34 episodes

Leigh-Anne LoPinto is a Los Angeles based psychologist, relationship coach, and breathwork teacher with 12+ years of experience.  She has worked with thousands of people all over the world to heal relationship wounds, develop healthy self-love, and attract incredible relationships.  She specializes in conscious relationships and spiritual partnership, using relationships to evolve on a soul level. 

Website 
https://www.love-evolved.us/

Instagram 
https://www.instagram.com/love.evolv.ed/

Substack:  
https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/

Instagram:  
https://www.instagram.com/love.evolv.ed/

Love, Evolved: Conscious Relationships Leigh-Anne LoPinto

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 10 Ratings

Leigh-Anne LoPinto is a Los Angeles based psychologist, relationship coach, and breathwork teacher with 12+ years of experience.  She has worked with thousands of people all over the world to heal relationship wounds, develop healthy self-love, and attract incredible relationships.  She specializes in conscious relationships and spiritual partnership, using relationships to evolve on a soul level. 

Website 
https://www.love-evolved.us/

Instagram 
https://www.instagram.com/love.evolv.ed/

Substack:  
https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/

Instagram:  
https://www.instagram.com/love.evolv.ed/

    Sexuality + Relationships - A Shamanic Perspective with Joel Schafer

    Sexuality + Relationships - A Shamanic Perspective with Joel Schafer

    In this episode, I'm so happy to speak with Joel Schafer, a shamanic dreaming arts teacher, about sexuality and relationships from a shamanic perspective.

    We get into so much together - the predator energy at the heart of sexual trauma and abuse energy, working consciously with our sexuality, collective patterns of open relationships, how monogamy is a path of honor, and gender confusion.

    We also speak about the dynamics between men + women, working together in a complementary way, evolutionary relationships, and so much more.

    This episode is a joy to listen to, and Joel offers so much wisdom.

    Joel Schafer is a shamanic dreaming arts teacher offering courses as well as mentoring sessions for individuals and couples in which he assists and guides people in emotional & energetic transformation. 

    Joel teaches shamanic movements, recapitulation, dreaming awake training & gazing disciplines. He has been a student to some very rare medicine men & women, seers, psychics, healers & sorcerers and he shares his knowledge on his channel Perceiver on YouTube and offers free consultation to those that are called to connect.
    Connect with Joel below:

    Perceiver (YouTube channel)
    Facebook
    Instagram
    RESOURCES:
    Alfa Vedic Podcast #219 - Neo-Shamanism for a New Era with Joel Schafer
    Here for the Truth:  The Art of Conscious Relationships
    Towards Sexual Sovereignty

    Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute Call The Wayshowers: Mentorship Program Leigh-Anne's Instagram Leigh-Anne's Website Substack Articles Free Guide: How to Choose a Partner Wisely I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with everyone who may need to listen!

    Please also rate, review and subscribe to support this podcast. Thank you!

    • 1 hr 16 min
    My Story, Part Two: Recovering from Divorce

    My Story, Part Two: Recovering from Divorce

    This week, I share the story of my almost 20 year relationship with my ex-husband and father of my child, the man I truly believed was my soulmate, and how I moved through total rock bottom when our marriage collapsed.

    I share the hard lessons I had to learn about what I was bringing into the relationship that was not working (things like insecure attachment, low self worth, codependency, and victim mentality) and how I healed.

    I also share how I learned to love and value myself, moved into secure attachment, learned about boundaries, and unhooked from codependency.  And, how I stopped being a people pleaser and moved into true authenticity. 

    I also speak about how I learned to navigate conflict, speak truth, and become an empowered empath.  There's so much more in this episode, too!

    Healing from divorce and hard break-ups is 100% possible when we understand that there is wisdom in the wounds and have support people around us who can help alchemize and learn the lessons that we need to learn.

    As always, I share tons of resources in the show notes, including my video lessons on How to Heal from a Breakup and The Trap of Codependency.

    RESOURCES:

    Video Lesson:  How to Heal From a Breakup
    Video Lesson:  The Trap of Codependency + How to Break Free
    Podcast:  Conscious Relationships: The Foundations for Success
    Free Guide:  How to Choose a Partner Wisely

    Lynne Forrest's article on the drama triangle
    Book: Conscious Loving
    Book:  Transformation through Intimacy

    Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute Call The Wayshowers: Mentorship Program Leigh-Anne's Instagram Leigh-Anne's Website Substack Articles Free Guide: How to Choose a Partner Wisely I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with everyone who may need to listen!

    Please also rate, review and subscribe to support this podcast. Thank you!

