact our sexuality
    - Watching our attraction patterns as we are healing (when we know we are typically attracted to partners who don't treat us well)
    - Our grand visions for what incredible relationships look like
    Connect with Alysondra below:
    Alysondra's WebsiteAlysondra's InstagramConnect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute CallLeigh-Anne's InstagramLeigh-Anne's WebsiteSubstack ArticlesFree Guide: How to Choose a Partner WiselyI hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast!

    • 1 hr 21 min
    Sexual Sovereignty - Getting in Touch with your Authentic Sexual Expression

    Sexual Sovereignty - Getting in Touch with your Authentic Sexual Expression

    In this episode, I define this concept of sexual sovereignty that I've been speaking about over the past few months, offering a casual chat/intro to this work that I took much deeper on Substack. 

    Here's the article I referenced - a great resource to take this work deeper.

    Today I cover:
    Just as we are shaped and molded and conditioned throughout our life by external influences, our environment and everything around us, the same thing happens with our sexuality.What this means is, for those of us who are interested in getting to the truth of who we really are, the path from the false self to the true self, we should include a deep dive into our sexuality to find out what is true and what is not true for us.I don't hear many people talking about this, instead it's just a debaucherous celebration of anything goes and all urges running wild without questioning or caring where some of these impulses came from.I understand that there's a collective process happening and some people need to throw off the reigns when it comes to sexuality to explore.However, we also need to be aware that the larger forces that be are VERY intent on programming us in a certain direction.They are taking advantage of this collective urge and turning it haywire.What I see clearly within this is that there is an attack on love, sex, and relationships (I began talking about this in 2021).Within this, there is an attack on healthy, stable, long term monogamous relationships.And, there is an attack on God.  because all of this is very anti-life and anti-God.Much more on all of this in today's episode.  As always, would love to hear your questions and comments, and I'll be speaking a lot more about sexuality and how we can elevate it moving forward.  Be in touch if you need support, you can book a free call with me below.

    Connect with me below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute CallWebsiteInstagramSubstackEmail ListI hope you enjoy this episode!  Please rate, review and subscribe to support this work.  

    Thank you for listening!  I do this for you 🙏

    • 47 min
    Men + Women Need Each Other - with Khatija Dadabhoy

    Men + Women Need Each Other - with Khatija Dadabhoy

    In this powerful conversation with Khatija Dadabhoy, we speak about our undying love and devotion to men collectively, seeing their greatness and welcoming them into their greatness, despite both of us having very difficult and hurtful experiences with men.

    We share our stories around relating with men, starting from childhood, why we feel like women still have faith despite being hurt, and what our grand visions are for the future of the relationship between men + women.

    We also speak of:
    Our inner longing for redemption Our desire keeps it alive, this continued search for union with menWomen needing to be clear about what they really want from men - we are sending confusing mixed signalsMen not trusting women’s word - how many women are not truthful and transparent in relationship about what they want, need, etc.The problem of men shapeshifting into what women want - instead, knowing who he is and operating from that place (and how this actually makes him trustworthy)Men stuck collectively in an immature dynamic, not fully mature men.  What is preventing them from growing into a full grown man taking responsibility, etc?  Lack of male initiations as in the past, and strong male mentors?Women:  checking our rescuer/caretaker (fine line between inspiring him and controlling him)This was an important conversation where we try to see the bigger thing, take ownership for our part, and also reflect on where men can step up.  Let us know what you think - reach out to either of us with any comments or questions.  Thanks for listening!

    References:
    Mikaal Bates on what his partner said to himJeddy Azuma on men fearing emotional vulnerabilityLorin Krenn on the willingness to do the workConnect with Khatija below:
    Khatija's InstagramKhatija's WebsiteConnect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute CallLeigh-Anne's InstagramLeigh-Anne's WebsiteSubstack ArticlesTelegram GroupGrab the Free Guide: How to Choose a Partner WiselyI hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast.

    • 1 hr 9 min
    The Legacy of Distrust: Healing the Relationship Between Men + Women

    The Legacy of Distrust: Healing the Relationship Between Men + Women

    Listeners have been asking me to share more of my personal story, and I speak about intergenerational trauma within the relationship between men + women and why I was literally born for this work.  This was a tough episode for me to record, but I hope it helps you to better understand where all of my work has emerged from, how it all ties together, and why I am devoted to this mission.

    Sister Episode:  The War on Love, Sex + Relationships

    Connect with me below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute ConsultLove, Evolved - my websiteLeigh-Anne's InstagramI hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast.  Thank you for listening!  I do this work for you.

    • 40 min
    Working with the Inner Masculine for Women - with Katrina Hart

    Working with the Inner Masculine for Women - with Katrina Hart

    I'm so happy to share this conversation that I had with my friend Katrina Hart, talking about the journey of evolution through integrating and working with the inner masculine (Carl Jung refers to this as animus integration).

    This episode is for any woman who wants to learn more about working with the inner masculine for overall balance and harmony - both within herself and with relationships with others.  We speak about the importance of discernment, boundaries, logic, courageousness and overall strength.

    When we develop our inner masculine in healthy ways, it can help hold our embodiment of the feminine principle at deeper levels.  This also helps us to learn the energetic agility to dance between both energetics as needed in our day to day lives - in addition to knowing the energetic signature of the healthy masculine so we can spot it in men if we are choosing partners.

    Books:
    The Archetypes and The Collective Unconscious - Carl Jung
    Animus and Anima - Emma Jung
    The Animus: The Spirit of Inner Truth in Women - Barbara Hannah
    Nathan Martin - The Unity Process 
    Mark Passio - The Unholy Feminine
    Connect with Katrina via email - katrina@loveyoutobeyou.com

    Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute ConsultLove, Evolved - my websiteLeigh-Anne's InstagramI hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Why Women are Attracted to "Bad Boys"

    Why Women are Attracted to "Bad Boys"

    In this episode, I speak about this huge problem that I see with the women who come to me for support - they continually get themselves involved with men who do not treat them very well.  The sexual attraction to these "bad boys" is so strong that despite their best intentions, they get pulled in and mixed up in very unhealthy relationships.

    I talk about why this problem is so widespread, what we can do to rewire our sexual attraction so that we desire healthy, stable partners, and how to begin deconditioning ourselves from the programming that has influenced us around what traits are desirable in men.  

    I also speak about the link between sexual abuse and trauma and how healing these wounds can help heal your sexuality by removing the mixed up abuse and sexual energy so that you can experience relationships filled with love and support while reclaiming your right to have a fulfilling sex life.

    Links mentioned in this episode:
    Raise the BarThe War on Love, Sex + RelationshipsMark Passio: The Unholy FeminineConnect with me below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute ConsultLove, Evolved - my websiteLeigh-Anne's InstagramI hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast.

    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

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BNeg114 ,

Life changing podcast

With the endless amount of podcast out these days it’s hard to find the ones that truly hit home and resonate with your heart and life. This author/station is a keeper.

With every episode, you can hear the knowledge Leigh-Ann brings to table and know it’s being shared through her deep experiences and authentic intentions.

Once you listen, you’ll be hooked. Thank you Leigh-Ann for sharing your gift with us.

az08030915 ,

Quality relationship content

One of the only podcast talking about conscious relationships. Leigh-Anne is helping bring in the new paradigm shift in relationships. Can’t wait to hear more!

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