    • 57 min
    My Story, Part One: Healing from Sexual Abuse

    My Story, Part One: Healing from Sexual Abuse

    This is the most public I have ever been about my story. 

    [Note: I don't get into details of the abuse, but rather focus on the negative affects I faced as a result, and the approach I took to heal.  This is a fairly easy listen, so please dive in.]  

    I have learned that a dual approach to healing is required - working both psychologically and energetically - and share why.  

    Sexual abuse is a major challenge we are facing collectively, and in order to heal, we need to speak openly and honestly, remove the shame, and get to work.

    The energy behind sexual abuse is a predator that seeks to control and manipulate in order to gain power.  Once you understand this, it gives you a much more complete picture of how to address it.

    In this episode, I share:

    - How the negative impacts of abuse showed up in my life, both psychologically and energetically
    - Dealing with social anxiety, poor boundaries, low self worth, sexual shame, promiscuity, distrust of men, internalized misogyny, and major drug and alcohol abuse
    - How a history of this kind of abuse can create love and sex addictions
    - The story of my last major partnership and how the energy was working behind the scenes to destroy things
    - How healing needs to include a psychological approach in addition to an energetic approach, and what that looks like
    - Tons of breathwork resources for energy clearing
    - My work around sexual sovereignty, part of the solution
    The War on Love, Sex + Relationships
    Breathwork:
    - I give a visual demonstration of the technique here.
    - Here is the first energy clearing breathwork.
    - This is the second audio that focuses on clearing the sexual abuse energy.
    - This is the latest one called Clearing Sexual Abuse Energy Out of the Body
    - Finally, this is an older one called Sexual Healing
    Eve Lorgen - The Dark Side of Cupid
    Bernhard Guenther's article
    Here for the Truth
    Sexual Sovereignty
    Healing - David Elliott (p 140-175)


    Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute Call The Wayshowers: Mentorship Program Leigh-Anne's Instagram Leigh-Anne's Website Substack Articles Free Guide: How to Choose a Partner Wisely I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with everyone who may need to listen!

    Please also rate, review and subscribe to support this podcast. Thank you!

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Codependency in the Parent-Child Relationship

    Codependency in the Parent-Child Relationship

    In this episode, I go deeper on the topic of codependency in parenting.

    I talk about what codependency is and how it shows up in the parent/child relationship - through a lack of healthy boundaries, enmeshment, over-involvement, and more.  

    Codependency in parenting also correlates to permissive parenting.  
    Single parents need to be especially vigilant, as codependency can unconsciously cause them to treat the child as their spouse.  They may fill an internal void with the child's life and not give them space to develop their own sense of self.
    I speak about the negative impacts codependency in parenting has on children and teenagers, and also speak about energetic cords and energetic standpoint of problems it can cause.

    Ultimately, every step forward in your own healing of codependence will benefit your child (or future children).  I hope this episode is helpful for you; please reach out if you need support.

    Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute CallLeigh-Anne's InstagramLeigh-Anne's WebsiteSubstack ArticlesFree Guide: How to Choose a Partner WiselyI hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast.
    Resources:

    The Trap of Codependency + How to Break Free:
    https://www.love-evolved.us/the-trap-of-codependecy.html

    Here for the Truth Episode #167:  The Art of Conscious Relationships
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/here-for-the-truth/id1570026970?i=1000645752674
    Sexual Sovereignty:
    https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/towards-sexual-sovereignty-the-alchemical

    The War on Love, Sex + Relationships:
    https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/the-war-on-love-sex-relationships

    The Rise of Narcissism with Dr. George Simon:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-evolved-conscious-relationships/id1589898399?i=1000625190054


    Alfa Vedic #219 - Neo-Shamanism with Joel Schafer:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/alfacast/id1474419082?i=1000645915329

    Book Recommendations:

    Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody
    The Conscious Parent by Shefali Tsabary
    The Purpose

    Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute Call The Wayshowers: Mentorship Program Leigh-Anne's Instagram Leigh-Anne's Website Substack Articles Free Guide: How to Choose a Partner Wisely I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with everyone who may need to listen!

    Please also rate, review and subscribe to support this podcast. Thank you!

    • 50 min
    From Toxic Relationships to Empowerment + Self Love - with Alysondra Duke

    From Toxic Relationships to Empowerment + Self Love - with Alysondra Duke

    This is a very special episode where I asked my client Alysondra Duke to share her story of building an incredible life of empowerment, self-love, expansion, and conscious relating.  Alysondra has come from a life that has not been easy - a tough childhood with less than ideal caregiving that led to relational wounding that impacted her adult relationships.  When we met, she was settling for way less than she deserved in relationships.  Now, with committed work and dedication to building a life that she is proud of, she is a completely different person.  I can't wait to share this inspiring conversation with you!

    We talk about:

    - How childhood dynamics with parents/caregivers imprint us and play out in our adult relationships
    - Rebelling against being told you can't do something/be something (using it as fuel)
    - The pattern of choosing unavailable partners and where this comes from
    - The wound of 'needing to be chosen'
    - People pleasing and needing to caretake others, abandoning our own needs
    - Developing healthy self-love and self-worth as a foundation for healthy relationships
    - Learning to put ourselves first when we are 'givers' or empaths
    - Moving towards secure attachment from avoidant or anxious attachment
    - Owning your patterns and healing them as a source of empowerment vs. being stuck in victim mentality
    - The empath-narcissist dynamic and the importance of boundaries
    - How gaslighting chips away at self-esteem and creates confusion and self-distrust
    - Calling bad behavior what it is vs. being overly nice and accepting
    - The 'high tolerance for b******t' that is so common with empaths
    - Spotting red flags and developing discernment while dating
    - How to use the body as an instrument, tuning in to what it's telling you when you're around other people
    - How trauma can impact our sexuality
    - Watching our attraction patterns as we are healing (when we know we are typically attracted to partners who don't treat us well)
    - Our grand visions for what incredible relationships look like
    Connect with Alysondra below:
    Alysondra's WebsiteAlysondra's InstagramConnect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute CallLeigh-Anne's InstagramLeigh-Anne's WebsiteSubstack ArticlesFree Guide: How to Choose a Partner WiselyI hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast!

    Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute Call The Wayshowers: Mentorship Program Leigh-Anne's Instagram Leigh-Anne's Website Substack Articles Free Guide: How to Choose a Partner Wisely I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with everyone who may need to listen!

    Please also rate, review and subscribe to support this podcast. Thank you!

    • 1 hr 21 min
    Sexual Sovereignty - Getting in Touch with your Authentic Sexual Expression

    Sexual Sovereignty - Getting in Touch with your Authentic Sexual Expression

    In this episode, I define this concept of sexual sovereignty that I've been speaking about over the past few months, offering a casual chat/intro to this work that I took much deeper on Substack. 

    Here's the article I referenced - a great resource to take this work deeper.

    Today I cover:
    Just as we are shaped and molded and conditioned throughout our life by external influences, our environment and everything around us, the same thing happens with our sexuality.What this means is, for those of us who are interested in getting to the truth of who we really are, the path from the false self to the true self, we should include a deep dive into our sexuality to find out what is true and what is not true for us.I don't hear many people talking about this, instead it's just a debaucherous celebration of anything goes and all urges running wild without questioning or caring where some of these impulses came from.I understand that there's a collective process happening and some people need to throw off the reigns when it comes to sexuality to explore.However, we also need to be aware that the larger forces that be are VERY intent on programming us in a certain direction.They are taking advantage of this collective urge and turning it haywire.What I see clearly within this is that there is an attack on love, sex, and relationships (I began talking about this in 2021).Within this, there is an attack on healthy, stable, long term monogamous relationships.And, there is an attack on God.  because all of this is very anti-life and anti-God.Much more on all of this in today's episode.  As always, would love to hear your questions and comments, and I'll be speaking a lot more about sexuality and how we can elevate it moving forward.  Be in touch if you need support, you can book a free call with me below.

    Connect with me below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute CallWebsiteInstagramSubstackEmail ListI hope you enjoy this episode!  Please rate, review and subscribe to support this work.  

    Thank you for listening!  I do this for you 🙏

    Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
    Book a Free 30 Minute Call The Wayshowers: Mentorship Program Leigh-Anne's Instagram Leigh-Anne's Website Substack Articles Free Guide: How to Choose a Partner Wisely I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with everyone who may need to listen!

    Please also rate, review and subscribe to support this podcast. Thank you!

    • 47 min

Customer Reviews

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BNeg114 ,

Life changing podcast

With the endless amount of podcast out these days it’s hard to find the ones that truly hit home and resonate with your heart and life. This author/station is a keeper.

With every episode, you can hear the knowledge Leigh-Ann brings to table and know it’s being shared through her deep experiences and authentic intentions.

Once you listen, you’ll be hooked. Thank you Leigh-Ann for sharing your gift with us.

az08030915 ,

Quality relationship content

One of the only podcast talking about conscious relationships. Leigh-Anne is helping bring in the new paradigm shift in relationships. Can’t wait to hear more!

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